I think my cousin's crush likes me! I feel horrible, how do I fix this?
Q. I feel really horrible, I have the feeling my cousins crush likes me, shes always complimenting me and I dont know what to do, I never compliment her back because shes my cousins crush and I grew up with my cousin were really close, but the thing is ...
A. 17 May 2011: Firstly, you need to tell your cousin what her crush has been saying to you. Show her proof or she may feel that you're trying to come between them. Then you need to tell the girl that you like her and you want to be friends, but nothing more than ... (read in full...)
Can you get STDs if you wear a condom?
Q. Are STDs still passed if you wear a condom? ...
A. 20 February 2009: It depends on the STD, genital warts or crabs can be passed with either the organs or the skin surrounding touching the partner's. ... (read in full...)
I think I love my teacher! But I don't even think he's good-looking!!
Q. i have been feeling like this for about 2 months now, so i know its not a 5 minute fling or whatever. but i think i have feelings for my english teacher! i get so excited for my english lessons and i must admit i do show of quite alot, just for him ...
A. 6 December 2008: You can tell you don't listen in class. For a 15 year old, your grammar is shocking. It's illegal for him to do anything with you, so if you really love him, you'll stay away from him so that he doesn't lose his job. ... (read in full...)
Will it hurt the first time even he were to be really gentle?
Q. Would it hurt the first time if he went gentle on me?...
A. 25 November 2008: Quite probably yes. If your hymen hasn't broken, it will hurt and you're quite likely to bleed. If your hymen has broken, from sport, or tampon use, it wont hurt very much and you wont bleed. Make sure you're ready though, you're only 13-15, that... (read in full...)
I need advice on my mates.
Q. I was seeing this girl for about 2 months and it was going great, until about 2 weeks before I finished it, I seemed to get awkward between us and I tried to sort it with her but then she turns around and says she dosn't want to keep stuff from me. ...
A. 25 November 2008: What they both did was amazingly cruel to you. There's not really any explanation needed for this, if they do that to you, they don't deserve you as a friend, they had a chance, they blew it. Find a new girlfriend, one that treats you right... (read in full...)
Should I tell a teacher?
Q. This is a personal question, but it is not relationship based. My name isn't actually Bella Hudson. In my school, there is a list on our wall of students good at science. I am on this list. The thing about my name is that if you add a letter to the ...
A. 19 November 2008: Cross it out. I'm intrigued, what swear word is it?! You can star it out if you like just what's the first letter? I've been racking my brains with all the swear words I can find! x ... (read in full...)
Does my daughter hate my gf?
Q. I took my daughter (who's 5) grocery shopping and she wanted cookies, I told her no because of my girlfriend (she call her a slut) and she put them in my girlfriend's bag. I think dont my daughter likes her very much. We been together for thr...
A. 11 November 2008: It sounds like she's had no explanation. She thinks this woman is trying to replace her mother and she's jealous. She's competing with your girlfriend for you attention and if you give the girlfriend the attention they both crave, your daughter will ... (read in full...)
Wow! What am I doing wrong?
Q. My boyfriend tells me he feels no pleasure during sex and the only reason he does it is to get an orgasm out of it. Is something wrong? +we're quite young....
A. 11 November 2008: He wouldn't orgasm if he wasn't enjoying it.... (read in full...)
Is there a way to induce vaginal squirting?
Q. Is there a way to induce vaginal squirting or is it just something few women are born with?...
A. 26 October 2008: When you are about to orgasm have the man take his penis out and you have to push as hard as you can. I'm 14, I masturbate and I squirt like a water fountain. I was just born with it though. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
Horrified to wake up to his best mate giving me oral
Q. A few days ago, I woke up to my boyfriend giving me oral underneath the bed sheets (which we ocasionally do) but was horrified to find out after it was over that it was his best mate!! Since his best mate has told me I have to keep giving him what ...
A. 26 October 2008: He raped you. You didn't give him permission to do it, that's rape. Also, he's harassing you, and assaulting you. Tell the police and your boyfriend.
Out him for what he is, tell the police everything, he'll be arrested and you wont be bothered... (read in full...)
He made me sleep with him and now I'm pregnant! Help!
Q. Hi, not really sure how to say this, I am 15 and slept with a guy a while a go, I didn't want to because I knew a)he was sleeping around, and b)he had just broken up with his girlfriend. He made me in the end saying he was going to tell everyone ...
A. 12 October 2008: You've been raped. RAPED. His raping of you has implanted a child in your womb. Tell your mother, she'll react less badly, your father is quite likely to go round a rip him to pieces!
You need to report this to the police. He needs to be locked a... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my parents say I have to have an arranged marriage
Q. hi. im 13 years old but ive been told by my mum that im going to have an arranged marriage when i want to marry. my parents arent really religious or anything but they both had an arranged marriage. i dont mind having one its just i really want to...
A. 12 October 2008: Are you muslim?
If you're not muslim, or any other eastern religion, then this is a removal of your human rights. It's an imprisonable offence.
You need to stand up to them. They may not like it, but you have the right to date and to marry who... (read in full...)
I have just found my daughters diary while sorting out her clothes for washing.
Q. I have just found my daughters diary while sorting out her clothes for washing. I know I should not have done but I read the last few pages that she had wrote on and I am worried she is going to do something stupid. The last entry says that ...
A. 9 October 2008: Drop subtle hints. Say that you've noticed they're getting pretty serious and that she should be careful and use condoms.
If you try to put her off, that will just make her want to do it more. It's hopeless, just drop subtle hints to her that the... (read in full...)
Why is this teacher being so strange? Is this allowed?
Q. ok. so i'm gonna start from the beginning because it's easier. this teacher started at my school, and i fancied him, i didn't say anything to him or anyone else because lets just say he's not the most attractive person going. so then when i fins...
A. 8 October 2008: This has been in British news recently hasn't it! The teachers want the age lowered to 16. At the moment, if they have these talks with pupils under 18, they're being illegal and will be put into jail for it. Full stop. They want the age lowered to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's 75-year-old coach's interest in her seems weird to me, and I feel bad that she doesn't object...
Q. I am currently in a Long distances relationship with my beautiful girlfriend. She is in 23yrs and in Germany for one year studying. She has recently started playing in a basketball team there and there is this really old guy who is a coordinator of ...
A. 29 September 2008: With being so far away from you, she is probably just lapping up the male attention. Don't be a doormat. Tell her what you'll allow and if she breaks the boundries, then you'll have to do something about it.
I'm sorry, but it doesn't sound li... (read in full...)
What could all these symptoms mean? I'm so worried and confused!!
Q. Alright, so I posted a couple of days back to get peoples opinions of whether or not I was pregnant. So a quick summary of that was - "I had sex with a boy, he had a condom, but I told him that he didn't have to wear it, and he said he would, b...
A. 28 September 2008: Well, personally, I think you're pregnant. I think everyone else will tell you exactly the same thing.
I think you're a bit stupid for telling him that he didn't have to wear the condom. He could've had an STI or, what's possibly happened... (read in full...)
My sister hates her fiance, so why is she still marrying him?
Q. My sister says she hates her fiance and his family. She has also said she doesnt want him raising her kids, hates it when he calls, Jeremi is contantly arguing with her....and yet Brandee is still going to marry him! Honestly...i dont get it. Could ...
A. 27 September 2008: He could be rich, good looking (she'll have attractive children with him) or a really nice house. So many reasons, she could possibly hate his guts, but if he's rich, or hot so that she's going to be financially stable and have good looking ... (read in full...)
How can you be in something too deep that hasn't begun?
Q. Lads !!!! Explain this ! Why is it that you kiss a girl and repeatedly kiss her basically lead her on and then we recieve messages sayin '' i know this is gunna sound tight but can we forget about what happened with us . i feel like im in too deep...
A. 25 September 2008: He likes you. But is afraid to let the relationship develop.
In the book Angel by Katie Price, the two main characters, Angel and Cal kiss at the beginning of the book, and he has a girlfriend and texts Angel to ask her to forget about it and t... (read in full...)
Would it be right to leave my daughter to go abroad with my girlfriend for work? But would in turn be right to stay and leave the girl I love?
Q. Hello Cupids, I have a problem. A extremely life changing problem. My girlfriend is moving to Australia for work next month and has asked me to go with her. We've been seeing each other for 2 years and we are deeply in love. But the prob...
A. 24 September 2008: Your daughter is at the age where she is totally dependant on both parents. It's going to be difficult whichever decision you make.
You stay with your daughter and you're torn because of your girlfriend. You stay with your girlfriend and you're t... (read in full...)
My friended created an online profile of me on a dating site, I was contacted by a guy, we're in love and planning to meet but my profile lies about my age. What do I do?
Q. Hello, i hope someone can help, my friend was mucking about on my laptop one night and made this fake profile for me on a dating site, she made my age to be 25, i didnt realise she did, then i checked it out one nite, and this guy had sent me an e...
A. 23 September 2008: Tell him that it was your friend that did it and you didn't ask her to and that you stumbled upon it one night and found his message.
You didn't mean for it to happen but that it did and you're truly sorry, but you're glad you met him.
It's... (read in full...)
I walked in on my best friend masturbating, now all I can think about is us having sex! help?
Q. My next door neighbor and i are really close - you could even say we're best friends. We're really close, but our relationship is completely platonic. Well, at least on his part... he has a girlfriend he has been with for almost 8 months, which is...
A. 23 September 2008: If you sleep with him once, you'll keep going back for more. You say you wont, but I guarantee you will.
Chances are he wont anyway. Tell him if you like, but it could ruin the friendship. Probably not worth it, admire him from afar and make you... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's 75-year-old coach's interest in her seems weird to me, and I feel bad that she doesn't object...
Q. I am currently in a Long distances relationship with my beautiful girlfriend. She is in 23yrs and in Germany for one year studying. She has recently started playing in a basketball team there and there is this really old guy who is a coordinator of ...
A. 22 September 2008: Go over there and see her at the weekend or when you're free. Make your mark on her, go to her practices and kiss her or hug her when she does well, make sure he knows full well who you are and what you'll allow in terms of his relationship with ... (read in full...)
I'm used to my girlfriend forgiving me after I abuse her, but this time she's fed up. What do I do?
Q. Hi everyone. I've been with this girl for 3 years now. We have a child together. I love her dearly and want to marry her. She does everything for me. She let's me want for nothing. We have the same religious background which is wonderful (first girl ...
A. 19 September 2008: If she's got any sense, then she's already out of state, with your son. People like you don't deserve relationships, or kids. You make me sick.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's 75-year-old coach's interest in her seems weird to me, and I feel bad that she doesn't object...
Q. I am currently in a Long distances relationship with my beautiful girlfriend. She is in 23yrs and in Germany for one year studying. She has recently started playing in a basketball team there and there is this really old guy who is a coordinator of ...
A. 18 September 2008: Well the fact that she's told you should count for something. Seriously, he's just a randy old man and you're the one she's with, I don't think he's a threat.
She probably just thinks it's funny that a 75 year old is coming onto her and by telli... (read in full...)
I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!
Q. so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....
A. 17 September 2008: I honestly don't think you should leave him. Like others have said, he probably wouldn't even dream about touching a girl in real life.
Spend some time talking to him about it and how it makes you feel, and he probably wants to stop himself,... (read in full...)
I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!
Q. so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....
A. 15 September 2008: Set yourself up as the administrator on the computer and don't tell him the password to the administrator section. Then block all the inappropriate sites he's been visiting.
It's like drugs I guess. You do it, you get hooked, you know it's wro... (read in full...)
Should we break the law and date if we are really in love??
Q. hi, I'm only 13 years old and theres this guy; hes 17. I went out with him at the beginning of the summer then we broke up cause we didnt want to get in trouble and im still in love with him. I think about him 24 7 and i recently found out he lik...
A. 14 September 2008: In 5 years time, no one will be able to stop you and him from having a relationship. I'd keep it as a friendship until then and if you both still feel the same way in 5 years time, get together.
But if you love him, like you say you do, then you... (read in full...)
I'm hot for my cousin's husband and I'm much prettier than her! Should I avoid him?
Q. I am 21 years old and I have a cousin living in the same city with me. My cousin's husband, who's 30, is a very sweet guy and I always feel he's too good for my cousin. I had a crush on him ever since I met him, and I think he has feelings for me ...
A. 14 September 2008: He loves her for her, not because of her looks or how well-read she is. He fell in love with HER, not you. You need to get over that because, no matter what you think you see, I can almost guarantee he doesn't feel the same way.
He's probably... (read in full...)
My cousin wants to have sex with me! How can I stop her?
Q. i am a 23yr old guy.my problem is that my cousin who is 17 loves me very much she wants to have sex with me, i have told her about the consequences of it. But when ever we are alone she trys very hard to have sex, when i refuse she says that she ...
A. 13 September 2008: I don't see why you should stop your feelings. Make sure it's legal first though, if it is, then go for it, if it's not then you'll need to banish the feelings and bury them forever, try telling your family that she is coming onto you. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom that her boyfriend touches me? I know it's wrong...
Q. hello, right here is my problem recently my mum has started seeing this bloke. he is so lovely when he is around her, but what she doesnt no is when he stops over he comes into my room at night after she has gone to bed and does things that arnt...
A. 11 September 2008: No matter what you think your mum will say, she'll ALWAYS take your word over that of her new boyfriend's.
If she doesn't believe you, when you hear him walking across the hallway or up the stairs, begin recording it on your phone and stop the... (read in full...)
Any advice about going through my periods??
Q. hi, I started my periods a while ago and it was really hard telling my mum but i did eventually ive started again for the second time and i dont really wanna go though telling her again. I'm not close to my mum. She has stocked me up with thousand...
A. 9 September 2008: I'm sure your friends wouldn't mind. I don't tell my mum either, as I find it hugely embarassing and she tends to check up on me. 'Have you changed your pad at lunch and break?' And I feel like screaming at her to butt out and shut up.
Mum's... (read in full...)
I always try to be confident when he's mean, why is he such a jerk?
Q. hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 9 months. we have both said we love each other...my friends think we should break up.. my problem is he confuses me by saying stuff like my boobs are to small he can be a jerk and mean . i a...
A. 8 September 2008: Most people are because they think it will get better and hang around until it does, but it wont.
You wont be isolated, tell your mum what's going on and she'll tell you the same and will support you, your friends will also offer support.... (read in full...)
Should I worry that we have sex all the time?
Q. Me and my fiance have sex all the time. We love eachother and would die for one another, what we have is something special. We werent always like this. I was afraid to kiss her for the first 3 months we dated and after that i was terrified of sexual ...
A. 7 September 2008: Most people would love a kicking sex life. Thank yourselves lucky. The average couple have sex twice a week I think I read roughly. And more than 50% wish they had sex more often. I don't think it's something you should worry about, unless you're ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend deny he has watched porn with all the evidense on his face?
Q. i kee finding evidence of porn viewed on my partners pc but when i confront him about it he adamantly denies it, when it is blatantly obvious! we are from different countries which has meant that we have been apat for months at a time! please ...
A. 7 September 2008: Most men watch porn. Be thankful his chosen way of releasing sexual tension is over porn and he's not turned to sleeping with another woman. I think he probably feels like you're cornering him about it and shouting down at him. Tell him you've ... (read in full...)
I always try to be confident when he's mean, why is he such a jerk?
Q. hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 9 months. we have both said we love each other...my friends think we should break up.. my problem is he confuses me by saying stuff like my boobs are to small he can be a jerk and mean . i a...
A. 7 September 2008: I think you already know the answer in your heart. You deserve so much better, no woman deserves to be treated like that.
If you want my honest opinion, I think you should move on, I'm agreeing with your friends.
Don't let him treat you ba... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but I'm afraid I might be pregnant. Am I?
Q. okay so me and my boyfriend had sexual intercourse on Monday. we did not use protection and he came inside me. i have been taking the pill for 6 weeks now and not missed one out or anything and i am still taking them. the only trouble is i fee...
A. 7 September 2008: It varies. I think you can go to a doctors and get it done for free. I think a decent one is about between 5 and 10 pounds though. ... (read in full...)
Do you think his parents will ever accept me for who I am or do they just care about what I have and what I do?
Q. So This is my dilemma I have Been with my boyfriend now a year and a half, a year into are relationship I still hadnt meet his parents and now I can see why I didnt meet them, He was finshing his law course in university and he said if he failed his ...
A. 7 September 2008: Poor you. This must be horrible. I have two friends and their parents are quite wealthy, and while they don't mind who they date at the moment, they've told them 'I don't mind who you marry, as long as they're rich and good looking.'
I don't th... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but I'm afraid I might be pregnant. Am I?
Q. okay so me and my boyfriend had sexual intercourse on Monday. we did not use protection and he came inside me. i have been taking the pill for 6 weeks now and not missed one out or anything and i am still taking them. the only trouble is i fee...
A. 7 September 2008: You need to get a pregnancy test. It is possible you're pregnant, you've got the symptoms and the pill isn't 100% effective, that's why it's recommended that you use a combination of the pill AND condoms. ... (read in full...)
What's a safe way to meet a boy from the internet?
Q. Hi, i'm really good friends with this boy i met online, and we have known each other for about 2 years, and we talk on the phone, and go on webcam and stuff, so i know he is him and everything, but the thing is i would quite like to meet him, and...
A. 7 September 2008: Yeah, everything Emily said. Tell your mum too, tell her where you're going and if you and him decide to go elsewhere text her to tell her.
Make sure you take some friends and ask him to do the same. Never seperate from the group and make sure you... (read in full...)
Anybody have any advice on what I should do?
Q. I'm beginning... Actually, I already think I am. I'm 25, never had a gf, never even kissed a girl, and still live with my parents. I don't think i'm ugly, in fact, most people tell me i'm cute. And it's not like I don't try to ask people out, I just ...
A. 6 September 2008: Big yourself up a bit. If your friends take the mickey take it in your stride and hint that you can have no strings sex when you want it. They can't. Work with them on a strictly need to know business. Tell them what they NEED to know and don't tell ... (read in full...)
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