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writes:ive been married to my husband for 14yrs. im 34 yrs old i have 3 children. my husband and sister have slept together in the past and i think it might of been more than once. ive never really forgave them for that. i own a store and my sister needs a job she has 3 kids and one on the way she is also married but it dont bother her to still sleep around. the store i own is a little country store and me or my husband one is always there. now if i give her a job i know she will be by herself with my husband. and i dont know if i can trust them together. my husband said i can trust him that even if she makes a move on him he would tell me . but for some reason i dont believe him. what should i do ?
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS  +, writes (12 April 2007):
 give her the job so then your not seen as doing it out of spite and causing arguments within the family BUT what you can do is give her the job and fit as many cctv cameras all over the place and keep them on at all times! that way you can hear whats being said and what there doing. you need to be smart in this one!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 April 2007):
 I'd tell her get a job somewhere else, what they did to you is absolutely horrible. You don't owe her a thing, she's damn lucky you're speaking to her. I wouldn't leave them alone for a second no matter what either one says.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): Difficult one.You obviously dont trust your sister and there is history.Guess it comes down to how much you trust your husband.If there is no trust - i kinda feel wots the point anyway, but not that easy when family/children involved to take that approach.I guess if he goin be unfaithful he will anyway, but might be better not to wave temptation in his face. Good luck
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