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I like learning from other peoples mistakes and I'm here to give advice to those who ask for it. I am not qualified to do so, but due to me travelling quite a bit, I've had my fair share of experiences.
I am currently in a long distance relationship and although I am quite happy to be with that person, we still haven't set a final target, where our long distance relationship ends and our future together begins. In fact, neither of us is sure there will be a future together, as one of us will have to sacrifice everything to be with the other person, which makes it all even harder to stay stong. I love having him in my life and we are taking it slow and we´ll see where it takes us. |
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Read her journal: did she sleep with him?
Q. There is one particular ex my GF has that for whatever reason, more than her others, rubs me the wrong way. I don't like this guy one bit. However, he was her first boyfriend, and stopped dating I think at 16 years old. We are 22 now, but she is ...
A. 23 October 2008: Oh guys common - she shouldnt ever lie, EVER! What kind of saint, impossibly perfect person would that be eh???
She slept with him, so what?
I think if she doesnt wanna talk about it its her right, after all there are some people that hold... (read in full...)
What should I do with this great connection we have?
Q. i have a really big crush on someone who has a girlfriend. me and him go to school together but she lives like 2 hours away at college he always flirts with me and alot of people see it, he even went as far as taking my phone and getting my number ...
A. 23 October 2008: If that was my boyfriend, and I am in a serious long distance relationship, I would consider this cheating. Maybe those two guys arent serious about their relationship or hes just the type of guy that thinks its ok to be flirting with another girl ... (read in full...)
It's killing me waiting for her to move on....
Q. My gf and I broke up 6 weeks ago. She hasn’t gotten over it (i.e. she keeps sending me emails and we keep “accidently” running into each other) and I miss her a lot. I don’t think she’s the one (she's not a life partner - too irresponsible, ...
A. 23 October 2008: Hang in there! Dont slip! Thats the worst case scenario, then it will take her ages to stick off you.
Ive been in a similar situation, well not exactly the same, but the guy wouldn't leave me alone, phoning, txting, emailing, sending flowers ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend hates oral: I can't cum without it!
Q. my boyfriend hates giving me oral sex and thats the only way i'm able to orgasm, i have vibrators and other various things. has anyone got any suggestions ...
A. 22 October 2008: Totally agree with previous poster about the fairness! No pussy licking - no cock sucking. My god, did I just really type that?? Hehehhe!
Yes, just ask him what is it exactly that puts him off - the hair, the smell or what hes seeing? If its the ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex interfering?
Q. Hi( sorry this is long) im just back from meeting a friend of mine and my ex, basically we had a drink and a laught and nothing more, anyway i know for a fact that this mate i went out with likes me more then that,anyway i think he mentioned this to ...
A. 22 October 2008: Go ahead and have a date with that new guy ... your ex probably will go mad hehhee, but that coward deserves that! Then your ex will be trying to get you back and I say have a few dates with various people, have some experiences before deciding (if ... (read in full...)
How can I stop her from keeping baking me cookies?
Q. Hi, I'm 13, my mum keeps baking cookies for me and I don't like them. I've spoken to her about this but she insists on baking them. The other day I opened up my lunch box at school and there they were, her home made cookies. I can't stand the taste ...
A. 22 October 2008: Spirit of Lona has given a good advice!
You could also try
1) make your own biscuits that you like
2) help her bake the cookies, suggest adding more sugar or whatever is wrong with them that will fix it
3) well the best one i suppose is yes, ... (read in full...)
In love with my kids... and another woman!
Q. Hi, I have been having the same dream over and over for the last 5 nights. The dream involves both my children, myself, but not my wife, It's another woman in my dream in her place.. We have been having issues for a long while now. We have als...
A. 22 October 2008: When you went on your 6 months split and you met that new woman, did your relationship progressed quickly? Have you done much stuff together, do you think you got to know her really well? It generally takes about a year to really get to know a ... (read in full...)
Are my friends just jealous or genuinely worried about me?
Q. I was a perfect size 8 but because all of my friends are bigger than me (sizes 14+) I thought well I'm never going to be as big as them so I'll eat what I want when I want.. but recently I have put on around TWO stone!! I am now a size 12. A lot ...
A. 22 October 2008: Well done for making the effort to slim down. Keep it up. Size eight if perfect, I am trying to lose weight too, I am size 10/12, 5.6 and I feel fattiesh... Anyways, yes, your friends feel jealous, because they dont have it in them to give up all ... (read in full...)
How can I make the sex more satisfying?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a female, I being a female myself and I just need some help or adivice. Well we recently started having sex and I was wondering how could I make it more satisfying for me? I don't know why but for some reason it isn't as ...
A. 22 October 2008: 1) Do you use toys - strap ons, dildos?
2) Are you in love with your partner?
3) Have you tried any kinky stuff? I.e. hand cuffs, gags etc...... (read in full...)
Read her journal: did she sleep with him?
Q. There is one particular ex my GF has that for whatever reason, more than her others, rubs me the wrong way. I don't like this guy one bit. However, he was her first boyfriend, and stopped dating I think at 16 years old. We are 22 now, but she is ...
A. 22 October 2008: Even if she slept with him it doesnt matter now does it?
If she lied to you about it, then she most probably didn't want to hurt your feelings. And if you keep on badgering her about this she might end up telling you more lies which is going to... (read in full...)
What should I do with this great connection we have?
Q. i have a really big crush on someone who has a girlfriend. me and him go to school together but she lives like 2 hours away at college he always flirts with me and alot of people see it, he even went as far as taking my phone and getting my number ...
A. 22 October 2008: Ask him about his girlfriend. In a friendly non-pushy manner. Maybe they have decided to take time out. That would explain his flirting. In any case its best to ask him now before things get more complicated, so that you wont have things to regret ... (read in full...)
I don't like to go out drinking, or be be around people who drink. Where can I, then, meet girls?
Q. Briefly: As I have mentioned before I am overweight, but am trying to work on it. I know I have a good personality and am caring, considerate etc, am a gentleman and so on. Now here are my questions: I am uni, but I don't like to go out...
A. 22 October 2008: Hello!
I would suggest sport clubs (where there are both girls and guys involved - like martial arts), choir (you dont have to be a good singer to do this, depends on the specialisation of the choir), also any volunteering and social help clu... (read in full...)
Why is it that boys are obsessed with breasts?
Q. Hey guys, I am 15 years old and am blessed with generous cups. My bf regards my breasts very sexy. Why is that boys are obssessed with breasts? My all bfs used to suck breasts more than to have sex. Personally,I like that but I dont understand ...
A. 22 October 2008: Ok, firt about the bras - if you have anything over cup A, which I believe you do, wear a bra! Otherwise before you know it you will have saggy breasts, and I mean before you are twenty. The boob skin as I call it is very very gentle, you have to ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for letting him go?
Q. My heart is SO heavy...i was seeing this guy for almost a year now.Things were going great between us but we never spoke about what's going on btwn us, we just went with the flow!im not very good with ambiguity in relationships cos if things are ...
A. 22 October 2008: Hello, well you made the first step forward, he seems to have gone back to his cave to hide...
I say let him make up his mind, let him be for a while, I dont know how much time you should allow for this, but not too much I guess. After all this time... (read in full...)
What is going through her head?
Q. my girlfriend left me one day and went to australia a week later. she has two sisters there. she never verbally told me she was going but i did get a letter stating why the break up and why she had to go to australia. two months past and i went down ...
A. 22 October 2008: The only person who can answer your questions whether she still cares and loves you is her. Give her some space, if she will want, she will come back and will let you know that she wants you back. Otherwise I think there is nothing bad with trying ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he broke up with me but still wants the emotional connection? What's up with this guy?
Q. My BF broke up with me two months ago, and we didn't talk for five week, but now he is calling me two or three times a week and if I didn't cut off the conversation after 30 or 40 minutes, he would just keep on talking. I'm confused. He said he ...
A. 22 October 2008: Ask him what he wants, if he hasnt got the answer then he should stop calling. You are no toy to play around with. If he wants a friendship he should say so and you should think whether you can cope with having him just as a friend.
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I can't orgasm. How is it done?
Q. Hi, i dont know if this is normal or not. But I have been sexually active for about 5 years and i have a boyfriend and we engage in sexual activity often. I have never been able to cum. And i mean Never. Even if hes doing all he can to satisfy me he ...
A. 22 October 2008: I agree with the previous poster, you need to get to know your body better first. Try shower or buy a vibrator, stimulating clitoris should definitely do the job. I am not sure if you watch porn or not, or your imagination is good enough. Do it when ... (read in full...)
Can we continue to live together as a threesome?
Q. I have been married for a few years now and recently i met a girl and she moved in with me and my wife, i have got children with my wife and after sitting down and talking for a long while we decided it would be best that we stay together but ...
A. 22 October 2008: Hello,
Was watching a documentary on Mormon lifestyle just yesterday. Yours seems to be somewhat similar, research on the Mormans, maybe that will help you answer some of the questions.
PS.: in Morman religion women ARE jealous of each ... (read in full...)
Another porn problem, with a twist...
Q. OK, so I have a problem and searched it in Google and came across a thread on this site. The dilemma was similar to mine but with some key differences. My would be husband has been looking at porn and just like every other woman poster, it hurts. ...
A. 26 June 2008: Hey, i think you are making a big deal out of this...really, what harm does it do, that he likes and watches porn regularly?? Does he satisfy you in bed? If not, does he try to get better? Do you feel left out? Why does it bother you so much? It... (read in full...)
I found my husband online dating, please help!
Q. hi im 22 and my husbands 25 , we've been together 4 years but lately ive been having real trusting problems which isnt healthy for the relationship, you see i found out that he had signed up to a online dating site not just any though a one for ...
A. 26 June 2008: I agree with previous poster. Only before you file in for the divorce papers find out why he wanted/wants to have an affair and whether you can work this out with or without help.... (read in full...)
Did someone perform some sexual act on him to 'last blow his load'? Because it obviously wasn't me!
Q. Please I need some help before I start pulling my hair out!! And i'm sorry but i'm going to be blunt there's no beating around the bush with this one. Ok some background info I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years we have a good r...
A. 15 May 2008: Ahhaha!! Relax!!! It just means he played three days ago!... (read in full...)
I'm scared of failing to please him. Giving him oral isn't working.
Q. I have recently hooked up with a new partner. After a certain amount of guidance from me he can give me fantastic oral. I have been told many times previously that my blow jobs were the best ever but I don't seem to have what it takes any more. Last ...
A. 14 May 2008: Ermmm, have you ever thought that this might be his fault too?? He might be too tense, too excited? If so, try to cuddle and kiss lots before you go down on him. And do everything slowly. dont rush. I find that most guys like it slow at first and ... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on my boss! I don't know what to do about it...
Q. Hi, I am a 23 year old girl who has a huge crush and doesn't know what to do. I have had a crush on my boss since I started working at my job five months ago. He is about five years older than me and I don't think that's a bad age difference, but ...
A. 14 May 2008: Hi there, well, I think its just a crush...
Your options:
1) You tell him how you feel, most probably nothing will change, he will still get married, and you will feel rejected and this might result in you leaving your job.
2) You tell him a... (read in full...)
Is it o.k to date someone because they are only engaged?
Q. My grandma is trying to hook me up with a waiter that she sees every weekend at a local resturant. She dragged me in thier and I met the waiter he was good looking and he seemed to be interested in me. But My aunt informed me that he was engaged. I ...
A. 14 May 2008: Hi there, its not ok to date engaged people, UNLESS they initiate it and obviously break off the engagement straight away. ... (read in full...)
He looks at porn - does this mean he doesn't love me?
Q. hi my partner has a addiction to looking at porn magazines and acts on them masterbates over them i was just wondering how much of a percentage of partners do this is it that theyre not happy with there sex life and partner i dont know how to think ...
A. 14 March 2008: Hi, it depends on how often he does it i suppose. If you have a healthy sex life, having sex regularly but he still watches porn I dont think you have something to worry about. If you are not satisfied with your sex life and you told him that and he ... (read in full...)
Why am I nervous about having sex with an older guy?
Q. Have you ever been scared to have sex with someone who is alot older then you? Especially ten year diff. I cant figure out why im nervous to and im not a virgin but iv never had sex with someone who was older then me. Im 22. ...
A. 14 March 2008: I agree with the anonymous reader, if your scared your not ready. Cause when you are ready, you will want him to the extent of wanting to rip his clothes off him!... (read in full...)
Is he too perfect for me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I love him, he's too perfect for me, but I can and will exist without him. I met him two years ago, he knocked me off my feet then left to go overseas. After a month of intoxicating deep emails, i visited him overseas. When we were fac...
A. 14 March 2008: Hi! Oh my...
I am sorry to say this but he might be just using both of you - his gf and you. For some reason it suits him just fine having you waiting on him.
He might be perfect but he obviously doesn't love you (im sorry), because he doesn... (read in full...)
How do I let go of the past??
Q. I have been on this site before, as I have been going through a traumatic time in personal life. It was all to do with a relationship that i came out of which has affected severly I split up with this girl last year, and i have been finding it very ...
A. 12 March 2008: Do you do any sports at all?? I am asking because it can be a great way to get your mind off things. Having drama classes and other "non-active" activities is a good start - but if it isn't helping, try something different. Its not a secret that ... (read in full...)
Any tips for my mum in dealing with my little brothers immature gf??
Q. Hi aunts, My mom has a bit of a problem with my little brother's girlfriend. She is 16 but a very imature 16 and when she's out she keeps flushing sanitary towels down the toilet resulting in it getting blocked and the pipes blocked also. She wa...
A. 12 March 2008: Hehehe - prettend ur house toilet is a public place and leave a sign - please leave sanitary towels in the bin. Ok, ok, im joking, I think your mum will have to talk to her about it - not in a nasty way of course, just pick time when its only her ... (read in full...)
Do you have any advice or insight as to why the one I love so much has changed his mind about me?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 26 year old female in a 10 month relationship. I have a job that requires travel about 3 to 4 days/week. Because of this fact after only 2 1/2 months my boyfriend and I decided to move most of my stuff into his house (includi...
A. 12 March 2008: Hi there :)
I think him making those statements on a regular basis (having better relationships in the past) and wanting to be more excited isn't a good sign. He obviously thinks that he can do better (sorry),well, let him go and find a better d... (read in full...)
I want more from him, but I don't know how to get his attention back.
Q. I met this guy about 2 years ago and we really hit it off. We dated for about 6 months then we broke up because he wasn't spending time with me and I cheated. We were broken up for about 3 months, then he called and we started back talking. We spent ...
A. 12 March 2008: Hi there. I personally think that if someone isn't ready for committment, then you can't force them into it (unfortunately). If you stay in this "uncommitted" relationship with him you will only feel unhappy, as he will continue clubbing and ... (read in full...)
My friend kisses me in front of her husband, I'm a confused puppy!!
Q. I'm good friends with a couple, Paul and Rachel. We've been pretty close for about 3 years. I'm 28, Paul is 28 and Rachel is 27. The 2 of us seem to spend a lot of time together, and most of it is instigated by Paul (he usually invites me to go ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hehehe, no, its not normal. What is normal anyway?
They might have some bedroom issues (Rachael and Paul) and they might have agreed that she will have an affair with you. Thats a possible scenario...
He obviously knows whats going on, and do... (read in full...)
She complains I don't display desirable masculinity...
Q. I don't know how to be "the man" for my girlfriend. She complains that I'm not masculine enough for her. One example: Her managers at work hit on her often, even as far as buying her gifts. I want to do something about it, but I have no idea how ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hi there :)
My boyfriend was in somewhat similar situation - his ex ages ago used to tell him hes not man enough, because when she kissed other guys she could always feel them down there!!! Dont know whether she has said to him other things a... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship with a catholic girlfriend.
Q. Hi! I have this great girlfriend that I have met during study in Italy. After a while we started having a great relationship knowing it was gonna be hard because she lives in Mexico and I in Europe. On the other hand it is totally worth it because...
A. 10 March 2008: Hi there! Well catholics are christians and I assume you are christian as well (orthodox maybe?) although you are agnostic there shoudnt really be any HUGE obstacles. But let me tell you one thing - religion can be a big issue if you dont agree on ... (read in full...)
Everything has been OK until I found out he was cheating. I forgave him but he acts distant now, how can we solve this?
Q. I have been dating this guy for 6 months.He is divorced with one kid.His job requires him to travel a lot within and outside the country. Everything has been going on okay until i found out he was cheating. He went away for a seminar and apprantl...
A. 10 March 2008: Hi, it sounds like he cheated again and didnt want to face you straight away. Youve been only dating for 6 months and hes "already" cheating on you. thats not a good sign at all! If he loved you he wouldnt cheat on you. It cant be just you making ... (read in full...)
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