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My sister hates her fiance, so why is she still marrying him?

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Question - (27 September 2008) 12 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2008)
A age 26-29, * writes:

My sister says she hates her fiance and his family. She has also said she doesnt want him raising her kids, hates it when he calls, Jeremi is contantly arguing with her....and yet Brandee is still going to marry him! Honestly...i dont get it. Could you explain?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008):

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A few days ago, he through her cell phone at her cuz she has a password on it and she wouldnt give it to him....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008):

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...Yeeeah...i dont see much love between them. But then again, i only know what goes on when they're both around. My parents always tell her not to have sex with the guy, because our parents think thats why they're together... Brandee had lost her virginaity to him the second day they met, and since then they've been with each other.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008):

Your sister and her fiance should not be getting married. If they are fighting and if she does not want to be with him then she is getting married for the wrong reasons. You ask why are they getting married becasue they are both selfish and ill mature. They may get married it will be the biggest mistake they both then hey dont made. They need love for each other for it to work.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008):

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Well, heres an update things....

My sister doesnt like that her bf goes onto her xbox live accout and deletes msgs (on the pc) And there were pics sent to her of friends just being funny, and she hasnt been on the 360 since the 20th......and those msgs were gone. She changes passwords and everything, but she gives in to him and tells. I also knew the password buuut..im not snoopy plus i dont remember the stuff to get in. I cant see why shes still gunna marry him......

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2008):

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I try...but i can still hear. I'll turn my music up loud, and then be told to tur it down so no one else can hear it.......sooo i cant use my ipod and not listen to them.....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2008):

Try not to listen to their arguing, if she is in the same room as you are in, go to another room.

Wait until they have finished arguing or something, then return back. I understand that it can get to a person's nerves when people are arguing near that person, like you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2008):

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I dunno...but it drives me nuts listening to them argue

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

If he's not rich nor that good looking. I don't really know why your sister wants to marry him.

There are many other reasons...but I wouldn't know your sister's reasons.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

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C'mon Kelvin, you know im not the one to seek by looks... but if i did....hes not very.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008):

Is he good looking like the previous poster said? If not then I really can't see the reason why she wants to marry someone she doesn't enjoy or wants to be with.

Plus why in the world would she continue to have the relationship with him. She might have reasons for why she still wants to marry him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008):

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He works part time at gamestop. Doesnt make much money. Lies to her about what he is doing, he lets his friends call her a bitch. I dont see any point of being with him.

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A female reader, x..BabyGirl..x United Kingdom +, writes (27 September 2008):

x..BabyGirl..x agony auntHe could be rich, good looking (she'll have attractive children with him) or a really nice house. So many reasons, she could possibly hate his guts, but if he's rich, or hot so that she's going to be financially stable and have good looking children, that's going to want to make her stay with him.

Bit mean to him though...

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