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I love to pursue men, it's a part of my personality, yet I am afraid of how others think

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Question - (14 July 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've got a guys (player's) mentality towards sex and relationships. I'm ashamed to say i sometimes have more than one guy on the scene at once. Just for sex. But i don't get much emotional attachment to them. I make them feel like princes treating them really well.

Some are 'booty calls', but sometimes one guy just stands out from the flock and i have to have him.

I will persue him until i make him mine, as a boyfriend. Obviously, then, i would never see anyone else.

I know this isn't normal for a girl. but i just love all men! big, small, black, white, blue, funny, shy...they are all wonderful!

What is wrong with me? i'm scared when someone finds out they are going to be shocked.

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A male reader, quarky United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2009):

quarky agony auntNothing wrong with that! I would say 'to Hell what others think', enjoy while you can, just be careful.

But there are some guys who may have issues with this (sorry to say) if and when you want to settle down but as long as you're aware of that-enjoy!

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A male reader, The Gentle Man United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2009):

The Gentle Man agony auntNothing is wrong with you. In fact something is very right. Since the dawn of time its been Men who are charged with pursuing Women and you are breaking with tradition.

I wish there were more women like you.

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A female reader, xcharlottex United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2009):

there's nothing wrong with having a men's mentallity when it comes to sex, think samantha off sex and the city. You just think alot more logical than emotional, and that's great, if I could I would too. There's nothing wrong with it, I think it's great & so refreshing to see a girl like you. Keep with it & be proud.

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