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I like learning from other peoples mistakes and I'm here to give advice to those who ask for it. I am not qualified to do so, but due to me travelling quite a bit, I've had my fair share of experiences.
I am currently in a long distance relationship and although I am quite happy to be with that person, we still haven't set a final target, where our long distance relationship ends and our future together begins. In fact, neither of us is sure there will be a future together, as one of us will have to sacrifice everything to be with the other person, which makes it all even harder to stay stong. I love having him in my life and we are taking it slow and we´ll see where it takes us. |
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She wants me to take her to meet my parents!
Q. Dear Cupid, I need help please. I met a lady and we became friends. We exchanged contacts and on the same day she text me saying "I love you dear" I replied thank you. After a week she told me she wanted to visit me. She came and we had sweeet k...
A. 17 November 2008: Personally I think kissing is ok.
Sex is totally up to you, if you are religious and want to wait until marriage then you should stick with your beliefs.
Saying I love you within a week is a bit rushed. I am in love with you is more appropri... (read in full...)
A question about WATER!
Q. Quick question My mum told me it's bad to drink different types of water in the same day - i.e Evian and Caladonian. I was just wondering if this is true and if so what are the side effects??...
A. 17 November 2008: I am a food scientist, never heard of the bad effects of mixing different table/mineral waters. ... (read in full...)
What's happening to this world?!
Q. What's happening to this world? Every time I'm here everyone is talking about sex, even 10-11 year olds, what happened to childhood? I didn't even know what sex meant when I was 10, there must be something to do, I can't take seeing some girls ...
A. 17 November 2008: This is a site where people come to ask questions, teenagers of course would be interested in sex issues more than other issues. You might find forums where teenagers discuss music and sports and school issues. Yes, compared to 50s, 60s the world ... (read in full...)
Why won't they let me just live my own life?
Q. I'm 20 and a Muslim and come from a traditional family. I don't talk to my dad even though we live in the same house and don't have a good relationship with my mum. In our culture, the family name comes first so you shouldn't do anything that brings ...
A. 16 November 2008: Hello, this sounds really horrible, but I guess I cant say anything else as I come from a christian family.
One thing I want to point out - you talk about bringing shame to your family and all those honorable things, that is quite ok, what is ... (read in full...)
Confused and wondering what is next!
Q. I am a 31 year old guy who has been in a steady relationship for 3 years with a woman who has a young daughter. I have grown close to her and especially the daughter.. The father is not involved in her life at all and never has been so she sees me ...
A. 16 November 2008: Oh wow.
Well the first thing that came to my mind was - have you talked to her about getting a house and moving in with you before actually doing it? Was she ok with it? I mean she lived there in the same city/state with you anyway, so she new ... (read in full...)
My loving husband has been seeing a dominator for the past 3 years!
Q. I'm 28, been married to my husband for the past 4 years. I found out off a very close friend last night that he'd been seeing a dominator (I can't use the word dominatrix as it wasn't another woman he'd been seeing). She said that she was driving ...
A. 12 November 2008: Your friend WAS DRIVING BY AND HEAD YOUR HUSBAND SAY THAT??? Try it yourself, would you be able to hear anything when your windows are up and when your driving??? Thats insane...... (read in full...)
I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over three years and I'm not sure why he hasn't proposed yet!!!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over three years and I'm not sure why he hasn't proposed yet!!! We practically live together and when we are not working we spend all of our time together. I know he really loves me and wants to marry me, I ...
A. 12 November 2008: Well...
1) Financial reasoning, buying a house, paying for the wedding, whether he is ready for these things or not
2) He thinks you both are still a bit young, there is no rush, you should wait
3) He is comfortable in the situation that yo... (read in full...)
I need to know, am I wasting my time?
Q. I Recently Got A New Girlfriend, We've only been with each other for 3 weeks... My Parents Have Met Her, And I've Met Hers. The Only Problem Is, I'm Hoping To Fall For This One. Her Personailty Is Perfection and she beatiful. But today w...
A. 12 November 2008: Hmm she doesnt sound too nice to you... I guess you do find her very attractive so you are holding on to her. You are still oh so young, if you are hoping to get serious with her and she doesnt show any signs of really caring for you and loving you ... (read in full...)
Fingering and hand jobs. What's wrong and doesn't he get disgusted?
Q. Okay my boyfriend started fingering me about a week ago. I was just wondering: doesn't he get disgusted? I don't want to make him uncomfortable and it seems kinda gross thinking about the fact that my vaginal juices are on his fingers. How do you ...
A. 12 November 2008: Ask him why he pulls away.
And about fingering i am sure its a huge turn on for him as well as it gets you horny. Just make sure you are clean, you shower everyday and you should be just fine.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get pregnant ?
Q. hey just got married there three months ago and came off the pill.am having lots of intercourse around the time i shoul be ovulating but nothing happening so far bought some ovulation predictor kits and am hoping they will work have two beautiful ...
A. 11 November 2008: It usually takes anything upto 6! months to get your hormones back in place after you get off the pill so just keep trying.
All the best... (read in full...)
I think he is married and all the signs are pointing to that. Should I talk to him about it or simply just move away.
Q. hi, have been seeing this guy for 2 months but never been to his place. yesterday he took me to a lodge. i think he is married and all the signs are pointing to that. should i talk to him about it or simply just move away. he doesnt answer my...
A. 11 November 2008: I think its best to ask him directly, he might end up telling you that he is married. Even if he doesnt, if this relationship isnt making you happy ie not getting enough attention from him then you should try and find yourself a more suitable ... (read in full...)
My family will only accept him if he converts and he won't.
Q. I'm a muslim girl from a rich prominent muslim family, who are moderately religious not hectic muslism but nevertheless practicing muslims. I've been in a relationship with a white christian guy for 4 years ( we've tried to break up but can't and to ...
A. 11 November 2008: My boyfriend in order to get married to his ex wife converted (muslim) although it was a technicallity hes a catholic, also had to get circumsized!! and had a muslim name... Anyway they are now divorced, hes family wouldnt have accepted it any other ... (read in full...)
Is it easy for a girl to lose her virginity?
Q. i was wondering is it easy for a girl to lose her virginity?, just by fooling around? like if she had "oral sex"??? ...
A. 11 November 2008: Technically loosing virginity is when someone/something breaks your hymen if that hasnt happened yet you are still a virgin...hehhe, unless the person that has performed oral sex on you has an extraordinary tongue - long and he broke your hymen that ... (read in full...)
Do I have to choose between my family and the love of my life...
Q. I've been apart from my ex 3 months now, he's tried so hard to make it up 2 me and I'm very very confused, he stole from me which I still can't get my head round but I love this guy to pieces, I wanted to marry this guy and start a family. I was so ...
A. 11 November 2008: Well you can learn from your own mistakes I guess. You can try dating him again if you think he is the one for you, just dont let him anywhere near your parents house in case he will want to steal something from there! My exes sisters bf stole ... (read in full...)
She wants me to have substance, and that intimidates me.
Q. My wife is from a well-educated family, and is well-versed in culture, politics, literature, movies, pretty much everything a person could be interested in. I'm not at all like that. I'm from a low-income-recen...
A. 10 November 2008: You decided to get married, that was either rushed or you just love each other so much...
I was in a similar situation with my ex, thank god we did not get married, he was from a working class background and for 3 years I was "going down on his l... (read in full...)
I grew two inches in two weeks. What's happening to me?
Q. HI! this is crazy ok, im 14 and at school they measured us last month. they measured me at 5'5 1/2. well now im 5'7 1/2 a month later. whats going on?!...
A. 10 November 2008: They could have taken wrong measurements.
Or you just grew up "a little bit", dont worry about it youll be fine.... (read in full...)
If I can't get a hooker, how can I stop being horny?
Q. im constantly horny, and im not 18, i cant just go and get a prostitute. what should i do?...
A. 10 November 2008: And mastrubation doesnt help? Playing a team competitive sport could help get that energy.... (read in full...)
I'm straight but girls are dominating my fantasies. Am I normal?
Q. Hi, I have a question. I have never considered myself homosexual, but all my life I have always fantasized of other girls when masturbating, not the guy I liked or had a crush on at the time. Even at a young age! I am in a wonderful relationship ...
A. 10 November 2008: Well if you are open to experimenting - then I would say you are bi curious, when you will try it then you will know whether it is your thing or not.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is being "off" with me... any ideas why?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and recently, he's been acting a little off. First off, his last relationship, which lasted 5 years, ended because his ex cheated on him with his best friend. So when I first hooked up with him, he ...
A. 10 November 2008: Well its unlikely that he has deleted everything... Was the inbox completely empty? If yes then probably he has deleted the history if not then there probably wasnt anything going on.
Maybe he is just stressed? Is everything ok in work? Maybe he... (read in full...)
Condom broke while having sex, now I'm a day late, should this phase me?
Q. I had sex eleven days ago. The condom broke, but he said he didn't finish but I'm not exactly sure. Now I was supposed to get my period yesterday and I haven't gotten it yet. Should this even phase me?...
A. 10 November 2008: You can wait a few more days, I would say 4 more days maybe if you dont have the money for pregnancy test, then you will have to get a pregnancy test anyway if the period doesnt start.
I find it amusing that condoms break, I had this friend a... (read in full...)
I feel so drained as I can't seem to get over him.
Q. I broke with my ex of 14 months in January. He was very negative, angry and always talked about his past problems. I soon missed him and realised that I would rather be with him rather than without. He then decided that he needed space to sort his ...
A. 10 November 2008: No no no no no, here is what you have to avoid: "I soon missed him and realised that I would rather be with him rather than without."
You are alone and feeling miserable, not a good reason to get back together with your angry and pessimis... (read in full...)
I'm fat, right?
Q. Hey, I'm 16 years old. I'm 6 ft tall and weigh 98 kilograms. I'm F A T, right?...
A. 10 November 2008: Well its doesnt just depend on the height and weight - are you stocky? muscly? broad shouldered?
A gym worker might answer this question better than we as we dont get to see you!... (read in full...)
What in the world does this mean?
Q. Can you explain this to me? What does this mean, " I do really love you but I don't like you "? Please reply and thank you !!!...
A. 10 November 2008: Love = like as a person + like as a sexual partner...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is being "off" with me... any ideas why?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and recently, he's been acting a little off. First off, his last relationship, which lasted 5 years, ended because his ex cheated on him with his best friend. So when I first hooked up with him, he ...
A. 10 November 2008: Id try to get hold of his ipod when hes not around that should answer your question quicker than he will get the courage to tell you that hes into someone else if thats the case.... (read in full...)
Any ideas for something sexy in the bedroom?
Q. I'd love to dress up in something sexy for Vincent.....but I'm not quite sure in what. We been together for 7 months now, and I'm really wanting to give him something special..... Something sexy for the bedroom.... You know what mean? Anyone...
A. 10 November 2008: Look up some websites that sell dildos, they usually offer a range of things lingerie and outfits included, theres one for you - bedroompleasures.co.uk ... (read in full...)
I've got a problem involving one of my best friends and my flatmate
Q. I've got a problem involving one of my best friends and my flatmate who is also one of my good friends and need help :( I started at uni about 3 mothns ago and was lucky to find myself in a flat with some lovely people. We all get on really we...
A. 10 November 2008: Hey!
Well I wouldnt say anything to Caroline as maybe she will take it as an offence and none of your business kinda thing? I would talk to Anthony and just state my concern about Caroline getting hurt and maybe suggesting that he would tell Car... (read in full...)
Anal sex question!
Q. Hi, I had anal sex for the first time with my boyfriend, we didn't use a condom and I heard you're more likely to catch infections this way, is that true? Also I noticed I was bleeding a little bit after, is this normal? Thanx x...
A. 9 November 2008: Hi, ive bled the first few times, you just have to get it ready first, let him finger you first. Anyways, after few more times it should be ok. As to infections, well if you are both clean and arent havent sex with any other people you shouldnt get ... (read in full...)
Why is it that my b/f is so quick to lose interest in sex just because he's having a busy week?
Q. Why is it that my b/f is so quick to lose interest in sex just because he's having a busy week? To me, it's the greatest escape from work!!! A chance to re-connect with the person who is there for you, and loves you. Yet he pushes away and makes ...
A. 6 November 2008: Low sex drive. Well, lower than yours thats what it is. Does he still mastrubate?... (read in full...)
He's working away - will it work out?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months and its been going great until he landed a new job approx 2 hours drive away. he thinks it won't work and we should call it off but i don't want to do that and i'm really hurting. he's not leaving for a mo...
A. 5 November 2008: Hi, im sorry to hear its like this for you. Thing is if he already told you that he thinks its not going to work out means he made up his mind, hes still not attached to you enough to think that long distance will be worth while considering. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and my mum wants me to have an abortion
Q. Me and My boyfriend have been together for just over 8 months..he's the one for me,ive never been so happy, i couldnt ask for anything else of a partner. Weve been trying for a baby, and every month, i have my period, and its a smack in the face.ive...
A. 5 November 2008: Do you still live in your parents house? If yes, what made you think that your parents would be happy helping raising another child? They only just finished raising you, do you think its fair that they will also have sleepless nights and baby things ... (read in full...)
It's been over a week and he hasn't called!!
Q. I met a boy a few weeks ago who is a friend of my friend's bf. I'v seen him a handful of times and we get on really well, have bare things in common and have even spent some time alone. My friend told him I liked him and then told me that he said ...
A. 4 November 2008: he still might call, but he did tell you that he wasnt sure he liked you, maybe he needs time making his mind up?... (read in full...)
Would this be termed as cheating???
Q. Question:- A man (who is in a relationship) secretly stays in touch with another woman who he knows loves him and is forever showering him with gifts (but doesn't ask her for anything more - ie sex). So would you say this man is cheating on his ...
A. 4 November 2008: I would be baffed as to why is this man spending money on this woman and not on his wife...... (read in full...)
She says she loves me only after one week ! Is this just a ploy ?
Q. okay my girl friend said see loves me and it only been two week we've been together this is my first girl girl relationship and she already want to have sex but her baby moms still in the picture but said they don't do anything what should i do i am ...
A. 4 November 2008: If you are not ready to have sex with her just tell her so.... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill, but I still got pregnant ! We really can't afford another child, but I refuse to abort/adopt. How do we over come this situation?
Q. Hey I have a major problem. After our 3rd child I put my self on birth control so I wouldn't end up pregnant again. I've been on it for 9 months now and last month, on October 25th, I was suppose to recieve my period and didn't. On November 1st I ...
A. 4 November 2008: And what if after having this child you will get pregnant again and again? What will you do then?
I am not sure as to what else you can do about your pregnancy. Adoption sounds much worse to me than abortion. Yes, abortion is murder. So is eatin... (read in full...)
I truly want a child and am willing to try anything
Q. For two months now my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant. Everytime I think I'm pregnant I find out I'm not. For some reason my menstraul cycles are much longer than the normal 28 days. I went from having my period start on the 30th of ...
A. 4 November 2008: You could always get checked at the clinic? Maybe in the US it will turn out quite expensive... Have you been on the pill lately? Have your periods always been like that? You dont mention how long have you had them like this and when did they... (read in full...)
Was I right to end things?
Q. im in love with a man five yrs my junior. It started out as a fling, then we realized we had more in common than we thaught. we became good friends and he invited me to church. its been six months and recently asked him where he sees this going. he ...
A. 4 November 2008: So what kind of commitment you wanted from him? To become a couple? Or to get married? To become an item after 6 months is quite ok, don't know why he should be undecisive about that, unless he doesnt like you enough. To get married after 6 ... (read in full...)
He says he cares, but am I just more into him than he is me?
Q. I've been seeing a guy for 6 months, it's long distance, as we live about 90 miles from each other, or a 2 hour drive away. We see each other near enough every weekend now, and he admitted to me at the end of September that he likes me loads m...
A. 4 November 2008: Hi! I think if he likes you he would probably want to hear from you at least once a day, besides you live in the same country, it doesnt cost much to txt. So unless he has got a super busy life, and it doesnt sound he is exactly Richard Branson, he ... (read in full...)
I just with the other babymomma would go away
Q. Please help me please Iam in a difficult sitaution i let my babydad move in with me after he just broke up with his other babymom.They been brokenup for two 6 months they have two kids together and i have one bye him to.I know him first i met this ...
A. 4 November 2008: Does his ex and children live far away? If they are not then I cannot justify him spending the night there! And if this is the case then probably he is sleeping with her and Emilysanswers is right, he is playing you both. ... (read in full...)
Why won't my ex leave me alone and move on?
Q. I dated my ex for about a little over 3 months. It's been well over a year since we dated. A lot of things went wrong, as he was manipulative, emotionally damaging, and incredibly selfish. Drama went on after I broke up with him. He continued to ...
A. 4 November 2008: Hey, ive known a guy like that. we talked for 8 months then he came over to visit me, i did suspect that something was wrong as he would call me like 40 times if i didnt pick up the phone, he called my work number, house number, even at 2pm if i ... (read in full...)
I just feel so used, hurt and basically broken.
Q. I am having a very hard time, two days ago something happened to me, which I just never imagined would happen. I had been with my boyfriend for only about six months. We got pretty serious straight away- not sexually but emotionally. He seemed to ...
A. 4 November 2008: Yep, sounds like rape.
What if hes got a double personality? I am not sure how this is called in medical terms. I am not trying to defend him, but he might be mentally unstable, keep away from him!!!
If he is mentally unstable he will probably... (read in full...)
I have a weird family!!
Q. I have a weird family. I don't know if I should call them weird but they are getting on my nerves. The problem with them is that they spend and shop excessively. And we are from the middle class family. They just can't stop asking me for mon...
A. 4 November 2008: 1) Dont get rid of your iPod - you earned it, you wanted it, you bought it on your hard earned money.
2) And why is it exactly they want money from you? Who else works in your family?
3) Can you afford to move out of the house?
4) If ... (read in full...)
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