I'm 10. How can I impress my girlfriend?
Q. im 10 and i have a gf, she likes me as well, but the thing is that i think i need to impress her more, how can i impress her? please help! ...
A. 6 June 2008: One mistake a lot of guys make when they try to impress a girl is to try to put down other people in front of her to make themselves appear better. Don't do it! SHE WILL ALWAYS KNOW! Just be your usual lovely nice self, etc. Be confident. Be caring ... (read in full...)
I don't want to just be some rebound trophy girlfriend, but I'm not sure he likes me as much as I like him!
Q. Hi, about two weeks ago I started going out with a guy my age. Things went pretty quickly from day 1, but we still haven't had sex due to us not ever really being alone together. This doesn't bother me. Anyway. He's not exactly popular with the ladi...
A. 2 June 2008: Oh and by the way I'm 17! x... (read in full...)
We'll meet as friends but I'm hoping there's a chance to win him back, how do I play it?
Q. We went out on 5 dates, then he met someone else, but didn't tell me for a while. I didn't contact him for 3 weeks, but phoned him yesterday, and we had a really good chat, and said we'd meet up for coffee... but no date was arranged. (We do get ...
A. 1 June 2008: Well I guess the whole point of dating is to get to know someone better after an initial attraction, to see if you want to take things further. Don't get your hopes up too high until you're sure he really likes you, and don't assume he'll commit ... (read in full...)
When is my best shot at taking the plunge and asking her out?
Q. I like this really pretty girl. She is really beautiful, no joke. I used to be on the heavy side, but after meeting her and becoming her friend, I have been motivated to lose weight and get in the perfect shape. I wanted to do the because I wanted ...
A. 30 May 2008: I hate it when that happens - you find someone who seems perfect at first, but the more you get to know them, the more you realise you don't like them. It's so disappointing, isn't it!
Everyone falls for someone who's hot now and then, it's only... (read in full...)
We'll meet as friends but I'm hoping there's a chance to win him back, how do I play it?
Q. We went out on 5 dates, then he met someone else, but didn't tell me for a while. I didn't contact him for 3 weeks, but phoned him yesterday, and we had a really good chat, and said we'd meet up for coffee... but no date was arranged. (We do get ...
A. 30 May 2008: Well he must know you're interested in him, because you called. He must have been interested in a relationship with you as well at some point, as he did take you on 5 dates (unless he saw it as 'just friends'...?)
So basically, he knows you're inte... (read in full...)
Should I shave or trim my pubic hair?
Q. I would like to know if I should shave my pubes off or just trim it and if so how often should I shave cause if its too short its itchy and if its to long it gets nasty and itchy so that's what I would like to know...
A. 27 May 2008: Well to be honest I ain't keen on a guy with no hair down there... it makes him seem more of a kid than a man. Some girls like it shaved, but most guys your age don't seem to bother, so I'd just trim it if it's getting to ya. ... (read in full...)
My friend does not smoke - but inhales. Is it not unhealthy as well?!
Q. Hey. I was out with friends last night and one of my friends was doing snuff. She says she does it because she doesnt like the smoke cigarettes make and doesnt want the health risk, but aren't there health risks with taking snuff as well?...
A. 3 May 2008: Jesus I didn't know snuff existed past Beatrix Potter-era. ... (read in full...)
Caught wearing my clothes and now due in court, what will happen to him?
Q. my partner dressed up in my clothes one night and went outside for a cigarette. he has since been done with public indecency with intent of fear and alarm. this was simply not true. and is due in court in a couple of months. he went out a bit ...
A. 2 May 2008: No, no harm in that. I never understand why cross dressing is so socially unacceptable. Oh well. I think the police just got a bit carried away.... (read in full...)
Should I enjoy being a prostitute this much? I need money for school.
Q. I wanted to make some money for school and decided to work as a prostitute as it is a quick way to make really good money. My question is this: I am enjoying this a lot, but on TV you are always seeing hookers who hate what they do and hate the men ...
A. 21 April 2008: Um, personally I don't see anything wrong in being a prostitute. Plenty of women go out on the pull and pick up strange men for one night stands... Only difference is, you're getting paid to do it! The only issue I can really think of is the obvious ... (read in full...)
Caught wearing my clothes and now due in court, what will happen to him?
Q. my partner dressed up in my clothes one night and went outside for a cigarette. he has since been done with public indecency with intent of fear and alarm. this was simply not true. and is due in court in a couple of months. he went out a bit ...
A. 21 April 2008: Jesus Christ. What a narrow-minded cop. If the guy had nothing on show, why are they bothering exactly? I know guys who go out on the town dressed as women and as far as I know, it ain't illegal! How much was he wearing? If it was just underwear ... (read in full...)
Should I go to a "Gentleman's Club" to lose my virginity or am I selling myself short?
Q. Hey guys, I've been pondering this for a while now, but I'd like to get some outside opinions on this. I'm still a virgin at 20, and quite frankly I'm over it. It hasn't happened yet, I can't see it happening anytime soon, and I just feel bored ...
A. 15 March 2008: There seem to be loads of guys (and girls) like you. I'm 17 and probably about 60% of the people I know have had sex. But then again, most of them seem to be girls.
I don't know about the whole 'moral aspect'. If it's getting you down, go and slee... (read in full...)
Unique appearance vs. Attracting women
Q. Unique appearance vs. Attracting women. Is this why I can't get a girlfriend? Hi. Most of you by now will have seen my avatar. I have an afro. I like my hair. I feel like it adds more to my character. Unfortunately, I don't feel attr...
A. 15 March 2008: NOOO DON'T CUT IT!
Seriously, your hair is HOT!
I have dreadlocks, which seems to be a bit of a marmite issue as far as caucasian girls like me go. By that I mean, you either love em - or hate them.
I too get a lot of compliments, like "whoa y... (read in full...)
I feel like I have made a fool of myself...and there is an age gap too...what should I do??
Q. Im 16 i have been talkin to this guy online; i added him on facebook. Anyway, his profile said 20 but i thought i'd add him anyway. Somehow theres been an error in my account and its been displaying me as 19. We got talking and really clicked....
A. 11 March 2008: I think that he would never have mentioned you two meeting up if he cared about your age. My friend is 16 and going out with a 24 year old, they get on like a house on fire. Get in there.... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong for a 36 year old to date a teenager? Can people choose who they are attracted to?
Q. honeslty do people think this is wrong if a 36 year old man is really really attracted to a 16 year old (mature, or so he thinks) girl...i mean people cant help who they're attracetd to right??? and if he got carried away and ended up in bed with ...
A. 8 March 2008: I agree with the anonymous bloke who replied on the third of March. No amazing transformation occurs in a girl the second she turns 18.
I'm 18 and am dating a 33 year old. We have a loving relationship, we have common interests and to be quite hone... (read in full...)
Does age really matter?
Q. I am 16 and for the last few months have been spending a lot of time with a neighbour and family friend. He's an amazing mentor and we read philosophy and poetry together. I've never been as close to anyone and he's my best friend. I know he feels ...
A. 26 February 2008: I know what you mean. Sometimes you fall for someone who, as far as social conventions go, is totally, completely wrong for you.
What you have to decide is which do you think would make you happiest? You can either stop seeing this man, prob... (read in full...)
Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...
Q. Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty ...
A. 10 February 2008: Whoa, I mean. Like he is FLIRTING with you, girl, no doubt about it. You don't call someone's legs amazing if you ain't coming on to them. Mind you, you don't say that if you're a teacher, either... but if you like him back... that's cool with me. I ... (read in full...)
Redhair and pale skin, Why do we get picked on?
Q. Me and brother (twin) both get picked on because of our red hair and pale skin. It's been like this for a couple years. But no matter what we do, people still ask us dumb questions about why we are so pale all the time. Why is that?...
A. 7 February 2008: Urgh, I hate that whole thing about slagging off people who have red hair. I think red hair rocks. It's only because you're a minority, and minorities tend to get picked on.
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Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...
Q. Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty ...
A. 26 January 2008: "From what you've said he's attracted. I suggest you tell the head teacher. It's wrong and he's going against Teacher-Pupil regulations."
Nooo! DON'T tell the headteacher. I know xpathyxrebornx is just trying to prevent you from a deranged... (read in full...)
Does he want me as a friend or a potential partner?
Q. i'm 18 he's 24. we go to college together and ever since i met him this fall i thought there was something about him. a couple weeks before winter break he started doing simple things and being a sweetie like playing with my hair, leaving all our ...
A. 22 January 2008: Hey. I have a feeling that guilluame definatley has a point there. Wait and see what the guy says on monday, til then you can't know. But keep in mind the fact that in all honestly, he might just be wanting to 'do things properly'. I don't wanna ... (read in full...)
He seems to be genuine, but why hasn't he contacted me? has he really run out of credit?
Q. Hiya Ok so I met a guy whos 17 on holiday in August and we have been txting alot and seein each other occasionaly but the thing is he lives in yorkshire which is 4 hrs away from me. Its nt too bad as I hav a lot of family there and go up often....
A. 12 January 2008: I knew a guy like this. I would make all the effort to meet up, but when we did, he was always so nice and flirty and caring. But he would never text me or email or anything at all. Lame, isn't it!
I dunno. I would either make a move next time he ... (read in full...)
Does he want me as a friend or a potential partner?
Q. i'm 18 he's 24. we go to college together and ever since i met him this fall i thought there was something about him. a couple weeks before winter break he started doing simple things and being a sweetie like playing with my hair, leaving all our ...
A. 12 January 2008: Aww don't give up on him yet! Some guys are hopeless at this kinda thing. He might either think you're just not interested yourself, or something else happened. Or maybe he didn't think you really wanted to come out.You never know.
Don't disp... (read in full...)
Is there a nice way to say "lets just be friends"?
Q. Is there a nice way to say "lets just be friends"? I just spoke to a female friend who I have known most of my life. We have been great friends through grade school and high school, and have a lot in common. In 2002, I left for college. She is a yea...
A. 11 January 2008: It's not your fault that you don't share her feelings. She must realise that you're not trying to hurt her... I don't see why she'd be offended if you told her that. Mind you, I don't know her, so you'll have to be the judge.
It probably took a lot ... (read in full...)
Does he want me as a friend or a potential partner?
Q. i'm 18 he's 24. we go to college together and ever since i met him this fall i thought there was something about him. a couple weeks before winter break he started doing simple things and being a sweetie like playing with my hair, leaving all our ...
A. 11 January 2008: Have you heard of the 'friend zone'? If someone's in the friend zone, it means that they are only ever seen in a matey way instead of a potential-partner sorta way. It is a notorious problem to be stuck in the friend zone, because it's hard to get ... (read in full...)
Does he want me as a friend or a potential partner?
Q. i'm 18 he's 24. we go to college together and ever since i met him this fall i thought there was something about him. a couple weeks before winter break he started doing simple things and being a sweetie like playing with my hair, leaving all our ...
A. 9 January 2008: I know how you feel! Frustrating, isn't it?
I guess the easiest way to find the answer is to look at how he behaves round other girls. Does he play with their hair? Does he flirt with them? If he is generally a very flirty guy, I wouldn't get your... (read in full...)
To girls: Do you prefer a shaved chest or hairy chest? Shaved pubic hair or just trimmed?
Q. What do you girls like more, a Shaved chest or one with hair? And same question about pubic hair: Shaved completely or just trimed? ...
A. 30 December 2007: Most people here seem to like some hair, but not so much that you could be mistaken for a yeti. I agree... hairless men look like kids, I find shaved pubic hair a major turnoff. But too much hair is kinda impractical and uncomfy at times. But that's ... (read in full...)
My mom got me a new bra, but the girls in my class frown upon it! I don't want to hurt my mom's feelings, what shall I do?
Q. Is it OK to wear blck bras? My mum got me one the other day while I was at shcool, but girls in my class really frown upon it. I don't want to hurt my mum's feelings, that's all....
A. 17 December 2007: Miss Anonymous... We are not egging this girl on to go and have sex. We are simply giving her a confidence boost so she can stand up to the inconsiderate girls in her class. At 12 it is hard to 'not take any notice' of criticism from your ... (read in full...)
I've fancied this boy for some time but now it seems that he might not be such a good guy, but I'm not sure what to think. What would you do if yuo were only 11 in this situation?
Q. Hi, There's this boy in yr. 8 (I'm in year 7) who I have fancied since the start of term when we met - we catch the same train - and I thought I knew him pretty well. Last friday (today being sunday) I missed my train (I had Russian lessons ...
A. 16 December 2007: To be honest, the thing he didn't want to remember was probably just a kiss, or making out with someone, or something like that. Most 12 year old boys don't have sex, even if they try to make it look like they do...
I think he was just showing off ... (read in full...)
My mom got me a new bra, but the girls in my class frown upon it! I don't want to hurt my mom's feelings, what shall I do?
Q. Is it OK to wear blck bras? My mum got me one the other day while I was at shcool, but girls in my class really frown upon it. I don't want to hurt my mum's feelings, that's all....
A. 16 December 2007: I think black bras are the sexiest bras...! But then again, what with you being 10-12 and all, you might be more concerned about practicality.
Anyway! Probably the reason other girls 'frown on it' is because it shows through your school shirt, whic... (read in full...)
I am madly in love (I even gave up porn!) but she doesn't know me... help me out... am I love sick?
Q. hi, im 16 and what i feel is that i am madly in love with that girl. From past three-four days i have been thinking of her all the time. I do everything with her in my mind. ive given up masturbation and pornography. But on the other side it has ...
A. 10 December 2007: I'm in the same situation! Seriously, you just gotta arrange a situation where you can both accidentally on-purpose 'happen' to talk... ... (read in full...)
I am at the end of my teather....how do I sort my life out??
Q. I'm at the end of my teather with everything and I don't know what to do any more. End of September my partner left me for a younger, fitter, healthier, more intelligant guy. I then left my job because I couldn't face seeing her at work. Then she...
A. 6 December 2007: You poor guy! That is such a horrible situation. Your ex partner is being very selfish by not helping out with her own kids, who are probably feeling just as let down as you are... but at least they don't have to face the responsibilities that you ... (read in full...)
I am madly in love (I even gave up porn!) but she doesn't know me... help me out... am I love sick?
Q. hi, im 16 and what i feel is that i am madly in love with that girl. From past three-four days i have been thinking of her all the time. I do everything with her in my mind. ive given up masturbation and pornography. But on the other side it has ...
A. 5 December 2007: I don't know... I mean, it's not really being 'in love' unless you know the girl, but obviously there's something about her which has driven you crazy about her. I usually trust these kinds of instincts, and they are usually right. But you are not ... (read in full...)
Scared my bi best friend will make a move on me...
Q. Me and 2 of my bestmates strongly think that our other bestmate is a bi-sexual but what im worried about is they they both say she fancies me. I'm fine with gays but its different when its your friend. At the moment her voice is just pissing me off. ...
A. 26 November 2007: I doubt she would make a move on you. For one thing, you don't even know if she is actually bisexual, for another why do you think she fancies you (that's not meant offensively)? And even if she did, she knows you are not attracted to girls and ... (read in full...)
I'm gay and my friend says he's straight, so why does he let me do things with him?
Q. I am gay and my friend says he is not but he lets me do something to him. is he in denial or straight guys do that?...
A. 23 November 2007: I think it's either what the first poster said, it's just a case of him being so horny he'll do anything, or he's curious... or maybe he is gay. Mind you, my best friend (a girl) is bisexual and as far as I know I'm straight, and we ended up ... (read in full...)
Ladies, what are your thoughts about tattoos? Can tattoos have a negative effect upon obtaining dates?
Q. Hey, so I'm wondering what most girls think of tattoos. I've already got one, a cross on my right bicep and I've never heard any complaints about it. But this Christmas I'm looking at getting a koi fish done on my forearm (half sleeve), and event...
A. 23 November 2007: Tattoos can look super-hot... I've never met a girl my age who doesn't think so. I think a lot of girls in our generation find them attractive, so long as you don't overdo it. But I'm sure some girls would find it a turn-off... it's the same with a ... (read in full...)
He has pictures of his ex throughout the house but wants me to get used to it.
Q. The man i have be seeing for a year has pictures of his ex wife in his bedroom and throughout his house. he says they are family and vacation pictures and they shouldn't bother me. i have told him it does, but he hasn't changed anything and wants ...
A. 9 November 2007: Well it depends. What was the reason for their breakup?... (read in full...)
Is it true most girls prefer taller men?
Q. Hi there I'm very worried about my height being a bloke, 18 and only bout 4ft 10 to 5ft tall n Im probably not going to worry. Is it really true that most girls prefer taller men and if so why would u reckon so? I personally find it harsh not just...
A. 9 November 2007: I've never crushed on a guy who was tall. Because I'm quite short, I find it kinda intimidating. ... (read in full...)
Why was my girlfriend so upset???
Q. hi everyone I need some insight as to something that happened. Today I had my girlfriend over and I was (for lack of a better term) fingering her, and everything was going fine until she said something felt weird. She wasn't sure what happend and...
A. 7 November 2007: Maybe she just felt ill and had been trying not to think about it, but then just started crying. I do that sometimes. It wasn't good timing, but she probably feels bad about it too.... (read in full...)
I just want to be pretty like other girls.
Q. Well for the past months and weeks ive began to grow and develop and ive noticed myself as someone ugly in general. I think im ugly, and just the other day a boy called me it right in front of my face. im short. lacking alittle in the "upper" d...
A. 28 October 2007: Oh god... I remember feeling like this when from I was 12 til I was about 15. You feel like the ugliest girl around, and it feels so unfair because everyone else looks pretty. But believe me, this will pass!
I'm short too, but a lot of guys like... (read in full...)
Am I gay if I watch gay porn and have fantacies of men (but don't want to be gay)?
Q. i watch gay porn and fantasize about having sex with men but dont want to in real life, i dont want to be near a man but does it mean im gay...
A. 21 October 2007: Being gay is pretty sociably acceptable nowadays (not that it should bother you) but gay sex is still a sort of, well taboo subject for many people. Some people are turned on by 'taboo' stuff like incest, gay sex, etc. Or maybe you are gay...... (read in full...)
Are there any good women in the world?
Q. Are there any good women in the world? Everywhere I look they always seem to be horrible. Doesn't help when the last 2 girls I dated were snidy even though they dumped me after 3 and 1 dates respectively. I was nice to them. ...
A. 21 October 2007: Nah, sorry, we're ALL EVIL. We ALL hate men. In fact, even my toothbrush is made from the nosehairs of my last victim...
Best wishes,
A Horrible, Snidely Woman ... (read in full...)
How do I save her when she doesn't want my help?
Q. my best friend since kindergarten just told me that she is a lesbian. we have been friends all our lives and i dont know what to do homosexuality is a big big sin and i know that she will go to hell for it. i told her this and she said that god lo...
A. 21 October 2007: Your God wants you to be happy, mate. If he doesn't... well then he can't be good, and he's not worth listening to. If he does, then only you know what's gonna make you happy, and I expect you wanna be her friend. And seriously, you won't save her ... (read in full...)
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