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writes: HELP!i have a girl friend (my first) and now every girl i talk to on IM falls in love with me.i even tell them that i have a girl but they dont care some have evn told me the want to have my baby but im only 16! and now my girl is getting possesive and says im cheating!can someone tell me how to stop this or control it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2006): I realise you're so young, but have you thought for a second how your girlfriend is feeling? Or would you not mind if your girlfriend was IM'ing guys and they were telling her how much they want to be with her?
No wonder your gf is getting possessive, you are causing her to become this way. Do her a favour, and if you enjoy being flattered by what are, seemingly immature, windup girls, then tell your girlfriend you are too young for a relationship and go off and have your fun.
If you cared about your relationship at all, you'd end this form of cheating because some emotions such as guilt and remorse would stop you from continuing. Think about that, yeah?
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reader, moomoomoo  +, writes (10 December 2006):
 hey buddy, sounds like either these girls are only jealous because you are taken now, or they are playing a joke on you. They might be doing this to break you 2 up, how would your gf think you were cheating? Maybe they told her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2006): Sweaty,
yes you r very young and it is the best time for you to explore every opportunities, but try not to hurt other people in the process.
So these girls say they love you and want your baby.... Lets no kid ourselves, you must say sweet things to them as well. Love is a big word, but that's a total different subject, you need to experience many things in order to realise what love really is.
It is okay for you to date many girl, but if you are not willing to stay commited to your gf, and stop contacting other girls to boost your ego, maybe it's better you get out of that relationship, or at least take a break or step back to realise exactly what you want.
When you are in a relationship, there is always some sort of temptation, but it does not mean that the grass is better on the other side. These girls are maybe not what you r looking for at all..
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2006): Young Aunty Nic is correct. You have choices here, dear.
You can choose to block them and not talk to these other girls, can you not? It sounds like your ego has gotten the best of you and maybe you enjoy their attentions? If yes to this question, then you are not ready to be a exclusive relationship with your gf because if you were, you wouldn't be talking to the other females. Something to think about.
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