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writes:What are ways to tell if a guy is interested in you? HELP PLEASE im so confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (4 November 2010):
Some guys are flirts, some are shy. We can be both just like girls can. Its hard to tell in either case since a flirty guy may not actually be interested but just flirts by nature, while a shy guy is impossible to read. Its up to you to decide if this guy you're wondering about fits into those categories.
If he's flirty and he's actually interested, he'll only be flirty with you. He may talk to other girls as friends, but the real flirting only comes out when he talks with you.
If he's a shy one and he's interested, you may notice him smile or light up when you say hi. You'll be able to see that you bring a little life/spunk to his normally shy and calm attitude when you're around.
Overall, its hard to gauge, but if you're into someone, just start spending time with them. You don't have to make things awkward or difficult. Just get to know them. Eventually you'll just know :)
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (4 November 2010):
 Look for the way he'll look at you, there will be a face that he'll make and you'll know. Also if you smile at him and he smiles back or you know by the way he talks to you. Or a sure fire way to know is tell him you like him and see what he does. After you say that it is a gauranteed answer even though it might not be the one you want but chances are if you've seen some signs it means he's interested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): Well the main problem with us guys is that we don't really show when we are interested unless we try to spend alot of time with you, get mad at other guys who hit on you, or smile alot around you. If you see at least 2 of those signs and there not gay it most likely meens they're interested
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reader, benc57 +, writes (3 November 2010):
really depends on the guy, in general shy guys will never talk to you and look at you then when you look at them they will immediately look away. Guys with a lot of confidence will straight out ask you out. and anyone in between would probably look at you and you look at them they keep looking, half smile and talk to you occasionally then try asking you out after talking couple times. Of course this is all just stuff I notice from being one of those shy guys and only being able to observe while other people ask each other out. But this is all generalization and every guy is different. Unless you got a degree in psychology and super observant there’s no way to completely know about a single guy and the signs he shows for liking someone. Just try your best to learn the basic signs and try to put them into play. Or just straight up ask guys you like if they like you. Hope I helped in some way
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): When he lets you know that he's interested. If you're confused, chances are that he's not.
You don't give us much to work with so it's hard to answer your questions. Perhaps give us more details?
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reader, Dizme +, writes (3 November 2010):
It can be hard to tell. If he is as young as you are then it may be difficult for him to display what he feels as much as you find it difficult to decipher the signals. The best bet is to just ask him as embarrasing as it sounds. There are many ways to word it so that you both are not in an uncomforatble position, plus if you do just put it out there he may have more respect for you.
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