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I think she likes him back and I get jealous! I'm planning on asking her out though.
Q. I work with a girl and I really like her. She's finishing work in a few weeks though I've worked with her for about 8 months. When we started to get to know one another, she was really friendly and chatty. I would compliment her and she would ...
A. 26 April 2008: i think give it one more shot man maybe she really did need to see her nan especialy if there close. Give it one more shot and good luck. ... (read in full...)
He said he's finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls, so we broke up, what do I do now?
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend od 6 months because he said hes finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls. i realy liked him and miss him lots, i care alot for him and it hurts that were not together. we' ve remained friend as we got along rea...
A. 24 April 2008: well if you want to know where you stand be direct and ask him. Good luck... (read in full...)
I feel guilty because of the way I feel about him so what should I do?
Q. Ok, so i've fallen for my friends on off boyfriend...which for the sake of anonymity i'll just call 'N'. But i'll start for the beggining and explain the whole story from the start... I started working at a small supermarket in january las...
A. 24 April 2008: oh and dont feel disloyal your not acting on it and in time your feeling for him will fade and then you can live your life focusing more on your current relationship... (read in full...)
I feel guilty because of the way I feel about him so what should I do?
Q. Ok, so i've fallen for my friends on off boyfriend...which for the sake of anonymity i'll just call 'N'. But i'll start for the beggining and explain the whole story from the start... I started working at a small supermarket in january las...
A. 24 April 2008: np if you ever need someone to talk to you know im just a pm away. Like i said stay strong and if you ever start to feel weak think of the child and come and talk to me im happy to help you whenever you need me. ... (read in full...)
How long does it take an ex to come back to you?
Q. Hi, Have you ever been dumped and then your Ex can back? If so, how many weeks\months did they come back? Did you use any tactics or behave in a certain way for this to happen, such as No contact etc Any experiences appreciated thx...
A. 23 April 2008: sometimes an ex will come back sometimes they wont dont get hung up on the ex coming back move on with your life ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to have sex with someone who could be paralyzed from the waist down?!
Q. okayy. my boyfriend went to the doctor like 2 days ago. They said a disk in his back was out of place and if he plays any sports or messes up his back in anyway he will become paralyzed (sp?)from the waist down. when he told me that i tryed to ...
A. 23 April 2008: you need to tell him these things you really need to explain to him how it makes you. It sounds like you love each other a lot so he will listen to you once he sees its upsetting you ... (read in full...)
I see myself as a heartbroken, hopeless romantic! The thought of living without her kills me...
Q. Hi, I'll cut to the chase. I'm planning to ask this girl out soon, but I have a strong feeling it's going to be no. I'm completely infatuated with her, but she's leaving soon, so thats why I'm asking. The real problem is this: I want to be re...
A. 23 April 2008: i have been down to below rock bottom beyond broken its not a nice thing. I think the reason you like the idea is due to the attention you would get people worrying over you 24/7 its a nice thought makes you feel loved and cared for? Think about it.... (read in full...)
How can my sister go from extreme suicidal despair and psychosis to being chirpy and happy over an hour?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if someone can give me some ideas about what is wrong with my sister? She's 22 years old. When she was 17, she began suffering from depression, which led to anorexia. I personally believe that it was the acne medication ...
A. 23 April 2008: It sounds almost like she is used to the attention that combined with her unstable mind is causeing persistent outbursts she needs to get help. If you need to talk or are feeling down send me a pm im here if you need me this is not fair on you. Good ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty because of the way I feel about him so what should I do?
Q. Ok, so i've fallen for my friends on off boyfriend...which for the sake of anonymity i'll just call 'N'. But i'll start for the beggining and explain the whole story from the start... I started working at a small supermarket in january las...
A. 23 April 2008: i have said this to many people sadly feeling cant be just switched off you have to use your will power to avoid and get over him stay strong about it and always keep in mind the child it has a future too use this idea to help keep yourself away ... (read in full...)
I think she likes him back and I get jealous! I'm planning on asking her out though.
Q. I work with a girl and I really like her. She's finishing work in a few weeks though I've worked with her for about 8 months. When we started to get to know one another, she was really friendly and chatty. I would compliment her and she would ...
A. 23 April 2008: Your not being stupid but without knowing her and seeing how she is with you no one here can say for sure if she likes you but i think you should talk to her about it you only have a short time left better to find out now than carry on wondering ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be bisexual?
Q. Heya, im 12 years old. I just wanted to know... Am i too young to decide to be bi-sexual? Because i like watching lesbian porn and, i know it semi-normal at my age to feel like this but as i said, do you guys think im too young to decide to be bi? ...
A. 23 April 2008: making a mature informed decision is the best thing to do your not too young to decide and you mite even decide one thing and change your mind somewhere down the line thats ok as long as you think about it and make sure that your sure first dont ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband's mistress he's still seeing me? We are working on our relationship.
Q. Okay well here we go. My husband left me in October last year. At the time he told me he was unhappy because of certain things I was doing (which I either wasn't doing at all or he had exaggerated out of all proportion). I subsequently fou...
A. 23 April 2008: if your changing because its something you dont like thats fine self improvement is great. I think giving him one last chance is good also instead of just telling her getting him to tell her would be even better and itd strengthen your ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband's mistress he's still seeing me? We are working on our relationship.
Q. Okay well here we go. My husband left me in October last year. At the time he told me he was unhappy because of certain things I was doing (which I either wasn't doing at all or he had exaggerated out of all proportion). I subsequently fou...
A. 23 April 2008: if your changing because its something you dont like thats fine self improvement is great. I think giving him one last chance is good also instead of just telling her getting him to tell her would be even better and strengthen your relationship.... (read in full...)
I'm worried I can't conceive and that I may be infertile!
Q. I'm 20 and have longed for a child for around 3 years now.I have been off the pill since last July and have been having un protected sex. Nothings happend!... i always go for regular check ups at the clinic and ive always been clear.last time i w...
A. 23 April 2008: its better to go and have the tests and checkup than to avoid them atleast then you will know. The faster you get checked the faster you will know and if anything is wrong it might be treatable if you catch it fast enough. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband's mistress he's still seeing me? We are working on our relationship.
Q. Okay well here we go. My husband left me in October last year. At the time he told me he was unhappy because of certain things I was doing (which I either wasn't doing at all or he had exaggerated out of all proportion). I subsequently fou...
A. 23 April 2008: first of all never change yourself for another person if he doesnt love you for who you are he isnt worth keeping. I think yes if he is playing her its not fair but if you tell her and he finds out it could ruin your relationship. Good luck
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How can you tell if he's looking at you? Where do you sit in relation to a girl if you like her?
Q. Right if your standing opposite or sitting opposite a guy you really like who could like you to(i'm not sure if he does) how can you tell if he's looking at you and making eye contact or just looking infront on him and you just so happen to be ...
A. 23 April 2008: look for the quick glances if hes a shy guy he wont keep eye contact with the girl he likes. As for sitting i normally sit opposite but next to is good. If i was shy i would sit behind the girl and admire from a distance but im not so i sit next to ... (read in full...)
I caught my husband with the nanny!
Q. I caught my husband making out with the nanny. what should I do?...
A. 23 April 2008: if you love him and want to save the mariage then talk to him maybe even see a couples therapist but personally i think you should get a divorce but it depends on the status of your relationship and how much you love each other think about it ... (read in full...)
He said he's finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls, so we broke up, what do I do now?
Q. i broke up with my boyfriend od 6 months because he said hes finding it hard not to be tempted by other girls. i realy liked him and miss him lots, i care alot for him and it hurts that were not together. we' ve remained friend as we got along rea...
A. 20 April 2008: give him a little space and just be friends i think you should go out with some friends and have some fun move on. ... (read in full...)
Met my old flame, we still have unresolved feelings for each other but are both married!
Q. It started when I was only 15 I met a guy who was two or three years older than me. We were so attracted to each other but I would never act on it. My parents would not have approved. Buy the time I got in my sophmore year of high school he had went ...
A. 20 April 2008: you need to talk to him about it but above all keep the relationship as just a close friendship dont take it anyfurther than that ... (read in full...)
Could it be that excessive masturbation has somewhat desensitized my penis?
Q. I can make love for very long periods. I seem to go through periods of arousal, to semi-arousal. The woman I'm with doesn't really complain, but, lately it seems I'm having a problem being completely aroused (fully erect) . One of the reasons may ...
A. 20 April 2008: i dont think so but anything is possible talk to your doctor about it. Or maybe its that you need further stimulation. ... (read in full...)
She said we should take things slower, so now I fear I have ruined my chances?
Q. Hello there. I have fallen in love with a girl that I don't know very well. We went out a couple of times and I like her and want to be with her even though I don’t know her well. On the last date I kissed her and told her that I wanted to be with ...
A. 20 April 2008: you havent ruined anything you just need to slow down you dont know her well and she doesnt know you so spend a while getting to know each other go on dates watch movies and talk then when your both ready and comfortable with each other be together... (read in full...)
How to let him know how I feel, should I be chatty, smiley and touchy-feely?
Q. There is a man at work who i have feelings for and i am unsure wether his feelings are reciprocated! i want to give you the full story so you can make a judgement. when i first met this man i had a boyfriend but i felt as though he fancied me, d...
A. 20 April 2008: it sounds like he likes you so i would talk to him about it set up a date it doesnt sound like you meet much outside of work that might be something to consider watch a movie or have dinner etc. As for showing him you like him act the way you always ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I wonder if he's been teased for liking me, as I'm not popular in college, so could it work out?
Q. Hey ok ive never had a bf before but to be hoenst never really wanted one. But i seriously love this lad who i'm friends with now theres times which are most of the time i just long to be with him but i also think he may like me back(me and a friend ...
A. 20 April 2008: yes its normal to wonder especialy for teenager we have a tendency to worry too much. Relationships take a lot of work its a give and take thing so yes if you both work at it it will work and you will be happy. As for being teased it shouldnt ... (read in full...)
What should I do? Can she even get pregnant from pre-ejaculate fludis from one sexual experience?
Q. I don't know if this really falls under the "love and relationship" category, but here goes: I was spending some time with a girl. We had sex once. Now, I am unable to use a condom. Everytime it goes on, I go down. I've tried different sizes,...
A. 20 April 2008: You should know better than that the pull out method doesnt work its possible to get pregnant even if you pull out. I think that in this situation there is only one thing to do be a man and talk to her and her family about it. Maybe it wasnt you.... (read in full...)
I sometimes regret breaking up with my ex and think that maybe I have lost my true love
Q. I was once engaged about seven years ago to wonderful handsome man who treated me like a princess. I broke off the engagment as I feel that i wasan't ready for marriage and I didn't feel that I loved him. After we broke up I found out that my ex ...
A. 20 April 2008: when two people are truely in love they dont cheat and they cant bear a minute without each other i dont think he was your true love. There is a guy out there for you a true love. Go out and have some fun live your life and you will find true love.... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend to return the sexual favors?
Q. OK it has been like forever since i came here but i'm back. alrite i'll try n make this as short and uncomplicated as i can. I have ben dating "Katie" for about two mnts now, i am also a female we both are 15 yrs old. i love her very dearly,...
A. 20 April 2008: hmm then i think all you can do is ease her into it at some point she will start doing it herself so stop stressing yourself overit.... (read in full...)
I think I'm a lesbian! Should I contact this girl?
Q. Hello everyone!, Ummm well this is kinda hard to say because im not sure if im right. I think I'm a lesbian. I have a boyfriend and I love him and stuff but sometimes when I see girls I feel physically attracted to them and yesterday I think I ...
A. 19 April 2008: only you can say for use if your a lesbian or not and there is nothing wrong with it so yea i think its ok o contact her just dont be too forward or pushy and be sure before you say anything about loveing her that you really do. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a break but I can't cope...
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going out about a month, i know its not too long but the connection between us is so strong. we've both been hurt before especially him who just broke up with his exgf. Its lasted about 1 year n 10 months she cheated ...
A. 19 April 2008: a break isnt always bad and you dont have to not see him just hang out with him like a friend and be there for him then when he is ready pick up where you left off cope by still being around him and hanging out a break just means taking a step back... (read in full...)
I never thought real love is so easy to get over?! In matters of days?
Q. Quick question- Can you be out of love in 3 days? Or was it most likely not love? I never thought real love would be so easy to get over. Thanks....
A. 19 April 2008: i really really doubt it was real love true love you cant get over it in days this is my 4th year since she died and im still not totally over it i never will be i have been with other people but i never going to be totally over it. It was true ... (read in full...)
Why do some men disrespect their voluntary promises, over again? How does a woman address this without coming across as hyper-sensitive??
Q. Hi this one is for the guys. This has been happening to me a lot lately and it's really starting to confuse and confound me. Here's my question -- why do men volunteer to do something specific and then not do it? Here is what I mean. One F...
A. 19 April 2008: i make it a point to always do what i say i will do. My point being were not all like that you have just had a lot of bad experiences i hope things change and you meet someone that does what they say they will ... (read in full...)
Why do some men disrespect their voluntary promises, over again? How does a woman address this without coming across as hyper-sensitive??
Q. Hi this one is for the guys. This has been happening to me a lot lately and it's really starting to confuse and confound me. Here's my question -- why do men volunteer to do something specific and then not do it? Here is what I mean. One F...
A. 19 April 2008: i am sorry to say your surrounded by bad guys. Not all guys are like that. Eg me a friend of mine was down at school so i offered to go get her some ice cream at break so i made a 30 minute journey in 15 mins runnin and got it her it made her feel ... (read in full...)
Now I like him but not allowed to see him
Q. Hey everyone, i had just recently wrote about a guy younger then me that i felt liked me..i had thought a lot about it and realized that if he asked me out i would say yes as i realized i do have feelings for him. last night was one of the nigh...
A. 19 April 2008: you need to talk to your brother and tell him how you feel and also talk to this guy and tell him how you feel be honest. If you like him then unless your brother has a good reason like the guy is a player then he shouldnt be stoping you. Good luck... (read in full...)
What are the signs that he likes me?
Q. ok so ive known this lad for just over a year now n i REALLY REALLY like him as a friend n recently felt much more for him! my feelings for him are really strong - im wondering if the feelings mutual? i mean, he texts me all the time, talks to me ...
A. 19 April 2008: its sounds like he does but no one can be sure i suggest you talk to him if you like him back and tell him how you feel. Good luck and pm me if you need more advice or need to talk. Rock on ... (read in full...)
How can I learn how to orgasm? Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I have read the other questions related to this on the website but I am still slightly confused. Does a woman have to learn how to orgasm? I am 17 and have never experienced an orgasm, and I'm worried there is something wrong. Other girls I sp...
A. 19 April 2008: well you dont learn how to orgasm its something that happens when you'RE stimulated enough however some girls don't stimulate themselves correctly to reach maximum pleasure i recommend doing some research into it also a vibrator might help. Good ... (read in full...)
It's hard to be friends because we weren't friends prior to dating, now he acts as if we never even had a relationship!
Q. I have been boyfriend trouble. me and my boyfriend of 4 months broke up. i am very hurt since this happened tuesday, I know that us being 14 and all you cant really say it was love but We honestly were in love. now its gone. He acts now as if ...
A. 19 April 2008: hey i know its hard getting over someone and when its real love you never totally do but you have to try and move on try your best to be friends i think you should go out with some friends an have some fun get your life going again. ... (read in full...)
How can somebody be a part of your life, tell you they love you and won't hurt you, then do the contrary?
Q. It's been 6 weeks and i still think she's gonna call in the back of my mind. I dont' know what to do i constantly think of her people said give it time I have given it time and it still hurts everywhere i go i think about her I go to the clubs and ...
A. 19 April 2008: sounds like you loved her a lot but youre going to have to try and move on with your life. I know its hard i recommend going out with some mates have some fun and get rid of the things in your house that remind you of her ie gifts. Im here if ya ... (read in full...)
People have a big problem with our age difference, how can we solve this?
Q. i am 43 and she is 18 but we really like each other we have a lot of fun but her parents and other people have a thing about our age difference how do i solve this...
A. 19 April 2008: if your both happy then it shouldnt matter what people think you cant force them to feel any differently so why not just carry on with your lifes together and be happy. ... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend to return the sexual favors?
Q. OK it has been like forever since i came here but i'm back. alrite i'll try n make this as short and uncomplicated as i can. I have ben dating "Katie" for about two mnts now, i am also a female we both are 15 yrs old. i love her very dearly,...
A. 19 April 2008: its ok to be scared but you will have to talk to her sooner or later just try to relax and dont sound too pushy like your trying to force her just be casual about it and bring it up perhaps after your done with her a simple now you do me would help.... (read in full...)
Harmless flirting or does he like me
Q. im confused over whether this lad likes me or not. well me n this lad have been friends for around 14 months now n we get on REALLY well. about 4 months ago he asked for my number so i gave it him n weve been texting almost everyday ever since. he ...
A. 18 April 2008: well its hard for any of us to say for sure but it does sound like he likes you in that way and if you like him back talk to him about it. I hope things go well and im here if you need to talk. ... (read in full...)
In a long distance relation, how to cope with the distance at our young age?
Q. i have a boyfrined and (yes i know i am young for my age to have a bf) but the distance is killing im in (i am going to use other states not my or my bf's actual state) new york and he is all the way in florida the distance is killing us what should ...
A. 18 April 2008: well long distance is always hard age has no say in it, its a real test of love i was very mature at 12 i loved and lost so i know its possible to love. You just have to try your best. I hope you know this person though dont rush yourself. Good luck... (read in full...)
Help please for the sake of my baby, my life is such a mess!
Q. my life is in real mess now. i fell in love wid another guy while bein married. i disclosed dis to my husband and wanted to seperate from him. but he insisted on staying together adue to his conservative family background. v stopped all physical ...
A. 18 April 2008: i always back the side of love so go with the one you love more that sounds like your boyfriend. I would let your husband visit now and then the kid will most likely just think of him as an uncle. That way everyone is happy. Its tough though good ... (read in full...)
How do I go about kissing my bf of 5 months?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, and i want to kiss him, but i dont know how and i dont want to feel like an idiot. Any sugestions?...
A. 18 April 2008: Only kiss when your comfortable the moment will come when the mood is right its normaly at the end of the date (first kiss) just lean in half way and he should lean in the other half and kiss. After that you will be kissing most of the time.
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What can I do knowing that she's out there with some guy being all happy?
Q. Hi All, my ex gf of 2 years broke up with me about 2 months ago saying that she didnt have *them* feelings for me anymore. We had a hard last few months of both of us not really being interested, and making little effort. I guess I knew it was ...
A. 18 April 2008: move on man if she has moved on and is happy then you should move on too and be happy. Its not easy i know but try your best to take your mind off her. There is not a lot that you can do besides move on with your life. ... (read in full...)
How do I get my girlfriend to return the sexual favors?
Q. OK it has been like forever since i came here but i'm back. alrite i'll try n make this as short and uncomplicated as i can. I have ben dating "Katie" for about two mnts now, i am also a female we both are 15 yrs old. i love her very dearly,...
A. 17 April 2008: i dont think your too young i was active 4 years ago and im only 16. I would just talk to her about it its the simplst and direct way of dealing with it. Just be honest and explain your not pressuring her etc girls are usually very understanding in ... (read in full...)
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