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Hi guys, I really hope I can help you. I have had a lot of hardships in my life, from being bullied for several years, to being beaten by my mother and brother, to My ex cheating on me several times. I have had depression, suicidal tendancies and many other tough experiances to name but a few. Im only 28 years old, but I have an old head on young shoulders.

I tend to put everyone else before me, and The things that make me the most happy are.

Seeing someone smile, be they stranger or family.

Making my four children happy in any way possable, without spoiling them in any way, or treating them any differently to one another.

Knowing that my third child who is physically disabled is as happy as any normal child could be.

Helping someone through a tough time, especially if it is something I have been through myself, knowing I never had help but desperatly needed it.

Knowing I have made someone happy.

Helping people.

Making my husband happy.

I live in south wales, however I havent always lived here, I have previouly lived in several locations accross mid and south England. Most of my ancesters are scotts. my husband is half welsh half dutch, though he argues (as all welsh do :D) that he is welsh.

If I can help you in any way. I will. be safe and may happiness be in your life soon xxx issy xxx

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A.   24 November 2007: Hi there, Im going to view you as a guy who oce had a crush on me, Im married and I have children, I liked this guy as a friend but no more, he tried to use the same tactics as you are and it left me feeling confused too. One day he actually pluc... (read in full...)

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A.   24 November 2007: Sorry just realised your female!!! I truely cannot understand how a girl could be soooo shallow about the way her mother dresses! This is NOT the dark ages love, get overyourself ok! Same to you samutsen, bloomin' caveman!!... (read in full...)

Is it possible that the tests are wrong and I am pregant??

Q.   I have done loads of pregnancy tests and all of them say im not pregnant but i havnt had my period for 2 months and this has never happend before. I was trying for a baby with my ex and we split up a month ago. I have a doctors appointment in Decem...

A.   24 November 2007: hi. It is entirely possable you are pregnant, regardless of the test results, hoever only your doc could tell you or certain. but I have to say its more likely the stress you are going through, the breakup and worry etc. stress has an amazing effe... (read in full...)

I love her so I do not want her to regret taking this step! - as I am going away for 2 yrs to school. She is willing to have her first time with me.

Q.   im 17 my gf is 14 weve been together for 7 months and she wants me to take her virginity but im going off to school in august of 2008 for at least 2 years but our love is true. please help i love her so much but i dont want any regrets ...

A.   23 November 2007: Woah there sweety! Your BOTH still children. Please dont go rushing into sex yet, best to wait till you are BOTH older. Especially sice your going off to school. Imagine if you have an "accident" and this girl ends up pregnant!! BOTH your lives will... (read in full...)

She said she could not come to lunch with me today but offered to meet up next week. Is she trying to avoid me?

Q.   hi. today i asked my crush if she wanted to go for lunch. she said that she couldnt today but offered to meet up next week. We get on well together andwork together in our practical groups and i'll walk her home. do you think that she is tryi...

A.   23 November 2007: Ok so she couldnt make it this time, but she has said she WILL, so NO she is not avoiding you, she simply couldnt make it. Go ahead ask her now if she wants to go out next week, if you make dates in advance rather than spur of the moment, you will... (read in full...)

He's a serial cheater, but he's scared his wife will find out, should I tell his wife?

Q.   A bit confused and could use help from some of the great agony aunts on here. I almost started an affair with an attractive and married man I work with but stopped myself as the word is that he is a bit of a player and I would say he is. He has just ...

A.   23 November 2007:  Danielepew I do understand what your saying, that she maybe wants revenge on this guy by destroying his marrage, and other selfish reasons, but does it really matter what her reasons are? Do you not agree that the wife deserves a chance to find out ... (read in full...)

He's a serial cheater, but he's scared his wife will find out, should I tell his wife?

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A.   23 November 2007: Danielepew Im guessing here, but... Are you a cheater yourself? No we didnt say the women he has cheated with are innocent, yes his only worry sees to be financial downfall upon himself, and no we dont care what happens to the cheat. The Only per... (read in full...)

My mom's dressing.

Q.   Hi, I am Jasper. doing my UG. My family are a very good and decent family living in a village. We are a middle level family living in the tradition way. My problem is about my MOM. She is around 50 years old and working as a teacher in a ...

A.   23 November 2007: Hi there, You sound just a little controlling and condescending toward your mother. She sounds like a free spirit who does not care what others think of her, only what makes her and her husband happy. you have no say in how she dresses rega... (read in full...)

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A.   23 November 2007: I applaude you, well done for not getting involved. Yes warn your co worker what he is like, so she can make up her own mind. And its not your job to tell the wife, but she does need to know! If you want to make it your mission to be the messenge... (read in full...)

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