Am I rushing the situation or is he not interested in me?
Q. There's a new guy at work that I met and he seemed to like me, according to how he acts around me. Well, he invited me to his gym and i went and signed up. I signed up because I thought it would be a good idea since I liked him too. Well, we go to ...
A. 30 December 2010: First of all, congrats on finally getting that guy you've been after :) Second, no. No he doesn't just want you for sex. If he did he would have made a move a LOOOOOONG time ago. Try not to let these things concern you :) Don't over think it. ... (read in full...)
End relationship or keep trying?
Q. I am late 40's and have been involved with a man for 4 years...a comitted relationship, but we are not engaged and do not live together. We each have 2 children...older teenagers. The beginning of our relationship was great, expected to marry this ...
A. 5 November 2010: Addressing your response about his weight:
Does he have a full time job or something that keeps him busy? My girlfriend's dad, who I was referring to in my last response, was a stay at home dad and didn't work. His depression came out of bored... (read in full...)
Guys, would this put you off?
Q. Question mainly for the guys but general opinion as well. If a girl who has never had a boyfriend and is in her late 20's, very quiet and shy, just goes to work and it easy going and doesn't have any real friends like from school or work would th...
A. 5 November 2010: In my opinion, the only thing I'd have to consider is how "clingy" that girl would become. If they got a boyfriend, chances are they'd make that person their everything.
Being close in a relationship is great, but being able to function well awa... (read in full...)
How do I convince her we should get back together?
Q. hello everyone , i really need everyones advices, my ldr girlfriend suddenly broke up with me claiming that she doesnt want a relationship anymore, she said its not coz of the relationship it self, its coz of her , but i dont get how she could ju...
A. 4 November 2010: I've been there, my friend. We had a great relationship that overall was consistent and loving, but once college came along and we had to become long distance, after so long she just couldn't do it. She said it was because of her.
Fortu... (read in full...)
I want to say something really nice to him before we have sex for the first time, but I struggle to express myself! Help!
Q. Hiya me and my bf have been going out about a year and a half now and were plannning on having our first time together soon. I wanted to say something really nice before he enters me as he is really romantic and emotional. I thought I could say ...
A. 4 November 2010: Well make sure you both really want the sex first. Duh, everyone wants it physically, that's why its so fun, but do you both want this emotionally? Are you both in a place where you want to grow closer through sex, or are you just feeling that its ... (read in full...)
I think I am not "in love" with my boyfriend of 8 years anymore, and now an old crush is back on the scene I don't know what to do!
Q. I am in a relationship which I been in for 8 years, I love him but not sure if I'm in love with him. I have recently been in contact with a old crush and the past 2 weeks we got close, my heart telling me to be with him but I don't know please help ...
A. 4 November 2010: If you've been together for 8 years, this guy must have something special that you love. If you've felt that its been going away lately HE NEEDS TO KNOW! Trust me, I'm a guy! We are oblivious and we do not know what our woman is thinking all ... (read in full...)
End relationship or keep trying?
Q. I am late 40's and have been involved with a man for 4 years...a comitted relationship, but we are not engaged and do not live together. We each have 2 children...older teenagers. The beginning of our relationship was great, expected to marry this ...
A. 4 November 2010: Men (and women) tend to gain weight a lot easier in their later years and sometimes the mid-life crisis depression can cause them to just not care about themselves anymore. Knowing many who suffer from depression, when they are yelled at or acc... (read in full...)
Struggling to cope with the distance.....
Q. i cannt cope with distance releationship and now im making the wrong decisions. cant stop thinking that he is cheating on me too....
A. 4 November 2010: LDR's are tough because once you start getting attention from someone else, you feel you don't need them. I've seen it happen too many times. You need to talk more. Talk a lot. Even if you have 15 minutes of free time, give him a call or leave ... (read in full...)
Good age to get married?
Q. what age would be a good age to get married?...
A. 4 November 2010: Currently I'm 21 and would still consider myself "changing." I learn new things every day and become a little different and more mature all the time. Things I would have considered good for me a year ago definitely were not in my best interest. ... (read in full...)
He cheated, now I am falling for someone else and have no idea what to do!
Q. Ok, this is probably going to sound like I'm a complete bitch, but I do have a conscience and I do feel bad about what I'm doing here. I'm 26 and have been with my bf for 2 years. He cheated on me a year ago, and has been flirting online ...
A. 4 November 2010: If you're not happy with someone you are with, you need to break it off. It takes two people to form a relationship and right now neither of you are in it. He was cheating and flirting with others and now you're more concerned with another man ... (read in full...)
How can I make him see that being together again is the right choice?
Q. I'm 18 and my ex is 19. We dated for a year and three months and our relationship was near perfect. We fought a few times, just as any two people in a relationship would. We said that we loved each other for almost the whole time, and with time we ...
A. 4 November 2010: Why did you break up with him in the first place? Was it because of a fight, or on a whim because of something he did? Or was it because you felt you really didn't love him? I have a lot of friends who have broken up and gotten back together with ... (read in full...)
He called me fat!!!!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a really long time now, he tells me he loves me, he's always there for me and we both feel that we're practically perfect for each other, we've been friends ever since we were 4 years old but as years ...
A. 4 November 2010: As a guy, I know how your friends can change your attitude. A guy has a "social status" to keep up with, even around his friends. Do you notice this often? Are his actions when you're alone and when you're with his friends radically different? ... (read in full...)
I don't want to mess up my first ever date!
Q. Hello, this is going to sound sad but i've been asked out to go to the cinema with this guy from college. I know him, but we only speak online so it's kind of awkward. I'm 16 and it's like my first ever date if thats what this is. I'm seriously ...
A. 4 November 2010: If he's asking you out, he already likes who you are. You don't have to be anyone but you. Don't worry about how shy you are or how popular/cool he is. You should still, however, strike simple conversation to show that you're interested. If ... (read in full...)
Will I ever love again?
Q. I dated a guy for six years. He was my first real relationship, I guess you could say my first love. We got engaged and had plans to get marriied. After we got engaged we started having a lot of problems. I loved him and he loved me though he wasnt...
A. 4 November 2010: Sometimes the pieces just don't fit. My good friend is going through a rough break up after a 3 1/2 year relationship, even though I have never seen a more loving couple. Even though it hurts so badly, they both agreed that they just didn't work. ... (read in full...)
How do I get past my trust issues and date an actor?
Q. The story is rather long, but I need to let you guys know everything in order for it to make sense. Thank you for time and attetion! I have known this guy for some time now and ever since I met him I knew in my heart we were meant for each other. ...
A. 4 November 2010: First off, don't feel guilty about how you are feeling. We are all molded and shaped by our past experiences and they make us the people we become. Second, I'm very glad you've found love when you didn't think you could ever again. Not all guys ... (read in full...)
Since we have had sex and I've given all I have, how can I show how much he means to me?
Q. First I wanna say thankyou to everyone giving advice. Yall have helped me out with some hard times an made them better, but now to the question I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. I was a virgin he is not. He was very caring and kept ...
A. 4 November 2010: Overall, sex changes relationships. Its a big step to take. It can bring two people close or push them apart. It all depends on how you go about it, the timing, and how you handle it afterwards.
First off, a lot of woman say sex hurt the firs... (read in full...)
How can you tell if a guy is interested in you?
Q. What are ways to tell if a guy is interested in you? HELP PLEASE im so confused....
A. 4 November 2010: Some guys are flirts, some are shy. We can be both just like girls can. Its hard to tell in either case since a flirty guy may not actually be interested but just flirts by nature, while a shy guy is impossible to read. Its up to you to decide if ... (read in full...)
We never have time together anymore.
Q. Hello i have been with my bf for close to a year. We are both nearly 22. Recently i have been feeling some pressure on the relationship as he never seems to have any time for me. We both work full time and then when it comes to weekends, if his...
A. 4 November 2010: No you are not asking for too much, but you really need to let him know that it has been on your mind. If you haven't noticed, men are quite oblivious. I've had times where other commitments come up unexpectedly, and I'm forced to back out on ... (read in full...)
Is she confused or just plain upset that I didn't propose to her?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over five years. Last spring we moved in together, and things seemed fine. Three weeks ago I came home and she told me she wasn't happy and she didn't want to be with me any more, and she said she ...
A. 4 November 2010: I've read several books on these things (for one of my college courses) and a reoccurring element is that while men seek to provide, women do not want that more than they want your time and attention. I bet you hear of plenty of marriages that end ... (read in full...)
Love him or "in love" with him?
Q. Well my boyfriend and i been dateing for almost 3 months now. he tells me he loves me, and i tell him i love him back. but im not sure if i really do. i know i like him and i care about him so much, but in love with him no. or am i just confused ? ...
A. 4 November 2010: Love is something that definitely takes time to develop. Its been scientifically proven that for the first 8-12 months of a relationship your brain is constantly producing "feel good" chemicals, giving people all those amazing feelings towards each ... (read in full...)
Am I rushing the situation or is he not interested in me?
Q. There's a new guy at work that I met and he seemed to like me, according to how he acts around me. Well, he invited me to his gym and i went and signed up. I signed up because I thought it would be a good idea since I liked him too. Well, we go to ...
A. 4 November 2010: Nothing wrong with being good friends for now. As a guy, I realize there are those of us who will go and ask out a woman within minutes. For me, and several others I know, we appreciate starting a great friendship beforehand. Getting to know ... (read in full...)
She's giving me an ultimatum... drop my friend or she's leaving me!
Q. So, there was this girl I used to have a fling with. However nothing ever became of it, we started dating different people but she is still one of my best friends. That was two years ago. Currently I'm dating this girl, and have been for a few ...
A. 4 November 2010: You don't want to have to give things up that matter to you for someone else, trust me. I know that modern society says, "If you love this person, you'll make sacrifices for them," and while that may be true, if you have to give something up that ... (read in full...)
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