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writes:hi im really confused my boyfriend sent me this...---------------------------------------------------me n jas r jus m8s nw, im goin2 meet her on sataday as MATES. nufn mor. k i fink ul dump me afta readin dis email. if so den b4 u do, al i gota say is dat i onli ave feelns 4 u NO ONE ELSE, jus u. xXx----------------------------------------------------well basically hes gonna go link his ex as a friend tho, i dont know wether i should mind or what... i got to admit i am a bit jealous but i think that's not right. hes a lady's guy so he has a lot of girl mates but i dont mind that because hes friends with them on a level, so should i mind him meeting his ex or not?
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reader, elsie +, writes (16 April 2007):
 i think it wrong that he wants to meet up with her.sending you a text was a bit cowardly dont you think?especially as he thought you might even finish with him over it?hes got the cheek to meet her in the 1st place then cowers out of explaining himself too.if hes willing to let you go over meeting an ex that is just his 'friend'then id have serious doubt.sounds sneaky to me.he probably just hedging his bets.
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reader, PoSiOnKiSS +, writes (13 April 2007):
 I think your being very sensible about all this, i know that if i recieved an email like that id be furious, but im liking the way you think. and i like maria 14r`s idea about asking to meet with her aswell, its a brilliant idea because it will show how he really feels about you (confident enough to introduce you to his ex) and whether his ex wants it or not if your bf is going to hang out her you want to get to know what kind of person she is like. if he doesnt want you to meet her then something is definatly going on here, why would they want you to stay out of there shadow? ask him if you can meet her first, if he says no then id be very suspicious.
good luck and hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks!!! wikid advice!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (12 April 2007):
 I would call your boyfriend's bluff here and tell him you don't mind him meeting up with her. Tell him you trust him enough and know he wouldn't do the dirty on as you would never do it to him, as long as it doesn't become a habit.
You could maybe add that you have actually been asked out as friends with YOUR ex and said no but you might actually reconsider. Even if this isn't true, it will certainly make him think. ;o)
Eve
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reader, maria14r  +, writes (12 April 2007):
if he lets you meet her then no you shouldnt mind but if he tries to hide her from you or anything then yes you should mind. my boyfriend let me meet his ex when i told him that i didnt want him talking to her anymore. she seemd pretty nice. exes can always become friends at the end.
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