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ThatsMyCookie/Cookie!

I have always loved helping people and advising people because I really get a kick out of seeing things go right for others. For a long time I studied psychology and sociology, so I can put that to use when I give people answers. I like hearing about others problems and then solving them, because I think it's really important to help the people who need it.

I have only recently discovered this website and I really like the way that it helps people.

I like it long, slow and sweet, with plenty of kisses and intimacy. ;)

My pillow has to be cold and I can't sleep on my back.

If you massage me or play with my hair I go to sleep.

I love beauty and make-up, and shopping!

I hate housework, feeling sick, and having to get up.

If you push my buttons right, Im as soft as a kitten.

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If you send me a private message referring to some advice that I've given you, make sure you send me a link to your question because I might not remember it :(

I love any feedback so please send me messages telling me how you got on or what you thought of my advice!

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Currently I'm in a very flexible relationship with my two lovely roomates. It may sound crazy to you, but it suits us all perfectly. After coming out of a very tense and abusive relationship with a guy I was crazy about, it's the perfect arrangement I need to boost my self confidence and sexiness!

I'm bisexual, like my beautiful roomate Lois, and the attraction is mutual. For a while we weren't officially together, more like friends with benefits, until Lois's friend (who by the way is drop dead gorgeous) asked for us all to get together. Obviously it went well because he moved in, and the last six montths have been relationship heaven :)

Hope you like my advice :)

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10 fail-safe tips to bag that guy... Men, take note!

This question has 8 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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31 December 2010: How will you ever discover how to make a guy fall in love with you? What things attract a guy and keep him interested? Do you have the information to reach a guy's heart? Men are perplexing and most women just don't understand them. Here are some ...

Do all girls squirt?

Q.   what happens when a girl masturbates ..i mean she rubs her clit? do all girls squirt? if not...how can a girl please herself enough to squirt??...

A.   17 January 2011: In fact, it's not just in movies - if they have a very intense orgasm, a lucky few girls do 'squirt'. It's a release of the very same liquid that acts as the natural lubricant (in other words, the liquid you are referring to if you call a girls ... (read in full...)

Help with premature ejaculation

Q.   Y do I cum so fast I try to go slow but she likes it rough...

A.   16 January 2011: When you feel like you are about to ejaculate, pull out and put pressure on the tip of the penis until the urge subsides. If you continue to do this every time you feel that you are about to ejaculate prematurely, eventually the problem will go away ... (read in full...)

10 fail-safe tips to bag that guy... Men, take note!

Q.   How will you ever discover how to make a guy fall in love with you? What things attract a guy and keep him interested? Do you have the information to reach a guy's heart? Men are perplexing and most women just don't understand them. Here are some ...

A.   15 January 2011: @diddycoy I do appreciate feedback, however you'll notice I put "you DON'T need a short skirt and a rocking body". Please quote from my article where you think I implied that a woman with "a wobbly body who wears trousers or long skirts wouldn't ... (read in full...)

10 fail-safe tips to bag that guy... Men, take note!

Q.   How will you ever discover how to make a guy fall in love with you? What things attract a guy and keep him interested? Do you have the information to reach a guy's heart? Men are perplexing and most women just don't understand them. Here are some ...

A.   15 January 2011: diddycoy I do appreciate feedback, however you'll notice I put "you DON'T need a short skirt and a rocking body". Please quote from my article where you think I implied that a woman with "a wobbly body who wears trousers or long skirts wouldn't ... (read in full...)

10 fail-safe tips to bag that guy... Men, take note!

Q.   How will you ever discover how to make a guy fall in love with you? What things attract a guy and keep him interested? Do you have the information to reach a guy's heart? Men are perplexing and most women just don't understand them. Here are some ...

A.   8 January 2011: Thankyou all for your lovely comments :)... (read in full...)

Why do I cry after having sex with my ex?

Q.   i recently had anal with an old ex boyfriend we are best friends now but after he got done i just started cry I haad a whole load of emotion come out but why did i cry i felt so low ....but when we were dating and did it was fine so my question...

A.   1 January 2011: Guilt? Raging hormones? After sex your body is just one mass of emotion, and usually that makes you feel good. However, you just felt low and my guess is that it's just the tension, stress, and guilt of having sex with an ex. My rule is - once an... (read in full...)

What happened? Should I see the Dr?

Q.   hey all.. i really need help. i was with my boyfriend yesterday, we were making out and having dry sex. but still i touched his penis and i think he did precum. i was fully clothed though (underwear and jeans). after we're done i went to the toil...

A.   1 January 2011: If you were pregnant then there would be no signs this early so don't worry about that. Cramps and the pink spotting (is it a pinky-browny colour?) could be signs of an infection and you should go to your doctors and get that checked out. It coul... (read in full...)

Does the anus produce any natural lubricant?

Q.   Hi! So I'm a 16 year old guy, just starting to except the fact that he's gay. But I was curious, and so I'm gonna ask this: If a guys is being stimulated anally, does his anus produce any kind of lubrication or liquid like a vagina would? Idk, ...

A.   31 December 2010: It's good that you've come to terms with your sexuality, as it's a big part of who you are and it's what you want. In answer to your question - No, it doesn't. Inserting something into the anus without using a lubricant can cause both severe ... (read in full...)

With all the sex and no pregnancy, could I be infertile?

Q.   Dear agony aunts and uncles I'm 19 and i just got married on the 17th of dec to my boyfriend of 3 years hes in the military and i'm really happy . how ever my concern is that when we got married we had sex with out a condom and i'm not on birth ...

A.   31 December 2010: I'm not about to judge you, don't worry - it's completely up to you whether you feel ready and prepared and emotionally mature enough to deal with the stress and the amount of care you need to give to support a tiny life. However, I feel that I must ... (read in full...)

Is masturbation affecting my erections?

Q.   i have a girlfriend and we are almost regularly having oral sex(blow job and sucking) and my girlfriend dnt want to have sex until we are married. she loves discharging my sperm on her Breast and we are doing this almost regularly from past 1 y...

A.   31 December 2010: I don't think that the masturbating is the reason why your erections seem to be weaker. If over a year this has never happened before then it is probably more to do with something that has happened recently. Think over the past month - has ther... (read in full...)

Webcam Incident - scared,afraid,paranoid. help?

Q.   Hello people, i was faced with two seperate incidents that happen over a year ago, close to two. Basically, i webcam-ed in msn with strangers from a chatroom. And you guessed it, i "over-exposed" myself during the short webcam session. Worst of all, ...

A.   31 December 2010: You need to relax and put it behind you. Focus on other things, spend more time on hobbies, anything to help you put it out of your mind for the time being. I know from experience that these kinds of incidents - where afterwords you feel scar... (read in full...)

Do you think he has a tendency for homosexual games?? Or am I over-reacting?

Q.   Dear friends, Your opinion is valuable and always taken into consideration. many thanks in advance!! I dont know how to write this in plain English. I have been dating this guy for three weeks. Even though i like him, i'm a bit skeptical about hi...

A.   31 December 2010: Firstly you really need to calm down. He only asked you to do one thing, and already you have jumped to the conclusion that he is homosexual and youre considering wether you should leave him! Everyone has some sexual preferences and we all find out ... (read in full...)

If your girlfriend had only a single 2 minutes' sexual encounter before you were in her life,would you let that effect you?

Q.   If you were a virgin before your gf and you knew that your gf only engaged in sex for a minute or two and realized it was wrong and stopped. And that was her only sexual encounter before you,would you let that effect you? I love my girlfriend but I ...

A.   31 December 2010: Try not to let it bother you too much. She must have backed out last minute because she didnt feel comfortable/ready/right and that is absolutely normal and happens a lot. If you do try again, make sure you go slowly and don't rush into anyt... (read in full...)

Why look at me, when you could look at someone prettier?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. He and I are honest about everything and are open about many things. I have asked him over and over if he looks and other women. But he says he doesn't look at other girls. I don't think I ...

A.   31 December 2010: First of all, I really think you should stop asking him to not look at other women. In his mind, this will probably translate to "I'm really jelous and over protective and you can never ever be free of me EVER!!!!" To you and me, this sounds craz... (read in full...)

Ladies is this a tear or something normal?

Q.   This isn't a relationship question but a personal one. Ladies can you explain to be if this is normal. I have what I can only describe as 'ridges' on my vagina. The location is rather hard to explain, but they are on the mons pubis a little too the ...

A.   31 December 2010: Every woman in the world has a different body - and that includes her vagina! What you're describing sounds very similar to the bumpy back wall of the vagina near the opening that some women have. Because I'm not an educated medical prof... (read in full...)

Should I let my BF go lower?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to go lower(fingering and eating me out). But idk if i should ? I feel as he is rushing into things. ...

A.   31 December 2010: Really take time to think about this situation. If you feel like youre rushing into this, then that's not a good sign and means maybe you just aren't ready. You need to consider whether your boyfriend really is your boyfriend - do you have long, ... (read in full...)

Why did she have sex with me when she has a boyfriend?

Q.   i recently met up with a girl i knew from 5th grade and been hanging around with her the past couple weeks and i am really starting to like her a lot the other night we had sex but heres my problem she already has a boyfriend i want her to be with ...

A.   31 December 2010: However much you may be crazy about this girl at the moment, you could be looking at her through crush tinted spectacles and need to slow down. Take time to think about the toes your treading on and the people who could get hurt in this - whic... (read in full...)

How do I ask this guy I've only met once out?

Q.   Ok so I'm 18 and recently met a REALLY hot guy, looks about 24 or 25, who works in a phone store across from where i work in the mall. Most days that I work, I get put at the front of the store to greet and promote. We make alot of eye contact a...

A.   31 December 2010:  I know the feeling! Why don't you try texting him with a thankyou message, and giving him a compliment in it? It sounds to me like he's into you - he went out of his way to give you his card and you both made a lot of eye contact which is sure to h... (read in full...)

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