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Should I spend more time with him to see if I like him?
Q. i am a bit stuck, recently i found out thos lad liked me we went on a date although i wasnt sure if i liked him in the same way, i thought this might be the opportunity to get to know him more and stuff as i dont really fancy him physically( not ...
A. 15 April 2008: i normally like to be sure if i like someone befor i ask them out. You should hang out with him some more and if that fails explain to him how you feel and that your unsure of how you feel about him and you dont know what to do and take it from ... (read in full...)
A one night stand - should I give him a call?
Q. I recently had a one night stand with a man I met at a bar. We were both very drunk. To be quite honest he didn't even know my name until we were finished and I told him what it was. We didn't exchange numbers. Just as I left he said 'call me ...
A. 15 April 2008: i think the answer to your question is in the title. A one night stand. I dont think he actualy expects a phonecall from you. It could be a big mistake. A one night stand is normaly based on looks and how drunk you are. I would just move on. ... (read in full...)
This isn't a question, I just wanted to update you all! Any comments would be good though :)
Q. i think i finally got it! well i saw him today after school, holding hands with some chick,and i really think im finally done, i think i can finally get over him!!!mabey i can finally move on!i felt so sufficated even though we werent...
A. 15 April 2008: good for you best of luck to you in finding someone that treats you properly. ... (read in full...)
How do I give her the strength to be strong and take the step forward?
Q. I am a single man with grown up children of my own. I have been having an affair with a woman at work for the past 2 years. She is in an unhappy marriage due to her husbands infidelity and has 2 teenage children. She wants to leave but is stru...
A. 15 April 2008: if you in any way pressure her into taking the step its not her making the choice its you. Give her some space but be there for her let her choose what to do next. Its a hard thing so advice her to talk to someone she trust about it or anonymously. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that he will expect to have sex with me, and I'm not ready.
Q. I am dating this guy that i really like, but he is four years older than me. I'm not sure that the age difference should be a problem, but i'm worried that he will expect me to have sex with him. When i was younger, i was raped by my cousin, and ...
A. 15 April 2008: Just tell him the truth. He should respect your feelings and not force you or put any pressure you. You dont have to go into detail but it might help him understand your feelings only do that if your comfortable with telling him tho. Pm me if ya ... (read in full...)
One minute he is talking long-term for us and the next he's not interested...what's going on?
Q. Hi, I'm so miserable, i've been with my guy for just over a month, we both agree that this is a serious long term relationship obviously feelings and circumstances considered. But i dunno i'm gettin mixed signals! One minute he talks about our ...
A. 15 April 2008: well no one is perfect so dont try to be. If its exam time then it could be stress getting to him. If you both agree its long term thats good so just talk to him about the way you feel and it should work out. Best of luck and pm me if ya need advice ... (read in full...)
I am afraid I will not be able to make a woman happy. I don't just mean sex, I mean in all aspects of life.
Q. Heh can't believe I will ask this but anyway... I'm a 22 year old guy who has never had sex, now big thing I fear is that a women I do find that I like I wont know how to really make them happy and I don't mean just in bed. I don't really care abou...
A. 15 April 2008: you sound like a good person and you have a great heart. You will have no problem making someone happy as long as your there for them and try to be empathtc to there feeling in other words lots of communication.if ya need some tips just pm me k. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend contacted his ex for confort when his friend died and now I am questioning whether to stay in the relationship
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years, living with eachother for nearly one. When we started dating him and his ex had only been broken up for about a month or two months tops. In the beginning of the relationship she constantly ...
A. 15 April 2008: if she knows the person that died and has been through it befor he might be telling the truth instead of worrying about it you should be there for him and be happy he is finding comfort as long as he aint having sex etc with her it shouldnt bother ... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to orgasm?
Q. Whats the best way to make my GF orgasm ive got her close but shes never actully orgasmed please help?...
A. 15 April 2008: well fist off try lasting longer its possible withthe right breathing exercises seriously and more attention to the clit. Women can fake orgasm but look for a redness in the chest to be sure they cant fake that. Oh and they will look flushed.... (read in full...)
Do men know they are treating you badly?
Q. Do men know they are treating you badly? I have a feeling they do. For example the bf wouldn't call me for days and then call and act like nothing was wrong and I would start to pull away so then he would suddenly start doing the right things aga...
A. 15 April 2008: im a guy and i say yes and no some guys are blind to what they do and others just act like retards and then thers the good ones that will treat you well. If they no or not is not the point if they treat you bad there not worth your time. Go for the ... (read in full...)
I need him to break up with me, and keep my secret!
Q. hi everyone hen i first talked to my boyfirnd it was great but i lied to him about my past and he got upset so things went bad between us , since then we've been having fights every day and everytime we have a fight he curses at me , threaten...
A. 15 April 2008: i think you should leave him he is trying to controll you it can only get worse and seriously i think u would most likely get married with someone not from your village(assuming its smallish) + if you do get married the person will find out at some ... (read in full...)
What is the easiest way to let down a friend that wants to be more?
Q. What is the easiest way to let down a friend that wants to be more? I have a friend that I get on well with but am not really really close to me, recently he's been keener and keener about doing things with me(just hanging out and stuff) and texts ...
A. 15 April 2008: well just talk to him and be honest let him know what you think and that you cant be anything more with him. Honestly there is no easy way to let people down because no matter what they get hurt but if your honest,nice and understandin it will work ... (read in full...)
I am getting tired of waiting for him to see that I am there for him, to notice that I have let him absorb my identity and my everything! It's confusing, what can I do?
Q. I've been in this relationship for past three years and it been wonderful but at the same time it has given me so much of sorrow that i feel like killing myself at times. I love this guy. For me it was love at first sight and he openly admits th...
A. 14 April 2008: i think that he does have an obsession with his ex and that he has feelings for her which are effecting his decision you need to ether try and get him to take profecienl help or make him choose its ether make the final commitment to you or not
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I'm feeling stressed because I feel I need to act like a step-parent to my boyfriend's daughter!
Q. How can I tell my boyfriend I'm very stressed when his daughter (age 7)comes over and stay with us. It's partly my problem because I want to make sure the little girl isn't hungry, she is not bored, and she likes me. My boyfriend tells me it's not ...
A. 14 April 2008: well i think instead of thinking of her as a stepdaughter start thinking of her as a friend dont put pressure on yourself. You could become something really special to this girl. Its tough what youre doing but sooner or later it will become easier. ... (read in full...)
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