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I like him but he likes someone else and now he's talking to me less and less. What can I do?

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Question - (20 December 2006) 8 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2008)
A female United Kingdom, xcharlottex writes:

Hi, I really like this guy and he told me that he liked me but also likes someone else alot and he might get together with her. before he told me this we used to talk alot but now he barely even talks to me even when i try talking to him, He's talking to me less and less. I cant understand why this is and I dont know what to do...any advice? it would really help me alot...xx

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A female reader, kmpcheer101 United States +, writes (17 August 2008):

ok I had this problem alot and all i did was confront him asking him what his deal was and told him everything that was on my mind. He talks to me again and were friends again. Just be honest with him and everything... Tell me how it all works out..

kk

:D

~katie~

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

If he truly likes you he will leave the other girl for you. If he doesn't do that ask him why he's not talking to you. And if he STILL doesn't talk to you, looks like it's time tofind someone esle.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008):

i think that you can continue to like him but go out meet other guys theres so many amazing guys out there believe it or not that will love you for you and make u smile

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2007):

Heyy i just read what you said and exactly the same thing in happening to me at the moment, i told this guy i liked him and then i found out he liked someone else aswel and they might be getting together but i decided im just gona forget about him because i realised hes not worth my time!

Good Luck xxx

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A female reader, LttleBadMonkey12 +, writes (20 December 2006):

LttleBadMonkey12 agony auntIf this guy told you he liked you and then all of a sudden decided he didn't then he doesn't deserve to be spoken to by you.Just let it go and forget about him

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A male reader, cupid_callin India +, writes (20 December 2006):

cupid_callin agony auntyour question is almost similar to my situation. my case was just opposite sex ...

So i would suggest what i thought was good answer to my query..Just Text him and tell him abt the feelings.. or you can even talk this with +ve frame of mind... Be Ready to get lil odd reactions as well..!! but atleast you can get thing out of your heart and convey it to your friend...

and once you do it... you can d'cide to continue wid frnship or move on with your life.!!!

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A female reader, _flicky +, writes (20 December 2006):

_flicky agony auntPoor thing. He's leading you on. He should have just told you he didn't like you, and then you would have been able to get over him then instead of being stuck still liking him. Unfortunately for you, he was too much of a coward to tell you the truth.

I speak from experience. I was completely infatuated with one guy who said he liked me "a little bit" and then went on to tell me how happy he was when he saw me smiling and things like that. I believed him for about a day before realising "a little bit" meant "not at all" and getting him to admit he liked someone else more. In other words, he didn't really like me and was trying to string me along. He even tried to insist he still liked me, too.

If this guy doesn't want to talk to you, ignore him. It might be hard at first, but trust me. He isn't worth your time. Once you find someone who treats you like a person who actually has feelings, you'll be a lot happier.

All the best,

flicky xx

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A female reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (20 December 2006):

artistical_bumblebee agony auntsounds like he has moved on, i think you should too and if he stil does like you surely he would of made the effort by now but he hasnt and becuase u say his interested in another gurl it only reinforces what ive said he aapears to of moved on and if hes not giveing you the attetnion u deserve then hes not worth it so go out go pull lol, ther are plenty of fish in the sea have fun ejoy singleton! hope this helps ;o) xXx

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