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Unprotected sex with an ex, could I be pregnant?

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Question - (30 November 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, *inaj_2009 writes:

My ex boyfriend and i just had unprotected sex 3 days ago which was November 28, 2009 the day rite after my period or 2 days after one of the two, im scared because he nutted in me and i know there is a hiqh chance of qetting pregnant ... he tells me everything is ohkay " and " im not (PREGNANT) but he doesnt truely really know what can happen im 14yrs young so is he going on 15 next month. Do you think i could be pregnant ??

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A female reader, old-spinstah United Kingdom +, writes (4 December 2009):

Yes it's far too early for a shop-bought pregnancy test 6 days after unprotected sex. Sperm can live in the uterus and fallopian tubes for 4 -5 days after ejaculation and may fertilise an egg at any time while it's there - could be up to a 4 days after you had sex. The pregnancy hormones (which the pregnacy test looks for) only really start showing up in significant amounts until the embryo has implanted into the uterus wall which happens 7 -14 days after fertilisation (depending on your own cycle. A blood test from your doctor will be able to pick pregnancy up earlier but probably not until after 3 weeks.

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A female reader, Minaj_2009 United States +, writes (3 December 2009):

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Minaj_2009 agony aunt- Its only been like 6days since i'vee had unprotected sex with my boyfriend will ii be able to tell if im pregnant or no if i buy a pregnancyy test now ???... ii think its to early for thee test to tell .

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A female reader, old-spinstah United Kingdom +, writes (2 December 2009):

Most pregancy tests will not give you a true result until your next period is late. If you need to find out before then, you'll need to discuss you options with a doctor

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009):

theres a pill called the morning after pill and if you think your pregnant you should take it. you have to get someone over 18 to get the pill. you should also consider having safe sex in the future bcz pregnancy scares suck

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A female reader, Minaj_2009 United States +, writes (1 December 2009):

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Minaj_2009 agony aunt- Should i wait to qet a preqnancy test "&" qo to thee doctors its only been 4days countinq today..tomorrow will be my 5th day??

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A female reader, old-spinstah United Kingdom +, writes (30 November 2009):

I don't think I can add anymore to Tisha's reply except to stress YES you could get pregnant from unprotected sex at any time in your cycle. It's less likely right after your period but still possible.

You should get tested for STD's as soon as possible and take a preganancy test as soon as your next period is late.

If you can get to a doctor today or tomorrow morning, they may be able to sort you out with a coil to prevent pregnancy but it's too late to get the morning after pill.

You should buy some condoms as soon as possible so you're never caught short again

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (30 November 2009):

Tisha-1 agony auntAnytime anyone has unprotected sex, there is a possibility of pregnancy. A 15 year old boy who wants to have sex without a condom is the absolutely WORST sex expert I can think of. He's going to say anything to 'nut' inside you. *shuddering at the vulgar terms* And you would be a nut to allow him to do so. It's your body, you're the one who gets pregnant, you're the one who has to go through the abortion, or the pregnancy, and then either have to figure out how to raise a baby, or have to give it away.

Don't let your ovaries do your thinking for you! GET SMART!!!!

Before you have any more sexual contact, I think it would be a good idea for you to watch this video and then read the links I'm providing below.

If you are driving a car, you need to know how to do it safely. If you are having sex..... you see the point here?

No one can look after your health and well-being like you can. No one will look after your health like you do. If you mess up, the only one who gets hurt here is you. Okay? So let's get some info posted here for you. Follow the links below (you may have to copy/paste some) before you do anything else sexual! Take care.

http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html

http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/your-guide-female-reproductive-system

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm

http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/malecontraceptives1.html

http://www.womenshealth.gov/FAQ/birth-control-methods.cfm

http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/sexual-health-stds

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A female reader, Sarah:) United States +, writes (30 November 2009):

Sarah:) agony auntYes, you could be pregnant anytime you have unprotected sex. And he wouldn't know considering he's only 15. You shouldn't be having sex at 14 anyway.

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