I think there's something wrong with me because I've never had a boyfriend!
Q. I seriously think something wrong with me because am 21 and never had a boyfriend abd I know am not an ugly girl. Im confident about the way I look but at the same time I do find guys that talk to me but they are not my type usually they are ghetto ...
A. 30 August 2008: No, you're not too picky, maybe you just have better taste than your female friends. There's no reasons to be with guys which you don't like. Go out, talk with different guys than usual. If gheto is not your style, try with another types of men (and ... (read in full...)
I walked in my sister's room and she was masturbating!
Q. okay i have a 12 year old sister and one day i walked in her room and she was masturbating...like really u could tell dhe was having a oragasm..... is this normal? is something wrong with her? --Confused...
A. 30 August 2008: This is normal. You're too young to know that, but really it is. Knock on her door next time. ... (read in full...)
I'm 35, single, and still a virgin, but my religion sees sex before marriage as a sin. What can I do?
Q. hi I found this website may be can help in this matter. I am single guy,35 years old.I am still virgin.I am live in uK but i am from Egypt and christian. MY regailion refuse any sex before marriage and in my religion sex before ma...
A. 29 August 2008: Question is, what you want to do? Do you want to throw away part of your beliefs or not? Maybe you should think more deep about your religion, because it's not so perfect as may you think it is. It's not neccesery all of its lessons are good and... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a baby but I don't want to! What should I do about this?
Q. okay so ive been with my boyfriend now for 4 months, we were having sex before our relationship and were very close to each other, but on friday night my parents were away for the weekend so i had the house to myself and hes was stayin at mine but...
A. 29 August 2008: I see, you're completly panic because of this situation. Tell him the same things you told us. You're smart enough to not have baby at your age and your school ambitions. There is a time for everything. It takes 2 people to make a decision about ... (read in full...)
Do I take a risk and call him even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. There is a guy,I met him while I was working in England.He was very nice to me,he smiled at me and stared all the time.We talked a few times.When I was leaving England,I asked him for his phone number,he gave it to me willingly.I wrote him a text ...
A. 15 August 2008: Call him up. You can go out on drink. And then you'll see what will happen. You can't lose much. If he is really in relationship be more careful about everything. As friends- why not? As lovers- you should think about it, specially because of his ... (read in full...)
Body Image: How can I feel better about it?
Q. Hi, I have just started seeing this guy, we have been out a few times however everytime he goes to touch me I always find my self pulling away, I have a big issue with the way I look, I'm not overweight but I am no oil painting either, just a normal ...
A. 15 August 2008: I was in the same situation as you are few years ago. Well, i think your problem can be saved with the time. Obviously you don't feel enough comfortable and relaxed when you're more close to him. It would help if you two slow down those intimina... (read in full...)
I had an affair with my boss, his wife found out, we still see each other, but no sex, what is it that he wants?
Q. After his wife found out about our affair, we still keep seeing each other, but no sex at all, his wife checks on him all the time and restrict him doing OT hrs (he is the boss), it's really hard for us to meet. What does he want from me? Why go ...
A. 14 August 2008: I suppose it's hard for you being in situation like that. I think he doesn't know what he wants and he is kind of addict of you. Maybe it's because he has middle-age crush on you, maybe he has boring life and want have some fun, maybe his wife ... (read in full...)
I found out my wife is smoking weed behind my back before she goes to work. I don't know how to handle this.
Q. My wife has been hiding the fact that she has been smoking weed daily.This is before she goes to work. Behind my back.Now we do smoke daily when the day is over and on weekends.But she has been buying behind my back and using before she goes ...
A. 13 August 2008: Maybe she just need time for herself, to relax, to make her thoughts in order, to feel better. It's not big deal, she is not junkie or something like that. You should have good conversation about that with her, but I don't really beleive she will ... (read in full...)
Why am I hardly ever in the mood for sex?
Q. Is there something wrong with me? I am hardly ever in the mood for sex and i am only 23 years old. Does anyone have any advice for me, to help me have more of a sex life with my boyfriend?...
A. 1 August 2008: You're dreams of every guy. If i'm understand you, your boyfriend doesn't want to have sex as much as you do. I suggest, buy new sexy underwear which would makes him more horny. Or act more sexually, like sexy seducing with your moves..or maybe easy ... (read in full...)
Would he give me a second look?
Q. I really fancy a guy in my local town. He's very hot he plays rugby and cricket so he has a toned body, except he's really tall and i'm really small and we are complete strangers to each other. but im frightened that he's out of my league, i mean ...
A. 1 August 2008: Why don't you try talk with him? Maybe he doesn't like blond and tall girls as you said. If it's height your main problem, then you shouldn't worry about. I had boyfriend few months ago, who loves all small girls (in fact, i'm have only 163cm and i ... (read in full...)
How can I get to know the guy from the pub?
Q. Hi I really like a guy in my local town and he goes down to the pub alot with some of his guy friends... but i dont really know him and he doesnt know me..? how can i get to know him, my friend knows him and she is trying to play matchmaker and s...
A. 31 July 2008: I think age differences are not the main thing you should worry about. I suggest try to make eye contact with him, flirt with him. Make him to see you (not on extreme ways:) And then next week or day be more close to him. Talk with your friend in ... (read in full...)
I don't want our daughter to be involved with the "other woman"!
Q. my boyfriend and i have a five year old daughter together. after an eight year relationship he says that he dont love me. days after he tells me this he is with another woman. i do not want my daughter to see him if he is with her. what do i do?...
A. 31 July 2008: And how do you feel about that? I hope he's not so stupid that he would bring this woman in your home. Talk to him, tell him that this is between you and him and no one else. If you two will divorce, it wouldn't be very good for your daugther to see ... (read in full...)
He left me to get back with his ex, he says he still loves me yet he isn't returning to me, I'm so confused!
Q. sorry it's so long im 16 years old an i need some advise. u see, i have just recently come out of a relationship with L, he is 20 we were datin for 3 months an i fell in love with him it all started about a month ago when he said we need a b...
A. 30 July 2008: Sometimes is the sentence "open hand to the butterfly and he will come back to you" true in reality. Maybe it will work for you if you just wait few days or weeks. But i personally think, this guy is very confused and don't know what he wants. Y... (read in full...)
I have absolutely no confidence, please can you help?
Q. i have absolutely no confidence and cannot have a conversation with girls and some boys. I have a bone displacement in my nose which makes me embarassed and when someone tries to talk to me I try to hide it by looking away, even though they woul...
A. 30 July 2008: I understand you. I don't have confidence neither, even through i look nice, but i often feel stupid when i'm with people who seems smarter then me.
I suggest you try to make conversation and just be nice to other people. You can try new frie... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is telling me my vagina is too wide, what should I do?
Q. my boyfriend told me that i have a wide vagina and theres no feeling for him when we have sex. what could be the problem?, and what can i do to fix it?...
A. 27 July 2008: Maybe instead he is too small? Don't worry about that. He's not worth it.... (read in full...)
Why does my girlfriend keep bleeding after having sex?
Q. me and my girlfriend have just had sex and for the first time she started to bleed and plus she had pain's but after bout 20 minutes the blood so then me and my girlfriend was both horny so we tought we do it again but now she hasn't stop bleeding ...
A. 27 July 2008: My friend was bleeding to for 3-4 days after she had her first sex. And then it stopped. So don't worry to much and if she will bleed for a week go to the doctor.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my best friend I love her?
Q. Okay so, my friend(whos a girl) and I have known eachother for over 2 years. Were besties. Shes bi and is always talking about this girl who shes falling in love with but the girl doesnt really like my friend. Ive just realized I kinda have feelings ...
A. 26 July 2008: I suppose it's really hard for you, specially cause she's your good friend. In a lot of cases people easier tell someone, who is almost stranger for them that they like or love him/she than someone who knows way much better. I suggest that first try ... (read in full...)
I have an amazing boyfriend but I'm miserable because I don't have any other friends.
Q. Hi everyone, I need advice, and to spare u anymore agony my dearc agony aunts, im gonna make a long story short. Im miserable, I have an amazing boyfriend that I love and really enjoy spending time with but other than him I don't really have any...
A. 25 July 2008: I understand you. First thing you have to know it that you can't make new friendship in few days. It may take you a little bit longer. If you really have good relation with your work co-workers, why don't you ask somebody to go with you on drink or ... (read in full...)
I'm travelling with my boyfriend and his family, how can we have some privacy on holiday?
Q. Okay, this is my first time asking a question for all the agony aunts and uncles, so please be nice to me xD! I'll make this nice and quick for you, me and my boyfriend and his family (mum, dad, younger brother and sister) are going to France ...
A. 25 July 2008: Go to the toilet, haha. Or just say that you want to go to the walk and go in forest or meadow or something. If you really want, you can do it everywhere. :)... (read in full...)
Poll question for women: do you like oral and would you like your partner more for it?
Q. Do girls like when a guy goes down on them? And would you like your boyfriend more if he did that?...
A. 25 July 2008: Sure I like it. Almost every girl love when guy go down on them. For some girls is this the only way to get orgasm. But if you're not sure, watch girl's body language and you will soon see what she likes. And if you don't, talk with her. ... (read in full...)
The girl I like was forced to perform oral sex with a guy... Should I risk trying to date her?
Q. Guys suppose you see this nice college girl you liked, but you heard she was force by a guy she was dating to performed oral sex once,but she ended the dating after that with him. Would you still try to date her or You may fear that the same guy...
A. 25 July 2008: Ask her out, but don't go too fast with touches and everything because she may be hurt of her past experinces with men. Just be gently and talk to her about everything. Girls love to do that.
Maybe that guy who forced her will really make joke... (read in full...)
Why falling for your teacher is never good!
Q. *LONG BUT READ IT ALL TO UNDERSTAND PROPERLY* I know for a fact many of you girls on here have crushes/are in love/are in fatuated with your teachers, and most of you would love something to happen aswell.Most of the aunts say this is a b...
A. 22 July 2008: I completly understand you. I've never been in the same situation as you are but I perfectly realized how hard and painful is forget someone who you loved and who hurt you on so many ways.
You made bad decision because you leave school. Maybe it w... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and he's 20, is it ok for us to be together or should I wait?
Q. Okay. So here's the deal. I met this guy.. lets call him Justin (not real name).. on Friday... well no I've been talking to him for SO much longer... I've been talking to him since i was 13 and he was 18 but now I'm 15 and he's 20. I actually...
A. 21 July 2008: Be with him. I was in same situation like you, i had boyfriend who was 20 and i was 15. We're still very good friends. Just listen to your heart and not that religious crap things. It's not very big age difference at all. 5 years is something but is ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher.
Q. I'm 16 and my teacher's 44. I have a feeling that he might like me too. I know it's a big age difference, but I can't help it. He's in here. *points to heart* I can never tell if he's flirting with me or not. When he sits next to me, he's ...
A. 6 July 2008: Your guys too much apologize yourself and your "inappropriate love". There's nothing to be shame about. We can't choose who we love and control our emotionals although they're bad for our feeling and people around us. That kind of things just ... (read in full...)
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