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Heya am called Emily not that u cre tbh bt oh well

i am 14...15 soon, i have a bf and have been seeing him 4 just over 2 months. I got messed around alot last year so i have a lot of info on things like that.

Hope i can help some people, remember im still young so dont know as much as others so my advice isnt always top class =D

xxx

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Can I be just too 'tight' for sex?

Q.   is it possible to be to tight to have sex? i do use tampons with no problems if that helps! ...

A.   13 November 2006: dont worry...your vagina will stretch...people can get a baby out ov their! lol dont stress! it'll be fine good luck x x x... (read in full...)

he said I'm a geek and need to be more chavy. How much should I change about myself?

Q.   right im not sure weather this is a relationship question or a fashion question lol. anyway i was talking to this lad and we were arranging to meet..he said "this wolud b easier if you were ma g/f but no offence bt ur such a geek...chav it up a bit ...

A.   9 November 2006: im not s geek btw ppl... (read in full...)

Does a girl prefer cuddle or kisses?

Q.   Hi everyone just wondering if your spending time with a girl does she prefer cuddle or kisses?...

A.   31 October 2006: bit ov both are good 4 me. jus 2 make me feel loved lol.... (read in full...)

He is coming to stay with me for the weekend but is seeing some other girl

Q.   Ok, The guy of my dreams is coming to stay at my house for the weekend. Neither of us are into flings, and he has told me he likes me, and i like him a lot.. he has made a move on me a few times before, and i have always said no, thinking i was his ...

A.   31 October 2006: this isnt really an answer but i was reading your question and ur really vein!! even if you know ur pretty and intelligent and whatever else, few people actually admit it cos what is pretty in one persons eyes may not be in anothers!... (read in full...)

Does it mean anything when a lad gets a hard on thinking of you in your underwear???

Q.   does it mean anythig if a lad gets a hard on over thinking of you in your underwear?...

A.   24 October 2006: dus it mean he "fancies" you though or just wants to bed you so to speak?... (read in full...)

Im really young, and me and my bf have done a few things, im ready to sleep with him, but my age is stopping me, what do you think ?

Q.   me and my bf are pretty young, but weve gone pretty far (slow hj,fingering,dry humping, etc.) and sometimes i feel like i want to go further, but then i think about my age, and it makes me really frusterated! i mean im not totaly sure if he wants to...

A.   19 October 2006: What do you concider really young? am im sure if your say 14+ your ready for whatever. most people seem to be but then again im only 14! maybe i think this coz of that im not sure but if it feels rite then do it! but if ur worried about it in any ... (read in full...)

He wants me to shave my fanny and I don't know how!

Q.   hey i met this guy when i went to austria with the school and hes coming over to see me but he wants me to shave my vagina and i really dont no how to go about it please help its really embarsing!!!!x:X:x ...

A.   19 October 2006: i had this problem a few days ago. if your not gettin much help wich by the looks of it your doing fine but anyway chack out my answers that i got. i found them extremely helpful... (read in full...)

My bf keeps askin me for sex. I am only 13, am I too young?

Q.   i am 13 and my boyfriend moved away he is coming back to visit me and wants to have sex i told him im not sure but he keeps asking me am i to young??...

A.   15 October 2006: wow the fact your concidering this question says something in its self. if you have to ask whether you should then the answer if probably no, u shouldnt. just tell him straight or when it come to it jus say ur not in the mood i've used that excuse ... (read in full...)

I am in love with a boy, but he hits me and spits in my face.

Q.   i am a teen and i am really in love with a boy, i have performed oral sex with him and he has done things to me but after it he says he doesnt fancy me anymore !! when we was alone he said he only said he didnt fancy him because i annoyed him. so i ...

A.   15 October 2006: WOW why let him act like that, you need to tease him a bit, this take practice. you need to learn how much to tease and when to give it up so to speak. i used to tease this lad but then he knew he had a hold ova me and treated me like to put it ... (read in full...)

What do I do if my mother won't let me see my boyfriend anymore???

Q.   What do I do if my mother wont let me see my boyfriend anymore?...

A.   15 October 2006: my friend is going through this sort of thing at the moment, her boyfriends parents have stopped him seeing her, she is totally gutted, but i dont really understand your question. can you give some more info on it please, like ages and why she might ... (read in full...)

What does anal sex feel like?

Q.   Is anal sex sore? What does it feel like? Any tips...

A.   14 October 2006: one word PAINFUL!!! honestly ive done it a few times and it really hurts. it worked better for me when i was on all 4s and he was knelt behind me, we were more or less at the same height then. when i tried it jus bent ova it was too low for him. ... (read in full...)

How do I shave it ?

Q.   I want to shave my vagina but im not sure how to do it or anything...can anyone give me some advice?...

A.   4 October 2006: Fanx ppl...i dun it, jus hope its ryt :S fanx x x x... (read in full...)

How do I get a guy to notice me?

Q.   How can you get a guy to notice you when your 15 yrs old. I need advice....

A.   24 August 2006: just a few questions first...is the guy older than you? if yes ho much older? and why do you want him to notice you? give us some more info and i think i can help more x-o-x... (read in full...)

He 'played' over my underwear and then it started to hurt? Why?

Q.   Hey, this is sorta embarassing but, here it goes, im 14 years old, my bf is 15 (16 soon) i really love him, trust him, we've been dating for over 3 months now and were always very close for a bout a year before that, ive tossed him off but made it ...

A.   24 August 2006: i aint gna lecture you cos im also 14 and have done alot more than you.lol. bin fingad does hurt sometimes so i dont think it was because of your underwear. it may have been though. neways lyk i sed i aint gna lecture you but make sure you trust him ... (read in full...)

what's a 69?

Q.   dear cupid, im 15 and very naive can some one please tell me wat a 69er is??? thanks xxxx...

A.   24 August 2006: its basicaly when u give someone head and they give it back...its calleda 69er cos your bodies make the shape of a six or a nine. Hope that helped x-o-x... (read in full...)

I feel awful about our friendship

Q.   Oh god i have no idea how to word this. but ill try my best. ioneof my previouse questions wasa bout a lad showing his sister some of the texts i sent him. well recently i found out he didnt show her she took his fone but thats another story. Theres ...

A.   14 August 2006: Its all good poeple! hes sort ov friends wit me nw!!! im happy agen lol. thank you all x x x... (read in full...)

What is wrong with me?!?

Q.   Whats wrong with me? one minit i hate him the next i love him. whats up?...

A.   11 August 2006: well...hes my friend/someone im intimate sometimes. hes mean to me and i h8 him for about 2 days and even if i dont see him or talk to him i start to love him again. i cant help it. i know he dosent love me im just someone that he can use for sex. ... (read in full...)

Am I right for being upset he looks at porn?

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend over three years hes cheated on me before and let me down many times promising to change and not sticking to it, hes realy nice to me nicer than any other guy i know and our relationship has been great for a while. h...

A.   11 August 2006: boys look at porn all the time. i was in a sexual relationship ish for a while and all through it he looked at porn. its just something fun for boys. well thats how i see it... (read in full...)

After dating just over a month, my bf claims to love me! I'm not so sure..what do you all think?

Q.   im 14 and im going out with a 17 year old guy and we been going out for a month and a week and on are month anevirsery he told me he loved me and i love him 2 well i think he really does love me but im not sure do u think it could be love since we ...

A.   11 August 2006: Love takes time to biuld. i only realised i love a boy after knowing him for 8 years and being close to him for 4 years. when you love someone they treat you like crap but you cant help but love them anyway. if he oves you he'll do almost anything ... (read in full...)

Did he 'pop my cherry'?

Q.   My bf fingered me and i think he popped my cherry but I'm not sure if he did cause it was bleeding a little so I'm not sure......

A.   11 August 2006: its quiet possible but like charmedom said he may have jus caught you. if you do any sports which involve you stretching your legs wide then its possible your heymen is already torn.... (read in full...)

Was I used by her ? and are all girls like this ?

Q.   My first girlfriend broke up with me, as she was getting back together with her ex. Was I used and are all girls like that? I know that sounds harsh but I don't actually believe a women would love me for who I am....

A.   11 August 2006: no not all girls are like that and belivie it or not some boys are like that. i no this for a fact cos the same thing happened to me with a few differences. like the fact it was a boy that did it. is ok. someone will love you for you! thats what i ... (read in full...)

I have hair in certain places and wondered if this was normal ?

Q.   Hair problem! I am a 15 year old girl with a problem....hair! I have a boyfriend and seem to get a lot of good attention from boys and have never considered myself ugly. however, i just seem to have a lot of hair in places i wasnt sure girls should ...

A.   11 August 2006: NO its all normal your fine dont worry. any whatever you do dont shave your nipples ull get ingrowing hairs ouch! lol Hope evrythings ok x x x... (read in full...)

I'm 14. Should I have sex with my boyfriend?

Q.   I'm 14 and I have been going out with my boyfriend for months and he wants to have sex. I would but I don't know if I will ruin my 1st time. Like I think I want to have sex now....

A.   11 August 2006: im also 14 and have been in a similar situation only i wasnt going out with the guy he was a close friend. i said no for about 3 or 4 months, but then he started sayin things like im gna find sum1 else so i agreed as i really fancied and admittedly ... (read in full...)

Sexual experiences wanted...or rather info on them!

Q.   Im concidering having sex. Is there any girls out there who can give me as much information on the pill as possible from experience?...

A.   9 August 2006: no way am i now. i hate him sooooo much!!! thank you everyone x x x... (read in full...)

I sent a lad dirty texts and he showed his sister...

Q.   I sent dirrty texts to this lad i no cos e asked me 2 n im nt bovered bout that, bt his sister has read them and she's also my best friend. I dont no how shes going 2 act when she sees me because their both on holiday and im really worried even tho ...

A.   9 August 2006: Thank you. it turns out he didnt show her she luked at his fone. but i thought he new that shed luked and we were arguin the other day i sed well y didnt u delete them n he sed i did n i wo lyk well ow cums she saw em den. he wo lyk she didnt. then ... (read in full...)

I feel awful about our friendship

Q.   Oh god i have no idea how to word this. but ill try my best. ioneof my previouse questions wasa bout a lad showing his sister some of the texts i sent him. well recently i found out he didnt show her she took his fone but thats another story. Theres ...

A.   9 August 2006: im sorry but you are wrong, she is my friend as we have been best mates since primary school!... (read in full...)

I feel awful about our friendship

Q.   Oh god i have no idea how to word this. but ill try my best. ioneof my previouse questions wasa bout a lad showing his sister some of the texts i sent him. well recently i found out he didnt show her she took his fone but thats another story. Theres ...

A.   8 August 2006: Thank you both. he is sooo mad at me. he says he doesnt want anything to do with me. im not too upset but ive known him so long and i see him alot. hes one of my friends. i dont think i can be bothered with him anymore. i emailed him explaining and ... (read in full...)

A question on using people...

Q.   Is it possible to use someone you dont feel anything at all for? i know that i couldnt but could some people?... ...

A.   7 August 2006: thanx x ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 years old and could be pregnant

Q.   Ive been having sex unprotected for a while about 10 times without a condom i was jue my periods last week and they came and stayed for one day i usaully have my periods for 7 days could i be pregnant im 14 years old and realy scared ...

A.   7 August 2006: u must be so worried. i am also 14 and have contemplated sex. but the reason i turned him own was because i so badly didnt want ot get pregnant. i didnt even trust cotraception. u need to be more clued up! reasearch it on the net. pregnancy and ... (read in full...)

Is he a f*ckbuddy or more than that?

Q.   I am in love with this guy who does not let me go but still says we are just friends. The biggest mistake I ever made was to go to bed with him. I moved cities but we are still in touch and he tells me about this other women he is also friends ...

A.   7 August 2006: im in a similar position, well i was, i might still be. its complcated. anyway i thought this lad i really liked, liked me back. id liked him for ages and he acted like he liked me, but he would never go out with me (not that id ever asked him but i ... (read in full...)

A question on using people...

Q.   Is it possible to use someone you dont feel anything at all for? i know that i couldnt but could some people?... ...

A.   7 August 2006: hi lillybet im sorry i should have made this clearer for everyone but it is a male friend thats using me, not a boyfriend by the way. ... (read in full...)

A question on using people...

Q.   Is it possible to use someone you dont feel anything at all for? i know that i couldnt but could some people?... ...

A.   6 August 2006: but what about if its one of your close friends that you've know for a really long time?... (read in full...)

My parents are confusing me, but I have the right to privacy dont I ?

Q.   My parents confuse me because they talk about marriage in the future and say 'It's not worth getting married' or 'People don't bother getting married these days, i wouldn't bother' and things like that. Yet they hint about sex, and say that thats ...

A.   30 July 2006: Sounds like your parents may know what your doing and are trying to subtly stop u. i may be wrong tho so dont take my word for it. out of interest how old are you? dont worry i wont judge am just curious. good luck x x x... (read in full...)

Lads: what attracts you?

Q.   A question for lads...what makes you fancy a girl. I want alot of different responses so get typing please x x x...

A.   30 July 2006: All these answers are great but i still want different opinions so keep em coming plz x x... (read in full...)

Sex with a player?How do I stop it?

Q.   This boy i know has asked me a number of times to have sex with him and i have turned him down every time. The other week i finaly said yes and we were planning on doing it but i have heard from his sister today that he mighnt be asking another girl ...

A.   30 July 2006: Thanx 2 u both. u r very helpful... (read in full...)

What can I do to stop myself keep going back to him ?

Q.   I go to an all girls school so i dont have contact with many boys. However i do know a few from before high school and i have been intimate with one of them. the thing is he treats me awful but i alway go back to him. i cant help it im scared of ...

A.   30 July 2006: Its hard to loose contact with him because hes my best friends brother. i did stop seeing him for a year last year for complicated reasons, bt nw things are back to normal and i see him alot and talk to him.... (read in full...)

Sexual experiences wanted...or rather info on them!

Q.   Im concidering having sex. Is there any girls out there who can give me as much information on the pill as possible from experience?...

A.   26 July 2006: OMG i still dont know what to do...now hes gt anuva gf bt es a playa so it mynt nt last long...shud i go on it or not? help plz... (read in full...)

What does my boy-mate's dream mean?

Q.   Any dream doctors out there? My boy 'mate'(well we're not going out but we do kiss and do hand jobs and other things on a frequent basis) said he had a dream about me and in it he was asking me all these questions about myself and things. Things ...

A.   26 July 2006: Thank you all! x x x... (read in full...)

Can u get pregnant with anal sex?

Q.   Can u gt pregnant or catch sti from havin unprotected anal sex? if u can which ones? are they treatable? Plz help......

A.   26 July 2006: What about if neither of you have had any other sexual partners?... (read in full...)

We are about to embark on a sexual relationship, but need some advice please!

Q.   I am 16 and i am still a virgin. i love my boyfriend to bits and we have talked about having sex but never went through with it. Im scared i will do something wrong. And also there is nowhere we can actually do it, my house is never empty and its ...

A.   26 July 2006: Is there any other ways round it? what about saying your going to a friends?or a hotel? or meet him somewhere then go somewhere else? like i sed u need to think outside the box...or bedroom lol get back to me with how things are going plz x x x... (read in full...)

A guy I like has a new girlfriend. How do I get over it?

Q.   I'm so upset. A boy I really like and have done things with just got a new girlfriend. What can I do to get over him?...

A.   24 July 2006: Thanx 2 all i may give some of these a try. Actualt may im gna lol... (read in full...)

Lads: what attracts you?

Q.   A question for lads...what makes you fancy a girl. I want alot of different responses so get typing please x x x...

A.   17 July 2006: It sounds like you all want the perfect woman/girl lol!what can average girls do to make themsleves more sexy and attractive?... (read in full...)

We are about to embark on a sexual relationship, but need some advice please!

Q.   I am 16 and i am still a virgin. i love my boyfriend to bits and we have talked about having sex but never went through with it. Im scared i will do something wrong. And also there is nowhere we can actually do it, my house is never empty and its ...

A.   16 July 2006: I'm sorry i cant anser your 1st question because it is different for almost everybody. If he loves you as much as it seems he'll be so happy to have the chance he wont care let alone notice if you do happen to slip up somewhere. There are alot of ... (read in full...)

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