Does he explode?
Q. what happens when you overlove a guy ...
A. 20 January 2007: whoa, couldnt understand what the first person just said. nothing happens, except maybe you'll appear as "too clingy", and thats something many guys fear.. and it might put them off a little bit. You can overlove a guy but don't show it in clingy ... (read in full...)
I have a lot of angst about chatting to girls...
Q. Hi, I started college in september 06 and i still havent got any female friends from there. I jus cant bring myself to go and talk to any girls. i think to myself "what do i say", "what if i look bad", "what if i dont act right" and so on. even ...
A. 20 January 2007: man! that sounds like the exact same situation i was in, and kind of still in. In senior year of high school , it was VERY easy for me because in class, you can easily talk to girls that sit next to you to make fun of the class or whatever... or ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him these harrassing phone calls are from a bully and are not me?
Q. i have recently meet this guy. we started going out and everything was fine. previously my last relationship ended due to persistant bullying from an unknown phone number. to prevent this happening again i changed my number. this was a real turning ...
A. 19 January 2007: " since he recieved these messages he has not contacted me and will not answer my calls."
so how do you know he got those messages? if he told you, then you should just tell him that they were not from you and that someone is doing mischief... (read in full...)
My bf cussed out the guy I have a crush on! What should I do?
Q. I have a problem with my boy-friend being to overprotective. He just cussed out the guy i have a crush on, in front of me!!..and he knows that i don't like that, but what can i do because now he's asking me to set the up to fight..and the only thing ...
A. 19 January 2007: lol nice one ponuga... (read in full...)
I really want a long term boyfriend so I don' t want a guy who just wants sex. Where can I find a guy like this?
Q. Guys this is one for you!! I havent been shy (if you know what I mean)I have had a number of lovers though non of it was intentional. I never wanted to be used for sex but it happened. I confused sex with love to begin with then when they neve...
A. 17 January 2007: depends on the guy i think, but my friends seem to be put off by it, but then they're weird, i know a lot that aren't. (although it does bother us in the back of our head)... i think you need a man who will just stay with you for a long time.. but ... (read in full...)
Would my man be embarrassed to receive roses at work?
Q. I want to send the man I love a bunch of roses, just cos im a bit of a soppy romantic and want to suprise him. However he is at work all day and so if I sent them to his home he wouldnt get them. Do you think it would be too embarrassing for him to ...
A. 17 January 2007: ahaha indeed, his coworkers will make jokes about this for weeks, some pretty funny responses here, but personally if i get jokes like that i'd only feel flattered that i got this attention from a girl and they didn't.
still, i dont think yo... (read in full...)
I still love my ex even though he has moved on. I need some advice.
Q. I really still love my ex. He has moved on! i want to but i just cant! He treated me like dirt! he took away my virginity and then dumped me a week later! i thought it was true love. I really miss him and would do anything to get him back but i know ...
A. 17 January 2007: time heals all, but it probably takes a long time for some people, it took me like 2 years to completely get over someone cuz i realized that she really doesn't live up to my expectations now that i think about it.
i suggest you get into new thin... (read in full...)
I'm a Christian but I'm not a virgin. My bf is also a Christian. Do you think he'll react badly if I told him?
Q. I'm a Christian, and 21 years old, but I made a huge mistake and gave my virginity away when I was 19. I gave it away to a man who ended up being emotionally abusive and I broke up with him. Later I was depressed and didn't date anyone for awhile. I ...
A. 17 January 2007: heres what you can do. ask him indirectly. be like, omg so this other person at church broke the rules of christianity or blah blah and lost his virginity... what do you think about that?? and you'll find out his views on it. also, it is none of his ... (read in full...)
I met him through an internet dating agency and he was the ideal man... until he just disappeared off the face of the earth!
Q. ok, here's the deal. i recently split up with my boyfriend of 3 years and a friend told me to sign up to an internet dating agency where i met an amazing guy. we exchanged emails for a week, swapped numbers and last sunday we met up for the first...
A. 17 January 2007: lol i don't think you should be so attached to someone whom you just met, maybe it's because you recently split up.. i think you should know that there are lots of guys that you will think is perfect and this is just temporary.. you don't really ... (read in full...)
If my casual guy is happy with his gf why does he come to me for sex? It also seems like he wants more than sex. What do you think?
Q. Is he really happy with his girlfriend? I have been having what I thought was casual sex with a guy for a year and a half now but he has a girlfriend of 15 years. They don't live together and they never have sex. He wants to spend weekends away with ...
A. 17 January 2007: hes not sexually satisfied by his, she probably doesnt put out for him.. but then your story seems kinda more complicated than this so perhaps maybe something more, maybe he doesn't like his girlfriend anymore? anyways, usaully i think guys have ... (read in full...)
I don't like anything sexual because it makes me feel dirty and I'm scared to loose my virginity. Am I normal?
Q. I'm 18, I've had a boyfriend for 2yrs. We still haven't had sex. We've done some things but nothing real down and dirty. Why am I so scared of sex?! Is this normal? I'm terrified of losing my virginity to anyone. Everyone tells me it's not that b...
A. 17 January 2007: the responses im expecting here are billions of "you're not ready yet" responses. Actually, surprisingly thats what i'd actually say here.. you're having too many doubts and stressing over a lot of nothing. yeah, it can be normal to be scared but ... (read in full...)
Should I choose Sociology or Religious studies as a GCSE subject? plz help me choose.
Q. i'm 14 from England, London and i'm in year 9 and its time for my GCSE options. i already know which ones i'm going to take as i really really really would love to become a lawyer, i have my career planned out already. but the thing is i hate my ...
A. 17 January 2007: sociology easy! haha. just my opinion. i think it'll be more useful in what you learn, not just what you do in the subject (such as debating, you cna do that about anything)... (read in full...)
Why are they scared?
Q. why do most women fear good looking men, and refuse to go on a date with them....
A. 17 January 2007: yup, what that person just said. insecurity and "oh my god i don't feel confortable with someone this good"... not really sure how a girl thinks but thats probably how some guys think... (read in full...)
He boasted about having anal sex and I was hurt. Am I too innocent for him?
Q. well were do i start....i really love my bf, ive been with him for over 2 years. but he recently told me about him past. Were both 16 and he said he had anal, about a year ago. i felt really hurt. but he said he was sorry and he feels dirty when ...
A. 6 January 2007: I'm not really sure what you're asking of us, if you're too innocent for him then take it slow and if he really likes you then he won't mind... yeah.. just do what's comfortable for you and don't let him push you into things... good luck (by the w... (read in full...)
Why do they always shoot their load so soon? Is it me?
Q. Why is it that everytime i have sex with a man they always ejaculate too quickly? Is it me or what? Im getting rather frustrated over this....
A. 6 January 2007: wow everyone answered this question already... ill just add to it cuz i have nothing to do right now... they enjoy it so much that they can't control it. there!... (read in full...)
I know he got me a hideous present for Christmas!
Q. I know what my husband got me for Christmas (he left it on his dresser) and it is hideous earring that I wouldn't be caught dead in. Should I hint to him that I hate gold jewelry, or hearts with hopes that he will return it for another gift, or ...
A. 21 December 2006: lol that's some funny situation! i'd say you tell him the truth and make a joke out of it... and at the same time say you really like how he got you it, but then let him know you'll get something you like, maybe you tell him what kind of things you ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I may have gotten an STD..and I'm worried about going to a clinic. Help?
Q. i had unprotected sex a lil while back and im scared iv caught somthing and im scared to go 2 a clinic plz help ...
A. 21 December 2006: i feel for you.. remember this feeling and remember not to do it next time =x... (read in full...)
My Mom dislikes my bf because he's black. What should I do?
Q. I just got a new boyfriend a few days ago. He's black and I've never dated a black guy before. I showed my mom some pictures of him and she FLIPPED OUT. We're spanish of light complexion. I look american cuz I have blonde hair. All of my friends ...
A. 21 December 2006: Oh .. so many parents are like this. nothing new... especially the korean parents where i'm at... they refuse to let their kids associate in that way with anyone that's not korean... same for my parents... can't date anyone non-asian... In some ... (read in full...)
How do you pick up 'good guys' at the mall and other places?
Q. What to do to pick up good guys in the mall or at the bowling ally or at the ballpark? ...
A. 21 December 2006: look for the educated and well mannered / not - wanna - be -gangster ones! hehe... (read in full...)
He always 'conveniently' forgets to introduce me to friends, etc. What should I do?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a couple of years now. Most of our relationship is okay but one thing that bugs me is when we go out together, and we bump into women or other friends he knew form his single days he conveniently "forgets" to introduce ...
A. 21 December 2006: i think a possibility is he just feels shy and awkward... "well educated and good manners"... these people are more likely to be shy.. sad as it may be... i have done the same thing... i just couldn't say "hey meet my girlfriend blah blah blah"... ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Happy Xmas to everyone, from DearCupid!
Q. It has been a busy year here at DearCupid! We celebrated our 2nd birthday in November and had our 20,000th question and 70,000th answer published... Thanks to everyone who contributes to the site: Those who ask questions, those who answer, and ...
A. 21 December 2006: ::gives candy cane to everyone::... (read in full...)
I badly want to sleep with him but he doesnt love me!
Q. i think i love my friend he wants to sleep with me but i no he doesnt love me back.. any advice? ...i know i wanna sleep with him. badly. but maybe some of you have had experiences like this one? could you help me?? he is 8 years older tho..........
A. 11 December 2006: "maybe we could just work" is what you just said below. lol. i guess you can really do what you want, but my response answers your response. do it if you want the pleasure for your body, don't do it if you like him. You can't control the guy, and it ... (read in full...)
te me 7 out of 10 and I like him......how do I subtly let a him know?
Q. I like this lad, right? Well one of my friends was playing this game with him and he said he fancied this girl(he gave her 9/10)...and that he thought my friend was an 8/10 and I was a 7/10...but it seems that he looks at me across the classroom ...
A. 10 December 2006: Heavy flirting will do the trick here. flirting is a powerful tool.. but when you ask us how to flirt that is a problem. I'm not really an expert at this either, but that is something for you to find out on your own. Just talk to him. Try to tease ... (read in full...)
There's this guy that treats me badly, but do I love him or not
Q. i'm really confused in my head. Sometimes I'm really happy, and other times I'm really sad. There's this guy that treats me badly, (uses me etc.) and I just can't seem to make up my mind about whether I love him or not. I keep deleting his number ...
A. 10 December 2006: I say you get over this guy, delete it and don't look back, make some new guy friends. It's also painfully obvious the answers you'll get here from this one-sided question, again, a question that didnt' really need to be asked, I think you just ... (read in full...)
Should I contact an actor I've become emotionally attached to?
Q. I really like this guy; he's 10 years older than me. He's an actor; I don't think it's a crush or anything like that. I feel emotionally attached, even though I have never met him. Has anyone else felt like this? I have a chance to contact him, ...
A. 10 December 2006: No. get over it. =( sorry..... simple answer will do here.... (read in full...)
I asked him out and he said no! I can't get over him-any advice?
Q. i really like this boy in my class and he flirts with me a lot but when i asked him out he said no!i can`t get over him what should i do? from,young girl in need...
A. 10 December 2006: Ouch! I feel your pain. Let me just tell you that it was a brave move you made there, and it's something that a lot of guys like, especially me. Don't stop doing it after this. Anyways, guys like me flirt for the fun of it when it's a girl that is ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to go out with a guy younger than me?
Q. im a girl and i like a guy who is younger than me, most people say its wrong to go out with guys who are younger than you and im worried what people will say. should i just forget him or is this acceptable?...
A. 10 December 2006: Look, I think you didn't really even need to ask this question. You shoudl already know what kind of answers you will get here. lots of "YES OF COURSE!" and "it depends what you think"... never a straight no. And I already know what type of people ... (read in full...)
What shall I get a guy for Christmas?
Q. I really like this guy but I do not now what to get him for Christmas. So what should I get him?...
A. 10 December 2006: Depends how well you know the guy. If you know him very intamately, a blowjob! (haha joke, but seriously, he'd love it, any guy would) An alternative to that joke might be a kiss. If you don't really know this guy too intimately and hes just like a ... (read in full...)
I badly want to sleep with him but he doesnt love me!
Q. i think i love my friend he wants to sleep with me but i no he doesnt love me back.. any advice? ...i know i wanna sleep with him. badly. but maybe some of you have had experiences like this one? could you help me?? he is 8 years older tho..........
A. 10 December 2006: wow, totally opposite ended answers here, one of which is totally biased. If you want to sleep with him, don't sleep with him because you want him to love you or get closer to you. Sleep with him because it feels good and it pleasures you sexually, ... (read in full...)
How do you know if your guy friend likes you more then a friend?
Q. How do you know if your guy friend likes you more then a friend? ...
A. 10 December 2006: I'd say the best answer to your question is to find out by how he is flirting. Also, looking your way a lot during some time where you're stuck together, especially if this is long distance, this is a sign he's interested. Some guys though just play ... (read in full...)
Is something wrong with me? Do girls just like bad boys?
Q. I'm 19 and I have a problem. I seem like a nice and smart guy (and I think I'm attractive) = I have good confidence and people think I'm funny. But whenever I start meeting new friends that are girls when I have the courage to ask them out they ...
A. 10 December 2006: God I've seen this question so much in books as well. Apparently, the bad boys only possess certain qualities, and it's not because they're bad. You just have to emulate some of hteir qualities that attract a lot of women, and as for your "stay ... (read in full...)
Is it just me or is my mom being really unfair?
Q. Ok..is it just me or is my mom being really unfair? ever since i dated my bf she's been going psycho. The only reason i think she doesn't like him is because of his nationality. She picks fights with me everyday, and each time i go out with him. She ...
A. 10 December 2006: Wow , I only had to read the first few lines to tell you, "OF COURSE SHE'S BEING UNFAIR".
Parents just don't understand.
I don't know what you should do aobut it, but you've gotta solve it somehow unless you are able to move out to college s... (read in full...)
I have no confidence to talk to girls!
Q. I need help, i am 16 yr old (M), haven't had a relationship in a while. the thing is i can never find anything to say to girls when i first meet them and because of this i dont have the confidence to go up to them and talk. i really wanna get over ...
A. 10 December 2006: man awesome question, sorry to disappoint you but im also having this problem and probably won't be able to provide an answer, looking for lots of answers here hopefully...
to not disappoint you completely, I suggest that you just go over there on... (read in full...)
Can a relationship continue when only one person has a sex drive?
Q. hi my question is it reasonable to expect a relationship to continue when only one of the couple has any sex drive my partner wont disscus it its been a problem for three years now we are both 39 years old....
A. 10 December 2006: everyone should have a sex drive.. just depends on the magnitude of it... if one has really really low and one has really really high, well, it won't be easy lets just say. if one is nonexistent, then its kinda wrong.... (read in full...)
I fancy my friend... what do I do?
Q. i really fancy my friend. were both 16 and go same school. i really want to ask her out but fear she'll say no and i wont be able to accept that. it's come to a point where i think about her day and night even in my dreams. i asked her to the ...
A. 10 December 2006: lol the rating thing makes things so obvious... If you can trust your friend with your feelings, it would be a good idea to have her somehow find out. Ask her if she likes any guys... any in particular, use subtlety to bring up you. gl... (read in full...)
Am i gay or bi or what?
Q. i am really confused, i only fancy gay or camp men, i only watch male gay porn, but women sometimes really turn me on, is it because i like what they are doing or because i like them? can i ever be straight if i cant fancy straight blokes? there are ...
A. 10 December 2006: Hard to tell, difficult situation here. As for your fantasy with girls, do you think maybe its because they will know how to pleasure you sexually better than men who know the female body less? That's the first impulse that i got. Anyways, I think ... (read in full...)
I have a gf but every other girl I chat to on IM...falls in love with me! What can I do?
Q. HELP! i have a girl friend (my first) and now every girl i talk to on IM falls in love with me.i even tell them that i have a girl but they dont care some have evn told me the want to have my baby but im only 16! and now my girl is getting possesiv...
A. 10 December 2006: hey buddy, sounds like either these girls are only jealous because you are taken now, or they are playing a joke on you. They might be doing this to break you 2 up, how would your gf think you were cheating? Maybe they told her?... (read in full...)
Do you think he likes me back or am i just annoying him?
Q. Hi, Theres this guy i really like but his really shy and it takes a while to get him talking but once he does its ok but i dont c him much and everytime i do c him again its like his too shy to talk to me all over again! He did once invite me to ca...
A. 10 December 2006: Definitely likes you. Looking over at you made me sure. If he were annoyed he would totally not look at you.. his body would be pointed away.... (read in full...)
I dont want to say yes
Q. i get calls on my mobile every lunch time by this girl in the year below. i'm 16 she's 15. she tells me she loves me. she knows exactly what i get for lunch which is spooky! she's is nuts about me. but say's she wants to meet me. she wont tell me ...
A. 8 December 2006: i think its a really really really really shy girl, people who are really shy and unconfident about themselves usually make themselves known at this level, sadly, i have done something similar to this... which i would never do again cuz i know this ... (read in full...)
I think that he may like me, and if he does what do I do/say to him?
Q. Well...there's this guy in my class and I like him. And I think he (may) like me...well i just dunno. He will talk to me in the corridors and in registration and it seems like sometimes he looks my way. The other day, I pretended one of my best ...
A. 8 December 2006: play the flirting game, and have fun with it... (read in full...)
Does thinking too much leave you paranoid ? How do I stop this over thinking all the time?
Q. dear cupid I am in my teens and am 16 years old and i seem to be worrying and thinking about things every single day and i dnt know how to stop, i sometimes cry with because of thinking to much, my main concern now is "does thinking too muc...
A. 8 December 2006: This will probably give me negative ratings, but people who are smarter, brilliant mines who tend to think more have more chances of having something mentally wrong with them. In my life, there has been many times where people studied so hard they ... (read in full...)
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