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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: im a girl and i like a guy who is younger than me, most people say its wrong to go out with guys who are younger than you and im worried what people will say. should i just forget him or is this acceptable? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2007): well i think u should go with him i mean i lyk a guy in 6 grade while im in eighth and friends told me it was wrong but then i just liked him more
so if u really like this person go with them
*hope i helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): I think you should go out with him just remember his age (for what he's gonna want to/should do). I like a guy younger then me who likes me back and even tho he's 11 almost 12 and I'm 13 1/2, it works. ^.^
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007): Well... i say who cares!?.. the only thing that matters is that u both are happy!!!... im 27 my boyfriend is 20!!!!.. yea he is way younger than me, at first i didnt know what to do!.. but now.. well my family knows.. my friends know.. even though my guy friends are hating.. but whatever.. he makes me so happy.. sooo if that person makes u happy dont worry about what other people might think.. at first its gonna be kinda hard.. but then.. if he's right for you.. u wont care about the age difference!..
good luck! and smile! be happy!.. there is only one world!.. ok?
Viva el amor!!! lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): hey there,
if u both feel the same then go for it.!
as for me,...iv jus turned 19 n im dating a grl whos 15 turnin 16... her parents HATE me.. n hav forbidden her from seeing me.. :(... we r in love n its rly hard not being accepted by her family. her mother believes the age gap is the problem..n not the fact that we r both females..
i dunno... she says shes willing to wait for me until she turns 16 so her mother cant get me introuble... it isnt fair.. i understand the age difference.. n id never hurt or pressure my gf into nething.. her mother doesnt see that tho. Maybe the age gap is too much.. but having feelings for sum1 doesnt come with an age limit.
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reader, Dr Pete  + ♥, writes (4 January 2007):
 Arn't you old enough to make up your own mind?
If we all replied "No, it's disgusting, don't do it" would you seriously listen to us?
Your an adult. Time to start making some adult decisions.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (4 January 2007):
 There is nothing wrong with it, and don't listen to the other people! You go girl!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): I have been seeing a guy who is 14 years younger than me, he is 32, we are both happy with things, emotionally and sexually we are on the same level, i do not look or act my age, when we first met he thought i was maybe 2 years older than him,
It does not bother either of us, so get on and enjoy one another.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): Im going out with a guy 4 years younger than me..Im 24-he's 20... we've only been together a month but we already know we have something special and I believe he is the one.My parents are not speaking to me at the moment as they think he's too young for me, and because he is the same height as me and looks a little younger they believe I should break up with him..but im not pepared to do that. They don't even know him and if they did they would realise that he is way more mature and ready to settle down than my ex was..who was 2 yrs older than me..they've always told me that my happiness is what matters but now im finally happy they won't be supportive. I still live at home with my parents while my boyfriend lives 50 miles away which makes the situation even harder...does anyone have any suggestions on how to fix this situation??? Please help me!
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reader, velvet_tears01 +, writes (14 December 2006):
 hey hun been there done that there is absolutely nothing wrong with it i was scared of what ppl had to say b4 2 and i thought it was unacceptable i say go for him the guy i went out with was a year a month and a day younger then me lol it was one of the best relationships iv been in and i wouldn't take it back for the world we arn't together any more but that had nothing to do with the age we just went our seprate ways dont let ppl tell u that u cant like him because he is younger its perfectly fine
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (12 December 2006):
 you like the guy go 4 it. older or younger what does it matter age is just a number. my mate is 26 her feller is 19 they have been together 3years have just had a baby and are due to get married.
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reader, Choongalicious +, writes (11 December 2006):
 Personally, I see no problem with it as long as you are happy. Your happiness counts the most, so do whatever suits you. Ignore other people's opinions, some people don't see anything wrong with being 16 and going out with a 23 year old, so why is there an issue if you wanna be with a younger guy. I am in this situation myself and all my friends have been really supportive. Surround yourself with people who understand and are willing to support you and not people who are going to judge and criticise you. Take car and good luck!
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reader, bonym +, writes (10 December 2006):
 It depends on the transition of the ages, i.e. if you are 20 and he was 15, then there would be a serious problem, if you are 30 and he is 25, SO WHAT! If you are 26 and he is 20, again SO WHAT! Providing you are both ADULTS, why should there be an issue.
Its like people saying its wrong for a white girl to date a black guy or an Asian woman to date a white man, as long as you are adults, then the age neednt matter.
xXx
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reader, willywombat +, writes (10 December 2006):
 My husband is 5 years younger than me.....
Age should not matter, but it actually depends how old you are in the first place. If you are 18 and he is 12, then.....you catch my drift?
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reader, Dr Pete + ♥, writes (10 December 2006):
If you are proposing that it is wrong for a women to go out with a younger guy then you would be saying that millions of very happy, successful relationships across the world should end.
Most people do not say this is wrong. I think you mean most of your friends say it is wrong. But how do they know? Are they experts? clearly not.
If you are worried about what other people would say then you are not ready to be in a relationship, or this guy is simply not the right person for you. When you meet the right person, you will want to be with them, regardless of what their age is. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2006): go with your feelings. it's a matter of perspective. hey my grandfather is younger than my mam and everybody's cool with that despite belonging in a stereotyped culturally picky and strict Chinese culture =)
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reader, moomoomoo +, writes (10 December 2006):
 Look, I think you didn't really even need to ask this question. You shoudl already know what kind of answers you will get here. lots of "YES OF COURSE!" and "it depends what you think"... never a straight no. And I already know what type of people will say the yes, but I won't say :P
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reader, martini  +, writes (10 December 2006):
 [sigh] I'm going to be a bit harsh here, but who the hell are "most people"? Which country of "most people" are you referring to? Are you telling me that in the state of Most People, the Most Peopleians are telling you that it's wrong? I have not heard such a place named "Most People".
First of all, on my side of the galaxy, "most people" actually don't make up "most people". It just basically means that a person whom has talked to some people, thought that those people think it's wrong. "Some People" do not make "Most People".
Well, with sarcasm out of the way, the QUESTION IS - "Do YOU accept him or not?" Why would you be asking strangers, friends, family, or the like for an answer? If we said, "No, he's totally way too old. In fact, you should ONLY GO OUT WITH guys with blond hair, blue eyes, at 6-6, weigh in at 200 pounds of pure muscle, and drives a nice yellow Lambo, and has a horse ranch out in the boonies..." - would you seriously listen to us?
Come on, think for yourself! At LEAST ONCE!
"Forbidden Love"?!?!?! Dating a sheep, having sex with your dog, and trying to make babies with a trout is "Forbidden Love".
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