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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago, after which I found out he lied and cheated on me the whole time we were together (two and a half years). I get that he definitely did not love me. But why would he be so cruel to fake a relationship? Especially when he complained about me to his friends? I keep thinking about what stuff he must've said about me- even though I know it doesn't matter and I shouldn't care. Another thing I don't understand is how a person like him has so many friends. He's so pretentious with absolutely everyone- being who he thinks they want him to be. Also, if you found out one of your friends had behaved the way he did, what would be your reaction?
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reader, salvation  +, writes (16 April 2008):
sadly because were human we have ability to be cruel but were not all bad i would just try your best to forget about him and move on he aint worth your time or tears
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): Thank you q1605. Maybe your answer should help me see that he was a horrible person, period. But it's difficult forgiving yourself for trusting someone so completely, thinking things would be different with you. I thought a person who is nearly 30 would be more responsible, more emotionally mature- clearly, I was very wrong!
Thank you again. Maybe the book will help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008): I recon thet all his friends know what hes like and probably turn a blind eye to it because hes a friend, but sooner or later they will wake up and drop him like a safe. Ive recently come out of a relationship like that and I know that it hurts like hell to imagine what hes said but remember that his friends must have a pretty good idea about what hes like and have taken his comments with a pinch of salt. If he was my friend id want to stay out of the situation
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