I'm male and 19 and I masturbate 2 times a day. Is this too much?
Q. I'm a 19 year old boy who is single. I masturbate once or twice a day (sometimes I don't) but is that too much especially at 19?...
A. 13 April 2007: not at all, it just means your very sexually active, and thats a good thing. So enjoy yourself :)... (read in full...)
Any tips to pleasure my man with boobs!!
Q. what is the best way to..ahem..pleasure my boyfriend with my breasts. i'm a 30DD,,,want to know positions, tips etc. thanks (dont give me any weird links, dont trust these random sites)...
A. 13 April 2007: i am a size E, and my ex used to love it all the time when i was on top and he could play with them anyway he wanted, also the feel of breasts against a mans skin is supposed to be a huge turn on but one that i will never forget it......well they ... (read in full...)
Am I being sensitive over this remark he made to me, I feel as though hes referring to my class?
Q. i was in the car with my b/f and truck was by us delivering this beer and i did not know the name..i said it to him that i never heard of it. He looked at me and laughed at little--it didnt look like in a mean way or anything..almost like i was ...
A. 13 April 2007: your being sensitive hun, my ex used to do it ALL the time with me becoz i am a right clutz at times. There was always somethign i didnt understand and he`d shake his head and go 'its a shame' and laugh, but i didnt think anyhting of it. Dont worry ... (read in full...)
Im dating my mums bf's son, Is this allowed ?
Q. Hi i am dating my mum's bf's son. Everyone knows about it, I would just like to know if this is ok to do? please reply thankyou...
A. 13 April 2007: This is perfectly fine as you are both not blood related but i understand how it can look a little awkward but no dont worry about it theres nothing wrong with it.
hope this helps x... (read in full...)
Bf's friend is reducing my time with him. How can I tell him this?
Q. Hi i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 months now. It's a very serious relationship and I love spending time with him. The first month we were dating we were together all the time doing everything, having fun. He has a friend who never goes ...
A. 13 April 2007: hang on for a little while and lets just see if your boyfriend really did let it sink in a little about how serious you are and maybe he`ll have a tlak with nick himself. But if nothing happens or changes then i think you should talk to nick, even ... (read in full...)
Am I justified in getting angry that my bf looks at porn on the internet ?
Q. my boyfriend likes watching porn on the internet.this upsets me.Am i justified in getting angry or is he just a pervert.?...
A. 13 April 2007: Any man in this world that has a computer will have looked and watched porn. You should just let him watch it and leave him be, its not harming you anyway, minus emotionally which is shouldnt do because there is no harm in watching porn, its just ... (read in full...)
Shes says I'm too big for sex!! How can we get over this!?
Q. hi im 18 and have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. evrythign is great but she doesnt like having sex because she says im to big wich at 12 inches im kinda going along with, is there anything i can do to help and wot can we try to make it more ...
A. 13 April 2007: There are lots of positions you can try for those who are 'well hung'. Go slow with her, dont push yourself too deep into her and ask her to take control so that its comfortable for her. But have a look at the hundreds of positions you can try and ... (read in full...)
I cant date until im 16 and Im 14 now, there is a guy I like but hes never asked me out, could he be a little interested ?
Q. I'm almost 14 and theres this guy i like a lot ive liked him for almost two years and I'm not allowed to date until I'm 16 but i cant stop thinking about him he used to ask the girls he liked out all the time but he hasn't asked me is there even a ...
A. 13 April 2007: even though you have strict rules on not dating until your at a certain age, doesnt mean you cant get to know a person you like. If your interested in him but dont know how he feels then go and make friends with him. What have you got to lose?
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Whats the most subtle way to clean up semen after we have engaged in intercourse ?
Q. Hi, just a quick question...i was wondering if say you sleep with a girl on the 1st night of meeting her or after a couple of dates and we don't use a condom, what is the most suttlest way of after having sex and ejaculated in her to like clean it ...
A. 13 April 2007: After sex make sure you have a small towel ready, doesnt matter what it is as long as you get it cleaned up. pass her the towel and let her clean herself off and then you clean yourself off but one thing to keep in mind let her keep the towel ... (read in full...)
I HATE my boyfriend's best friend!
Q. Please help I HATE my boyfriend's best friend! We never got on from the start because he told my boyfriend he could do better and that I was fat and ugly. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years but me not getting on with his friend is ...
A. 13 April 2007: i wouldnt give him an ultimatum, but id damn well get my point across that i wasnt happy. You need to have serious talks with him if this 'friend' has tried to ruin your engagment party. Id ask him what he wants, and then tell him what you want. ... (read in full...)
I've lined up two dates, Fri and Sat, I'm not a dishonest person, so what should I do if I like both of them!!!
Q. Hi I've met two lovely ladies on a dating site at the same time and have a date with both one friday the other saturday, the problem is i'm very honest and don't like cheating as that is what my wife did to me. What do I do if I like both and they ...
A. 13 April 2007: a date is not a comitment, when you go on a date you are wanting to get to know the person in more detail, as in where she likes to go, if she likes to go out for fun and it gives you a great opportunity to talk and find things out about one ... (read in full...)
Should I mind him meeting up with his ex as friends or not?
Q. hi im really confused my boyfriend sent me this... --------------------------------------------------- me n jas r jus m8s nw, im goin2 meet her on sataday as MATES. nufn mor. k i fink ul dump me afta readin dis email. if so den b4 u do, al i...
A. 13 April 2007: I think your being very sensible about all this, i know that if i recieved an email like that id be furious, but im liking the way you think. and i like maria 14r`s idea about asking to meet with her aswell, its a brilliant idea because it will show ... (read in full...)
Is it always the case that once a man has been married, hes reluctant to do it again ?
Q. Is it always the case that if a man has been married before that he won't want to do it all again? They old been there done that situation? I've been with a guy now for nearly 2 years and i'm worried he won't ever. We've discussed it and he seems ...
A. 13 April 2007: yes a majority of the men that have already experienced married life and failed at it dont really want to do it all again. its hard work getting married, its binding two lives into one and its a huge step. So if he feels reluctant to get married ... (read in full...)
How do you get over regret in life and be positve and not think about the past??
Q. how do you get over regret in life n be positve n not think about the past??...
A. 13 April 2007: well it depends whats your trying to get over, a bad break up? a death?
but id say the best way to be positive is to get involved in positive activities, such as going out with friends and enjoying yourself, spending time with the family you have... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be thinking about marrying this woman someday?
Q. I have only been with my girlfriend for 10 months... and we are young. I have never met someone like her... as I am not your ordinary run-of-the-mill person.... in otherwords, I'm a little quirky. I've had my past relationships... but this one is ...
A. 12 April 2007: your never too young to do anything, you only get one crack at life so i say take it head on, but as long as your confident and know what your doing. marriage is a big step in life and its not something you do when ur unsure. if you truly want to be ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a person to carry other people with him to reach same emotional/spiritual level in life?
Q. Is it possible for a guy to take his partner(a girl) to the same heights that he may reach in his life? or viceversa? Broadly speaking, is it possible for a person to carry other people with him to reach same emotional/spiritual level in life?...
A. 12 April 2007: im not sure as to what your meaning here.....you need to explain this in a little more detail.... (read in full...)
Should I ask a guy out on a date OR go with the theory if he really likes me he will go out of his way to make contact?
Q. Help!! Should I ask a guy out on a date OR go with the theory if he really likes me he will go out of his way to make contact? I know all about women's lib and all that but isn't it true that if guy really likes a women he will make a move?? Thanks...
A. 12 April 2007: no, alot of guys are shy, because they hold so much pride theyd rather the ladies ask them out. if you know youve got a good chance of him accepting your offer for a date then go for it, but if not why not get to know him more and become friends and ... (read in full...)
My husband's lack of interest in sex is wrecking our marriage! What should we do?
Q. my husband has no interest in sex at all and i want it,he says he doesnt no why he isnt interested but im getting fed up and its spoiling our marraige what shall we do...
A. 12 April 2007: dress up sexy for him, give it all a bit of spice, grab his attention with some hot new sexy underwear! ask him what you can do to turn him on. but if that doesnt work then id have a serious talk with him and tell him its ruining your marriage and ... (read in full...)
Is this guy really into me or is he just wasting my time?
Q. hi i'm just wondering if this guy is even into me or not or am i just wasting my time.he calls and talks to me all time but i have only seen him once in a month and the two other times i was supposed to see him it did not happen the problem is i'm ...
A. 12 April 2007: did you go out on a date when you met him? ask him were you stand, or tell him how you feel. you`ll never know anything unless you ask.
hope this helps x... (read in full...)
Falling in love with my sugar daddy! Do I tell him and risk losing him forever?
Q. So I came across this sugar daddy site [website blanked in case this is spam] a few months ago and out of curiosity I joined. I had a good laugh at it at first, but then I thought ... since I'm single ... it may not be so bad finding a Sugar Daddy ...
A. 12 April 2007: ohhh thats hit the rocks, but if he isnt married then i dont see a problem in telling him. Tell him how you feel and he may even feel the same way. but like the others have said if hes married i wouldnt even go there.
hope this helps x... (read in full...)
Sister has slept with my husband, in the past. Should I allow them to work together alone?
Q. ive been married to my husband for 14yrs. im 34 yrs old i have 3 children. my husband and sister have slept together in the past and i think it might of been more than once. ive never really forgave them for that. i own a store and my sister needs a ...
A. 12 April 2007: give her the job so then your not seen as doing it out of spite and causing arguments within the family BUT what you can do is give her the job and fit as many cctv cameras all over the place and keep them on at all times! that way you can hear ... (read in full...)
How do I convince my shy wife to try a threesome?
Q. I am trying to get my wife to try a threesome. She is a little shy. How can i convince my wife to try it?...
A. 12 April 2007: if she doesnt want to do it then dont, you shouldnt be wanting to convince your wife to do such sexual acts. if she had said yes then you would have known there and then that she was curious abotu it all and wanted to participate but obviously with ... (read in full...)
My gay partner is wanting me to quit the job I love! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to quit my job to stay at home. I don't want to quit my job so please any advice? I'm a 20 year old man and I've been with a 33 year old man for almost 3 years now. I've known him for about 5 years though. He's a really ni...
A. 12 April 2007: you should do what you thinks best,and this man is being selfish. you should tell him that you love your job and he should be happy with it, period. no arguing because then he`d be wanting to take something you love away from you. i agree with the ... (read in full...)
Any tips for an anniversary present?
Q. hello. i have a question and im sorry it is too long, i may only be 16 but i have been with my boyfriend now for 8 years. silly i know but we fell in love at 7 years old. on my 14th birthday i lost my virginity to him as i really did love him a ...
A. 12 April 2007: not much you can do at 16 years old, im guessing you dont have much money so a hotel is out of the question, and why you would want to splash out on so much when ur so young. but theres only a few things you can do, and guys dont really like to be ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to trust him?
Q. Hi, i've only been wth my boyfriend 4 months but i really love him and he tells me he loves me, but i can't sem 2 trust him. I really want to as he is now talking about ending things which i do not want, and i wanna change. Every man i've been ith ...
A. 12 April 2007: he doesnt sound very committed, if he really was he`d show you how much you can trust him by being there for you, not wanting to end things. i wouldnt wanna trust a man that wanted to end things when times got tough. you really need to think hard ... (read in full...)
Bf's friend is reducing my time with him. How can I tell him this?
Q. Hi i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 months now. It's a very serious relationship and I love spending time with him. The first month we were dating we were together all the time doing everything, having fun. He has a friend who never goes ...
A. 12 April 2007: take him out somewhere, tell him you wanna go to the cinema, go for a walk, go for lunch and then spend as much time as you want with him then, and when you go home and nick is still there go in a different room. but i dont think it will work puttin ... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem to have gotten over his ex. What can I do?
Q. My current b/f went through a bad breakup five years ago with a woman. She took him to the cleaners financially and emotionally and it him more than 2 years to get his life back in order. When we started seeing each other, we took it slow, but then ...
A. 12 April 2007: my ex bf of three years still now has pictures of his ex, and his ex ex, and his ex ex ex. hes got em all way back to when he got his first girlfriend and i asked him about this and he just said they were memories. i didnt delve further into it but ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, he's thirty. Would we be illegal?
Q. I'm 17, he's thirty. Would we be illegal? This is completely hypothetical, by the way, lol. And just what exactly is sex in the sense of age of consent, because this is a foggy area to me. I know I'm legal for guys my age, but what about guys over ...
A. 11 April 2007: hes legal, your legal, have fun! ... (read in full...)
Does this happen to all inter-racial relationships ? I really dont want my Bf to hate my parents and vice versa!
Q. My boyfriend is British and I’m Chinese. We both live in Canada. We have been dating for 1.5 years and are very serious about each other. His parents love me and even want us to get married soon. On the other hand, my parents are cool (literally) ...
A. 11 April 2007: i can understand where your coming from, and were your parents are coming from. ive been brought up to think that its only right to date and marry a man of my own religion and culture. So you have to respect your parents beliefs as they will have ... (read in full...)
My brother is protective of me, but I fancy his friend, last time his friendship suffered! What should do ?
Q. I can't get my brothers friend out of my head! wot can i do? my brother is really protective over me, plus i've already been out with one of his friends and it got serious so their friendship suffered and i don't think he would want that to hap...
A. 11 April 2007: you should find out if hes got a girlfriend, and most importantly if he has any interest in you. and i dont mean just blatantly ask him, get to know him to see what hes really like, you neva know you might be disappointed. but if hes already got a ... (read in full...)
Im 16 hes 40, I cant imagine life without him so how do I get him ot marry me ?
Q. I wrote yesterday "So many boys want to date me but I reject them all for my married neighbor who is 40! I'm 16. He is married but only see his family twice a mth over weekends coz they are overseas. We have been seeing each other almost daily for ...
A. 11 April 2007: you cant make anyone marry you. leave him alone, find somebody else and somebody who will love you and not some other woman at the same time. married men are out of bounds, and i dont know what country your from but its illegal over here from ... (read in full...)
Its my ex's fault that I got run down by my gf, I want to get my ex for GBH, but they will see it as my GF's fault!!?
Q. i typed a question about being ran down by my gf. i have a cousin who looks just like me this is what i thogut it was you know, mistaken identity. but it turned out her freind told her that she saw me leave a woman's house, this is where it gets ...
A. 11 April 2007: you cant do anything, seriously because your ex didnt force your gf to do anything, your gf is still obviously a psycho for running you down. you shouldnt be with a woman life that! if ur ex told ur gf then why wudnt (if ur gf had any ounce of ... (read in full...)
I'm confused I only see my bf once a week as hes always busy, but he is dead romantic! Am I being selfish ?
Q. I am confussed i never see my boyfriend only once a week because he is always busy playing footy or going to see his dad...and he puts me last all the time but he is a ded romantic person and shows alot of care ..i want to see him more am i being ...
A. 11 April 2007: hes the one being very selfish, he sounds like my ex, only fittin me into his busy schedule when he wanted to but when i saw him he was all butterin me up n all but no way after 3 years of that i couldnt carry on and thats the way ur headed if you ... (read in full...)
Does sex harm your baby ? And do men get stretchmarks ?
Q. i have actually got 2 questions:: does it damage ababy if you have sex while you are pregnant?? because i am pregnant but my bf wants us t still have sex and.. do men get strechmarks?? might seem silly i jus wondering ...
A. 11 April 2007: im not 100% sure about it harming the baby but i just know that you can have sex whilst pregnant. i wouldnt think it was a good diea if you were heavily pregnant but i just know you can have sex whilst pregnant.
and yes men do get stretch marks, y... (read in full...)
What if I fall in to these lonely lust traps and never in love, am I doomed, should I leave relationships alone for a few years ?
Q. Am I unfit for relationships? I posted on this site a couple of months ago about a relationship in trouble which ended shortly after. It was painful but I was sure it was the right thing to do. Since then I've been trying to get on with things (I've ...
A. 11 April 2007: it takes time to fall in love with someone, and the lust is what brings people together. dont worry youll find someone soon, and you know what they say 'good things come to those who wait'.go out with your friends and get yourself out there and ... (read in full...)
I've only JUST passed my driving test but my girlfriend talks as if I've been driving for years!
Q. I have recently passed my driving test! wooohooo! And have been out every day driving since I passed. Now my girlfriend thinks I'm really good at driving. I haven't been really far yet and have stayed local to get used to my new car. However s...
A. 10 April 2007: tell her to go and pass her test and take you on the motorway. and i like wat dr psych said about dropping her off at the train station, ha thats a good one! but im glad that your not one of these drivers that will do anything just to show off, its ... (read in full...)
I want him to actually take me out somewhere, like a date? Should I ask him?
Q. Well Ive Been with this guy for 6 months now, i really love him and i always see him and go to his house. all we do it kiss, and do other stuff. we havent had sex yet. But we dont do anything else, can he take me out or something?? we're always in ...
A. 10 April 2007: go for it, say to him 'since its such a ncie day i was thinking maybe we could get out somewhere' and then if he says yeah you can cheer up and both pick a place were you want to go, if he says no then tell him your not happy with staying in his ... (read in full...)
Do you bleed the first time?
Q. I'm a virgin and what i'd like to know is if you definetly bleed the first time you have sex? And also if you bleed still when you've broke your virginity? Thanks...
A. 10 April 2007: i used to think that when you had sex for the first time the blood would come gushing out, but i was so relieved when all there was was a trickle of blood. The tiniest smigiest blotch of blood. There isnt much and its really nothing to worry about. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has absolutely no confidence and is always putting herself down.
Q. hey. me and my girlfriend have been going out now for 3 and a half months. i really like her in fact i think i love her. im 17 and shes only 14 but we both say age doesnt matter. i am not pushing her into anything. we have had sex twice but i dont ...
A. 10 April 2007: when i was young i went through a stage of depression where i was constantly down and felt like the ugliest person alive. but when i found a boyfriend i grew in confidence until finally i dont give a blue monkeys a** as to what others think. It was ... (read in full...)
Life with his ex-wife changed him and it causes me upset! Is this fair to me and is there anything I can do?
Q. I had a causal talk with my boyfriend yesterday. We are in a serious relationship and are planning to buy a house and move in together some time this year. We talked about how men are annoyed at women when they complain about the slightest things, ...
A. 10 April 2007: yeah firstly you can tell him to get out of his 'typical man' state and see you for the woman you are and not see you as another 'annoying wife'. seems to me that this woman has tried to change him and he has relaised it with being with a laid back ... (read in full...)
I think I had sex, but Im not sure, Im worried that Im pregnant!!
Q. i dont know if im pregnant!! but im reallyy scared after reading all these stories. i think i had sex but im not sure! if u have sex can u feel the penis go inside of u??.. i dont think it went inside but im not too sure. we didnt even use a condom. ...
A. 4 April 2007: to ease ur mind go to ur doctor/nurse and they will give you all the help you need and it will all be done confidentially. if the guy didnt come inside of you or wasnt inside of you for long then there is a good chance u wont be pregnant, but the ... (read in full...)
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