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Can anyone tell me a good website where I can get videos on how to have sex?

Q.   Can anyone tell me a good website where i can get videos on how to have sex?...

A.   30 June 2008: Any porn would help...but no guy really knows what they're doing they're 1st time ;) Just relax...girls arent expecting much from guys your age anyway :) ... (read in full...)

Please help! Should I go into a lower grade at school, or put up without my fave teacher?

Q.   sorry this is long but i do need help! i am coming to the end of year 9. i have loved this year it has been an amazing time. when i go into year 10 i will have new teachers and be moved into new sets. im going to be having the same teachers...

A.   30 June 2008: it's foolishness, if you go to her set yu'll regret it fr the rest of your life, because you're only in highschool for a few more years, What would be the point in jeaprodising your results jus so yu can have a certain teacher. when chosing you're ... (read in full...)

Is he not lucky to have me also??

Q.   Hi all, I have a wonderful boyfriend who i have been with for 3 years now and my family and friends adore him as do i.However whats started to annoy me is that everyone (his family and friends and my family)keep telling me how lucky i am to ha...

A.   30 June 2008: You shouldnt take it personally...he is lucky to have you, obviously, it just so happens that his family feel so protective of him that they feel the need to remind you you're lucky to have him, but it's not the sort of thing that everyone says so ... (read in full...)

Mixed Messages from a guy who's got a girlfriend....

Q.   I ended up fooling around with s guy at work on Monday, then afterwards he told me he has a girlfriend and I work with her too. Today was the first time I'd seen him since, he was sending really mixed messages, one minute he was shaking his head at ...

A.   30 June 2008: He's a horny pig, that's his problem, that's [almost] every guy's problem. He's not going to dump his girlfriend for you, I can guarantee that. The reason he's acting this way towards you is because he thinks you're an easy F behind his gf's back. ... (read in full...)

I have problems making friends and girlfriends, can you help, please?

Q.   Hey, I hope im doing this right ! I have problems making friends and girlfriends.(2 questions) 1. Friends: Im 19 turning 20, and by now I figured i'd have a list of friends as long as my arm and a girl in my life. However the complete opposit...

A.   30 June 2008: It's obvious you dont know the secret to being popular and good with girls...want to know? The secret is CONFIDENCE. When you ooze confidence and a careless attitude, people are automatically drawn to you. & I know you're probably thinking... (read in full...)

Can something that just sort of happens be so wrong?

Q.   I have been talking to a married guy for months on the internet, it was always general chit chat nothing flirty or sexy until Friday. I don't know how it happened but we got chatting and then flirting and then pictures were swapped, sexy pictures. ...

A.   30 June 2008: Im 17...& I do get alot of older guys after me, BUT when it gets past the 25 year point I do feel quite sick...To be fair you cant really justify this in any way but it could be alot worse. It is dangerous, I mean you have no idea how many girls ... (read in full...)

I lied about myself in my profile, should I tell him?

Q.   ok i met this guy on this website and we started chatting on MSN every day. However, at first it started off as a joke when i set up my profile so i lied about my name and used a different photo but everything else i said was true, just my name and ...

A.   8 May 2007: I've had people use my pictures on msn instead of their own. Im guessing you did it becuase you felt you'd have more of a chance if you used someones picture who was "good looking". some people can fall for someone based on looks as the majority of ... (read in full...)

Is a 38DD bra size at 15 years old too big?

Q.   i am 15 and a 38 DD is that normal. i think i'm to big for my age?? hElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

A.   8 May 2007: its not taht big i was as big as a 32f when i was 15 but theres nothing to worry about alot of guys like big boobs so be happy like. xxxxx... (read in full...)

This girl I don't know keeps ringing me and I'm fed up. How do I handle this?

Q.   i'm 16. a girl is a year younger than me and she keeps ringing me tellin me she likes me. she goes to my school but i dont know who it is. she's seen me play football at school showin of a few skills and apparently loves her pants of at me. i'v...

A.   7 May 2007: If she likes you so much why don't yopu give her a chance?... (read in full...)

How can I tell if he's "Mr Right?"

Q.   Beeing togehter with my boyfriend 2 years and 5 month, how can I find out, if he is Mr.Right or not?...

A.   7 May 2007: Whoever said there was a mr. right? Perhaps some people are just better suited for some than others.but real indepth love is rare to find, and anyone would be lucky just to experience it once. every other love can be broken down it to different ... (read in full...)

Do guys just assume that you're dating even if you don't have the actual talk? I'm confused.

Q.   I feel kind of stupid asking this question but here goes... I had a crush on one of my guy friends for a long time, and recently something happened between us. He admitted he had feelings for me, we kissed, and he told me that he'd been in lov...

A.   7 May 2007: if he said that he could never dream of cheating on you then yes he must think you're a couple. If you're unsure you could just ask him if he considers him and yourself to be a couple.... (read in full...)

Im having an affair, 2 kids one on the way, but I love this other woman!! What can I do ?

Q.   im 30 yrs old with 2 kids and 1 on the way but for the past three months i have been having an affiar with a women who is so great and fun to be with and i just cant bring myself to leaving my wife for the kids sake but i love this other women to ...

A.   16 April 2007: Talk to your wife about how you feel, dont just spring it on her and the children that you want to leave, talk to her first, see how she feels, maybe its worthit to try and work things out with her first. Do not tell the children untill you both ... (read in full...)

Am I just to selfish to ever have a serious relationship, or am I right to wait for "the one"?

Q.   I'm 23 and single. I think I'm always going to be alone, and I feel like a jerk because my standards for women are so specific. The longest relationship I have had is 4 months and it was back in high school. I have never considered any to be "seri...

A.   16 April 2007: Maybe you should just let your standards be a bit less specific, it sounds like you already have a picture in your head of what your future wife is going to be like, but love doesnt work that way. You cant force yourself to fall inlove with someone ... (read in full...)

Together for 6 years and on a break, he needs time to figure it out and I'm hurting, why cant he just tell me it will all be okay!?

Q.   My boyfriend and I (of 6 yrs) have been on a break for the past 2 months. It started after a huge fight which was all because of a misunderstanding. Now that things are cleared up, he is still in the "grey." He says he needs time to figure things ...

A.   16 April 2007: Sometimes when you've been in a relationship for a long amount of time, you start to take the other person for granted and your feelings get confused. I am sure though that he will soon realise how much he needs you & how much you meant to him. Just ... (read in full...)

If shes not physically attractive to me anymore, I loose interest, this prevents a relationship, any advice ?

Q.   I am a single guy and have strong belief that i could not be happy with a women unless she is physically attractive to me. In other words, the moment i find her not of much of an attraction physically, i loose interest in her and there is nothing ...

A.   16 April 2007: To me, you just sound like a typical guy at your age. Although perhaps the problem is you just havent found the right woman to take that leap into a commited relationship with.... (read in full...)

Do you think she slept with this other guy before me when she was 14 ?

Q.   I found a picture of my girlfriend and her boyfriend when she was 14. He was acting like he was going to grab her breast, and she didnt look like she minded too much. She was put on birth control at about this age because of her devastat...

A.   16 April 2007: By what you said I dont think she did, have you actually asked her? If she's said she was never intimate with him then you should trust her. ... (read in full...)

I like this boy who called me 'ugly' which hurt! What can I do to make him like me back?

Q.   Dear Cupid, There's this boy i really like but i think he like my bestfriend (she already has a bf) and i don't think he likes me at all and he even called me ugly that hurt so bad what can i do to make him like me? HELP!!!!...

A.   28 March 2007: There's nothing you can do to force someone to like you. & I think if someones already hurt you before you're even in a relationship with them, then they dont deserve to be in your life like that. There are so many better guys out there, no need to ... (read in full...)

Why do people mis-use each other ?

Q.   Hello I am after all only a human I dont quite understand why people miss-use each other ?? Why do people treat each other like things ? I really need to know if that is normal?...

A.   28 March 2007: Perhaps you should read the book 'Animal Farm' Humans are naturally greedy...Therefore other people get hurt along the way in one persons pursuit to get what they want. Sometimes we mis-use eachother because of hatred, and such feelings, for reve... (read in full...)

How can I cope with all of this?

Q.   hi, im 16 years old and have recently been diagnosed with depression, and also my boyfriend split up with me wed bee going out for 4 months and he helped me to cope alot, he says this is due to me being too clingy-although all of mine and his ...

A.   26 March 2007: I can relate alot to this situation, I too am 16, recently diagnosed with depression, and recently been treated badly by a boy. There are really two things you can do here, you can argue with him....shout at him... just to try and show him how ... (read in full...)

I'm getting married but have met up with the ex again..I think I'm still in love with him! What should I do?.

Q.   hi, i really need help. i'm supposed to getting married in the summer of 2008 and i meet up with an ex boyfriend of mine and now i'm confused because i have falling in love with this guy again. meaning i am in love with two guys and don't know w...

A.   4 March 2007: I think you can love two people but you cant be IN love with more than one person...I think you know deep down which one you're supposed to be with.... (read in full...)

Do you think he really loves me?

Q.   how can i tell if my bf loves me he says it all the time is this signs of love (we are a long distance relationship) when we call each other we talk for like 4 hours texts me i love you at random times of the day asking me to marry him ...

A.   2 March 2007: how long have you been going out with him?... (read in full...)

He's 30 and I'm 16..how do I ask him out without me looking like a lovesick teen?

Q.   he is 30 and i am 17 how would i go about asking him out?? without making me seem like a lovesick teenager with a little crush (which it isnt btw)...

A.   19 December 2006: do you live in the u.k or the u.s? because if you live in the u.k the comment below would be wrong as you can legally move out, and have sex at 16 and wouldnt still be in school.... (read in full...)

Can a 12-year age gap work out or should I let it go?

Q.   Okay, so I've been reading some of the posts on age differences and they're all pretty reassuring. I'll be legal (18) soon and have had a pretty strong interest in someone 12 years older than I am. We've developed a really great friendship and ...

A.   25 November 2006: love has no boundaires....you shouldnt give up on sumin that could be potentially the best thing that happened to just because of something as little as somebodys age... (read in full...)

Whats the definition of a "break" ?

Q.   What exactly is the definition of a "break" What can and cant you do while in one? Thanks =)...

A.   18 October 2006: what you can do with other people dureing a break is up to you and your partner, if either of you want there to be boundaries you should discuss it with one another and decide what you both would be happy to do. In some cases a break is a good thing ... (read in full...)

I'm 21-she's 13. I fallen in love with her and I think she likes me. She's self-harming to get my attention! What should I do?

Q.   Hi, I’m a 21 year old lad who has fallen deeply in love with a 13 year old girl! I asked for advice on here a couple of months ago, read what people said and tried it but with no success and now the situation has got worse! Some people sa...

A.   17 October 2006: look. be a friend to this girl. and if her parents are split up atleast try and to talk to one of them. I am sorry there is no way you can be anything more than just friends with this girl...and if you confess your feelings for her and she doesnt ... (read in full...)

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