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We really click, but he doesn't 'do' relationships

Q.   I am really good friends with a guy I used to work with. We speak loads during the week and get along really well when we are together. Previously we have kissed and most recently we had sex! Which has been on the cards after months of flirti...

A.   15 July 2009: Firstly I never said I wanted a committed relationship but by the announcement that he has never previously been committed it sends alarm bells as what his real problem is. At some point do men in there late 20s not even want to try something that ... (read in full...)

How can I get my online GF to lose weight?

Q.   I'm 13, I have a 12 year old girlfriend. She's wonderful. I love her very very much. The strange thing is she's a bit (not a lot), a bit overweight. I'm not a shallow boy that'll dump her because of this, but is there any way I could get her to lose ...

A.   14 July 2009: Firstly if this an Internet relationship why do u care what she weights and secondly this girl is probably going to hit puberty soon and grow into her body by mentioning this to her he could develop bad body attitude or worse an eating disorder. ... (read in full...)

It took me all night to get the truth out of him and now I'm wondering if there's more!

Q.   Fiance came home an hour late from work.He told me he had to work late. I didn't believe him and questioned him all night. THe next day he told me a co-worker just broke up with bf and didn't have anyone to talk to so he stayed late to talk to her ...

A.   14 July 2009: I can totally understand your reaction, I would be exactly the same. You know your relationship best so without giving advice I'm going to ask you one question and answer it as you will. Is there something in your past as a couple or his past wit... (read in full...)

I'm too old for this, I thought?!

Q.   Lately whenever i watch a sexy scene on tv or a cute guy i get a funny feeling inside my stomach. Now when i dream and fantasise in bed i'm starting to leak pee. I woke up after a sexy dream and my panties were damp,i'm going to a sleep over and i...

A.   14 July 2009: What you may be experencing isn't urine, it is the secretions from your vagina due to excitment from your dream. What you could be experiencing is the onset of the next stage of puberty. If you have a parent or older adult you can trust you should ... (read in full...)

What are these?

Q.   I got a bump on the edge inside my outter lip of my vagina and im not sure what it was. i squeezed it and stuff came out and it went away. kinda like acne. well i just got two more like by the crack of my thigh and where my vag lip starts ones ...

A.   14 July 2009: If you shave or use a hair removal cream it could be an ingrown hair. Whch hopefully it is, otherwise it maybe an STD. As opposed to going to ur doc, why not try a well woman clinic where they specialise in dealing with these issues and te ... (read in full...)

Am I pushing him away by texting too much?

Q.   my boyfriend and i r kinda havin problems. we havnt been talkin that much and i havnt really seen him that much. is it possible that i hav been pushing him away the more i text him? should i just not try to text him?...

A.   14 July 2009: From experience can I say that no matter how much you text it doesn't make a difference to the problems you are having in the relationship. The only thing that do is distract and cover up the problems, and give men an easy way out by sayin you are ... (read in full...)

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and half months and we already had sex.

Q.   if i am on the shot and he cums in me more than once and one time the day before i get the shot is it possible that i could be pregnate?? he tells me that i am the first girl that he has never used a condum with me and that he wants me to have his ...

A.   16 April 2008: Stop having sex, you are far too young. I couldn't understand why you would want to waste your teenage years by having a baby. You are still a baby yourself. The fact of the matter here is that if you are asking all these questions about birth ... (read in full...)

He has jokinly told his wife (who doesn't wish to have children) he will have them with or without her!! He also said he'd leave her if I were to fall pregnant?! Any ideas?

Q.   i have only recently started dating a married man i met in a social circle of friends at a sporting event . we have so much in common and were attracted to each other instantly ... a week after our meet he traveled over to see me and stayed the ...

A.   16 April 2008: This man is married.......... end of story in my opinion. Just because he is not happy with his wife does not mean that he would be any happier with you. When it comes down to it, once a cheater always a cheater... You deserve to have someone who ... (read in full...)

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