Anybody have any advice on what I should do?
Q. I'm beginning... Actually, I already think I am. I'm 25, never had a gf, never even kissed a girl, and still live with my parents. I don't think i'm ugly, in fact, most people tell me i'm cute. And it's not like I don't try to ask people out, I just ...
A. 6 September 2008: Big yourself up a bit. If your friends take the mickey take it in your stride and hint that you can have no strings sex when you want it. They can't. Work with them on a strictly need to know business. Tell them what they NEED to know and don't tell ... (read in full...)
Am I shallow because I found him physically unattractive?
Q. Am I being shallow? I have just met a guy for the first time on a dating site. We got on famously and really gelled with personality. The problem is, I actually thought he was physically very unattractive to me and didn't fancy him at all. He wants ...
A. 6 September 2008: No, you can't help what/who turns you on. Tell him you'd love to meet him again, but as friends, and nothing more. I'm sure he'll understand, but tell him that you'd love to be friends.... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?
Q. Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...
A. 6 September 2008: She's only saying it will be fun because you've got no prior experience. She isn't getting any from men with experience and so that's where you come in (no pun intended.)
You just can't do this. Mmm it would be good to brag to your mates, b... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?
Q. Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...
A. 5 September 2008: Seriously, what's wrong with girls your own age. She could be put into jail for statutory rape. Just don't. Date someone your own age and be safe with it.... (read in full...)
How can I make this boy like me?
Q. I realy like his Boy..I talk 2 him..But i dont now if he likes me..So can you help me gett him 2 like me..?...
A. 5 September 2008: Let nature take it's course. You can't make someone like you, if he likes you, he'll let you know, but you can't do anything to make him like you, it's just not possible. ... (read in full...)
Do you think my friend and I should confront him about him going red etc.?
Q. I'm 14 and i really like this guy who is 15 and is in the year above at school. I've known him since we were in primary school. I've liked him for a few years now and i think i love him. ( Do not say that because im 14 i can't be in love) Last S...
A. 3 September 2008: Nonono. Don't confront him about going red. That will make him close up even more. Talk to him normally, but you'll embarrass him by saying that he goes red.
Sounds like you two should be together, although maybe you should clear somethin... (read in full...)
Homeschooled and having trouble talking to girls...
Q. i have trouble talking to girls and im homeschooled so its not like i have a wide selection...
A. 3 September 2008: Me and my friends have the same sort of trouble, we go to an all girls school and so meeting boys is, as you can imagine, difficult.
Obviously, being stuck in the same position, I can't help you mate, sorry.
x Becky x... (read in full...)
Why would she have sex with someone else the day after she had sex with me?
Q. befor me and my girl friend whent out we were haveing sex one day we had sex the next day she had sex with some oneelce then she came back an had sex with me. why would she have sex with some one else the day after we did? she said she liked me an ...
A. 3 September 2008: Of course not, she's been given everything on a plate but is still demanding a side order. It's plain and simple, I think you should leave her and find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.
You can't let her walk all over you... (read in full...)
The reason I forgave my girlfriend's infidelity is because I also cheated on her. Should I tell her?? She says she needs a break.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3yrs. Weve had our ups and down through the years. I recently found out that she cheated on me by reading a letter in her email account that she wrote to some guy she met and slept with in Los Angeles. T...
A. 2 September 2008: Well I'd end it immediately if I knew my boyfriend had been reading my emails. How would you react if she'd read yours? You need to tell her. You can't keep skeletons like that in your closet when the relationship has to be built on a combination... (read in full...)
Did I get my period sooner because of the coil?
Q. I went to have the coil fitted yesterday because I unluckily can't take the combined pill (I get migraines) and for some reason I react badly to the mini pill (I got terrible acne, lost my sex drive, got mood swings and headaches) However, because ...
A. 2 September 2008: What's wrong with good old condoms? No babies and no unwanted STI's. Simplest way I believe. ... (read in full...)
I don't remember my boyfriend putting on a condom, could I be pregnant?
Q. ohh dear where do i begin?! sorry if it sounds rude or dirty or such. back to skool thursday, but im wodering what people will say to me because basically, on the 2nd of august, it was my best mates party, me and my bf were there, who ive known ...
A. 2 September 2008: I really hope this post is fake. I'm thirteen myself and your age states that you're between the ages of 10 and 12, so I'm assuming you're 11 nearly twelve as you're at secondary. Sorry for the language but why the fuck are you acting all sultry in ... (read in full...)
I fell in love with my female teacher but I don't know what to do about this.
Q. Im 18 years old and i just graduated from high school in june. Im in love with one of my teachers. i had her as a teacher the 1st semester. She is 23 years old so there is not that big of an age difference. I have sepent a lot of time with her alon...
A. 2 September 2008: You're right there's not that much of an age gap. I think you should go for it.
People might raise their eyebrows at you, but what you're doing isn't illegal. There's many stories in the papers of teachers getting their sixteen year old students... (read in full...)
He cheated to be with me...will he do it to me?
Q. I really like this guy and he has cheated on his girlfriend (my best friend) to be with me and I am scared that when I do get with him he will cheat on me. Is this true?...
A. 1 September 2008: I agree with the others. Get your hands on a copy of Angel and Angel Uncovered, both by Katie Price. In the first book Angel is tripping over a hottie called Cal, he's with someone called Mel and he makes out with Angel, thus cheating on Mel.... (read in full...)
Wouldn't it destroy our friendship if I told my mate that I like his girlfriend?
Q. I am in love with my friends girlfriend: have been for a while, waaay before they started dating. I try and forget these feelings, but I cant. I just cant. One or two of my other friends know about this, and one of them seems to think I should t...
A. 1 September 2008: If you value your supply of oxygen, don't tell him. Of course, it could go either way. But it's still probably not worth it.
If you decide to tell him, tell him that you like her but respect him too much to persue the feelings and wouldn't... (read in full...)
My teacher wrote in my year book that I am a very inquisitive and stylish young lady. Does this mean he likes me?
Q. Im a 17 year old highschool female senior. i have had a crush on this italian male teacher since i met him last year. he tutored me in math and sometimes we would be alone in his classroom alone with his door closed and i would ask him questions ...
A. 30 August 2008: Italians are beautiful, intriguing people. I'm sure he's no different.
I'm not going to tip toe around the edges. It's wrong. He's your teacher and he could lose his job if anything happened.
It may seem worth it, but in the long run it wont... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a baby but I don't want to! What should I do about this?
Q. okay so ive been with my boyfriend now for 4 months, we were having sex before our relationship and were very close to each other, but on friday night my parents were away for the weekend so i had the house to myself and hes was stayin at mine but...
A. 29 August 2008: Well if he had sex with you while you were asleep that would be counted as statutory rape and if I were you I'd report him for it no matter how much you love him or how much he says you. Though that's highly unlikely, so I wont digress. My cousin... (read in full...)
What did he mean when he said this?
Q. Ok this has confused me abit. Well before i start i'd like you to know that this bullying is mroe or less over but i'm still wondering about this. Basically afew members of the group suddenly took a disliking to me, never found out why or anything...
A. 29 August 2008: He may have been asking for a relevant reason as to why he should as in 'if you can't think of a reason to hit her then why should I hit her?'. I think you should ask him. It really depends on how he said it, and only you can judge that.
I can... (read in full...)
My life is controlled by love, I hate it!!
Q. Hi, I'm 15 years old, i have been madly in love with somebody for almost three years, they have been the most miserable three years of my life. the Reason for this is because the love is unrequited. He/she is my best friend, we get along perfec...
A. 24 August 2008: You could try seeing if he/she feels the same and if they do try and pursue it. If they don't find something to distract you.
You could get another hobby maybe; just something to take your mind off he/she's existance.
I don't think you should... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my aunt and I want to have sex with her! What do you think?
Q. My aunt is 42 and she's hot and very beautiful. We have a good relationship. We have never been totally alone, but we talk all the time when we see each other. I have noticed 2 times when she looks at me, she looks at me with a sexy-look, and w...
A. 24 August 2008: Have you posted almost the same question from another account because they're remarkably similar. How can you seriously be contemplating having sex with your auntie? She's almost 3 times your age and is family. I can almost guarantee that i... (read in full...)
She is going back to her ex for the sake of the kids even though she loves me more!
Q. i have been seeing a girl for the past few months, we have become very close and have fallen in love with each other! she has been getting pressure from her ex to get back together and has been pulling on her heartstrings and saying she should give ...
A. 23 August 2008: The only thing you can do is try and talk to her. She's made the decision and if you try and force her back to you you're going to be just as bad as him.
Tell her that the kids could be just as happy living with you and her. My uncle split wi... (read in full...)
I want to get him a special gift for our 1-year anniversary, but I am short of money! Any ideas?
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. we arnet engaged or anything but it is pretty serious. its coming up to out 1 year anniversary so i wanted to get him something special,, only thing is i have financial prblems and so dont really ...
A. 23 August 2008: Well the first anniversary is paper. So you could make him a card. You don't need money to make it special for him. Cook a nice meal with candles and make it romantic for you both. It's nice and doesn't take a load of money to make it really mean ... (read in full...)
Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace?
Q. Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace? My bf has a band and he's the admin of their Myspace. He got a friend request from one of these stripper types, you know, those girls that have Myspace pages where they're almos naked, they're hot, etc...
A. 19 August 2008: It may have been completely honest. She may just like their music and decided to add them. It probably has nothing to do with your boyfriend at all.
I do see where you're coming from though, speak to him and tell him how you feel. He probably... (read in full...)
My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!
Q. I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...
A. 19 August 2008: Thanks for your note. I'm glad is all going well. You may realise that her seeing them might not do them the world of good but if you say that, then they'll keep that against you. Keep it to yourself and it may seem two faced but make it look like ... (read in full...)
I want to help this guy find a woman to date and be happy!
Q. hi well here goes... i am 16 years old and a few weeks back i met a really genuine guy. hes 26 and seems like a great fun loving guy, he has a great job as a teacher down in lincolnshire, we chat all the time well when hes not out down the pub...
A. 19 August 2008: Steer clear. For your safety, please stay AWAY from him. He's 26. Please don't meet him. You might think you know him but you don't know what's going on in his mind. ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to find out if you are allergic to condoms before using them for sexual intercourse?
Q. Is there a way to find out if you are allergic to condoms before using them for sexual intercourse?...
A. 18 August 2008: Cheapest I got was £1.12 for 100 pairs! ... (read in full...)
I no longer see a future with him. What should I do?
Q. I have been with my fiancee for almost 3 years. He is 27 I am almost 20. I love him, but no longer see a future with him. Every little thing he does gets on my nerves now. The only thing he ever wants is sex. He grabs my boobs or my butt in public, ...
A. 18 August 2008: He shouldn't be treating you like this. I think you should give him and ultimatum; things change or you go your separate ways.
I think there is nothing more forgivable than having a child and not paying for it. If he didn't want a baby, he shoul... (read in full...)
How can I get this girls attention?
Q. hi, I am in love with just this wonderful girl. I recently moved to New jersey and am going to mkhs. I'm in this class with this girl named ayla. she doesn't know i exist but i hope that she will. shes taking this class called sociology and i pu...
A. 18 August 2008: Talk to her. Discuss the lesson and the homework with her. Ask if you can have lunch with her and ask her to a movie and just see how it goes with her. Good luck... (read in full...)
I want to help this guy find a woman to date and be happy!
Q. hi well here goes... i am 16 years old and a few weeks back i met a really genuine guy. hes 26 and seems like a great fun loving guy, he has a great job as a teacher down in lincolnshire, we chat all the time well when hes not out down the pub...
A. 18 August 2008: I think he needs to stop going to the pub first of all. He needs to find some friends down there and maybe go clubbing with them. At the pub he's more likely to find someone twice his age.
Or he could go to teachers meetings with other schools.... (read in full...)
How do we approach another girl for a threesome?
Q. My girl recently said that she would like to have a threesome and wants to try it with another girl, she even said that she would love to watch another girl give me oral. I am happy to do this but i dont know where to start. we have looked on dating ...
A. 18 August 2008: Before you do anything I think you should read Angel by Katie Price. Threesomes seem like a good idea but when they're over; the relationship is as good as finished too. Some people enjoy it and have many threesomes in their relationship.
When ... (read in full...)
My mum is forcing me to work in her local pub when I'm 15!
Q. Well heres a bit about myself, im 15 and live with my mum, dad and sister in a wealthy part of wales. My life has never really been bad, i havent experienced no deaths etc, but the year 2008 is the year that ive really found myself.. i got a ...
A. 18 August 2008: Well to start with it would be boring stuff. You're not legally allowed to serve behind the bar as you're underage. Tell your teacher might be your best bet and ask them to have a quiet word with your mum to tell her that this could possibly be the ... (read in full...)
I really like two boys, one really likes me and the other one tells me I'm pretty and how he wants to have sex with me.
Q. hello, im a 14 year old girl and i really like this boy called andy (16) i met at a swimming pool where he works and i think he likes me but i really like this other boy called jamie (17) but all he seems to talk about is how pretty i am and how he ...
A. 18 August 2008: Andy. Jamie is trying to sweeten you up so that you'll have underage sex with him. If you care about him you'll let him go. He's over 16 and so if he has sex with someone underage he could be arrested because he's more than two years older than the ... (read in full...)
The guy I am "kind of" dating kissed another girl at a club!?
Q. the guy im kinda dating kissed another girl at a club right after he had called me on the phone telling me how much he wants me... he admitted it to me, and his excuse was 'well u said the other day, that u are single, u can do what u want, so ...
A. 18 August 2008: Well; he phoned you right after didn't he? That surely means he regrets it and that he felt guilty. If it meant something to him he wouldn't have phoned you to tell you.
Honesty and trust; two of the most important aspects of a relation... (read in full...)
My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!
Q. I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...
A. 18 August 2008: Like I said before. You need to get to the police with your lawyer and tell them EVERYTHING. If there are mutual friends that can tell the police that you never hurt her and wouldn't think about it and that she left you and never had contact then ... (read in full...)
His ex was a glamour model I can't compete with; why is he dating me...?
Q. I have recently started seeing this really fit bloke and I am really happy but I have just found out that he used to date a glamour model and it ended badly between them, anyway, my situation is that I am the most flat chested female ever, and I am ...
A. 17 August 2008: He probably wants someone a little different. Some glamour girls can be a little bit snobby because of their looks, which usually annoys guys, because yes, they may be prettier than most, but also they're common as muck. [No offence to any glamour ... (read in full...)
What should I say when my friend introduces us??
Q. hi guys and girls, well i need help on chatting up a guy theres an age difference of about 6 years im 18 and hes 24, im going to a party and my friend said she would introduce us, so when i meet him i dont know what to say? i think he has a job but ...
A. 17 August 2008: Just act natural. He'll be a bit freaked out if you try to hard. You should get on; unless you clash horrifically, which is unlikely. Age differences are rarely things to worry about. My teacher's wife is 15 years younger than him and they're ... (read in full...)
Why do I want to get pregnant again so badly?
Q. This is a stupid question but in January I found out I was pregnant, I told the bf at the time he finished with me and tried to make me have an abortion but at the end of February I had a miscarriage. I was 17 but turned 18 at the start of April. ...
A. 9 August 2008: Your mum probably wasn't angry that you were pregnant, she was probably angry that you got pregnant so early on in your life and with the man that hurt you. She was just trying to protect her daughter, she didn't want her grandchild being brought up ... (read in full...)
When a woman 'blanks' a guy - how should he react to this?
Q. Hi. A man and a woman start to engage in an office flirtation after having worked occasionally with each other for 4 years. After 6 months of manoeuvring the woman blatantly comes on to the man and then the man asks the woman out via e-mail the ...
A. 8 August 2008: Well first, no matter what attraction or flirtation there is or was, you shouldn't have sent an email suggesting a date to a married woman. End of story.
Just because she's flirting, it doesn't mean that she's interested. She may well be ignoring... (read in full...)
Can he really want me even though I'm fat?
Q. Hi Im 21 and iv got a dilema! Im thinking of loosing my virginity to a person i trust 100% although i trust him i cant help thinking about how turned off he will be when he see's the fat. Yes im a big girl and its not as if he doesnt know but he ...
A. 8 August 2008: Some guys prefer larger women. He can see your size with your clothes on and it hasn't put him off, so obviously he's a guy worth holding out for. If he was going to be turned off by your size, he wouldn't have shown interest in the first place.
... (read in full...)
I missed six pills and my period came earlier - could I be pregnant?
Q. umm what if your on birth control and u missed like 6 pills can u be pregant and my period usually comes at the end of the month but it came in the beginning do u think i might be pregant...
A. 7 August 2008: If you've had a period since missing the pills then no, chances are you're not pregnant.
A period is the release of the lining of your womb, which the fetus cushions into. So if you've had a period, you're releasing your lining, meaning no fetus... (read in full...)
My wife is infertile so I decided to divorce, as children are important to me. Your comments?
Q. I am 31 yrs old and married some six years back. We did not have a child due to the infertility problem from my wife side. I am an assistant professor. I am the only kid for my family. I want to have kids.Therefore I decided to divorce. I need your ...
A. 4 August 2008: I agree with Emily, but as she is infertile it means her eggs can't conceive a baby. So surrogacy and IVF wouldn't work. However adoption would be a great option to consider.
Giving a child who has nothing a home with loving parents. It's an ... (read in full...)
I need a way to look older. It's ridiculous everyone who sees me thinks I'm between 12 and 14
Q. So in the past year or so i have been constintaly mistaken as a being between the ages of 12 and 14. I am now 18 and about to start college. I find this so frustrating because i am convinced that this is keeping guys from talking to me. I sometimes ...
A. 1 August 2008: Cut your hair in a more mature style. My hair was long and I looked my age, I had it cut into a bob and I'm now mistaken for between 16-18. Wear your make up in a fashion known to people of the older generation such as people in their later twenties ... (read in full...)
My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!
Q. I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...
A. 1 June 2008: Seek legal advice and tell them everything. I'm sure the court will swing in your favour when you tell them that your wife just upped and left and hasn't even contacted. In England if the parents are split then the other parent, who has custody, ... (read in full...)
My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!
Q. I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...
A. 27 May 2008: I'm sorry to hear that, must be pretty tough to deal with.
Well first I think she was darn out of order taking your daughter with her the first time, I'm sorry, but what sort of mother would take off and introduce this guy to her daughter... (read in full...)
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