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writes:to cut a long story short basically i went out with a guy during our summer holidays [around july/august time] and we split up due to non commitement from him. but now it seems he wants to be back in my life.my question is what to do as i am now with his ex best friend and do not want the first guy back in my life.thanks in advance for any responses
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reader, xxbaybeegal +, writes (26 October 2007):
 its quite simple, if you dont want him in your life tell him your not intrested, i mean its not by force to go out with someone who you dont want to.Do what your heart tells you to do its the best option
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Be up front and honest and tell him just as it is. You dont have to go out with him. Tell him that you are not interested. He threw away his chances so why worry. Ignore his phone calls and text.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): if your happy in your relationship now tell him to go away he had his chance and he blew it,
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (26 October 2007):
 hi.
the only thing you can do is tell him out right,that you are now in a loving stable relationship, and are very happy and you can see no point in him trying to get back to you, he is wasting his time and you would prefer that he find himself another girl friend.
hope this works for you.
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reader, need help here i am +, writes (26 October 2007):
its easiest to just tell him out straight that you only like him as a friend and that you are seeing someone at the moment tell him what he did wrong in your past relationship.but only talk to him when hes on his own and not with your or his mates as he will feel upsetand like hes being bullied so just tell him and he should just leave you alone and move on i hope this helps good luck
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Be honest, tell him that you are not interested and have moved on with your life. Do not take his calls or reply to texts from him. He will eventually get the hint.
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