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writes:My first girlfriend broke up with me, as she was getting back together with her ex. Was I used and are all girls like that? I know that sounds harsh but I don't actually believe a women would love me for who I am.
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reader, bonym +, writes (13 August 2006):
 Sorry to hear what you went through, but believe me, not all girls are like that, well I certainly am not anyway.
Think of this as a blessing in disguise, perhaps she did you a favour, you deserve respect and honesty, she never gave you that, but in time, you will meet someone who will respect and love you, for who you are. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): Unfortunately, from reading on this site, and what others have to say and think...it seems to be a growing trend.
It isn't acceptable to be misused or mislead.
How did you decide to date and did she talk alot about her breakup...there must have been telltale "signs" that she wasn't over him and somewhere along the line...she decided to keep things from you. She was talking to her Ex and seeing him and that is a big NO NO.
She isn't worth worrying over and I say good riddance.
You will find some young woman who values what you value and who can be what you want and need.
Best of wishes.
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (11 August 2006):
 Maybe it was a rebound thing... they tend to not last.
Dont let one bad experience get you down!
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (11 August 2006):
 not all girls are the same and i use to think like you but i found some one to love me for me so yes you will find some one to love you for you but what ever you do dont try to be some one you are not! dont put on an act, and ye by the sounds of it she used you but i have to say if she carrys on useing people like that she will get a bad reputation. and she isnt worth thinking all girls are the same because they ent! you deserve some one better than her any way.
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (11 August 2006):
 no not all girls are like that and belivie it or not some boys are like that. i no this for a fact cos the same thing happened to me with a few differences. like the fact it was a boy that did it. is ok. someone will love you for you! thats what i keep telling myself and im sure its true cos if you luk around some ppl you wouldnt think wud be loved are more loved than anyone else.you just need confidence and you are more attractive than ever!
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