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writes:Is there any cure to help me with this disease that's called "hetrosexuality"? Can it be cured by medication or psychotherapy? This is not a joke, I hate my sexuality. During my teenage years I often thought about being castrated, to cure me of this but didn't want feminine charateristics.I've had sex a few times with girls and hated it. My father always says " why don't you be a real man and get a woman". Well you know what, it''s because I'm not a man, I don't believe I'm human and nor do I want to be.I hate the human race, it's made me endure many sufferings. I hate this cursed body I'm forced to possess. I'll age and decay, but it's not me, it's just a shell. I'm forced to live in a world I despise so much, I'll never have sex again.But these hormones are a torture. Is it possible to make yourself assexual? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): I know how you feel. I wish I had answers for you. But sadly, I don't. Anyway, please know that there are others out there that feel the same as you about sexuality.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): if you hate humans so much then why are you asking us for advise????
go live with animals in the forrest or jungle or wherever as long as your happy.....
i think you just hate yourself so you take it out on everyone else, go find some inner peace
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reader, masoxi  +, writes (8 September 2009):
be proud of what you are and still if the castrate you hypnotisme you you arent going to gett rid of thst and you should talk to someone about this a learn to love your body
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reader, xcharlottex  +, writes (8 September 2009):
how can you possibly hate the human race? & still have the ability to live among us? Your dislike of humans is actually a scary characteristic. What if this escalated to homicidal tendencies? Even if it didn't I would ask you why haven't you gotten any therapy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): ok, i obviously missed the point! I think you should see a dr. or google and see if there is a drug or herb that will help. i think that since there are solutions to impotence that their should be a medical solution to decrease your sex drive. Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2009): No I'm not homosexual, I'm attracted to women but wish I wasn't, and men are humans as well and they disgust me also.
I dislike humans full stop. Which is why I don't want sexual urges
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reader, Perspicacious +, writes (8 September 2009):
Can your sexual urges be prevented by medication? Yes - this is called a chemical castration.
However, doctors would traditionally seek to cure your hatred of your sexuality. If this is causing you real distress then maybe they would consider a different approach - you will have to talk to your doctor and see what they suggest in this instance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): You sound depressed more than anything else. My offhand guess is that your "manly" father has instilled a deep resentment for masculinity within you, and now you'd like to get rid of this part of yourself because you identify it with him. It's not gonna work. You are still a male even if you're a homosexual male or anything else. I think it would be a better idea to begin trying to come to terms with your male-ness. It doesn't have to be such a bad thing. Begin trying to carve out your own version of "being a man" that you do not find so detestable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): I'm sorry but you're all incorrect.I'm not assexual, I wish I was but sadly I'm attracted to females. I don't want to be, because that means I'm human, something I despise.Humans are weak, age and are mortal, the opposite of what I wish to be yet can never be, and I was never sexually abused.You're all missing the point, I ask can it be treated, can I rid myself of sexual urges altogether without castration? I need testosterone to continue building my body.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): Society expects that you find a partner (one which is the opposite sex) and settle down with them and have a family. However, real life isn't that simple. It sounds like you are asexual and from what Ive seen on the internet there are plenty of other people who feel the same as you do out there. So please don't torture yourself about how you feel and please don't get castrated.
I would recommend searching on the internet for support groups for asexual people. If you can't find one maybe set one up. It sounds as if you are feeling a little depressed about everything, getting some anti depressants from your GP could really help.
I hope you find happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): please dont give in to this anger and hatred. i think that you feel angry, full of hate, unlovely and unloved, possibly because of circumstances out of your control. You will never be able to maintain a good relationship of any kind until you find peace with who you are. You must dig deeply within yourself and find the source of these feelings, and that can be very painful. You need to find a purpose in life helping others. You hate the sexuality because you cannot control the feelings. Were you abused sexually? If so, You are not to blame. Castration would only compound your problem. You would then be angry and castrated. Find a christian counselor or pastor to talk to about this before you hurt yourself or someone else. I know you are just longing for life have meaning. I would be glad to listen if you would like to im me.i am not a professional but i am a caring person. Hang in there, there is hope for you!!!.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): In response to TalkingHelps. No I have no friends, I don't want any. I used to " socialize" until I realised how boring it was.
I don't live with my parents either.
I asked for a cure for my sexuality, not a life questionnaire.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (7 September 2009):
 Also, not to disrespect anyone, but traditionally these feelings are there when something is the matter with you. Wanting to sleep with someone is very natural (and enjoyable); so is dating, et cetera. But everyone knows that. So, I think you need some serious thinking to do, because you don't even want to be human.
Wish you the best.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (7 September 2009):
Yep, there is a way. Castration. But you don't want that.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 September 2009):
Just take this to a doctor.
If you want sex, then get it.
If you don't, then don't.
Take up yoga or get some therapy.
Sounds to me like you just need to move out and get a girlfriend.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): If you "hate" and "hate" is a very stong word here, your sexuality and the feelings won't go away. Then although not being a health professional I seriously suggest that you seek psychological or psychiatrical advice soon.
You obviously need to talk to someone in more in depth, than could possibly be done here by any of us who try to give advice based on our experiences.
I wish all the very best.
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reader, califnan +, writes (7 September 2009):
 God made you a heterosexual man .. If you do not wish to have sex, or be with women - then don't .. But please don't play around (genetically) with the body and soul that God has blessed you with .. Busy yourself with endeavors that you have wanted to accomplish. Remember those who have had to endure loss of body parts, and still they have overcome .. Pray to God, He will show you your path in life .. He will bless you ..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): Are you heavily religious? Were you neglected in childhood? Have you many friends who do 'normal' activities like go out and socialize? Do not castrate yourself, especially not with a blunt knife (it's been tried and tested) Humans aren't all bad, at least the ones i know, don't know where you live, but maybe it's the area. Were you bullied as a child? I wonder where all this psychotic emotion is bubbling up from youspleen , hope you cheer up one day, before you hurt yourself or your parents, much lovetoodlesxxx
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