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He wants me to shave my fanny and I don't know how!

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Question - (16 October 2006) 36 Answers - (Newest, 24 June 2010)
A female , anonymous writes:

hey i met this guy when i went to austria with the school and hes coming over to see me but he wants me to shave my vagina and i really dont no how to go about it please help its really embarsing!!!!x:X:x

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A male reader, raks6 India +, writes (24 June 2010):

my wife has got densed pubic hair which i enjoy a lot.

i feel those are also a part of her body and should be maintained neatly not as cleany shaved.

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A female reader, missps United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2010):

if you want to shave go ahead, dont let him decide for you. if you dont want to tell him its not like shaving you legs or underarms is way more harder than that.

if he loves you then he will respect your desions :) xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

look, if he wants you to shag him then he dosent want a hairy bush getting in the way does he? how old are you? get a wonderbra for extra clevage and that will really turn him on. he wont wanna play with your pu**y as much. use a head shaver, if he wants you to shave that much. glad to help with your enquiries.

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A male reader, inkvictim United Kingdom +, writes (1 January 2009):

go for it honey. i do mine and you cant beet skin on skin so make sure he shaves too. xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008):

the best thing to do babe is to get veet hair removal cream it makes it nice and smooth and balled and he will love it xx

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A male reader, plato Australia +, writes (8 April 2008):

plato agony auntI'd suggest very strongly that you shave your pubic hair only if it is your wish to do so. If the man that wants you to do this is sincere in forming or keeping a strong and worthwhile relationship with you, he must accept your decision.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008):

First of all, you should only shave in that region if you feel happy about it, as it can be dangerous, for instance you could easily cut yourself. Also its not always nice to look at as a rash can appear sometimes. Have you thought about having a wax done profesionally (plus it would be alot neater). i personally have shaved for years and touch wood have never cut myself. if you really feel that you have to then start with the stray hairs at the sides then gradually and carefully shave a bit further in. you can shave it all off, i personally don't like that look though or you can leave yourself a nice neat line, thats my favourite. x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008):

obviously take your fishy pants of, get the hedge trimmer out/lawn mower. hack it back, cover in foam and shave.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007):

Hi there, I can see the validity to this question. My wife also likes me to shave her and I use my own shaver. The good thing about it is that she will come away with a totally smooth vagina ... OH SO SEXY and so ripe to kiss. I can say that I never shave her without her wanting sex immediately afterwards and it's so smooth to get into. Simply tighten your skin around your vagina by pulling it across to the opposite side while you shave - the hardest part of the whole job is on the inside of the outer lips but gently does it as you open your lips and all will be sweet ... in more ways than one

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

I shave my current partner's pussy with electric clippers which she likes. I'd prefer to use Nair Bikini Bare like I used to use on a former girlfriend but she's not into the totallt bald thing. I have to say it's fantastic to press my lips against a freshly shaven pussy feel the soft sexy flesh on my lips and tongue, gently yielding to the warm wet sweet flesh inside.....mmmmmmm......yes do it, you'll love it, he'll love it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007):

i did it for my boyfriend and trust me he loved it which made it more pleasurable for me as he started to put a lot of effort into our play time!! try it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007):

Well Dear H-E-L_L_O maybe he is looking for a younger babe but then again maybe he just likes a smoooth pussy - up to you doll what do your instincts tell you does he really care for you

auntie ann

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007):

hi,

you have to buy hair removal cream or have ur fanny waxed.

it hurts. but there we go if u like him u would do anything/

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007):

well i wouldnt shave myself, i would have it waxed. after you shave you get really itchy and it is annyoing. or if you cant put up with the pain of waxing hair removal cream is the go, jsut be very careful! and also if u dont want to do it at all, dont do it! if you are just doing it for him i wouldnt do it! =)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2007):

Let him do it!!! It's a fun form of foreplay - I have done it loads of times before - it's great!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007):

you just get a razon and just shave up wards and leave some

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007):

well first of either get in the bath shower or simply jst wet the vagina or the place you want to shave and place the shaver under the tap or just get it wet and shave the area you want to remove that unwanted hair or just buy hair removal cream

Cissie xxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2007):

Hey, i had the same problem when my boyfriend first seen me nude. He didn't want me to keep my pubic hair so i had to shave it, all i did was apply shaving cream around the vagina and shave the hair off but becareful not to touch the vagina with the razor

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007):

Its simple tbf.

Just do the same as shaving your legs.

Then put cream on it after so its soft.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007):

well 1stly get a razor and shave slowly keep it neat and tidy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007):

Have you asked him why? I am curious, is he not going to have sex with you if you aren't prepared to his expectations. If it is just some fantasy of his, then you don't have to be it, if you aren't comfortable. You have hair there for a reason...I am not saying don't do anything, but you can look trim and neat without shaving it all off. Go and get it waxed but I would ask him why? It is incredibly itchy when it grows back and once its off you have to keep it very short otherwise, a family comes back to each hair follicule. Ask him first? If he can't or won't have sex with you because you don't want to, then he is a control freak. However, oral sex and sex is amazing without the fuzzies!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007):

Yeah, but when the hairs start growing back, it can get quite uncomfortable and itchy. Why don't you try trimming it instead of shaving it all off?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007):

it feels great to be hairless, when he kisses my lips!

Do it! you won't regret it!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007):

i think i should just go to a salon and have it waxed it willb fine. what school do u go 2?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007):

hi hun

what you need to do is get a razor a good one not a bic, then sit on the toilet and spread your legs.

once youve done that shave your pubic bone first then your lips then inside your lips.

for best results do it dry and before a bath or shower

happy shaving

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006):

For best results after the worst of the growth is under control use an electric razor! SMOOOOOTH!!!!!!!!!

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A female reader, Charly Kitten +, writes (19 October 2006):

Charly Kitten agony auntyou must be careful in shaving this 'special' area! it can cause irritation and spots if you dont do this right. dont worry about it i have done this before both ways, bad and good. it is easiest to do this in the bath. you must exfoliate before. then put soap on and make it really bubbly. then go in the direction of hair growth and make long smooth lines going straight down. it might feel wierd at first but it should be fine after a while! remember if you really dont want to, dont let this boy pressure you into doing anything you dont want to do! GOOD LUCK!!!!

hope i helped!

charly kitten x

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A female reader, katzkitten United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2006):

katzkitten agony aunti had this problem a few days ago. if your not gettin much help wich by the looks of it your doing fine but anyway chack out my answers that i got. i found them extremely helpful

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (19 October 2006):

Frank B Kermit agony auntIn addition to what Beckah wrote, I can tell you that as a man, I perfer to have it shaven (cleaner looking and easier to perform on without hair getting in my mouth.

I also shave my area, and forearms too. I use Nair which is a cream. The fumes are not pleasant, but I like it better than shaving with razors. Safer and feels nicer.

It burns for a couple of days after the first time. I find it worth it.

-Frank B Kermit

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2006):

Tell him you'll only do it if he does it to himself, haha.

If he says no then don't do it because it's more than likely you're just fulfilling one of his sexual fantasies and he doesn't really care about you. Not that should be a problem if you are only interested in sex with the guy.

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A male reader, gerryaston +, writes (17 October 2006):

Get it done properly at a salon. there are plenty out there that do more personal type of work now.A bald smooth pussy will drive him mad, try dressing as a school girl to finaly finish the job for him.

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A female reader, twilightdiamond Australia +, writes (17 October 2006):

twilightdiamond agony aunthey, I'd always thought about it, wondering how it would feel being "hairless" down there. So one day I gave it a shot. I shaved the lot. I started by shaving with the direction of hair growth to remove most of it and I was left with stubble so I shaved in the opposite direction. I found if you start by going the opposite direction you are more likely to cut yourself. Make sure you use plenty of shaving gel and keep the skin taught between your fingers when you do it. Not only does it look better but I feel cleaner as well. After the first time I stoped shaving all of it and went with a brazilian style (all of it except for a small triangle at the top). I found that it looks less childish.

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A female reader, LadyK +, writes (16 October 2006):

If your of the legal age, it shouldn't matter whether or not you shave. At the end of the day it's on your body and no body can make you. But if your sure you are wanting to i recommend using a lady's shaving gel so you dont come up in a rash and a normal razer. Or the other answer is to have it waxed. But i strongly advise you to think twice about having sex if you are underage. It is illegal after all.

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A female reader, Beckah United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2006):

Beckah agony auntthe most important thing to remember is...don't do it because he demands it...do it because you want too, don't feel pressured into pleasing this guy.

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A female reader, MissMo +, writes (16 October 2006):

My boyfriend had the same request. I thought it was strange, but I figured that I'd try it and see whether or not i liked it. If your hair is long, cut it a little with scissors or trimmers. It's easier to shave once the hair is shorter. Then just put shaving cream on and shave away. I find that it feels a lot smoother when I shave in the opposite direction of hair growth. You might get a couple of little nicks, but just put a little tissue and pressure on it and it'll be ok. Be really careful... I cut myself once, and that HURT! You'll have to feel really comfortable touching yourself to get the best shave. good luck! If you find that you like it, then that's great. If it's not for you, then let the guy know.

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A female reader, HaveEarWillListen +, writes (16 October 2006):

Go have a wax job done at a salon. A lot of woman are completely hairless down there.

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