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My husband masturbates to porn and it makes me feel unadequate! I need your advice on how to change things!

Q.   I caught my husband masturbating to porn. I guess I can't understand it... given I always felt he could open up to me and talk about such things... he also could have come to me, as I enjoy sex a great deal. But instead he would wait for me to go to...

A.   20 September 2008: "he has an addiction and he needs help"? Seriously? The guy likes porn....most guys do. I am a woman and I enjoy it. As far as him turning you down and then proceeding to watch porn...anyone would feel inadequate in that situation. My advice is tell ... (read in full...)

My father is molesting me and my mother has cancer. What can I do?

Q.   It was a few days ago when my mom took me my dads house for the first time after they were divorced. She had to work late that night so i had to stay there until the next day and my dad came in to my room n started talking because he wanted to catch ...

A.   17 September 2008: oh my god sweetheart! That's why police and teachers are there. You have to tell someone, god forbid anything happen to your mother that you would have to live with this monster. You need to seek legal help now and have him put away. God help you. ... (read in full...)

I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!

Q.   so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....

A.   17 September 2008: ok first of all not condoning his actions at all but he is not watching young girls being raped. It is not actually porn. They are modeling sites with young girls fully clothed. Again not saying that that is normal. It's not, if it was I wouldn't ... (read in full...)

I am just so outraged! Is he some kind of pervert? What should I do?

Q.   I recently made a horrific discovery that is making me questioning the man I thought I loved. While helping to clean out his room, I came across a stash of some 30 or more porn magazines and several DVDs stashed away. I was shocked. He told me ...

A.   16 September 2008: I don't understand it. He is a man and it is porn. I am a woman who thouroughly enjoys it but not because I am not attracted to my boyfriend. I am sure he feels the same it's not that he isn't attracted to you. I suppose it's a hard thing to explain ... (read in full...)

I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!

Q.   so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....

A.   16 September 2008: wow thanks for the sensitivity. Yes I suppose I sought your advice but if you were in this situation then maybe you would realize that it is easier said than done. ... (read in full...)

I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!

Q.   so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....

A.   15 September 2008: I appreciate everyone's view and opinions here, however I am still undecided on what to do I just love him more than anything or anyone on this earth. I was in a 5 year relationship prior to this and I would hve ended it in a heartbeat. I truley ... (read in full...)

I caught my boyfriend looking at VERY young girls online!

Q.   so here's my problem I am 22 and my boyfriend 26 have been together for almost a year and we recently moved in together. I was on the computer the other day and I saw that he had been looking at sites such as veryounggirls.com and others related....

A.   14 September 2008: Thank you all for your help. I really appreciate it, I am addressing the issue but trying to do it as delicately as possible. ... (read in full...)

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