If I'm pregant, I want an abortion without being judged!
Q. hi i am really worried that i am pregnant. I have a feeling that i am and i think im starting to look as though i am. i am scared to go to the doctors because I am afraid of being judged and i know it sounds stupid but if i am i want to abo...
A. 17 December 2009: A health professonal should not judge you. The problem is often more down to the person believing they are being judged by others because they are judging themselves.
Do a pregnancy test. (If you're having normal periods you may well be worrying... (read in full...)
Have your period after sex and be pregnant?
Q. ok,so me and my Boyfriend had sex bout 2 and a half weeks ago,I was on my period then and i still had it after about 2 or 3 days after, I Don't have Any signs i Just Need to know if its possible to have your Period after you have sex and still be...
A. 17 December 2009: Yes, you can get pregnant if you have unprotected sex during and just after your period. It's less likely than at other times but possible.
Take satin's advice and get some proper birth control sorted out. ... (read in full...)
My boyrfriend is treating me to a vacation in Firenze after which I'll be on vacation for 3 weeks with another man.
Q. [Moderator note: Please do not post identifying information about yourself] My boyfriend will bring me for a 10 days holiday in Firenze and he will pay everything for me. But at the end of the holiday I will tell him that I booked a flight for a 3 ...
A. 16 December 2009: Of course it'll hurt him. Unless it's your brother or dad you're going with! This guy obviously considers himself as being in a serious relationship otherwise he wouldn't be paying for everything!!
Dump your boyfriend now if you don't want him... (read in full...)
Should I cheat or not?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have already lost interest in having sex with my wife whom I think to be frigid and I had been masturbating about my sister-in-law whom I think to be horny as I saw her on many occasions masturbating with her pillow. I have plans to...
A. 16 December 2009: Cheating is wrong. I don't think you'll find any registered aunt on this site will tell you otherwise.
Cheating with your sister-in-law is even more wrong.
Divorce you wife if you must.... (read in full...)
Is it worth pursuing a relationhsip knowing it can't be sexual unless we're married?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for a little over 2 months now. When we first began seeing each other, it was already understood about his standpoint with God. His faith is strong and he furthers his relationship with Him everyday. I respect that. ...
A. 16 December 2009: It might be - you can only try it for a while and see how you go. If you are in love with him and feel that your relationship is a committed one, it may well be worth it. If you just consider the relationship as fun and short term, you'll probably ... (read in full...)
I'm so tired of my boyfriend's accusations, I don't know what to do anymore!
Q. I have a problem. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and we live together. Monday-Friday he works in another state and I'm at home by myself. I have three children from a previous relationship that lives with us too. I only get ...
A. 15 December 2009: I think that many of the aunties and uncles are right, that it's time to call it a day and leave. You've put up with this behaviour for 2 years and it's not going to change.
You say he behaves like this because he has been cheated on so many tim... (read in full...)
I have only one ball!
Q. Hi, im a 17 year old guy still in school im a virgin and my dick was 6" last time i checked maybe 5 months ago but thats not my problem my problem is i only have one ball in my sack nd i can feel the other one to the left right above my dick nd this ...
A. 15 December 2009: I certainly recommend that you see a doctor (if you haven't already) if you have a testicle in the "wrong" place.
My very first boyfriend only had one testicle. After we had slept together for the 3rd time, he asked me if it bothered me. And I ha... (read in full...)
Have I got a REAL big problem on my hands?
Q. Hello I'm a 22 year old gay male, i have my own house with my boyfriend, we live a great life but we have an issue with our sex life. Recently after sex we've noticed I have blood in my cum, this has happend about 4 times now and we are worried ...
A. 15 December 2009: As far as I know this isn't normal or common so I'll advise you to go to the doctor sooner rather than later. Many things are easily treated when they are picked up early but cause all sorts of problems if left too long.
Get you to a doctor..... (read in full...)
Why do I smell 'down there'?
Q. Why do I smell weirdly down "there"? Is this normal for me (I'm a 13 yr old girl who has already got her period)? If it's not normal what should I do? Help?? ...
A. 15 December 2009: A daily stain on the underwear is normal. It'll look yellowish on white/pale underwear and white on black/dark underwear. All women get it.
It's only something to worry about if the smell is offensive (fishy or yeasty) or if you constant... (read in full...)
Stay with boyfriend or go to far away college--which do I do?
Q. Hello. I have big ambitions to become a vet and i have the qualifications to go to university and do what i want. I also have a boyfriend with whom i've been with since i was just 13. So we are extremely close. The problem is the uni i want to go to ...
A. 14 December 2009: It's a really tough choice and only you can decide. There are a couple of compromises you could consider but both you AND your boyfriend may have to compromise for things to work.
1) Re-consider your choice of university and apply to one clos... (read in full...)
Ideas for our 1 year of dating anniversary...???
Q. I need help quick please! Our 1 year anniversary is coming up and i dont know what to get her. I am writing her a letter but i dontknow what else to give her. I have already given her many stuffed animals before and a necklace, i dont know what to ...
A. 14 December 2009: A framed picture of you both together enjoying yourselves - like at a party or a trip out - anything that reminds you of a great time. Get a good quality print which you both look good in.... (read in full...)
Help, I think I have a tampon lost inside me!
Q. Ok so like 3 days ago i was on the last day of my period and had in a light tampon, I got extremely drunk later on that night and had sex with my guy friend.. I don't remember if I took my tampon out or not, and my guy friend was just as drunk as me ...
A. 14 December 2009: Worth going back to the doc or getting a second opinion. When the same thing happened to me, my doctor initially said he couldn't see it and "was I sure?" To which I answered "Yes, I felt it with my finger" He looked again at a slightly different ... (read in full...)
Does pre-cum contain sperm?
Q. Does Pre cum have sperm in it? I wiped it off myself still yet to cum and the decided to finger my girl friend there was time in between and i tried to wipe as much off onto another surface... i was just not thinking...
A. 14 December 2009: YES! Not nearly as many sperm as in actual ejaculate though. Chances of pregnancy from precum is very low, especially if it's on transferred on fingers rather than released directly from the penis high into the vagina near the cervix.... (read in full...)
Why do I smell 'down there'?
Q. Why do I smell weirdly down "there"? Is this normal for me (I'm a 13 yr old girl who has already got her period)? If it's not normal what should I do? Help?? ...
A. 14 December 2009: person1234 gives good advice. I agree with all of it. "Bready" and "fishy" smells should always be investigated by a doctor. Don't use any kind of washing product, except mild soap and water, unless a doctor advises you to. I really would avoid the ... (read in full...)
What are the best and worst condoms?
Q. what is the best protection condom for not getting my girlfriend pregnant,and what is the worst protection condom?...
A. 14 December 2009: Use a well-known brand - Durex, Trojans, Mates, Jiffi (depends on which country you're from which is the leading brand)
Avoid brands that you've never heard of before. The worst condoms I've ever used came from a vending machine - all 3 ripped. ... (read in full...)
Could my period be messed up because of stress?
Q. Hiya, I'm not sure whether i'm pregnant or not. I had sex about 5 days ago but we used a condom, pretty sure it didn't break but i have this uncontrollable fear of being pregnant. What I think was my period came on yesterday but it seems to be ...
A. 14 December 2009: That's great. You take good care of yourself
xx... (read in full...)
Could my period be messed up because of stress?
Q. Hiya, I'm not sure whether i'm pregnant or not. I had sex about 5 days ago but we used a condom, pretty sure it didn't break but i have this uncontrollable fear of being pregnant. What I think was my period came on yesterday but it seems to be ...
A. 11 December 2009: Well done - you've done the right thing. It's big step telling your mum something like that. If the test is negative, you can feel less stressed out. Even if it is negative, I think you should visit the doctor for your weight problems.
Did y... (read in full...)
Is the discharge normal?
Q. hi guys i had my period 2 weeks ago on the 27th nov and today i realised a yellow/brownish discharge from my vigina and the 2 weeks just past i had intercourse with my boyfriend abut 4-5 times. is the brown discharge normal? plz help...
A. 11 December 2009: It's not uncommon for some women to experience "spotting" at the time of ovulation (which occurs approx 2 weeks after the start of your period) It's often brown and lighter than a usual period and doesn't last as long.
If you had unprotec... (read in full...)
I enjoy sex much more while I have my period, does anyone else agree?
Q. hi all. i enjoy sex much more when im on my period. it feels so good "down there". does enybody else agree? and why is this? ...
A. 11 December 2009: I don't know if I enjoy sex any more or less during sex but I certainly feel like it more.... I also like it even more when I'm ovulating. Some of this is due to hormonal peaks and troughs which affect a woman's sex drive throughout her menstrual ... (read in full...)
Should I have a chlymidia test?
Q. I am too minds about having a chlymidia test... i haven't slept with the guy i was last with but i did do oral sex...and he is known for being a player. As we all no chlymidia has NO symptoms...and college are giving tests out for free. ...
A. 11 December 2009: If the college are offering it - do it! The reason the chlamydia is on the increase in young people is because too many of them think "I should be fine".... (read in full...)
Could my period be messed up because of stress?
Q. Hiya, I'm not sure whether i'm pregnant or not. I had sex about 5 days ago but we used a condom, pretty sure it didn't break but i have this uncontrollable fear of being pregnant. What I think was my period came on yesterday but it seems to be ...
A. 11 December 2009: I'm not surprised you're having a light and scanty period if you're underweight, stressed and possibly anaemic! Missing out a period (or having a scanty period) is totally normal for girls your age anyway as your hormones fluctuate a lot in ... (read in full...)
How can I make my vagina tighter?
Q. i want to make my vagina tight as i m getting married instead of my boyfriend, pls suggest me some medicines or other tips so my husband should not be in doubt, pls help me...
A. 11 December 2009: Loose vaginal muscles can be tightened by doing "kegel exercises" or pelvic floor exercises (as they are also known)as Cerebrus suggests.
You can have a hymen repair done by a plastic surgeon but that will usually cost a lot of money as there is... (read in full...)
What are causing these pains in my back and my stomach?
Q. I am having really bad pains in my back and in my stomach it feels like I kinda have real bad gas in my back it even hurts when I breathe in too hard. Now I been having symphtoms of a bladder infection so I thought this was what I had. I have been ...
A. 10 December 2009: Go to the doctor straight away (or as soon as possible) It does sound like your bladder infection has travelled to your kidneys and that can be dangerous if ignored. It's not something you can treat at home so go to the doctor. It normally just ... (read in full...)
No period for 2 months--am I pregnant?
Q. Well, last October me and my boyfriend had sex. I am getting a little bit worried that I may be pregnant. I havent had my period for two whole stinkin months!!! Could i be pregnant? I'm 14 and I can barely take care of myself. Help please?...
A. 10 December 2009: If you had unprotected sex (no contraception of any kind) and you have been having sex regularly the chances of pregnancy a high.
If you used a method of contraception, it's a lot less likely but still possible. The chances increase if sex has ... (read in full...)
What's right for my partner in regards to size?
Q. Many people have already asked about penis size and what a girl considers to be too big or too small; however there is one key piece of information that's missing from those posts. That question is, how big is the girl in question. Now, for the sake...
A. 10 December 2009: To the anonymous male poster who is 5 inches and not the OP.... I LOVE sex but don't like any of the things you mentioned. If I moan during deep penetration or with a well-endowed male it's because it HURTS, not because I'm enjoying it. Obviously. ... (read in full...)
What's right for my partner in regards to size?
Q. Many people have already asked about penis size and what a girl considers to be too big or too small; however there is one key piece of information that's missing from those posts. That question is, how big is the girl in question. Now, for the sake...
A. 9 December 2009: If she's not having orgasms through penetrative sex it's probably because she isn't getting enough clitoral stimulation - nothing to do with your penis size.
I personally find it very difficult to achieve orgasm through penetrative sex alone un... (read in full...)
How not to masturbate?
Q. How can I get rid of habit of masturbating? I guess I began to mastb since I was at primary school. Sometimes I do hate it, but I can't help doing it again. I feel upset each time after I do it....
A. 9 December 2009: Masturbation is good for you!! It's relaxing, pleasurable, safe and lets you develop a good understanding with your body. If other people (such as a wife or girlfriend) is allowed to touch you down there - why shouldn't you? You know yourself better ... (read in full...)
How do you get tested for STIs? and How long do I wait before getting it done?
Q. okay - firstly i was stupid enough to sleep with someone without a condom - yes, aware of this. But i am now in the wanting to get tested stage to make sure i am okay. I know chalamydia and syphilis are the most common STI's so i am gonna get tested ...
A. 9 December 2009: Go to your local GUM clinic - or phone them up for advice. They can usually do all the tests you need during one visit. If they can't (HIV testing, for example, needs to be redone after a certain incubation period after the time of suspected ... (read in full...)
How long does it take to become pregnant once the implant has been removed?
Q. How long can it take to get pregnant when the implant has been removed?...
A. 8 December 2009: You're SUPPOSED to go back to normal fertility as soon as the implant has been removed (according to most of the literature) but because each woman will react differently there can be huge variation. Just as satindesire suggests... (read in full...)
Spermicides in the old days, back in the 70s
Q. My partner recently told me that in 1971 when her guy of the day saw that sexual intimacy was on the cards,he suggested the use of a spermicidal vaginal tablet for temporary use. She wasn't using anything at the time. STD's were not the issue th...
A. 8 December 2009: Why be shy asking the senior pharmacist? He's the one that'll know (or know how to find out) So long as he doesn't think you're wanting to use it, he'll probably enjoy the mental challenge! (You aren't thinking of using it, are you? It really wasn't ... (read in full...)
Masturbating in her sleep???
Q. Is it possible that my girlfriend just masturbates in her sleep? A few times now I have woken up to the my girlfriend moving her hand quickly under the covers over her vagina. She doesnt sleep fully naked. I have asked her if she was mastur...
A. 8 December 2009: Yes, it's possible to masturbate in your sleep. It's also possible to scratch and twitch. It's also possible to go to the loo, take shower, make tea and drive a car (although this is pretty rare.) Twitching IS very common as we drift in and out of ... (read in full...)
I've been feeling, well, strange... could I be pregnant?
Q. Is it possible im pregnant? Im in a on off relationship with this guy, and im a little worried.. I dont think I am.. but is it possible? I want to avoid having to get a pregnancy test at all costs cos the only place I could get one is the chemist ...
A. 8 December 2009: The only way to tell if you are pregnant or not is to take a test. You can:
1) Go to your G.P. Your school/employer should give you a short leave of absence for medical reasons and your G.P cannot blab!
2) Go to your school nurse or college ... (read in full...)
My sex drive has died, could it be the pill?
Q. Hi, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend this year, it was both our first time. I went on birth control Microgn 30 two months later to help improve my periods. On these i got quite ill and moody, but i did have a good sex life with him. After 3 months ...
A. 8 December 2009: Go back to the doctor or contraceptive clinic to rediscuss your options. Vaginal dryness and loss of libido can both be side-effects as well as general moodiness and depression. You may want to try yet another brand of pill or think about one of the ... (read in full...)
I haven't been on my period for nearly 6 months now!
Q. I am 17 and i havent been on my period for nearly 6 months now. My last period was near the end of july and it is now december. I had sex in september and tried a withdrawel after the condom splitting. I have been to a clinic and took a pregnancy ...
A. 7 December 2009: Go to the doctor and explain that you have not had a period in 6 months.
Pregnancy should still be considered if you have continued to be sexually active since your last period. So that's the 1st thing the doc should do. In the meantime, if you a... (read in full...)
Some insight on rough sex during pregnancy please
Q. Hi and thanks all that reply back to me :) Well I was just wondering what everyones opinion on rough sex is... I'm currently three months pregnant and very time I have sex with my boyfriend I'm sore afterward. Today one of the lips of my vagina i...
A. 4 December 2009: "Rough" sex might be something to rethink in pregnancy because your vaginal secretions may change as a result of preganancy hormones. This makes you more susceptable to yeast infections and urine infections which rough sex can make even worse. This ... (read in full...)
I'm ready for sex, but not able to lubricate the way I used to
Q. What can you do when you have the desire for sex, but lack the lube to make it enjoyable? This is a recent problem for me and it's freaking me out. I have NEVER had a problem getting wet during foreplay. My b/f is great in bed and really takes the ...
A. 4 December 2009: Vaginal dryness is something that happens to more mature women but at 30 - 35 you're a bit young for menopause. Early menopause is rare but does happen so if you have been having other symptoms such as infrequent periods and hot flushes it may be ... (read in full...)
Stinging feeling after sex
Q. Hey, I've just started to have sex with my girlfriend and found that after a while i start to get a stinging feeling around my penis. I've found little cuts but they are under the skin. Making sex a bit painful from time to time. Why am i getting ...
A. 4 December 2009: Have you been using condoms? You may have an allergy to them. Try using the latex free version... (read in full...)
At what age can a girl get pregnant?
Q. Hi to all, help me I have a serious question, what age can a girl or woman get pregnant? I want to know please help!..,....
A. 4 December 2009: As soon as a girl is producing enough female sex hormones to release a ripe egg she can get pregnant, Remember, that you won't know when this is - your 1st egg will ripen and be released BEFORE your 1st period. In the average girl it's between the ... (read in full...)
Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?
Q. hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for ...
A. 4 December 2009: No we can't tell you about medications because we're not sure what the problem is. There are lots of things it can be and these problems take different treatments. If I thought it was one problem and told you to take a certain medicine and I was ... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?
Q. My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he ...
A. 4 December 2009: Yes it's far too early for a shop-bought pregnancy test 6 days after unprotected sex. Sperm can live in the uterus and fallopian tubes for 4 -5 days after ejaculation and may fertilise an egg at any time while it's there - could be up to a 4 days ... (read in full...)
Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?
Q. hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for ...
A. 3 December 2009: All the aunties are right - GO AND SEE A DOCTOR!! It could be serious. Even simple things like urine infections, which are easy to treat, can become serious if you leave them... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?
Q. My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he ...
A. 2 December 2009: Most pregancy tests will not give you a true result until your next period is late. If you need to find out before then, you'll need to discuss you options with a doctor... (read in full...)
Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?
Q. My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he ...
A. 30 November 2009: I don't think I can add anymore to Tisha's reply except to stress YES you could get pregnant from unprotected sex at any time in your cycle. It's less likely right after your period but still possible.
You should get tested for STD's as soon as ... (read in full...)
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