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... Send *ibra1963 a private message | | | *ibra1963's profile:I am a mother of 3 and I teach 16 to 19 year olds. I have had many experiences throughout life with men and family problems.
I can relate to many of the problems identified and have always been able to come out of them with my head held high. I would like to help others do that to and see that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.
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What does an open relationship mean?
Q. what does an open relationship mean? my boyfriends facebook status is in a open relationship...
A. 6 April 2009: If you do not feel comfortable with this you need to speak toyour b/f. Open relationships can be bad as we are human and when jealously sets in, its not healthy.
Good luck.... (read in full...)
13 yo and want to have sex with my boyfriend
Q. i'm thirteen years old and i want to start having sex with my boyfriend( we've been together for 4 months ) but im worried that if we have sex i may bleed on him when i break my hymen. We are obviously going to use a condom but i am scared he will...
A. 6 April 2009: Why do you want to have sex so young. There are other ways of expressing love. why don't you save your virginity for the special one. I don't mean to sound cold but what will boys think of you knowing that you have been having sex so early. The ... (read in full...)
Have I created the impression I am available and easy??
Q. I met this guy at his families hairdressers. I could tell he liked me by the way he looked at me and the questions he was asking. He and his family know my current boyfriend but I am not happy. this guy has brought up twins on his own with the ...
A. 8 March 2009: Thank you all for your time and your useful responses. Maybe I am over reacting. ... (read in full...)
I'm with the baby's father, not much in common, and I'm thinking of my ex
Q. Well hello everyone! My name is amber and im gonna be twenty years old...and Im gonna be a Mommy. I met the baby's father about six months ago..we found out that i was pregnant just a few weeks into our relationship.. At the begining of our ...
A. 8 March 2009: You should never have unprotected sex with someone you have just met. You need to speak to you ex and tell him how you feel. Obviously you are going to have to tell him about the mistake you make. He may love you enough to accept it as his own ... (read in full...)
Do girls feel anal is humiliating?
Q. Do girls feel anal sex is in some way humiliating??? My gf and i had anal for the first time last weekend, and in the middle of it she started to cry. Of course we stopped, but at that moment she couldn't explain why she cried. After thinking...
A. 27 February 2009: Anal is not natural. Women do have any pleasant sensations there so it is not so enjoyable as it is for men. We as women want to please men so we tolerate it. Your g/f is young so just discovering her body. If she does not enjoy it do not force ... (read in full...)
I'm doing ok on my own and I don't know if I should be in a relationship or not?
Q. It is Valentines day and I guess it has got me thinking. Three years ago my twelve year relationship ended and my boyfriend just withdrew from my life. I have done well in every area of my life but when it comes to romance, I am terrified and with ...
A. 15 February 2009: You have had some good responses. I have been in a relationship but felt so alone most of the time. I feel the best thing to do is not hunt for a relationship. It will happen naturally. God placed both man and woman on the earth for a reason. ... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever heard of someone my age or older initiating a career in music and being successful?
Q. Good evening (and happy Valentine's Day) everyone, I didn't feel comfortable revealing my identity, but I will say this: that I'm one of the "regular" aunts on this site. Anytime someone needs me, I'm always happy to listen and I understand feeli...
A. 15 February 2009: Hi There!
I was interested to read your problem. You sound so much like me. I too teach 16 - 19 year olds. I am an ex singer/dancer. I am now 45 and I am burning to get back into it but with a family and not much support - its difficul... (read in full...)
Strong feelings for the boss
Q. Hi everyone Last x-mas we had a company dinner, i always had a crash on my boss. we had few drinks and he asked me for a ride. He is single he so invited me inside to see the house, i went in as i was leaving he kissed me, i couldn't resist ...
A. 7 February 2009: Many people meet their partners through work but you need to reflect on this incident. Men do not develop the same feeling women do when involved sexually. You may well have spoilt your chances here by getting involved too quickly sexually... (read in full...)
Is my little sister attracted to me?
Q. My little sister is 13 and I am 19. The last two times that I was hanging out with her in her room she says, "I'm horny". Not just once but on two different occasions. I just say like yeah me too... and blow it off. I'm starting to wonder if she has ...
A. 26 January 2009: Number one, you should not be in your sisters room. Its good to have brother and sister like love but getting sexually involved in sick and you could get into serious trouble. If your family find out so will professionals and even neighbours. You ... (read in full...)
Friendships...
Q. Also, I have another question regarding making friends. I am a very social person, and I often find myself taking the initiative, making the first move, inviting other people, etc. I notice other people keeping their distance, being friendly and ...
A. 25 January 2009: I feel the best way to meet friends is through an activity that yoyu both enjoy. Casual int he park or at the shops does not work. By seeing that person on a regular basis and getting to know them through small talk is a great way to make new ... (read in full...)
Playing hard to get or losing interest?
Q. How do you know when a guy is playing hard to get or he liked you,but now lost interest in you.My crush is confusing me again,I think he is playing hard to get and it's not the first time.A week ago he smiled at me,said hi and called my name in ...
A. 25 January 2009: Youi appear rather young so I am assuming your boyfriend is too. Men do not mature for many years. They get a kick out of upsetting girls and having girls run after them. It all adds to their ego. Do it back to him. Be friendly with ot... (read in full...)
I can't get over my ex b/f
Q. Short version: We were together for a short time but he's made such an impact on me that I can't imagine my life without him. It was passionate, real, so much love. We talked about moving in together, marriage and kids. He is 36 and I'm 33. He b...
A. 25 January 2009: I have been in a similiar situation as this and made a terrible fool of myself. I just would not let go. I would turn up at his house knowing another women was there. It is impossible to remain friends. the pain will just continue. If he ... (read in full...)
Am I Considered A Whore?
Q. okay, so here is the thing. i am questioning myself "if i am a whore?" well okay, a little while back i went somewhere with these two guys. i took a pill (not sure what it was but my friend said it would make me feel relaxed) and i started to make ...
A. 19 January 2009: Your not a whore but be careful as these guys will turn around and call you names. If you do things like this think of the consequences.
Its alright for men but never looks good for women.... (read in full...)
Do you think he is about to start up the relationship with her again and was sending a message to her?
Q. I have been married to my husband for 7 years although we have lived together 15 years now. Over the past few years he has been having an affair and has been back and forward to this woman several times. At the moment he is back with me he was ...
A. 18 January 2009: Men you carry on like this often end up with no one. How many more years are you going to put up with this. I am speaking from similiar experiences, I wasted 10 years and was made to feel so cheap, worthless and unloved dispite having two small ... (read in full...)
Wanted just for sex?
Q. Hi i think i have come to realise that any boy i seem to meet just wants me for sex..i went out with my ex for a week and he asked for sex! i said no so he left..what a mug also why do most boys (atleast that i know) like easy girls? isnt a gi...
A. 18 January 2009: I am glad you are realising this now. Do not let guys take you for granted. You will feel awful afterwards and end up on your own. Any one who indicates sex early in a relatipnship is not worth it.
It is understandable that both you and a gu... (read in full...)
Why don't any of these guys have feelings for me?
Q. Brace yourself people this is going to be a long one Grrr, right what is wrong with all the males I meet after reading this question please do not tell me that I need to stop going for the same kind of guy because really everything about...
A. 12 January 2009: Like the last Aunty said - don't let men use you. You will end up feeling worse for wear. Thank God you have not got children yet as far as I can ascertain. Have fun and keep things light. Let relationships take the natural toll. Read "Men... (read in full...)
How do I get beyond this and feel attractive to him again?
Q. I have been married to the same man for 25 years and a year ago after many months of suspecting, I walked into his girlfriend's home and found him in bed with her. I can't seem to forget or forgive. I feel like I'll never be as attractive as she was ...
A. 10 January 2009: Are you certain that he really wants to save the marriage? Can you confirm that he is no longer seeing the other woman?
On a positive note, you have had a long healthy marriage. If there was not something there, he would have left you long ago... (read in full...)
How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?
Q. How old does a 15 year old woman have to be to have sex with her 18 year old boyfriend without legal consiquences?...
A. 4 January 2009: In the UK it is 16. How ever the longer you wait the more you can be assured that he truly loves you. Do not be in haste to have sex. The younger you are the more you hurt when things go wrong and he leaves you for another young one. By that ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me... I wanted to fix things... what to do?
Q. So my boyfriend just broke up with me. I thought everything was fine...we have been dating for 28 days now. He asked me out on Dec. 1st and after a bit of him persuading me (saying "I will never hurt you, and I will never make you cry, you have bee...
A. 29 December 2008: 28 days is a short time to get to know someone. You both made a mistake by sleeping with each other so quickly. do not appear desperate and turn him off more by contantly phoning. Throw yourself into your own life - hang out with friends. flirt ... (read in full...)
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