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female
age
41-50,
*enga
writes:Hi everyoneLast x-mas we had a company dinner, i always had a crash on my boss. we had few drinks and he asked me for a ride. He is single he so invited me inside to see the house, i went in as i was leaving he kissed me, i couldn't resist so we made out a lot that night. Now i develop strong feelings for him, i'm scared to tell him because we work together and i'm scared of rejection. i'm hurting what should i do?Senga
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (7 February 2009):
 Many people meet their partners through work but you need to reflect on this incident.Men do not develop the same feeling women do when involved sexually. You may well have spoilt your chances here by getting involved too quickly sexually. If you had been stronger and teased him, you would have him as honey between your fingers.Its now done and you feel strongly towards him. All is not lost. Try and speak to him. Do not come on too heavy straight away. Say that you enjoyed the night and hope to spend more time together. when you do - try not to get involved sexually - get to know him more. If he likes you let him wine and dine you - don't let him use you.Wait until you feel he really like you and that the relationship has hope.You will know when that is.It can be awkward having a relationship at work so you might want to keep it quite. Hopefully he will too until it is established. the last thing you want is gossiping particularly if it does not work out.Keep me informed as to how you are progressing.Take Care
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reader, uluvme0723 +, writes (7 February 2009):
 You do know if you pursue this, you may be risking your job. But if you believe that won't happen, and you really want this. Go for it. If your rejected, deal with it. Rejection is part of life. Don't invest too much.
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