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Blunt and straight to the point.

At the end of the day there is little use in pussyfooting around situations, I say them as I see them.

Sometimes it doesn't make pleasant reading but it is what people need to see.

They want answers and not wishy washy stuff to make them more confused.

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Kissing in public

Q.   Hi I am 14 and I have a girlfriend, I really want to kiss her properly next time we meet in the city... we will be with friends... can someone advise me on the appropriate steps to kiss her in public? we hold hands in public, by the way she is ...

A.   4 November 2010: There are no appropriate steps, just go for it and enjoy. if any of your friends laugh it is through jealousy.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has been a major ass to me recently and I want to break up with him, but I'm scared I might be pregnant!

Q.   Hey!So I'm a 14 year old girl that just recently lost her virginity. Since then I have had sex with my boyfriend quite a few times. But now I'm starting to become scared. All the times we have had sex we have never used a condom. I've researched a ...

A.   4 November 2010: First and foremost you need to take a pregnancy test to find out once and for all if you are or are not pregnant. If you are not pregnant, then for your age, you have had a lucky escape and consider it a lesson learnt about contrace... (read in full...)

How do I convince her we should get back together?

Q.   hello everyone , i really need everyones advices, my ldr girlfriend suddenly broke up with me claiming that she doesnt want a relationship anymore, she said its not coz of the relationship it self, its coz of her , but i dont get how she could ju...

A.   4 November 2010: As harsh as it sounds, there is probably very little you can do. she has made her decision and using the reason "it's her" usually means there is more to it that she is not letting on. it can be incredibly frustrating not knowing the reasons ... (read in full...)

I think I am not "in love" with my boyfriend of 8 years anymore, and now an old crush is back on the scene I don't know what to do!

Q.   I am in a relationship which I been in for 8 years, I love him but not sure if I'm in love with him. I have recently been in contact with a old crush and the past 2 weeks we got close, my heart telling me to be with him but I don't know please help ...

A.   4 November 2010: At the moment you are still in a relationship and should resist all temptations to stray. Has the loss of love for for current partner dropped since the old crush came on the scene or before that? If it has been since, then definitely hold ... (read in full...)

I had a relationship with a guy who had been with his girlfriend for 4 years and now I'm pregnant he wants me to have an abortion, what should I do?

Q.   im been since this guy for 8 months and im totally in love with him, theres a connection there big time and always have a fairly good sex life, but hes in a reltionship for the past 4y ears and admits he does love her and now ive found out im 2 ...

A.   4 November 2010: It sounds perhaps that this guy wants the best of both worlds. He has got his girlfriend of four years who he says he loves, but clearly there is something not right given he has been seeing you for eight months. You say he wants to stay ju... (read in full...)

Why did a good girl allow sex so easily?

Q.   I met this lovely 20 year old girl through her sister, a co-worker. I took her out to the movies just once, and then did not see her for a month. We kept in touch. When we met again we went to a secluded place where we talked about her dreams...

A.   4 November 2010: Depending on how recently she split up from her ex and they reasons behind the split, she might be on the rebound. It would be helpful to know if you have spoken to her since you slept with her or have seen her and have continued to have sex. ... (read in full...)

How do I get out of this slump without letting it have an effect on my relationship as well?

Q.   I've just been made redundant from my job and I'm gutted to say the least. I love my work, I love the girls I work with and more than anything I'm worried about money and how I'm going to aupport my family. I do have a partner who works but even ...

A.   4 November 2010: Two things that stand out for me here: Firstly, you're not a person to sit around at home and you don't want to bring another child into the world with all this uncertainty. They both show you have a level head and know what you want, which is... (read in full...)

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