Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?
Q. hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for ...
A. 4 December 2009: No we can't tell you about medications because we're not sure what the problem is. There are lots of things it can be and these problems take different treatments. If I thought it was one problem and told you to take a certain medicine and I was ... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?
Q. My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he ...
A. 4 December 2009: Yes it's far too early for a shop-bought pregnancy test 6 days after unprotected sex. Sperm can live in the uterus and fallopian tubes for 4 -5 days after ejaculation and may fertilise an egg at any time while it's there - could be up to a 4 days ... (read in full...)
Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?
Q. hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for ...
A. 3 December 2009: All the aunties are right - GO AND SEE A DOCTOR!! It could be serious. Even simple things like urine infections, which are easy to treat, can become serious if you leave them... (read in full...)
I want to try a home cure, but am not sure about vinegar
Q. ok i have found out that i have a bladder infection from reading the sympthoms online and i was reading about home cures so it said to drink apple cider vinegar but we have white distilled and im wondering if it is the same thing can i just drink ...
A. 2 December 2009: No, don't try white spirit vinegar - it's a bit harsh on the stomach. Drink plenty of water (3 litres in 24 hours at least) and then buy some cranberry juice. Drink at least 2 glasses a day including lots of water.
A lot of bladder infectio... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have cramps and bleed after taking the morning after pill?
Q. I took the morning after pill yesterday, towards the end of the 72 hour period (like the 60th hour or something) because I drunkenly had sex on saturday night, and even though I know we used protection, I just wanted to be on the safe side. Since ...
A. 2 December 2009: Both symptoms are quite normal. The morning after pill can cause the womb lining to come away to stop an egg from implanting. That's what's causing the bleeding and the cramps - it doesn't mean that you were pregnant. The "period" will probably last ... (read in full...)
How To Get Your Ex Back
Q. Do you miss your ex and want him/her back? Have you tried begging, buying them gifts, being clingy, etc? None of that is going to work. That is only going to push them further away from you. Try doing these steps and I know that these steps may seem ...
A. 2 December 2009: Personally, I think that if you do steps 1 - 4 really well, you won't want to move on to step 5. You'll have rediscovered the joys of being free and single again!... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?
Q. My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he ...
A. 2 December 2009: Most pregancy tests will not give you a true result until your next period is late. If you need to find out before then, you'll need to discuss you options with a doctor... (read in full...)
Condomless threesome and now I'm worried I'm pregnant!
Q. i know this is going to make me sound really bad, and i am really upset about this which is why this is the only confidential thing i could think of for advice, well a month ago i had a threesome with 2 guys, i was really drunk and i know there...
A. 1 December 2009: Oh Dear oh dear. You've already been given some very useful advice from 2 very astute aunties. Just my duty to put forward the UK point of view.
If your period is late ,do a home preganacy test ASAP. They are fairly accurate and you can get them... (read in full...)
I think we did everything right, do I still have a chance of being pregnant?
Q. i had just had sex for the second time, and i would like to know whether how i handled it was okay and i wouldnt get pregnant. i used a condom and my bf had the decency to check every 5 minutes by just making sure it was slipped on himself. When he ...
A. 1 December 2009: Unless he put his penis inside you or very near your vulva without wearing a condom at any time or his ejaculate once you had finished came into contact with your vulva the chances of you becoming pregnant is virtually nil.
If you gave him oral... (read in full...)
Super cautious NOT to get pregnant...
Q. My bf and I just had sex for the second time and he made sure the condom was on, every 5 minutes, and when he was about to ejaculate we took it off then i did oral sex on him, when we were done i checked if the condomwas leaking or anything and ...
A. 30 November 2009: How refreshing it is to hear from a young person who is taking her responsibilities seriously when it comes to protecting herself from pregnany and sexually transmitted disease. On this site we normally hear from people who totally forgot about it ... (read in full...)
I am in a relationship for 5 months but cannot have proper sex
Q. Me and my boyfriend are in a comited relationship since 5months.we culdn't hav proper sex as his penis penetrated only half..i don't kno why this is hapening..plz giv sugestions....
A. 30 November 2009: Is it painful for either of you?... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?
Q. My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he ...
A. 30 November 2009: I don't think I can add anymore to Tisha's reply except to stress YES you could get pregnant from unprotected sex at any time in your cycle. It's less likely right after your period but still possible.
You should get tested for STD's as soon as ... (read in full...)
Is casual sex a bad thing? Will I regret it?
Q. I'm 19 and to be honest...really horny. I masturbate probably too much (it may not hurt you but there is a point when its addiction for some people). I've always really wanted to have sex. I'm a virgin. I've tried going out with girls with no ...
A. 30 November 2009: Don't forget to use a condom!... (read in full...)
Could someone help me on a couple sex questions?
Q. i would like to know the chances of getting pregnant if the male has had a std for more then 2 months. i dont know all the details because i am doing this for my friend. but i would also like to know how do you know if you are allergic to a condom?...
A. 30 November 2009: I think kc100 has answered your question very well regarding the STD and pregnancy risks your friend faces. She needs to get tested for everything.
Latex allergy is what normally makes people allergic to condoms but sometimes it can be the sper... (read in full...)
I just want to make her feel good!
Q. Latly my girlfriend and I have been really going at it when we make out. Latly we have been dong this thing where we will position ourselves in a way where I put my leg between hers and she locks it there and we kinda "grind" together. She really ...
A. 29 November 2009: It's perfectly possible for girls to achieve an orgasm from this activity. So can guys for that matter........ (read in full...)
He got cum all over my stomach, am I pregnant?
Q. Am i pregnant!!! the other night i gave my boyfriend oral he ejaculated over my stomach about 1 minute later i ran to the toilet rubbed water and soap on me then showered the soap off is ther a possibility that i could be pregnant x...
A. 29 November 2009: No, you can only get pregnant if semen is deposited in the vagina or on the vulva.
If the semen didn't go anywhere near your genitals and you washed it off straight away, you can't get pregnant from that.... (read in full...)
I was bitten by a dog, and am now worried about scarring!
Q. This is completely non-relationship related, but I needed some advice. I got bit on the tip of my nose by a dog a week ago. It bled, I put ice on it straight away and my boyfriend called an ambulance, I ended up going on antibiotics straight away ...
A. 29 November 2009: I had plastic surgery on my nose and it took ages for the swelling to go down - over a year in fact. Fortunately for me, all my scars are internal (inside the nose) so I didn't have the same problems that you have.
Some scarring is normal but with... (read in full...)
I want to use Tiger Balm as a Sex Aid
Q. I heard from different people that putting tiger balm on your clit makes the pleasure intensify. Is this true or just something someone came up with? Also would it cause any problems if I tried it?...
A. 29 November 2009: Ouch! You'd be mad to try I think! I use tiger balm all the time for headaches and muscular pains and I did transfer it to the wrong place once by not washing my hands after applying it. The sensations experienced could not be described as either ... (read in full...)
Big weekend planned, but what about my cycle?
Q. Hi, I'm going for a weekend trip with my boyfriend this Saturday but I'll be on period then. I'm on the pill and usually I start my seven day break on the Monday and have my period until the following Monday when I start taking the pill again. I...
A. 29 November 2009: It would be much better to start your next pack of pills straight away instead of having any kind of break if you really want to stop your period for that weekend. This is a safe thing to do once in a while. Starting your pill free break early may ... (read in full...)
Houston, I think I have a "space" problem
Q. what does it mean when my wife says 'i need my own space'?...
A. 29 November 2009: I agree with honningkanin that we need more information. "I need space" could mean anything from needing a weekend away or a few evenings on her own all the way through to wnting to move out for 6 months or formally separate.
You also need to ... (read in full...)
What are these small lumps and pimples?
Q. hello,im embarrass already but since recently these little lumps keep showing up on my vagina(vulva)and trust me they are very painful.yes sexually active but i have always practiced safe sex so i dnt think its a std moreover,when ever i shave these ...
A. 28 November 2009: It's shaving rash. You could try waxing or depilatory creams instead but some people (such as myself) find their skin still reacts the same way.
The only way I find to soothe it properly is to rest the skin from hair removal regularly. I find tha... (read in full...)
Which is better? Single? Or in a relationship?
Q. Hiya everyone! well basically i want to know what people think is better being single and free with out any commitment or being in a relationship? the reason why is because i have recently been single for the last like 18 months and i have r...
A. 28 November 2009: Well I've been single a long time....
Good things about singlehood
1) Life is soooo uncomplicated. Just listen to your friends angst about the man in their life and think I'm so glad I don't have to deal with that!
2) You are answerable... (read in full...)
Hairy or bare I'm self conscious! What to do?
Q. Okay, so, with pubic hair on women, how do u keep it neatly trimmed without having to get a wax? It's so uncomfortable and painful. But I'm self-conscious when I'm hairy and self-conscious when I'm bare. Any Suggestions? Is there a middle ground?...
A. 28 November 2009: I shave or use depilatory cream on the bikini line areas and trim the rest close with scissors.... (read in full...)
I know guys do, but do girls cum too?
Q. Why and how do girls cum? I know us guys can but gals?...
A. 28 November 2009: It depends whether you consider "cum" as an orgasm or as "ejaculation".
Girls certainly have orgasms - usually as a result of clitoral stimulation or sometimes from stimulation of the G-spot. An orgasm is difficult to describe but it's like an ... (read in full...)
Does a "cougar woman" have more relationships than an older guy with a younger gal?
Q. Do ''cougar woman"" has less chance on the long run with a younger man, than an older man with a younger woman? Do they get hurt more at the end ?...
A. 27 November 2009: I think entirely depends on the circumstances and the characters of the people involved.
One complication with younger childless men, however, is that they may trade cougar woman in for a younger more fertile model, if having their own biologic... (read in full...)
My period started the day after I had unprotected sex, do you think I could be pregnant?
Q. First I must start out saying that My periods are always the same. They last 3-5 days, and are always a dark red, and very very thick (Kinda like mucus). I also must say that I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on the 22nd. I started my period ...
A. 27 November 2009: How long ago did you have your 1st child? Have you periods returned to normal since the birth?... (read in full...)
Where are the best places to kiss her, to turn her on?
Q. Can someone please tell me some places that I should touch or kiss my girl to arouse her the most?...
A. 27 November 2009: Everywhere!! Nothing is really out-of-bounds in a sexual relationship provided both parties are enjoying it. Different things turn different people on so there may be a bit of trial and error.
But definitely go for the neck and shoulders first, I... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get a pimple in your genital area?
Q. I was wondering, since it happened to me yesterday. Is it possible to get a pimple in your genital area, in this case on your penis ?????? Its exactly like one, except if i press it for it to pop it kinda swells. And if not then what could it be ?...
A. 27 November 2009: Yes, pimples are surprisingly common. If it doesn't start going away naturally in a couple of days and is really painful go to your doctor as you may need antibiotics. Don't try to squeeze it! This can force any bacteria further in and cause a boil ... (read in full...)
I'm sure he didnt come in me, but could I still be pregnant?
Q. i had my period on 11th november [mine is irregular] and had unprotected sex on 21st november am i likely to be pregnant? what im sure of is that he didnt come in me coz i pushed him away....
A. 27 November 2009: With the combination of irregular periods combined with unprotected sex, the only way of being absolutely sure that you aren't pregnant is to take a pregnancy test, either from your doctor or a shop bought one.
As your boyfriend didn't come, th... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a woman to feel exhausted the day after having sex?
Q. Is it normal for a woman to feel exhausted the day after having sex? I know a lot of men are tired straight after sex but is it normal for women the day after?...
A. 26 November 2009: I think a lot of it depends on how long you were going for and how alte you stayed up! It can be tiring but if you're finding yourself permenantly exhausted I'd get a check up from the doctor just to make sure your blood pressure isn't low or you're ... (read in full...)
He wants to go to "next base." What does this mean exactly?
Q. My boyfriend and I have only kissed (not made out) and he said maybe we could "go to the next base" But I was always told 1st base was making out, so what do you think he means? Haha....
A. 26 November 2009: Generally (as I understand it)
First base is kissing, cuddling and touching each other's non-sexual parts (hands, arms, neck back etc)
Second base involves touching and stimulating the breasts
Third base involves touching and stimulating ... (read in full...)
"Water sports!"
Q. My boyfriend and I engage in watersports ie urinating on each other. He has asked me if he could pee inside of me and I wanted to know if anything could potentially harm me if we did engage?...
A. 26 November 2009: Not that I know of. Urine is usually sterile unless someone has a urinary tract infection (UTI) UTI's in young healthy people are usually quite noticeable (it hurts and you feel ill).
Somewhere on a website called Patches Place there is an archi... (read in full...)
Is this my period or implantation bleeding?
Q. Hello I had sex with his guy I know ..I made him use a condom ... He continued to keep it on even tho he had came in it??? But, after a whle I made him put on a new one. Also, when he was puttin it on, he put it on he wrong way so he then would...
A. 25 November 2009: Heavy bleeding, and negative pregnancy test = not pregnant... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has genital warts, but I don't have them. Does that mean she cheated?
Q. my girlfriend of a year got pregnant over 7 months ago and noticed some warts on her women area and didnt take much notice now there a group of them. now she claims shes as not slep with no 1 else. and shes not cheated. the doctor as called them ...
A. 25 November 2009: I'd just like to point out that HPV (human papilloma virus) is NOT the genital version of a cold sore.
Cold sores are caused by the Herpes Simplex virus and the genital version is Herpes Genitalus - both strains can affect lips mouth and genitals... (read in full...)
What does foreplay involve?
Q. hi... everyone i'm 18yrs old boy and i'm a virgin... i luv a girl and we panning to have sex... but i have a few question on this....i want to know what foreplay really envolves my friends say kissing, hugging,licking vagina and even anus....but...
A. 24 November 2009: The words you are using are perfect - much better to use the correct anatomical terms!
As far as foreplay goes - anything goes. Different people are turned on by different things, by having different parts of their bodies stroked or kissed -... (read in full...)
What songs should I listen to after finding out he doesn't like me?
Q. To cut a long story short I have recently found out that the person I like, likes someone else, and to be honest... I'm gutted. But rather than moping around any longer [I like him A LOT] I want to move on. I need some songs that I can listen to ...
A. 24 November 2009: Have just bought the Lily Allen album - many of the songs seem to fit the bill!... (read in full...)
Could I get lead poisoning from drinking from that can?
Q. i'm 5 months pregnant and this morning i opened a can of juice after the first drink i realized it tasted weird and through it out. now im worried about lead poisoning and im also waiting 4 my obgyn 2 call back. any helpful and comforting advice ...
A. 24 November 2009: It can't be lead poisoning from the can because there's no lead in food and drink cans. The juice could have been slightly past its best (which is probably no cause for alarm either) Remember that the sense of taste often seems to change for some ... (read in full...)
Should I start a relationship with this guy?
Q. There is this guy that recently told me that he is really into me and would like to have a somewhat long-term relationship with him. The thing is, he is 14 years older, and he comes from a culture that differs substantially from mine. He generally ...
A. 24 November 2009: When you describe this guy all I see is a load of red flags
1) He is a different age and from a different culture - not necessarily a bad thing but indicative that you both may need to work extra hard at the relationship.
2) He became angry and... (read in full...)
How can I make our break-up easier for the children? They are very upset and confused
Q. My husband of 16 years has left the family home, me and my two young children. He says he does not feel loved enough by me then says he feels suffocated by me. I am very confused and don't know what to do to get him home. We all miss him very much ...
A. 24 November 2009: I'm only answering this question with insight from friends whose parents have divorced and have found it has affected their adult lives.
1) Be honest that you are splitting up. Don't lie to the kids about "Daddy has to work very hard". They wil... (read in full...)
Circumcision or no circumcision?
Q. i was wondering what kind of penis do girls like a circumcised one or non-circumcised one ...
A. 24 November 2009: This question is always being asked and it all depends on the individual. Some preferences are also due to societal norms - circumcision is common in the US but rare in the UK.
The main thing is that you are happy with what you've got... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has genital warts, but I don't have them. Does that mean she cheated?
Q. my girlfriend of a year got pregnant over 7 months ago and noticed some warts on her women area and didnt take much notice now there a group of them. now she claims shes as not slep with no 1 else. and shes not cheated. the doctor as called them ...
A. 24 November 2009: Both LaraC and the anonymous female reader give perfect advice. It's not an indication that your girlfriend has been unfaithful and either one of you could have been initially infected years before without showing symptoms.
You could both be infec... (read in full...)
Can you become pregnant just from foreplay?
Q. My boyfriend touched my private parts for 5 minutes without touching his. Are there any chances of me getting pregnant because of this?...
A. 24 November 2009: If he touched your privates just with his fingers there is no chance of you getting pregnant. If he touched your privates with his privates (but didn't insert himself) there is a very small possibility that you could become pregnant if he ... (read in full...)
Could "spotting" mean pregnancy?
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday, and it was the first time in about 6 months. I have went a year without sex before and this has never happened to me! I started spotting today, just barely. I am kinda worried. I think that ...
A. 23 November 2009: If you only had sex yesterday you can't possibly be pregnant yet. If you're worried because you had unprotected sex and want to avoid pregnancy go to you doctor as soon as possible to get the morning-after pill. You can take it up to 72 hours after ... (read in full...)
What songs should I listen to after finding out he doesn't like me?
Q. To cut a long story short I have recently found out that the person I like, likes someone else, and to be honest... I'm gutted. But rather than moping around any longer [I like him A LOT] I want to move on. I need some songs that I can listen to ...
A. 18 November 2009: Gloria Gaynor's " I will survive" springs to mind! Lots of people find that listening to music helps through a period of feeling down but I think the choice of music is very personal. I like to listen to something very noisy and upbeat - something ... (read in full...)
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