How do I save her when she doesn't want my help?
Q. my best friend since kindergarten just told me that she is a lesbian. we have been friends all our lives and i dont know what to do homosexuality is a big big sin and i know that she will go to hell for it. i told her this and she said that god lo...
A. 21 October 2007: Your God wants you to be happy, mate. If he doesn't... well then he can't be good, and he's not worth listening to. If he does, then only you know what's gonna make you happy, and I expect you wanna be her friend. And seriously, you won't save her ... (read in full...)
I'm tri-sexual - why do I do what I do?
Q. I'm a Trisexual Transvestite. First trisexual means I love women, men, and pretty passable male to female pre-op transsexuals. I'm a transvestite because I dress up in womens lingerie and dresses for sexual reasons. I also feel very submissive ...
A. 21 October 2007: Oh and another thing - maybe it's something to do with your childhood? I find it really interesting how people's childhood experiences can really affect there sexual preferences. I don't know if being beaten at home when I was younger has made me ... (read in full...)
Is cum and sperm the same thing?
Q. what does itmean when my boyfriend says "can i cum in your fanny" does it mean can he jus have an orgasm without a condom on? is it the same as spunk? is it al the same stuff? can cum get me pregnant if it goes in me or is it just sperm that gets ...
A. 21 October 2007: 'fanny' means vagina in england, but it means butt in america. quite confusing. my American friend once shouted loudly across the canteen, "get your fanny over here!"... that resulted in quite a few stares.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a 16 year old girl.
Q. hey. This may seem odd to a lot of people out there, but I think I'm in love with a 16 year-old girl. I'm friends with her mother who delivers baked goods to my shop. Sometimes "Diana", the mother, will send "Jocelyn", her daughter, to my shop to ...
A. 10 October 2007: Aww that sucks for you. I wouldn't rule out the possibility that she feels the same, because I'm 16 and I know plenty of girls who find older men attractive. But, as everyone else advises. wait. Til she's 18, then see. ... (read in full...)
I hate feeling like the fat ugly one next to all my gorgeous friends!
Q. I hate feeling like the fat ugly one next to all my gorgeous friends. Every guy that I ever like ends up with one of my two best friends. Last night I was at a party and my "best friend" got off with the guy that I was interested in. I always ...
A. 8 October 2007: You're over 10 stone at 5 foot 10? Look mate, that ain't fat. Not nearly. I'm 5 foot 4 and 9 stone, and everyone says I'm really sskinny. I bet you are too.... (read in full...)
I dunno- do I dump my girlfriendfor the hot girl or not???
Q. ive been with my girl for like 3 yrs and i have been having a serious affair with a much hotter girl that i met on the train (randomly) for about 2.5 of those years (almost the whole time) my girl has absolutely no idea at all bcuz i am very ver...
A. 5 October 2007: Some people are more into sex than they are into love. You sound like you might be one of those people, not your fault, but there you go. So I'd break it off with your poor girlfriend before she gets hurt, because it sounds like that's what you ... (read in full...)
Did offering my girlfriend the world bore her, and make her want to search for a "Challenge" elsewhere???? Do Women really think this way!?!?!?!?
Q. I lost my girlfriend after 3 happy years together. I'm the type of guy who would have done anything for her. Moved the stars themselves just to be with her... And yet, I've recently heard that maybe this was why she left me! According to a ...
A. 30 September 2007: This is why girls (only SOME girls) like 'bad boys'... say a girl is dating a 'nice guy'. She knows he would always do anything he could for her. However, if she dates a 'bad boy' who treats her like crap, on the few occasions that he treats her ... (read in full...)
I'm 60, he's 35! Can it work?
Q. I am a 60 years old womam (seems much younger than my real age). Six or severn months age, I came across a 35 years old man on a agegap dating site, agelessfriends.com . we are very much in love after one-month's close commnunication. He's a lovely ...
A. 30 September 2007: I think it's great that you've met someone. True love isn't something that happens everyday and I think you should seize the oppurtunity to be happy! If you don't, you'll probably really regret it!... (read in full...)
Does my teacher like me?
Q. Okay first of all i would like to say that i DO NOT find my teacher attractive in anyway but i would like to know if he finds me attractive and if i should have a word with him or stay away... as i do not want to be like his teachers pet like last ...
A. 28 September 2007: Some teachers can be very flirty, well they definately were at my school. I would say that your teacher flirts with you - but you are doing some serious flirting back! I doubt he would take it any further than this, (he would probably be sacked if ... (read in full...)
I have really bad acne! What can I do to solve my problem?
Q. hey guys i'm turning 16 in a few months from now... and i have this acne problem... i have acne all over my torso... which is so embarassing... worst case is at my back, then at upper arm... i'm really annoyed and even embarrassed to swim... can ...
A. 7 July 2007: benzoyl peroxide did it for me :)... (read in full...)
Worried about when my period will start--I'm already 14!
Q. I am 14 and I have not started my period yet. I have had discharge for two years and I am wondering when will I get my period since everyone i know has. I have been told I am lucky that I haven't. Can anyone tell me when I will start?...
A. 23 June 2007: Don't worry, mine didn't start til I was 14... seriously, count yourself lucky mate!... (read in full...)
She has 3 nipples and it is freaking me out!
Q. me and my girlfriend have just started going out and we recently slept together, but when she took her top off i could clearly see that she has three nipples, two on one breast. i have tried to ignor it, but it is really freaking me out and i dont ...
A. 22 June 2007: She must be very aware of it too, yet she had the confidence to take her top off in front of you. You, on the other hand are obviously not as sexually confident as she is if this is what kind of thing freaks you out. C'mon, men are meant to like ... (read in full...)
I don't believe in God or the bible (at all) and my family disapproves... sometimes I feel like pretending!
Q. Hello Everyone, My problem is a rather delicate one. I come from a family that is generally very close and we love eachother very much. My problem is that I do not believe in their God(they are Jahovas Witness). In fact I do not believe in any f...
A. 7 June 2007: I just wanna say - good for you for not giving in and for not just going with the flow! Some religious people can be very persuasive and can put you under pressure to believe. It must be hard as they're your family and you're so close - you don't ... (read in full...)
Why is it that I can't have an orgasm?
Q. hi im a 19 female ive never done this before but i was just wanting some advice.i was wondering why is it that i can never have an actual orgasm. my friend said that shes only had one and shes 20 and she was kinda wonderin too why she cant have ...
A. 1 June 2007: It could be for a number of reasons. For example, if you think about having an orgasm at the time, it's often less likely to happen. Also if you're not really turned on - make sure your guy knows how to!
Some women find it harder to orgasm than... (read in full...)
She lied about her age but her reason was valid...I think? What do I do now?
Q. Hi, I'v been dating a girl for almost 5 months, but recently she has told me her true age :( I initially met her in a night club (pub) hence didnt query her age when she told me she was 18. Plus she looked 18, and the staff of the club must ha...
A. 30 May 2007: I don't think you're perverted at all - you didn't know how old she was! And I guess her reasons are sort of justified... however 15 is so young...
Some 15 year olds are more mature than others though, it depends on the individual. I think if you ... (read in full...)
I'm incredibly paranoid towards my girlfriend!
Q. Dear People, I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 23. We've been together for about 6 months now and we both love each other. Over the past 6 weeks she has been at trainng for her work which means she spends 5 days staying at her training camp an...
A. 30 May 2007: Think about it from your girlfriend's point of view. She knows you're paranoid, you're constantly texting her, you ask her if she's cheating on you - she must feel like you really don't trust her at all!
It may be hard not to, but by treating her ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her we shouldn't be friends any more?
Q. ok heres the thing , i felt like ive always been bi but didnt realize there was a definition to my sexuality until the age of 13 i think, im 17 never had a boy/girlfriend, mi best friend is a girl and i dont know how to explain it but... i get these ...
A. 29 May 2007: I'm 16, and I'm straight. One of my best friends Amy is openly bisexual, she doesn't care if I know or not because she knows we're just really good friends. My other friend Jess says she's straight, but she's not. She told Amy that she has a crush ... (read in full...)
How do I decide if 'He genuinely made a mistake'?
Q. Soon after me and my ex boyfriend broke up he got together with a girl he knew. I removed myself from the picture as he had been rude and disrespectful towards me throughout the 1 year relationship and I guess he had her ready for when he broke up ...
A. 29 May 2007: What about your feelings towards him? If you still love him then I guess you could try giving him a bit of a chance - but don't give in too easily - but if you think you'd be happier with someone else then I recommend you forget about him. Show him ... (read in full...)
He sexually abused me and I can't get it out of my head.
Q. im 14, a year ago my boy friend sexualy abused me, he didnt have sex with me, he stalked me. sent me texts, asking me to do things, asking me to send pictures, he even sent me porn...of him. It was a monday and i had chemistry, he cornered me i...
A. 29 May 2007: You have to remember that even though this guy is horrible, most aren't. There are so many really nice guys out there. Don't let this prick that you went out with stop you from being confident around other boys.
It sounds like you need a seri... (read in full...)
I have a low pain tolerance so I'm worried about sex!
Q. I haven't been going out with my boyfriend very long but we were friends for almost a year before we started dating. I'm 19 and he's 27, he's had one partner before me. I know he's ready for sex and I think I am too. I want to have sex with him but ...
A. 30 August 2006: you could try fingering yourself. honestly, it should increase your confidence a lot. ... (read in full...)
Date My Mate?
Q. well my prob is that ive met this girl, who is a friend of a friend, but is younger than we are, we are both 21, nearly 22, and she is only 17, since meeting her, i've been out with her in a group a few times and been to her house and met her ...
A. 18 August 2006: I think you should go for it. I don't think she's be freaked out; more likely than not she has guessed that you may have feelings for her.
I suggest you try hinting at her - see how she reacts. She may think that because you are older, you only... (read in full...)
Is 18 considered late to still be a virgin ?
Q. I'm 18 never had a proper girlfriend and never had a proper kiss with any girl and obviously never had sex. I'm getting fed up of all this pressure to have sex (there was this thing on BBC Radio 1 about sex) and it just brought back all this pre...
A. 16 August 2006: Of course 18 is not too old to be a virgin! There are plenty of guys and girls who are 18+ who still have not had sex. You just need to wait for the right girl - if she is right for you, she won't care whether you are a virgin or not. Don't ... (read in full...)
I need help speaking to guys I think are hot!
Q. Hello guys, I know this must be a common problem, I'm 19 years old, at uni (waiting for resit results), and get very shy when i come into contact with guys I instantly find attractive. I blush alot, and worry about blushing thats probably what tri...
A. 16 August 2006: I have the same problem - even though I'm not usually shy. However there was one guy in particular who I really liked, and the first couple of times I met him I was practically silent, and he wasn't too encouraged. Last time I saw him though, we got ... (read in full...)
I am too nice! Girls just lead me on and I'm sick of the game!
Q. I am 34 years old who split up with a girl 4 years ago. She walked out for somebody else. This left me hurt for a while but i have managed to move on. Now i don't go in for full on chatting up women and trying to be the amateur comedian up but ask ...
A. 16 August 2006: I'm sorry that keeps happening, but you must see that it's not you who is the problem, but the girls you choose to be with. There are a lot of girls out there who want nothing more than to meet a genuine 'nice guy' - but there are also girls wh... (read in full...)
I like my new boyfriend, but everyone wants me back with the ex!
Q. Need any advice quick because my family don't want to know about my situation. Went with a guy for couple of years and he was my first love so obviously it was really special but he didn't treat me the best because he was drinking alot and out with ...
A. 16 August 2006: There's an obvious answer to that. Go with the new guy! Move on! Your ex had his chance, and he screwed it up. Just because this new man's family have a bad reputation doesn't mean he's bad himself, he sounds a lot better for you than your ex. A... (read in full...)
Im only 13 and addicted to porn, but want to stop please help...
Q. help me i am addicted to porn at age 13 plz help me i like it at first but then i feel disgusted and sick wid myself how do i stop lukin at it plz help me!!!!!...
A. 15 August 2006: I suggest that instead of trying to see less porn, you should look at it so much to the extent that you get bored of it.
Look at porn constantly for as long as you can stand, and keep at it til the day when you think "porn? BORING!"
And don't fe... (read in full...)
I like him and he likes me but he is dating my sister who has another boyfriend...
Q. Im 15 and i really like this boy who is lets call(N)he is 15 to but my sister is going out with(N)she however is 17.They have been going out a few weeks but have never kissed or anything.The most they have done is held hands.When i see him he looks ...
A. 15 August 2006: Confront your sister! Ask her if she really likes (N) or does she prefer her other boyfriend. It's not fair; she can't have 2 boyfriends anyway! Go out with (N) and she can go out with the other one. Siiimple, lol.... (read in full...)
I thought the guy was 17, like me... but he's only 12!
Q. I'm 17 and I met this guy who I presumed was the same age as he looked so old, but then I found out he was 12! I'm so confused as he looks and acts my age. He's so sweet, I've never met anyone like him before, but I can't help thinking it's wrong as ...
A. 15 August 2006: Nothing's wrong, so long as you're in love...... (read in full...)
He only started wanting to see me after he got a girlfriend! What is he thinking!?
Q. Well there's this guy i like... *original start, eh?* and well, i know him mainly through MSN, we talk nearly every night. i knew OF him before, he went to my school, but i never spoke to him. he's 2 years older than me, he's 17. anyway, he's bee...
A. 15 August 2006: There's another thing... if he did want to cheat on his girlfriend with me, then I don't think I would let him. Because I don't want to be the girl to make him into a cheat. So maybe I will try to be 'just a friend'... unless he splits up with his... (read in full...)
He only started wanting to see me after he got a girlfriend! What is he thinking!?
Q. Well there's this guy i like... *original start, eh?* and well, i know him mainly through MSN, we talk nearly every night. i knew OF him before, he went to my school, but i never spoke to him. he's 2 years older than me, he's 17. anyway, he's bee...
A. 14 August 2006: well, thanks for the advice.
i see what you're saying, i thought of that too. but the thing is, i know he wouldn't cheat on his girlfriend. ever. he completely frowns upon it. and i've never told him that i like him this much, i mean of course he m... (read in full...)
My parents don't like my boyfriend! What should I do?
Q. Hi. Sorry this is kind of long. I've been going out with my bf for about 5 months now. I think he's great and wonderful, and although he's not flawless at all, i feel very strongly for him. The only problem is that my parents don't really lik...
A. 13 August 2006: well. umm, i never tell my parents if i have a boyfriend, for those exact reasons.
i suggest you tell your parents you've split up with him, then just see him in secret, but that might not work for you...
umm yeah, good luck :)... (read in full...)
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