Is staying together for the kids going to hurt them in the long run?
Q. I have an issue with my husband, we don't really get along too well and it seems like we fight constantly. We got together very young. At 16 we are now both 24 and have two kids together. The fighting never stops we cant even have a conversation ...
A. 17 June 2009: I've read this book called "how to stop your break up" it's an ebook and extremely helpfull. There's a section in it where the author writes about pride and how this becomes a bad thing in a realtionship, and about how when an argument starts, that ... (read in full...)
Is staying together for the kids going to hurt them in the long run?
Q. I have an issue with my husband, we don't really get along too well and it seems like we fight constantly. We got together very young. At 16 we are now both 24 and have two kids together. The fighting never stops we cant even have a conversation ...
A. 17 June 2009: marriage counselling?
coming from a child of divorce, i was actually relieved when they broke up, because they were finally happy.
If any of that helps at all... (read in full...)
Should age matter?
Q. Should age really matter in a relationship? I personally think, and from experience in my own life, that age shouldn't matter. All it is is a number. No one should be judged on who they love or who they're atracted to. I take into consideration th...
A. 17 June 2009: I personally think age does matter. I'm only 18, but have alot of friends in their 20s 30s even 40s. Now, it really suprises people of their late 20s to 30s to learn I am more emotionally mature, I can control my emotions better, & I am more "clued ... (read in full...)
Is ignoring someone a good way to break up with them?
Q. I am breaking up with my girlfriend. I plan on doing the whole ignoring treatment. I stopped talking to her, I stopped calling and I am ignoring her txt msgs. She has a feeling that I will be doing this. Is this a good method and what would...
A. 17 June 2009: No!! this is a horrible way to break up with someone!!
By ignoring her you're not telling her what it is you really want, she may think you just need space, or that you've found someone else. It's the most horrible way to end things with some... (read in full...)
My bf is always slagging women off!!
Q. This all started a while ago, me and my boyfriend have been together for 11 months and I used to be able to just ignore it but now it's getting ridiculous. My boyfriend has had a bad past with girlfriends, cheating, stealing, using etc and he...
A. 13 June 2009: Talk to him, this has obviously come from past experience, explain to him that you understand why he feels that way, but, you are not one of those girls, you cant box a gender, & if he ever groups you into one of those groups, realise he's just ... (read in full...)
Microgynon 30 experiences?
Q. Hey, just a quick question. I know this isn't really a relationship question but the root cause of this is to do with my relationship. Anyway...would just like to know of anyones experiences when they have stopped taking microgynon 30. I was taking ...
A. 4 June 2009: hmm, I'm taking that now, I've found that I do get very hormonal & upset, especially within the 1st few days of taking it. I had depression last year & was taking it, although never questioned it could be a factor.... (read in full...)
Broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years, I don't like her being overweight and hate her belly, told her she was a "thick cow", am I being cruel as she said I was?
Q. Hi I want to ask an opinion. I dumped my girlfriend last week. We were together about 5 years but I always found her not good enough cos she is overweight, in debt and lives in a council house. She says she has tried hard paying off the debts ...
A. 22 May 2009: very well said irish49.
If you are a sincere poster to answer your question; yes, you are wrong, and yes, very cruel.... (read in full...)
10 reasons its her fault the relationship didnt work
Q. Here are the top 10 reasons that it's HER fault the relationship didn't work. Reason 1: You aren't cool enough. Guys love cool girls, its probably our favorite characteristic for a girl we want to keep around longer than 2 hours. The problem...
A. 22 May 2009: It's her fault the realtionship didnt work about because she's not hot enough?! Are you sure it's not because you're a shallow pig?! Us Women WERE NOT created to please you. So I personally think you should get the f over yourself. I s'pose you ... (read in full...)
Why can't I find a girlfriend?
Q. Why can't I find a girlfriend ? Okay I am 20 years old soon to be 21 I have brown curly hair brown eyes. I have tan clear conplection and I am 6 foot tall about 165 I bench around 245 I am well built and I even make $6000 dollers a month and I I ...
A. 26 February 2009: do you approach women?... (read in full...)
Is it ok to give a valentine's card to my male teacher?
Q. Is it ok to give a valentine's card to my male teacher? I don't mean it romantically (the card says "You're a cool cat")... it's just that he's always been really nice to me so it's a thank-you. Is that weird at all? Could he take it the wrong way?...
A. 11 February 2009: It's possible, just sign the card "don't worry sir I'm not into you :P would just like to thank you :) (your name)"... (read in full...)
I'm seriously considering getting a hysterectomy...
Q. I have a question that may offend some people, for which I'm sorry, I just feel like I can't ask anyone I know, because they'll judge me. I'm a 16 year old female, and started my periods when I was 12. Every month, I get such extreme stomach ...
A. 3 February 2009: try the pill, it lightens the pain, aswell as other prescription tablets. don't make any permanent decisions.... (read in full...)
Friendless and miserable, How do I change this ?
Q. I'm stuck in a circle. I'm nearly 21 and dont have friends. I'm a student and doing IT. Now the problem is making friends is something I have no idea how to do. I had a troubled childhood and due to that my social development stopped for a fe...
A. 24 January 2009: Alot of people have trouble socializing, it comes naturally once you get into the habbit of it though. You can meet people everywhere, pubs, clubs, starbucks, asda :P & one of the best ways to meet people now is through sites like facebook & ... (read in full...)
I was upset & sent bitchy text, how do I undo what I did?
Q. Hi, i think i may have screwed up with a guy i like, i sent him a really bitchy message cos he annoyed me. he canceled our plans and i replied on a whim. At the time I was annoyed and thought he was blowing me off. He's really shy and sweet and ...
A. 24 January 2009: wait untill he texts/speaks to you 1st. if you initiate the next conversation by apologising you may seem clingy.... (read in full...)
Hair style suggestion for prom?
Q. Hey guys hope everyones okay :) After being forced to grow my hair (which I now have) I find myself in a dilemma. The reason behind growing it is my prom coming up soon. But I don't know how to have it. Can anyone suggest any sites or styles t...
A. 24 January 2009: half up, all in loose curls with a side swept fringe :)... (read in full...)
I hate to see my dad so sad, how do I get over this?
Q. Hey, I need some advice. Recently, (in August of 2008) my aunt (dad's sister) passed away from suicide. I was never really close to her, so I didn't cry or anything at the funeral. The thing that bothers me is that my mom made a slide show with ...
A. 24 January 2009: I think one of the issues when seeing fathers cry is that it shows a sign of weakness from the person that protects us, I think, whilst he's still upset try n think of him as a friend rather than a Dad.... (read in full...)
What do I do about this guy (he's coming over in 5 minutes!!)? Need your help, quick!
Q. Hey. I'm a common 18 year old girl that has been plunged into the depths of lovesickness! I'm in desperate need of love advice - so please help me if you can! Here's my question... Ever since I was 7, I've really REALLY ...
A. 6 January 2009: you've posted this twice already, so obviously you're looking for an answer noone has posted, which means you already have an idea of what the anwer for you is. Do you like him or is it the idea of the situation (liking someone since you were 7 is a ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Q. I am considering to lose my virginity seeing a prostitute. Now I would like to hear some people's advice who have been in a similar situation. I am male, 23 years old and suffer from a quite bad case of virginity - so to say. I have never even ...
A. 3 July 2008: People believe in "soulmates" for the same reason they believe in true happiness, because the pursuit of it makes life, well life. Although there are over 6 billion other people in the world I am sure that atleast one of those will love you for you. ... (read in full...)
I've had dreams about this boy I like, could they mean anything?
Q. There's this boy that I've liked for awhile now. Like, we actually had something so don't think that he's just some random kid that I stalk lol. I haven't seen him in like forever because he doesn't go to my school. But lately, I've been thinking ...
A. 3 July 2008: When you think about something or someone alot they're bound to pop up in your dreams. Seeing as how you're so hopeful that you actully want to believe that your horoscope is backing this up (trust me horoscopes are rarely true and that's only by ... (read in full...)
What size and shape of girl do men prefer?
Q. I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?...
A. 2 July 2008: Actually most of my friends are guys and they know quit a bit about clothing sizes for women, not alot about how bra sizing works but there you go.... (read in full...)
What size and shape of girl do men prefer?
Q. I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?...
A. 2 July 2008: Becausssse you can change your shape, I currently work VERY hard at my body and Im wondering if it's worthit, I know every guy likes something different, as do girls when it comes to guys, but I'm wondering the majority. ... (read in full...)
I can't stand the thought of kissing my husband. Have I got some sort of disorder?
Q. My favorite past time was simply kissing my soon to be husband. We have been married for over a year now and I simply cant even stand the thought of him kissing me. I love him and we have a great relationship. Is this a disorder, what is my problem?...
A. 2 July 2008: Before you get married there's always somewhere to go in a relationship, something to look forward to... but being married wiht someone is about the furthest you can go in a relationship, and maybe you feel quite sick becausee your missing this and ... (read in full...)
How late is too late to enter the dating game in the modern world?
Q. How late is too late for guys to enter the dating game and start experiencing relationships. 20? 23? 25? 30? I mean, to really just START! Never been on a date before, never had sex, maybe never even kissed a girl. This could all be due t...
A. 1 July 2008: It doesnt really matter on the age. Some girls prefer less experiened guys and some girls prefer more experienced guys, it's never too late to start, you could be 50 and have your 1st ever realtionship and fall inlove then, what does it matter how ... (read in full...)
Confused about my period. Could the pill have something to do with it?
Q. Hiya, i'm a little confused as i had my period over a week ago and it lasted for around 4-5 days like usual now im bleeding again over a week later.. Its not heavy or anything its just something thats never happened before. I'm on the pill so is ...
A. 1 July 2008: Are you sure you're useing the pill right?
You're sposed to take it for 21 days andd bleed for 7.... (read in full...)
If I make my penis less sensitive can I last longer at sex? How do I do it?
Q. how do i make my penis head less sensitive? IF i do this would i be able to last longer during sex?...
A. 1 July 2008: I guess so, it probably wouldnt be as enjoyable for you though...to be fair Im not sure if it's possible though...Why don't you try someting like when you think you're about to cum picture something really random or distract yourself..maybe with ... (read in full...)
How do you tell a guy you like him?
Q. I am completely in love with this guy, but how do I tell him I like him? ...
A. 1 July 2008: Aww bless you're so young, Ive forgot how kids youre age do it, send him a note in class?...or ask him what he thinks baout you 1st :) if it's good tell him how you feel :)... (read in full...)
I cheated, but now I'm married and I will never cheat again. Should I tell him?
Q. 15 months ago I cheated (i gave a friend a hand job) on my at the time boyfriend (we got engaged 3 months after it happened) now we are getting married in 1 and a half weeks and I am wondering if I should tell him? In all actuality we were in a ...
A. 1 July 2008: Dont tell him, the only thing that will happen is you'll cause more pain, and hurt in the relationship, you've done the deed and having to live with knowing you've done it is the price you pay. It would be selfish if you told him.... (read in full...)
I need some wisdom about why I keep making bad choices! Now a married man?
Q. I'am an emotional mess....I dated my first love and everything for almost 5 years...he cheated,lied....you know the deal....i forgave him the 2 times he cheated,,,i always felt resentment but i loved him and decided to continue with him...after all ...
A. 1 July 2008: There is always a pattern in the bad choices we make in our lives, The 1st thing to do is to figure out your pattern..(and there maybe a number of things you do in this pattern ans issues you have with these things)I mean an obvious part of it is ... (read in full...)
Will I ever get a girl being a gentleman? I need some brotherly advice!
Q. i recently got turned down by another girl for a date by a girl ive been friends with for years and normally id be fine but its how she did it that has me flustered, she said think of you as more of a big brother and someone who would stand up for ...
A. 1 July 2008: Im going to be completely honest with you here. When a girl tells you that it's basically a polite way of telling you you're not her type. It actualy has nothing to do wiht you being a gentleman. If you want a girlfriend you should make it obvious ... (read in full...)
What might have been wrong with this guy?
Q. My wife reports that an ex boy friend when he was age 22, had his penis out his pants while making out with her. She didn't allow sex, but she noticed that it was not properly erect. Later,when he was 37, she had an affair with him,and although...
A. 1 July 2008: It's all in the past so why are you looking into it so much? What exactly are you hoping to gain from finding out why? Although it's clearly impossible to find out why..seeing as how you said he is no longer with you, and only he wuld know, because ... (read in full...)
I never wanna fall in love again because I'll either be a WHORE or he'll be a PLAYER!
Q. I don't know what to do with myself. I'm still deeply, madly in love with my ex. He broke up with me today, again. He always does it. I just, I guess I'm an idiot. When we first met, the chemistry was all over. When we started dating, everythi...
A. 1 July 2008: You do need to leave him for good, no doubt he'll probal find some other girl straight away to make you jealous. but the way you should think of it like is because he gave you so much grief, he'll be giving her all tha grief and he's her problem ... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping 12-16 hours a day, and I have other unpleasant symptoms. Can anyone suggest what's wrong with me?
Q. i need help plz.recently have been sleeping more than usual.i sleep like 12-16hours a day and even at that,i get someone to wake me up not me waking up willingly. i get tired easily and all i wona do is lie down and rest.whenever i stand up to go ge...
A. 1 July 2008: I know what's wrong with you, and you know it too.
I've been through all that.
EAT.
You're obviously taking the conscious decision not to eat.
These are the results of that.
Excericise for atleast an hour a day (whether it's running or swimming ... (read in full...)
I used to think I looked ok, now I have major confidence issues and feel ugly.
Q. i think i am having major security problems or confidence problems, i feel im really ugly and thats why i havent got a boyfriend and i feel everyone is constantly laughing at me like the other day i was walking past a few guys and i was looking at ...
A. 1 July 2008: Why does it matter?
Everyone likes to look nice
BUT people talk about looks as if ugly people never have relationships or arent succesful? :S
Ive seen a number of gorgeous guys with really nothing girls and visa versa
The best way to feel bett... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? Am I destined to be alone?
Q. I've never felt so alone, and it seems like I'm the only person in the world who doesn't have someone special. Sometimes I imagine what it would be like to have a boyfriend who loves me and I imagine being held and talked to lovingly and havi...
A. 1 July 2008: The thing is, if this is constantly on your mind, when you meet a guy your probably projecting your fantasy and sending out desperate vibes. You're born alone you die alone. The real issue is why cant you make yourself happy? Once you make yourself ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's background is trashy, rather slutty and I suffer from it. How can I get past this? How can I regain confidence?
Q. Hi, I am 28 yrs old and I am in love with this 24 yrs old british girl with a pretty filled and trashy sexual background. We have been together for 4 months and connected staright away, we are both crazy and very alert but the first times we tried...
A. 1 July 2008: Perhaps you have some mother issues. Or perhaps you're just protecting yourself, like you feel so strongly about this woman so you find the 1st flaw possible to stop you from getting so close and hurt? & useing her background as an excuse makes this ... (read in full...)
What might have been wrong with this guy?
Q. My wife reports that an ex boy friend when he was age 22, had his penis out his pants while making out with her. She didn't allow sex, but she noticed that it was not properly erect. Later,when he was 37, she had an affair with him,and although...
A. 30 June 2008: There are loads of reasons why a man goes soft.
Why does it matter?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's background is trashy, rather slutty and I suffer from it. How can I get past this? How can I regain confidence?
Q. Hi, I am 28 yrs old and I am in love with this 24 yrs old british girl with a pretty filled and trashy sexual background. We have been together for 4 months and connected staright away, we are both crazy and very alert but the first times we tried...
A. 30 June 2008: It's obvious that on some level you have a very sexist view of what a woman should be, you feel the man should be on the superior level, why does it bother you so much? is this really the issue or is it something deeper?... (read in full...)
We joked about losing my virginity to him as a birthday present. I suddenly like him so what do you advise?
Q. I'm really confused with myself at the moment because of something that happened last night. I'll give a few details before I go on about last night tho. I've just left school and there's a guy who is my mate who used to flirt loads at school....
A. 30 June 2008: When you're next on msn to him cheekily ask him "so when do you plan to kiss me next? ;)" Or something along those lines...get his reaction from that, cos if he rejects you you could quite easily pass it off as just a joke...or it could quite easily ... (read in full...)
Who should I believe???
Q. ok i was single for bout maybe a couple of months and i found this guy that i really liked......so i asked him out and he said yes.....and then a couple of days later my best friend tells me that it was a dare......and so i called him up and asked ...
A. 30 June 2008: Tbh I personally wouldnt be too happy if a guy hung up on me. Talk o your "friend" if she really is your friend then she's telling the truth. Give him a piece of your mind and make him think twice about messing you around ;)... (read in full...)
I just want my husband to show some affection, he thinks by cleaning the house it shows he cares...
Q. i have been with my husband for 12 yrs. he never show`s me he cares, he says he can`t show his feeling`s. i have tried to except it but i can`t. i don`t feel loved, wanted, i just feel i have no one. he is never there for me. i have to cope with thin...
A. 30 June 2008: With Men, you have to be straightforwrd tell them EXACTLY wha you want and need, anything else is jus wasting time and causing mre pain. Even if he thinks your nagging...It's YOUR relationship too...You're a person in this relatinship and you ... (read in full...)
How do I stop obsessing about someone? He was a teacher at my school.
Q. Hey. I need to know if anyone knows how to stop an obsession with someone. Or at least tone it down. I have this friend and we're both either in love with or obsessed with this 26 year old guy. He's cute, funny, good company, smart, and just so ...
A. 30 June 2008: Pretty much everyone falls for a teacher, They're authoritive but they're still around you socially, it helps if theyre good looking too, what you have to remember is is hat everyne has their flaws noones perfect, and trust me he's far from it, & if ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me a good website where I can get videos on how to have sex?
Q. Can anyone tell me a good website where i can get videos on how to have sex?...
A. 30 June 2008: Any porn would help...but no guy really knows what they're doing they're 1st time ;)
Just relax...girls arent expecting much from guys your age anyway :) ... (read in full...)
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