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How do I get my girlfriend to return the sexual favors?
Q. OK it has been like forever since i came here but i'm back. alrite i'll try n make this as short and uncomplicated as i can. I have ben dating "Katie" for about two mnts now, i am also a female we both are 15 yrs old. i love her very dearly,...
A. 20 April 2008: hmm then i think all you can do is ease her into it at some point she will start doing it herself so stop stressing yourself overit.... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend to return the sexual favors?
Q. OK it has been like forever since i came here but i'm back. alrite i'll try n make this as short and uncomplicated as i can. I have ben dating "Katie" for about two mnts now, i am also a female we both are 15 yrs old. i love her very dearly,...
A. 19 April 2008: its ok to be scared but you will have to talk to her sooner or later just try to relax and dont sound too pushy like your trying to force her just be casual about it and bring it up perhaps after your done with her a simple now you do me would help.... (read in full...)
What can I do knowing that she's out there with some guy being all happy?
Q. Hi All, my ex gf of 2 years broke up with me about 2 months ago saying that she didnt have *them* feelings for me anymore. We had a hard last few months of both of us not really being interested, and making little effort. I guess I knew it was ...
A. 18 April 2008: move on man if she has moved on and is happy then you should move on too and be happy. Its not easy i know but try your best to take your mind off her. There is not a lot that you can do besides move on with your life. ... (read in full...)
Should he stay a virgin?
Q. Hi all, I find it really disturbing that one of our Aunts (WE ALL KNOW WHO) is ranting and raving over religion. He is clearly very disturbed, and should anyone that has such extreme views be giving advice? We are all entitled to believe in w...
A. 18 April 2008: well i always say only do something if your comfortable if he wants to stay a virgin then its his choice. As helpers our main concern should be for the people were helping so if his advice is negative thats not good if not there should be no ... (read in full...)
How do I avoid having sex with him?
Q. Please help. So I'm going to this guy I'm dating's house today for lunch. The thing is 2 weeks ago we hung out at his place and we had sex. We used to date about 2 years ago and we stopped talking and now we met up again (about 2 months ago). I ...
A. 18 April 2008: well dont say it as soon as you get there just hang out and have fun and if he trieds anything stop and just tell him you dont feel like it. Be honest. Good luck and pm me if ya need to talk. ... (read in full...)
Did I scare him away by appearing to eager?
Q. I like this guy in my english class. Long story short, on Sunday, I asked him if he wanted to get lunch or possibly dinner with me one day. He said he was free on Monday after our english class. We went out and had the best time. He was funny, cute ...
A. 18 April 2008: depends what kind of guy he is some get easily sacred away some dont however i do think continulay asking him to come out again everyday will end up changing his mind. The text was an alright idea it will just set things straight. Try not to be so ... (read in full...)
I can't erect when with my girlfriend please help!
Q. so this just started like 2 weeks ago. now i never had a problem getting rock hard before and i can get hard to beat off but just not when we wana have sex. i dont know why or whats wrong. if i watch porn it goes right up and everythings ok but with ...
A. 18 April 2008: its not actualy uncommon if your gf is open mined try having some porn on in the background this should help you get it up. Setting the mood is good too if its not a sexy atmospher your not going to get turned on and your not going to get hard. Good ... (read in full...)
It is horrible feeling like your happiness depends on someone else. How do I change this?
Q. My self opinion is based on what other people think of me, and so if i dont have a bf I feel like i am worthless and not loveable. I hate feeling like this. It is horrible feeling like your happiness depends on someone else. How do i change this? I...
A. 18 April 2008: i think its down to the guys you have been out with them treating you like crap has resulted in you doubting yourself and feeling like crap. You need to find a nice guy and forget about all those losers you dated in the past.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend deny everything he felt now that we have broken up?
Q. okay. me and my boyfriend of 4 months broke up yesterday. i still loved him tremendously, yes we were young. 14. but i know i was in love. well anyways he ended it because he had to catch up on school and his sports because he was falling behind. I ...
A. 18 April 2008: Most guys act hard around there friends because they see that kind of emotion as a girly thing its stupid really but its all down to how they are seen by there mates. You should focus on you work and not let this get to you. Im here if ya need to ... (read in full...)
Need advice, does she like me as more than a friend?
Q. Hello you guys i need help well you see i had a friend from 9 month ago we were the best of friends all of a sudden she appeard TODAY!. But when i tend to be open minded about somethings she tells me to shut up and sort.What do i do i mean we used ...
A. 18 April 2008: well from what you have told me its hard to tell personaly i dont think she does however its possible but you have a gf and this sort of wondering can lead to bad things just keep her as a mate and forget about it. ... (read in full...)
Any inspirational words to help me move on guys?
Q. I had a relationship with a girl and I met her in a bad point in her life when she had no one else. Basically long story short is that I did everything for her to turn her life around - got her out of the wrong crowd, beat alcoholism, let her live ...
A. 18 April 2008: well i always lived by what doesnt kill you will make you stronger and if something does kill you make sure you come back and haunt it. honestly your a good person she isnt worth your pain and tears so remove anything that reminds you of her and ... (read in full...)
I need advice on how to meet girls or go up to girls in normal places ie clubs, bars, etc for a threesome
Q. I need advice on how to meet girls or go up to girls in normal places ie clubs, bars, etc for a threesome?? I know there are books written giving guides or opener lines to use, tips, strategies etc. But wondering if anyone has any suggestions or ...
A. 18 April 2008: well if your intention is just a one night stand threesome then make it clear to avoid hurting anyone else. Just be open and honest. Chat a bit fist to get to know the person then when your comfortable with her tell her and talk about it.
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I need advice on tonghts date with my friend
Q. I am really nervous bout tonight. I have a friend comming over for a nice dinner and a move.this is a big thing, because she lives bout an hour from me. At first i didnt think anything bout it, just two friends having dinner and a movie. I joked on ...
A. 18 April 2008: well i cant tell you how to do things however try not to be too forward or get too excited and missread the situation and do something silly think ok it as just a movie night with a friend that way you will avoid messing up. Good luck ... (read in full...)
I want to call him as he suggested. Any tips about prom and... him?
Q. I'm going to my prom with my friend's brother. It was her idea to have us go together. She is going with his friend. She realized while picking out the tuxes that it might be akward. Me and my two friends and our prom dates (none of us are a coup...
A. 17 April 2008: i would say yes talk to her about it and if you like him go for it it sounds like you both get on. But relationships dont always last so dont potentialy lose a friend over it. If she isnt comfortable with it talk it out more take it slow. Good luck ... (read in full...)
We see each other 24/7 and it's suffocating me, is it normal to want to see a little less of my husband?
Q. Hi all, my husband and i have been together for 5 yrs married for 3 and we constantly argue over inconsequential things... we work together and see each other 24/7 literally i think an getting to the point where want to see less of him... i kno that ...
A. 17 April 2008: its very normal for you too feel this way. Being around someone 24/7 it ends up getting annoying i would talk to him about it and have a night out once every so often with your friends to get rid of the stress and frustration. Good luck ... (read in full...)
Dating step uncle right or wrong?
Q. I have a freind who is dating her step uncle, they are not related by blood at all, but is it right? because i feel i should advise my freind on this!...
A. 17 April 2008: well moraly people might say its wrong however if there both happy and not related in any way by blood then its their choice no one elses however this sort of thing can cause family disputes and should be handled with care and consideration.... (read in full...)
He is two years younger than me..but mature for his age, could it work out?
Q. I have a little problem... My cuzins and I gather together 3 times a week and this guy teaches us dance... Since the first day I realized that he keeps looking at me and flirting with me. Wen he teaches us the dance he keeps coming by me and holding ...
A. 17 April 2008: age shouldnt play such a big role in it if you just click and get on and like each other then go for it if not then dont. I mean you see 18 year olds with 40 year olds getting on great and thats a large gap 2 years is nothing if ya like him go for ... (read in full...)
I want him to know how much I like him, but is he a "player"?
Q. hiya.. right i really like this boy,lets call him Ryan. Its abit confusing this whole thing. Ryan asked one of his mates for my numbrer acoiple of weeks ago and then he started texting me and added me on facecbook and stuff. So we have started to ...
A. 17 April 2008: i think next chance you get talk to him and tell him how you feel. He might be a player but there is no way to know unless you hang out with him for a while and see what he is like with other girls then you will get an idea of his character. Best of ... (read in full...)
Where can I get Lapdancing/Stripping lessons?
Q. i want to give my boyfriend a striptease or a lapdance, does anyone know any sites that have tutorials..? (preferably videos) any tips would be much apreciated. thanks!...
A. 17 April 2008: just google it and you will find loads also im sure youtube has something i mean it has everything else. Dont try anything too compelx tho cause you could hurt yourself and falling and breaking something aint sexy. Practice and get your routine ... (read in full...)
Should I contact my boyfriend's friend and ex's to find out what happend in past? And is he telling the truth about an upcoming event?
Q. I am really having a problem in believing my boyfriend still. He is going to a concert on friday with one of his friends. So he says he name is Brian. He has spoken to him a few times while I was around, but won't finish the conversation until I ...
A. 17 April 2008: i would never recommend checking up on a guy like that it just shows that you dont trust him and makes you seen controlling best not to do that. I know how you feel but i think talking to him about this will help you more than being sneaky. Good ... (read in full...)
My husband insulted me while drunk and his friends calumniate me! Should I forgive this?
Q. i am 28 married with 2 kids. we got married in june last year but b4 then we used to have problems coz his friends tell him so many false stories about me. one time he came to my mothers home drunk and stsrted shouting on the top of his voice...
A. 17 April 2008: i have always good with my instinc and its never lead me astray. I always say only do something if your comfortable with it and it sounds like you wont be comfortable staying with this guy. So go with your feelings and good luck. Pm me if ya need to ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about my boyfriend?
Q. hi all my boyfriend is leaving today and i wont be able to see him he'll be gone until sunday and even then i cant see him not until monday. he just informed me today that hes going up north with one of his guy friends and his dad to go hunting ...
A. 17 April 2008: Well nothing is ever certain however if he is 20 miles from anyone else i doubt he is going to do anything. Ask yourself is he trust worthy if he is stop worrying if not then have a good chat with him about how u feel dont b controlin tho like lotsa ... (read in full...)
How do we get out of the same old boring routine?
Q. i am in an almost 5yr relationship w/ my byfrnd. i am 34 he is 33. we live together, but it is more like roomates, how do we get out of this bored routine?...
A. 17 April 2008: simple do something out of the ordinary taking a holiday together might help or do some traveling change your scenery a bit. Im not saying go totally wild but let loose and do something you normally wouldnt dream of doing and do it together. ... (read in full...)
I want to look sexy, but how should I do it?
Q. hi all i need some help on this okay now my boyfriend is leaving today to go hunting with his friend and his dad and we wont be back until sunday but i wont be able to see him until monday and i really want to do something very sexy for him he ...
A. 17 April 2008: well if your talking about cloths depends what his tastes are tho most guys i know like short skirts etc. To do something sexy well my ex did a strip for me once when i got back from spain and i wont ever forget that but she was very good at it. ... (read in full...)
Is he planning to attend the same university because of me? Or could I be reading too much into that?
Q. The man I'm interested in is coming back to town this weekend. He was out of the country for a while before then and came back for two weeks before he had to leave again for a job out of state. We spoke a little the first week, his family had a ...
A. 17 April 2008: well when you get a chance ask him why he picked that uni if he has a good reason like it has better facilities then fine if not it could be cause of you but no one can say for sure. Talk to him it should help ya. ... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend to return the sexual favors?
Q. OK it has been like forever since i came here but i'm back. alrite i'll try n make this as short and uncomplicated as i can. I have ben dating "Katie" for about two mnts now, i am also a female we both are 15 yrs old. i love her very dearly,...
A. 17 April 2008: i dont think your too young i was active 4 years ago and im only 16. I would just talk to her about it its the simplst and direct way of dealing with it. Just be honest and explain your not pressuring her etc girls are usually very understanding in ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of my sister and compare myself to her. How can I stop feeling inferior?
Q. I'm jealous of my sister. Last year I started college. She's older. She had dropped out of Law School the year before. I'm studying English Education (I'm not from the USA nor UK). I was the best in my class last year. I felt really good be...
A. 17 April 2008: Well why not instead of looking at all her achievements yo look at your own. You have done well in many things but there is always someone better than you. Your mainly jealous cause its your sister you need to just focus on your studies.... (read in full...)
Lose of sex drive
Q. Hi, I have quite a sensative question to ask regarding loss of sex drive. I've known my husband for 7 years and have been married for 4. Unfortunatley through most of those 4 years I have had little to no sex drive. A lot of this was down to stre...
A. 16 April 2008: i would say its down to stess and fear your stressing yourself about the sex and you might also be afraid deep down about if you can please him because you havent done it that much with him. Best thing is to talk to him about it. Good luck... (read in full...)
Why would he be so cruel to fake a relationship?? And how come he has so many friends, if he is not a good person?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago, after which I found out he lied and cheated on me the whole time we were together (two and a half years). I get that he definitely did not love me. But why would he be so cruel to fake a rela...
A. 16 April 2008: sadly because were human we have ability to be cruel but were not all bad i would just try your best to forget about him and move on he aint worth your time or tears ... (read in full...)
My partner of 4 years is very controlling about everything even down to what we eat!
Q. My partner of 4 years is very controlling about everything even down to what we eat. We recently split for a couple of weeks when i found out he'd looked at porn on the internet. We got back together after talks, because I'd seen what he'd looked at ...
A. 16 April 2008: talk to him about it make him understand how your feeling and dont let him take control of you or your life if it comes down to it you being free is more important than him. If it does come down to that there are always better guys out there. Good ... (read in full...)
I re-used a condom 3 wks later. Am I Pregnant?
Q. hey... so ... here is my problem... me and my boyfriend had sex with a re-used condom about two weeks ago. the condom we re-used was first used about three weeks before we used it the second time.. does the sperm die off or what? he cleaned it out ...
A. 16 April 2008: well fist off never ever re use a condom its never a good idea. Sounds like you were very carefull however i think you should take the pregnancy test even if your sacred its better to know for sure than killing yourself wondering 24/7. Good luck.... (read in full...)
We don't look good together and he isn't doing well financially Should I dump him?
Q. my boyfriend is very loyal 2 me but he always manages to influence me with his thoughts.my family doesnt like him.he does care for me in every way,but we dont look good together and isnt doing well financially too. should i dump him?...
A. 16 April 2008: it shouldnt matter what your family thinks and whats the point of being with someone if you break up with someone just cause you dont look good together and are you with him for him or his money. If you love him stick with him or save him the ... (read in full...)
Someone please tell me what's happening with my relationship?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating off and on. i broke up with him 3 times in the past because i didnt understand my feelings. this time around our relationship started out fine but then when his dad told him that are ages were a problem things ...
A. 16 April 2008: i cant say for sure whats happening but if the father is the problem i suggest you talk to your bf about it and how you feel be honest. He could be stressed and under pressure from family. Just pm me if ya need more advice Im here if ya need to talk ... (read in full...)
If we are to be friends, I must fall out of love with her NOW!
Q. How can I fall out of love with my ex. We've been apart for over a year now, and yet my heart still sinks anytime I so much as see a picture of her. She still wants for us to be friends, but even though we can only communicate through MSN, I still ...
A. 16 April 2008: sadly people cant just fall out of love i suggest you talk to her and be honest about how you feel maybe then you can move on atleast then you will both be clear on the situation. pm me if ya need anything im here to help if ya need more advice.... (read in full...)
I fantasise about my teacher... should I tell him?...
Q. hiii well i'm a student and im 15 taking my GCSEs and im going to be leaving school in june and going to a diff college. Anyways i really like my english teacher but i'm not sure what to do, i really do like him ive even had dreams which repeat the...
A. 16 April 2008: well if you really love him let him go. Sounds cheesy but if ya tell him things could get weird he could even lose his job if say it went further or he gave you an a and someone didnt think you deserved it it could come up and ruin both your lives. ... (read in full...)
I really like him and hope that I'll get to date him but he's known as a player... how to handle the situation?
Q. I really like this guy and he says he likes me as well but it doesn't seem that way. When I say I miss him he says he misses me as well and loves having me around him. When my friends ask him if we're ever gonna date he says yes but he needs time...
A. 16 April 2008: well i think if he needs space give it him but be there for him too. Everyone deserves a second chance but if you see signs he is playing you dont hesitate to let him go. Talk to him about the situation. It will work out. Pm me if ya need more ... (read in full...)
I would like to apply my fantasies at my partner's suggestion but feel embarrassed...
Q. Sex, i would consider myself good at it. I have been told my BJs are good as are other things i do but i have a really problem with letting go. I can't let myself go enough with my boyfriend to really enjoy myself. Granted he is the first boy...
A. 16 April 2008: Well why not instead of just doing it out of the blue you talk to him about it first that way you shouldnt feel embarrassed. Its hard to let go when your wondering will he like it will i do it right etc talking will help ya with this. Pm me if ya ... (read in full...)
What do you think, is he cheating on me with the pastor? They call each other even 10 times a day...
Q. I was wondering, my gay lover is a good man, and he makes me love him more and more ever day but the the thing is im a jealous guy. So please give some advice. My boyfriend he is a friendly guy and and he has a lot of friend specialy male friends ...
A. 16 April 2008: well it sounds like it but they could just be friends though i think after the baby thing he might be cheating i would sit him down and talk to him once and for all and if he avoids answering your question about the other guy then i would say ... (read in full...)
We've met in my "minivacation" so I settled (for the past 2 years) in this land just to be with him. I miss my homestate though, how to compromise about the living place?
Q. I've been answering questions here for a long time and have never asked a question. Well, I'm I guess I'm popping THAT proverbial cherry, because I'm really in a situation. I moved out to the West Coast with a friend about 2 and a half years ago. ...
A. 16 April 2008: i had a friend with this sort of problem he got a map marked both of the home towns on and got a compas drawing a circle from each where they overlaped they both started a new life and there happy.too extream? I would talk to your family to see what ... (read in full...)
What is he thinking? After 3 weeks of dating he asks me when we are getting married! We know each other for much longer though...
Q. So, i recently begin (3 weeks ago) dating a guy i have known 6 years. We were really good friends when i was dating his best friend and we drifted apart during college. Since last October we have been texting, and chatting when he is at work. 3 ...
A. 16 April 2008: Il assume he is serious i guess he loves you loads and wants some sort of reassurance that you do to. What's so bad about that. I would tell him you're a bit shocked by it and just talk to him about it. Sounds like you love him too so i wouldnt ... (read in full...)
How can I ask her for her number?
Q. hi need to ask for a bit of advice i like this girl but we are not close friends we do talk on msn but i would like to ask her for her number so we can meet up more as i relly like her alot how should i go about asking her for her number ..... he...
A. 16 April 2008: all you have to do is ask her in one of your convos or givin her yours is sometimes easier. If you cant do any of these you could try making plans for a day out with her and ask her for her number so you can text her if there are any changes to the ... (read in full...)
Kissing games, got any ideas?
Q. Any games I could play that lead to kissing my bf for the first time?...
A. 15 April 2008: well first only start kissing etc if your comfortable and want to peer pressure is stupid dont let it get to you and second spin the bottle and truth or dare. The first is a kissing game and the second can turn into one. Pm me if your unsure about ... (read in full...)
Should I spend more time with him to see if I like him?
Q. i am a bit stuck, recently i found out thos lad liked me we went on a date although i wasnt sure if i liked him in the same way, i thought this might be the opportunity to get to know him more and stuff as i dont really fancy him physically( not ...
A. 15 April 2008: i normally like to be sure if i like someone befor i ask them out. You should hang out with him some more and if that fails explain to him how you feel and that your unsure of how you feel about him and you dont know what to do and take it from ... (read in full...)
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