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writes:hi everyoneI need some insight as to something that happened. Today I had my girlfriend over and I was (for lack of a better term) fingering her, and everything was going fine until she said something felt weird. She wasn't sure what happend and neither was I. Then, after about 30 seconds, she started crying. All not knowing why it was happening. Before this, we had dinner (tacos! yum!) so we had a lot. She said she had a stomache ache.that's the scoopPlease rain your knowlege upon us.many thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): This has happened to me before. It is actually caused when something pushes against the cervix at an odd angle. At first it is uncomfortable, but then it becomes severe cramps that can be debilitating. It is equivalent to really bad menstrual cramps that last up to an hour and since guys never understand what cramps is all about it's easier to say stomach ache. Ask her if you hurt her and let her know that this can sometimes happen and that you'll try to be more gentle next time.
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reader, Mushgirl  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 Maybe she just felt ill and had been trying not to think about it, but then just started crying. I do that sometimes. It wasn't good timing, but she probably feels bad about it too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): I am going to be real honest here and tell you my first impression when I read that. Ok first off the stomach is really far away from her vagina. I think that she had to fart or go to the bathroom while you were fingering her and she got so embarrassed that she started to cry. That's what I think happened. I am positive their is nothing wrong with her vagina. She probably just had really embarrasing gas or a heavy urge to go to the bathroom. That is a mighty embarrassing feeling to have when you are making out and getting fingered.
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reader, jess18maine +, writes (4 November 2007):
 Okay, so yes there is a possibablty that it could be a bladder or yeast infection but nither of which will indanger her from having kids, and both are very normal for women to get, its not a sign of anything bad... see just needs to talk to a dr. if any more funny symptoms come up.
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 November 2007):
 The only things I can think of is (1) Bladder infection (2) Yeast infection (both of which can be caught by taking too long of a bath, taking in some hot tub time. or not consuming enough water.)
I'd recommend she see her doctor and get checked. I don't recall which one, but one of the two, if not treated can affect and cause damage to her ability to have children.
I hope this helps.
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