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writes:Whats wrong with me? one minit i hate him the next i love him. whats up? Reply to this Question
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (15 August 2006):
 I don't think you hate him, but maybe hate yourself for letting him treat you the way he does. I think you may be confusing love with liking what you do together, but it is so special when you know a guy really, truly cares deeply for you. You resent the way he is making you feel. He is using you, and playing with your feelings, and that will take away the respect you have for yourself. You may not be going all the way to full sex with him, but sex it is, nevertheless. You do not have to do this or anything else with him. Find yourself a nice guy who will treat you the way you deserve, and respect you for the person you are. You have the right to be treated as well as you treat others, so be good to yourself and take care of your body AND your heart and REMEMBER - YOU ARE NOT THERE TO BE USED!!! It would do him good to know this! Look after yourself, sweets, because if you don't, no-one else will! You take care, now ((HUGS))
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (11 August 2006):
katzkitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question well...hes my friend/someone im intimate sometimes. hes mean to me and i h8 him for about 2 days and even if i dont see him or talk to him i start to love him again. i cant help it. i know he dosent love me im just someone that he can use for sex. although i have never actuly done 'it' with him ive done evrifing else. hope that help x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): Sounds like you are struggling with trust issues.
Is there a way you can give us more to go on Dear?
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