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writes:hiI am a 24 year old male. I have a problem in getting an erection by itself. I need the penis to be stroked for getting the erection. I have been masturbating for almost 10 years now. Is it that the penis has got used to stroking so much that now it needs it now. Somehow after realizing this my confidence level is dropping and I am afraid to ask out women.Also the erection is not that hard as it used to be. Used to be rock solid and I could actually see my penis getting erect just in a few steps. Now it does not happen at all.
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (24 February 2008):
Worry is like a seed that you plant. Then the seed of worry grows bigger and makes the problem bigger than it is. There are many sex toys for men to buy like penis rings masturbating gloves etc. Masturbation will not wreck your penis. It is the confidence that you are lacking in which is making it more difficult to become aroused. Also you could have a hormone imbalance which is making arousal more difficult. See an endocrinologist and have him or her check you out via a blood test. However, I am guessing that your problem is more phsycosomatic meaning emotionally triggered. Is there a favourite song or music you like to listen to which makes you horny? Is there a favourite movie or actress which gets you in the mood? Basically relax, take some deep breaths and do a relaxation exercise before you masturbate. ie Place your hands on your abdomen and breathe in deeply through your nose and out through your mouth slowly. Your hands should be across your belly with your fingers touching and when you breathe in your fingers should then not touch. Do this for two minutes and then try. You should be more relaxed. Hope I helped you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): I think this is quite common actually, a lot of men DO get erect just by visuals, but this is still not unusual. Yeah, it could be something to do with getting used to stroking, that's what I would say it is. But they say that masturbation doesnt have any effect on your penis, so it depends what you believe. Honey, a woman shouldn't find this a problem though. I certainly wouldn't. It just means that before sex, a hand job or blow job will do the trick, so remember to use foreplay.
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