Why won't he show me where he lives?
Q. AM I HARD ON HIM I am 25 years old and I have been dating a 30 year olg guy for five months. The problem is that he doesn't want to show me where he lives. He knows where I live and he visits me every day. I feel like he is hiding somethin...
A. 8 November 2008: Hey.. Probably he doesn't have so nice apartmant/house like you. I think he is just embarrassed of his own place. I can't answer you if he has a wife or not.. do you have any friends in common? Ask them about his wife if you're still not sure. But I ... (read in full...)
He asked I wait 4 years, to meet him, until he's done college.
Q. my bf and i never had a date since we know each other. we fall in love thru handphone. messaging and calling. but i know him before. We were studying in a same college for a year. At the moment, we haven't been a couple yet. not even friend. AQ...
A. 1 November 2008: Yes, i think it is possible. But how can you really know your love will survive? At the moment you don't know. Don't make any promises to him. You are "together" now and you're still too young to make such a big commitments. It will be really hard ... (read in full...)
Should I marry a man twice my age ? Does age really matter ?
Q. Hi.I am 20 years old and I am in love with a guy who is 20 years older than me.he was married twice before and has 2 kids from his first marriage. we totaly understand eachother and have no problems in our relationship. he makes me really happy an...
A. 29 October 2008: In your case i don't see problems, because you like each other and understand each other so much. You don't have to worry about that. I'm just concerned about one thing. You're still so young, do you really think you're not too young to get married ... (read in full...)
I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.
Q. Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common,...
A. 26 October 2008: I don't think there is any particular way to get to know that. Try with chatting about her with people around you. But don't show them you love her or anything, simply chat about her like she would be anyone else. ... (read in full...)
I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.
Q. Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common,...
A. 25 October 2008: It's great you found such a nice woman, even though she's your teacher and so much older than you. You said you are not sure if she's gay. You should find out that. The fact that she is not married and doesn't have kids, doesn't mean she's gay. A ... (read in full...)
I fancy my much older teacher and I want to tell her how I feel.
Q. Ok, I’m very nearly 16 and go to an all-girl’s school. I’m in my last year there (yr11) and will be leaving in June to go to another school to do A-levels. So basically, there’s this one teacher who I absolutely love. We have loads in common,...
A. 24 October 2008: I agree with what's been written here about waiting to tell her till the end of school's year. It's not really good to jeopardize her career. But are you sure she's gay? Because i think that's your main problem. You can wait to tell her and you can ... (read in full...)
Can you be friends with an ex with whom you have recently split?
Q. Can you still be freinds with an ex who you recently split with ive spoken to him on the phone and get on really well and ive seen him since we split and got on fine then. Do you think t could work like that ...
A. 16 October 2008: I think it could work in case your relationship was not based just on sex. If it was, wait some time and then try to be friend with him. Friendship with your ex boyfriends can be something really beautiful and special. I suppose you don't want to be ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on him, but he might be straight!
Q. it all started when i was like in 2nd grade, i´ve always known am gay. i had a friend,we were best friends, we used to do everything together and i started liking him. But the problem was that there was another boy who was my best friend´s best ...
A. 16 October 2008: Yes do that, but definitely with your OWN account; in other case your action would be pointless. Don't you think so? Just simply forget that you're shy and nervous for 5sec and talk with him.... (read in full...)
I have a crush on him, but he might be straight!
Q. it all started when i was like in 2nd grade, i´ve always known am gay. i had a friend,we were best friends, we used to do everything together and i started liking him. But the problem was that there was another boy who was my best friend´s best ...
A. 13 October 2008: You seems to be in situation where there can't be anything possible to do. But that's not true. If you're ready to fight against your shyness, then you can save your problem. You should go and talk with him, in other case it's almost impossible to ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on him, but he might be straight!
Q. it all started when i was like in 2nd grade, i´ve always known am gay. i had a friend,we were best friends, we used to do everything together and i started liking him. But the problem was that there was another boy who was my best friend´s best ...
A. 12 October 2008: You should try to talk with him and make sure if your feelings are real or you're only infatuated because of your past experiences with him. Maybe he has changed, who knows? Maybe you wouldn't like him so much anymore. Try to figured out that. The ... (read in full...)
Would emailing him get him back?
Q. My bf and i broke up a month ago today. since that we have started different uni's. i was devastated. but he said we were arguing about things too much. we were but i told him i loved him no matter what. i meant it. we always made up after, and even ...
A. 11 October 2008: Yes try to email him. Be honest and tell him you want friendship and that's all. Probably he misses you too. I know how painful can be loosing your soul mate and best friend. This can be the worst thing in the end of relationship. So email him, tell ... (read in full...)
Confused about a co-worker!
Q. I work with a woman who is married, but am confused about how she feels about me. This woman always wants to work with me, has baked lasagna for me, and even had a hand in having my office moved next to hers. We went for coffee a few times during ...
A. 10 October 2008: In that case, go away before you would develope stronger and stronger feelings to her. It wouldn't be good idea to be around her. Your life can become more and more complicated, besides that it's not fair to her husband too. So stop before it's too ... (read in full...)
Confused about a co-worker!
Q. I work with a woman who is married, but am confused about how she feels about me. This woman always wants to work with me, has baked lasagna for me, and even had a hand in having my office moved next to hers. We went for coffee a few times during ...
A. 10 October 2008: Hey, I know you're feeling uncomfortable about this situation. Are you sure she doesn't want to be only your close friend? If you're not, think about that a bit. This is one of chances. But probably she wants to have affair with you. Obviously she's ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend always seems to make a mountain out of a molehill. Any suggestions?
Q. My girlfriend makes a big issue out of the slightest thing! I think? It's like the rhyme, There once was girl, who had a little curl, right in the middle of her forehead, When she was good, she was very very good, But when she was bad she was horr...
A. 9 October 2008: Well I'm not quite sure about what's happening with her. But,if i'd like to give you subjective opinion, i'd say she has gone through bad past. Does it makes sense to you? Maybe bad relationsips, maybe problems in her family,.. anything bad. Have ... (read in full...)
How does the contraceptive pill work exactly?
Q. Hii just a quick one really. Not really sure if this has been answered before so any help would be greatly appreciated. Basically, the contraceptive pill..i know that there are about 20 different kinds, but exactly how do they work? I mean of cours...
A. 8 October 2008:
Yes you still have periods, but they are short and not so strong. I was taking 21 days and then 7 days not. During this week or 7 days you supposed to have period. And then again, 21 days taking and 7 days not. Every month, around the same time... (read in full...)
Was I drugged and raped?
Q. my friend is the same age as me and we have been close friends for about four or five years. he recently developed a problem with cocaine. i wanted to offer him my support and friendship and help him get off the drugs, so after he agreed that he ...
A. 7 October 2008: I know one drug which called Rohypnol or date rape drug. You have quite similar symptoms. It's enough somebody give it in a drink.
Try that:
http://www.4woman.gov/FAQ/rohypnol.htm
http://www.emergency.com/roofies.htm
Talk with a psychologist ... (read in full...)
I have trouble being faithful in a relationship, how can I stop being this way?
Q. hi... I wondered if you could help me? I have trouble with being faithful in a relationship. Every time I'm in a relationship i always destroy it by cheating and lying I wondered if you can tell me the best way to stop this? ...
A. 7 October 2008: I think your problem will be saved when you find somebody who's right person for you. Obviously you're not mature enough and you haven't find a that person yet. If you're truely in love with someone, you don't see other guys. Perhaps you need mor... (read in full...)
Artist block: how can I compromise?
Q. It's been a couple of months sense my boyfriend has moved in with me. He loves my art and I appreciate that very much, but if I don't draw for one day he'll get a little sad, well more like a pouty sad. Basically in my opinion he wants me to draw ...
A. 6 October 2008: Hey, I'm not artist but your problem sounds really weird. I can't understand why he wants you to draw so much time. Are you sure he's in love with you and not only with your drawings? I think he didn't get the point of art. Works of art should be ... (read in full...)
He's not my kind of guy. Should I move on?
Q. I've just met this guy who I'm crazy about, he asked me out and everything was great. The thing is, he's a LOT different to guys I normally go for and he expects very different things from a relationship, and it would take a while for me to get used ...
A. 5 October 2008: You have choice. Do you like things which he expect from relationship? Are you ready to do different things in with him? Do you like his character?
1) If the answer to this questions would be yes, then be with him. It doesn't matter he is diff... (read in full...)
I fantasize about having sex with my first cousin, is this wrong?
Q. I fantasize about having sex with my first cousin, is this wrong? you have to take into account that i had a relationship with him for 4 months and then we had sex because we were in love and i still love him but i aint seen him for two years ...
A. 4 October 2008: There's nothing wrong with you. Maybe your realationship wasn't really appropriate, but we can't choose who we love. I don't agree with your parents who tore you appart. It's really sad. But you couldn't take a risk and have baby with him, because ... (read in full...)
Could I get pregnant from this?
Q. my boyfriend and i were fooling around one night with our clothes on and he came on me and neglected to tell me for a few more minutes. the whole time pretty much his penis was centered right on my vagina. he said his jeans were not TOO wet and my ...
A. 4 October 2008: The only way to get pregnant is when guy put his penis INTO your vagina and ejaculate. If you're still not sure, why don't you buy pregnancy test?
I also suggest read some sex book where you can learn more about it. ... (read in full...)
I never kissed anyone and now I might like a boy!
Q. A guy really likes me and he keeps asking me out. I think I like him too but I'm really not sure. I'm really worried about kissing him as I've never kissed anyone before. Please help :(...
A. 3 October 2008: Hey girl, don't worry about that. Someday you will kiss somebody, so it wouldn't be much different if you do now or later. It depends on person you're kissing and how much you like him/her. It is not so difficult as you may think it is. If you're ... (read in full...)
Does anyone find it strange that we are 5 years apart?
Q. I am 22 and my girlfriend is 17. We have been dating for 2 years. Her parents really like me and my parents really like her. Both of our families have dinner every once in a blue moon and they've been over for a couple holidays. Does anyone find...
A. 3 October 2008: No, sure not! It's great her family likes you and your likes her. And if you have good relationship, if you support each other, if there's trust and understanding between you two, then really I don't see any reason to not be with her! It's not big ... (read in full...)
I think I am obsessed with a guy I work with, any useful tips please?
Q. I think I am obsessed with a guy I work with, I can't get him out of my head and I feel that if I don't see him, my day is somehow incomplete. I have tried staying in my own office and blanking him, but it's not working. Has anyone got any usef...
A. 3 October 2008: Obviously you're having huge crush on him. Why do you think you don't have any chances to be with him? Maybe you were not obvious enough and he didn't know what exactly do you want from him. Or maybe he has a girl. I suggest ask him out but don't ... (read in full...)
Why does my teacher never send me anything? His silence is killing me...
Q. Hi everyone, I began to fall in love with my teacher when i was in 12 th grade.( now I’m in college). He's not handsome but really nice. I’m attracted by his personality. He's a caring person. I remember one time he cried because one stud...
A. 3 October 2008: Dear girl.. You must be really nervous when you're waiting to get his e-mail. It can be painful too. I remember when i was in that kind of situation... I smoked a lot more cigarettes than usual and i was checking my account every half hour. I think ... (read in full...)
Do these signs mean he may like me?
Q. theres this boy who i like and i got one of his mates to tell him (in the past he has said that i was "bum" and "beautiful" ) i thought becasue of what he said i actully had a shot of him liking me.but when the boy said he told him. he was in a rus...
A. 30 September 2008: I think he may likes you, but he's too shy to do something. This is happening to a lot of guys at your age by the way.
In the worst case, he doesn't care about girls and doesn't want to have relationship yet. It's nice he said you're beau... (read in full...)
My online boyfriend quit speaking to me, why?
Q. ive known this guy over the internet for ages now! we met a while back like twice and then when he added me on msn we got chattin alot, i really liked him and he liked me, he asked me out on a date on friday and i thought it was amazing! i was like ...
A. 30 September 2008: You did the right thing when you refused him. Maybe he really seemed to be nice guy at the first place but reality can be so different than online chatting. Remember that. I'm sorry this had happened to you. Obviously his expectations was higher t... (read in full...)
Shall I just cut all contact with my ex as it's doing me no good?
Q. Hi, I have been thinking an awful lot about my ex boyfriend( we split 2 years ago!! i know, together for 8) i feel down and weepy recently- - yes ive been out with other guys - we split as he said he didnt love me anymore and starting seeing ...
A. 28 September 2008: You were not exactly particular of what you're feeling right now (except crying and feeling down). Are you still in love with him? If you're tell because in that case i'd give you different advice than now.
But I suppose you're not, so my answ... (read in full...)
Friends have told me about masturbating, but I want to be a virgin, please help.
Q. Hi, I'm 12 years old and i want 2 have sex but my friends have told me about masterbating what should i do? p.s. (im realy horny but i want 2 b a virgin please help me)...
A. 26 September 2008: I suspect you want to keep your hymen. You would if you don't use vibrators or this sexual toys which are made to put in vagina. Use your fingers, think of nice things, go to the quiet place.
Enjoy with your body and don't worry, you will keep your... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and I live with a 44 year old, but my family don't know!
Q. im 17, with a 44 year old. i love him to bits and he's going through a divorce. he's got 2 kids - one just 3 weeks younger than me. im currently living with him, but my parents and freinds think im staying with a few mates i met at work. we have not ...
A. 23 September 2008: I agree what Tellulah and LaydeeLove has been said. Tell your parents, but first make them to be ready. I think you should tell your mother first, because she would probably be more understandable. First tell you have a boyfriend who is much older ... (read in full...)
These flashbacks and nightmares that remind me of the rape are geting out of control, how do I stop them?
Q. When I was 11 almost 12 years old I was raped. Im a very strong person when it comes to bad things happening to me and alot of things have but I wont name them all or we would be here for days. anyway Iv always had the mind set that everything ...
A. 20 September 2008: You really seems smart and also strong girl. But even you're all you want to be, rape is too much terrible thing to get over in only 2 or even 10 years without talk with anybody. I suppose you're in school, right? Do you have sociology worker or ... (read in full...)
How long should you wait before you tell someone you love them?
Q. hello, i just have a question really as you know i havestarted seeing a lad 1 year and 37 days younger than me. my question is how long in peoples opinion should you wait before you tell someone you love them? please give me some advice on ...
A. 18 September 2008: I think most of people tell their partners they love way too soon. Sometimes love doesn't have nothing to do with sentence "i love you" because some people think they just have to tell this their partners only because they feel this sentence is ... (read in full...)
We're in a long distance relationship, she kissed another guy, can I still trust her?
Q. hi, ive never done anything like this before, but i need some advice and cant turn to my friends for it. im 22 years old and ive lived in the north east of england all my life, and i started dating a girl over 10 months ago, who was originally f...
A. 16 September 2008: It must be shocking for you when you had heard what she did. And i guess this shock carry on. But as you described your relationship, i gett a feeling you two have really good relationship and now she feels guilty about it. I think she just needed ... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with this online guy I've known for 3 years? I'm scared...
Q. I met this guy online three years ago we talked ever since but he lived in london which is otherside of england to me. we never met up and havent talked for about 6 months. Today i got a text from him, he is in Leeds for a year and wants to meet up ...
A. 12 September 2008: I think yes, you should go. If you're scared, meet him in a public place like local or something. Don't be so suspicious, probably he's just curious who are you and what you look like. And if he had intentions to do something ugly to you, he ... (read in full...)
Is this just a silly crush or should I do something about it?
Q. At my work theres a new guy that has been spending an awful lot of time hanging around me. Hes very nice and respectful and has been flirting with me quite a bit lately. He absoultely gorgeous and i cant get him out of my head. I get so flustered ...
A. 9 September 2008: Still, try and you'll see. You will see he is inappropriate for you or he acts bad, then you will probably forget on him. Don't worry. Just try, but still be careful. I think it's a really good thing what he says to you "i hadn't found the right ... (read in full...)
Is this just a silly crush or should I do something about it?
Q. At my work theres a new guy that has been spending an awful lot of time hanging around me. Hes very nice and respectful and has been flirting with me quite a bit lately. He absoultely gorgeous and i cant get him out of my head. I get so flustered ...
A. 7 September 2008: I'd say, try and you'll see. If you will see he just want to have sex with you and nothing else, then stop yourself. Don't worry about family, when you're in love you don't see any other things. I think you should answer a question on the top by y... (read in full...)
Consequences of smoking pot?
Q. I'm happy with everything in my life, I love my boy heaps. We both work full time, and we smoke pot... is this affecting us in our personality? We only smoke after work......
A. 1 September 2008: I'd say don't worry about that too much. If you're enjoying your life as you said you're, then be happy about that. And if weed has good affections to you, why not? I think point of our lifes is in happiness.
Yes, weed do have affection in pers... (read in full...)
We want to have sex but I am on the pill and REALLY don't trust it! I dislike condoms, too, thus?
Q. Okay, this is so stupid.. But I've got a new boyfriend, and soon we're going to be having sex soon for the first time, and although I'm on the pill I REALLY don't trust it. (The morning after pill failed on me) I'm assuming they've got different ...
A. 1 September 2008: Yes, i think you should relax more. Pills are almost 100% safe if you use them properly. I can tell you from my friend's expereinces and mine. They use them for a ages and have sex almost every day, but still no one of them wasn't become pregnant. ... (read in full...)
My wife of 5 years left me, for my best friend. I want her back! What should I do?
Q. I am looking for what to do? My wife of 5 years left me, for my best friend. She also left me with our two kids. She says that i don't make her happy anymore. I love her so much that i don't know how to take it. I had to quit my job to take care of ...
A. 1 September 2008: I'm really sorry this happened to you. I think you can't do much, because it was her decison and she's free enough to be with anyone she wants.
Obviously your marriage wasn't happy enough to be worth to stay in it. She felt that, you may not. I thin... (read in full...)
Why my friends can talk to girls but not me?
Q. hello got 1 more question how come when i talk to girls i get really nerves and scared and like if i ask them something they will take the piss and plus most of my mates can talk to girls really easily...
A. 1 September 2008: Because you're still too shy. Try to see girls as your good friends and not like potencial person to be with. Don't be nervous, just be nice and kind to them. You can talk with them about almost everything you want, (music, school, tv, movies...). ... (read in full...)
I think there's something wrong with me because I've never had a boyfriend!
Q. I seriously think something wrong with me because am 21 and never had a boyfriend abd I know am not an ugly girl. Im confident about the way I look but at the same time I do find guys that talk to me but they are not my type usually they are ghetto ...
A. 30 August 2008: No, you're not too picky, maybe you just have better taste than your female friends. There's no reasons to be with guys which you don't like. Go out, talk with different guys than usual. If gheto is not your style, try with another types of men (and ... (read in full...)
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