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Should I be happy for them, or jealous?

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Question - (22 December 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend of almost 2 years recently broke up...it's has been about a month...and we are both in new relationships..but the only problem is that i think i'm still in love with him...i like my new boyfriend but i'm really not into him...but my ex says he is in love with his new girlfriend but still loves me...i am so confused because i don't know whether to be happy or jealous of them...i mean i try to pretend and act like i don't care about him to my friends( we have some of the same friends) but deep down i still care for him...any solutions??????????????

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2007):

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thanks for the advice..things are slowy getting better..

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A male reader, Dangly United Kingdom +, writes (22 December 2007):

dont be jealous, whatever you can try and do, is dont be jealous. It is hard, but a wise friend once told me, if you want your relationship to work, you have to do whats hardest on yourself. For me this means ignoring my ex gf and leaving her, even tho she was my best mate for 6 years, sure its really hard, but it will result in either her coming back to me, or me moving completely on and being happy. I win either way, you need to put yourself in similar shoes, be selfish. What is going to make you the happiest?

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A female reader, xxbaybeegal United Kingdom +, writes (22 December 2007):

xxbaybeegal agony aunterm... i dont really no but the best thing to do is to not show many signs to him then he'll think your jealous even though you probably are. people might say just move on but i dont see it wroks like that. you probably still need time to clear your head and the things that have happened.

gd luck...

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