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8 Golden rules!
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15 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, Ever since I've join this amazing website which wasn't long ago, there is many question about relationships failures like cheating, no spark and all that so I've decided to come up with 8 Golden Rules on relationship! So here are my inte...
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Am I gay, bi or straight?
Q. i'm 23 and i'm really confused about my sexuality and have been questioning it for many years now, i used to find women very attractive and i even had a girlfriend once but i ended it because it felt awkward and there was no more feelings after the ...
A. 22 August 2011: Hiyaaaa, Well I think that you could of been in a bad relationship which made you feel dull with women relationship (please correct me if I'm wrong). Nothing wrong with having feelings with the opposite sex but to make sure that you know what ... (read in full...)
Great memories of friends in the summer...but we've since drifted apart...and now I'm drowning in nostalgia...
Q. Quick question. How do you get over memories? Two years ago, myself and my best friend, became very close to a boy 4 years older than us. He drives and we spent the best part of two years with each other, everyday, having a good time, we did make ...
A. 20 August 2011: Hiyaaa,
Replaying the old memories!
It just shows that you really want things to be back where they were and its tough coz in life people change things changes which sucks!
I remember that it was november '08 and me and my mates from school... (read in full...)
How to stay connected with uni friends?
Q. Hi. Next year many of my friends from uni will be taking a year out on a placement year / internship. I'm not sure that I want to do one as I'm thinking of going into teaching and I'm too much of a wimp anyway. The point is I went t...
A. 20 August 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Firstly your not a wimp coz its a scary world but if you really wanna to into teaching do it. My philosophy in life is "don't say what if, instead say what you did". No point dreaming about something you wanna do when you could do it!
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Has seeing me with this other guy triggered his feelings for me?
Q. so there's this guy that i liked about a year ago, he sorta of seemed interested (we flirted and stuff) but i couldn't tell. after a verbal denial he gave someone else, i stopped trying; i don't get emotionally attached that easy, so it wasn't ...
A. 20 August 2011: Hiyaaa,
That might be it.
You could be right actually it seems like it.
Its certainly weird but you guys have drifted apart haven't you so he might be missing you as a friend or seeing you with somebody makes him think that he missed an ... (read in full...)
Can I do anything...or should I just leave him alone?
Q. My boyfriends mom has cancer and he has been different ever since, this I can understand. But he got more distant. And I got worried about him and started texting him to much at work because he was pretty much unable to reach any other way. He got ...
A. 11 August 2011: Hiyaaaa, I think that you should talk to him... make an excuse like "ohhh I got you a little present would you come and collect it" and tell him that your there for him if he needs anything. Basically just tell him that you understand what ... (read in full...)
I cant talk to girls anymore...please help
Q. Quick question....I broke up with my GF 2 months ago and I'm ready to get back in the game now. The only thing is my confidence was crushed in my last relationship(it took 1/4 of a year to talk myself into breaking up with her). Can someone tell me ...
A. 6 August 2011: Hiyaaa,
First of all, girls like it when you compliment them so say ohh your dress is pretty or your hair looks good coz it shows some appreciation of their effort.
Talking to a girl is easy just talk to them as if they were your friend you ... (read in full...)
Should I text him and give him an out?
Q. i recently went on vacation; before i left i met a guy. it was a blind date of sorts, set up by a friend, and we hit it off... hung out three days in a row before i left. our last night together he hugged me, asked for sure when i'd be back, hugged ...
A. 6 August 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Just ignore him honestly coz might be sending mixed signals which will eventurally drive you insane!!
I think just ignore him and plan a meeting or whatever and don't expect a text and just link him and tell him what the hell is goin... (read in full...)
How do I get my parents to accept me for who I am?
Q. Ok. I'm 16 years old. Old enough to get piercings if I want them. My parents agreed that I could get a belly bar (I've been desperate for one since I was 12) and a cartilage piercing. I thought that what is known as an 'industrial' piercing was a c...
A. 31 July 2011: Hiyaaaa, Woooooooooooow brave enough to get piercing loooooool I ain't even got my ear pierced!! Parents are bound to get upset of the piercing and tattoos and all of that and I generally think that piercing and tattoos often get the negative e... (read in full...)
Is my mom worrying for nothing?
Q. So in 4 days I'm going to Tokyo with my dad and borther. My mum told my dad to look out for me and now let me be on my own. She says I'm young and look like an anime character, and that this will attract some Japanese men. Other people have said...
A. 31 July 2011: Hiyaaaa, Looooooooooooool. That is sooo cute! Japanese men attracted to anime... well they could be!! With every country you gotta be careful coz your bound to get some dodgy men, pervy ones but your mum doesn't need to worry coz Japan holds on... (read in full...)
Does he actually want to marry me or am I wasting my time?
Q. I've been with my partner for 5 years and living with him for a year and a half. I w ant to get married and start a family and he says he does too. He. Say's we can't get engaged right now as he can't afford an engagement ring, (I don't want ...
A. 31 July 2011: Hiyaaaa, Every guy is different and I think there is more reason why he is delaying the engagement then just "I can't afford an ring". There are many reason why men don't wanna get married and it's understandable like they're scared if woman ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me yet still texts me, how do I deal with this?
Q. my girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me to be independent and because of my different religion. yet she still texts me like a couple times a week telling me that she misses me and if i could change something we would still be together. my ...
A. 31 July 2011: Hiyaaaa,
I think she wants to end on a happy note and still wanna keep in touch with you and not lose the friendship between you and her.
Honestly if I were you, just sort your feelings out first like text her saying that you don't wanna talk... (read in full...)
I think I'm more into her than she is to me and its bothering me
Q. Good Afternoon, Couple of months ago i had posted a question on this forum and i got some great advice from folks here on site. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-girls-like-their-space-will-she-feel.html I have a followup question on t...
A. 26 July 2011: Hiyaaaaa,
Finally I've come to ya rescue!!!
Sounds like you have met your soulmate. Honestly the more you worry about things the more worse is gonna be trust me. For example I've started to learn how to drive (manual) and I freaked out and ... (read in full...)
I really like her but she's always telling me about other guys
Q. OK, I've been friends with this girl, (Donna) for about 4-5 months. I liked her ever since i met her, she's goofy, cute, and all the above... i think I'm in love with her.. All i can do is think about how amazing she is all day and night.. I can't ...
A. 26 July 2011: Hiyaaa Techv91,
Glad my comment made ya laugh!
Sounds like your a decent guy that your sensitive about things like that which is great! Shows your a man!
Maybe you should ask her what she wants coz it sounds like she is afraid to admit somet... (read in full...)
I really like her but she's always telling me about other guys
Q. OK, I've been friends with this girl, (Donna) for about 4-5 months. I liked her ever since i met her, she's goofy, cute, and all the above... i think I'm in love with her.. All i can do is think about how amazing she is all day and night.. I can't ...
A. 24 July 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Woooooooooooooooooow! She is a good one!
She is really hard to tell!!!!!
What I think you could do is tell her straight up that you like her. Honestly straight up just like that. Just like em scene in the movies or something.
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Does she like me? If she does, there must be some hint, right?
Q. Does she like me? If so there must be some hint? It does not make sense. Theres this girl at work, we get on well. I been away for a month and come bk to find everyone telling me i should ask her out because she likes me. I was told there is ...
A. 24 July 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Firstly do you really like her?
Don't feel that you have to be pressured into liking someone because that causes relationship to explode!
Secondly you could ask her on a date, like in a restaurant and maybe get to know her but tell... (read in full...)
Would like to meet my in-laws! What should I do?
Q. Hi all. I need some help here pals. I have been seeing this lady for a while now. We love each. We intend to get married one day but this has been brought forward because she is now five weeks pregnant. She is to graduate next month, I work in ...
A. 24 July 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Go alone!!!!
I know it sounds scary but go alone!
A few tips to help you!
1) Be polite. Say hello, shake hands and say please and thanks you kinda thing. Especially if they ask you to eat eat neatly and all that.
2) Be yours... (read in full...)
How do I deal with all his past relationships with women....help!?
Q. Hello People, Here i am 22 years and looking for a solution for my love life. Actually i am in a relationship past 10 months with a guy 28 years who was my boss. Now we don't work together. I used to like him previously when i was wo...
A. 24 July 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Sounds like you really love him.
But at the same time it sounds like your really clingy. Your clinging on to him as if he is your life, and it shouldn't really be like that because he can take you for granted.
What would be a reall... (read in full...)
She is a snake and a liar, now she wants to ruin my life again. What do I do?
Q. my ex-sister in-law had an affair with my ex-husband while we were still married - now after i have been divorced for 10 years, my ex-sister in-law is now dating my new father-in-law (i remarried in 2006) and he is recently widowed (december 2010) ...
A. 23 July 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Firstly don't play fire with fire because y'all get burned!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So don't try to get her back by whatever means because you're just gonna end up hurting yourself mostly. So keep your conscious clean!
Honestly, wha... (read in full...)
I'm worried that even though we are blissfully happy right now that it will all end in heartbreak!
Q. Im 18 nearly 19, iv been with my boyfriend for 1 year now who is also 19 and its been amazing, I never knew another person could make me this happy, hes tought me how to live. We were away for a weekend together a couple of months back, and after a ...
A. 16 July 2011: Hiyaaaa, Firstly just because your parents get a divorce that doesn't mean it's going to shadow your future. Secondly if you eliminate the option of divorce than there wouldn't be a divorce because most people have an option of divorce like i... (read in full...)
My mother doesn't think we are compatible because of his future career, and deep down I know she is right......what should I do?
Q. Okay, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are so in love with each other. I know how he loves me so much and trying to make me happy as he could. He is a mature minded man although we are in same age. He is patience and low profile...
A. 13 July 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Woooow social divide here!
What you could do is follow your heart, your mum might want the best for you definitely 100% wants the best for you, but that doesn't mean she knows what is best for you. She knows but she doesn't know wha... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend about my abusive ex?
Q. my last relationship didnt go so well (me ex hit me a lot.) an i want to tell my new partner about it but im not sure if i should and i dont know how to tell him... :S any ideas? ...
A. 12 July 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Yep I recommend you tell him because you don't wanna start your relationship full of lies kinda thing well technically your not telling a lie but you know it's secrets keeping. Some secrets are best for keeping to yourself only but this... (read in full...)
Winning her back again....
Q. Can a person win their girfriend back from a rebound twice? The first time we dated for 6 months and as we had problems and broke up she got into a rebound relationship. We got back together and after 3 years in happened again. Everyone says she ...
A. 12 July 2011: Hiyaaaa,
I don't see why not! I mean you seem like a guy that would do anything for her and would fight for her back which is extremely nice.
What you could do is just be her friend get closer to her and form a bond but like a friendly bond an... (read in full...)
Opinions on beards please!!
Q. Hiyaaaaa, Well this isn't really a problem more off a personal opinion and preference! I don't do art as a subject anymore but I recently bumped into my art teacher and saw him with a beard!!!!! So guys why would you guys grow a beard or ...
A. 9 July 2011: Hiyaaa all! Thanks for posting up some of your opinions of beards! I know it's a random question but just a question that I would love to know!! You guys ROCK! Lots of love, Ima FreAk! x... (read in full...)
How do we approach our daughter about her relationship with an older guy?
Q. Help, we need advice on what advice to give our daughter. Our daughter just turned 16, and we've finally allowed her to date. She has gone out on group things with both guys and girls, but we've just allowed her to 'single' car date. Problem is this ...
A. 7 July 2011: Hiyaaaaa, Firsly build a very strong relationship with your daughter, a very strong relationship that it's almost like you guys are friends. Talk about relationships be open. The problem with most parents is that they are embarass to talk about re... (read in full...)
He left me for someone else after only 2 wks..
Q. I posted about a couple of weeks ago stating that my bf left me unexpectedly and i need some advice. Well, i learned today that he is seeing someone new. Him and i have been together 6 years and have only been broken up for 2 weeks. Within those two ...
A. 4 July 2011: Hiyaaaaa,
I think that you should just forget this guy (I know it seems hard) but try at least... focus on your studies they are more important.
Now that he is going out with someone else you can try and move on a bit and still talk to him as a... (read in full...)
How do I stop feeling so sad and to stop myself for feeling like it was my fault?
Q. My boyfriend of two years told me yesterday that he was distancing himself from me because he hates talking to me now and he wished I never loved him because he stopped loving me and then he finally told me that he cheated on me. I took off the ...
A. 27 June 2011: Hiyaaaa, Well than I'm terribly sorry to say this but your boyfriend or ex didn't really love you because he wasn't sorry or he didn't even cared so that can help you get over him that fact that he never use to love you or even did kinda thing.... (read in full...)
Where have all the genuine people gone?
Q. So I clicked article just above the box I'm currently writing in, I believe RANT is the more appropriate word, but it's the nearest thing. So recently, over the past few months, I've noticed a huge change in a LOT of people. I don't know whether ...
A. 26 June 2011: Hiyaaaaa,
I completely agree with you I totally do.
Honestly I'm only 17 and before I was doing my GCSE everyone pretty much acted like a d**k to be honest, drinking smoking, dirty talk and you know the girls OMG even worse put like cement on t... (read in full...)
The women in the group I belong to make me really uncomfortable because of the way the act!
Q. Let me explain a situation. I attended a party recently of a group of ladies I belong to. They are all nice people. But they are SOOOO WILD!!! They are all big drinkers. Almost all of their events involve drinking. They cuss and talk dirty. ...
A. 26 June 2011: Hiyaaaaa,
Honestly I have a similar problem with you... basically I do voluntary work at one my primary school (kindergarden I think it's for Americans not sure) but its a school from 5-11. And recently I met her again and we were really happy an... (read in full...)
How can I face this girl and tell her that I lied? I'm a virgin too!
Q. I'm a 21 year old male. I'm entering my senior year of college and am altogether a fairly normal person. I'm not tall, but certainly not short. Not an athlete, but I'm in excellent health. I'm not much a pickup artist, but I'm not exactly shy ...
A. 26 June 2011: Hiyaaaaa,
Definitely you should tell her! 100% straight up just say you know I told you that I wasn't a virgin... in actual fact I'm a virgin too and then tell her about what happened in your past with telling people your a virgin.
I doubt... (read in full...)
Why shouldn't I be embarrassed about being a virgin?
Q. Hey, I just have a quick question. I asked everyone here a while back whether I should tell my girlfriend that I'm a virgin or not and people kept telling me I shouldn’t be embarrassed about it. Why? Why shouldn’t I? Most guys loose their the vcar...
A. 25 June 2011: Hiyaaaa,
You shouldn't be embarassed because if you tell your girlfriend that your a virgin then she thinks that your probably gonna save it for "someone special" kinda thing and girls totally dig that!
So you really shouldn't be embarassed be... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight but not become too thin. Any advice?
Q. Sooo this isn't really a relationship question, but I just need some advice. I'm 5'3, I use to weigh 5 stone. I went to hospital and put on 4 stone, the medication I was on had a side affect of weight gain. Since then I've lost 1 stone; so I now ...
A. 25 June 2011: Hiyaaa,
Just like what all the aunties said you shouldn't lose more weight.
You can tonned up so you look like a dancer or something like that by doing exercise, cardio like walking at a fast pace or running/jogging even skipping is real... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but keep thinking of my friend
Q. I am 20 and My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 1 and 1/2 year. We both say we love eachother because we both have never ever felt this way about anyone. We have talked about how we care about each other enough to do whatever is ...
A. 20 June 2011: Hiyaaaa, Well it is possible to like more than one person! Honestly... I know this is cliche and all but go with what your heart says. Like weigh the benefits of being with this guy and your boyfriend and honestly make judgement on that an... (read in full...)
Are we related?
Q. if you are dating your cousins cousin on a different side of the family are we cousins? ...
A. 17 June 2011: Hiyaaaa, Cousin's cousin... I don't think so unless it's from the same side of the family for example if your cousin is from your dad side... the cousin from your dad side cousin is related to your dad side of the family then that would be re... (read in full...)
Advice on moving from the UK to America?
Q. I dont know if this is relevent but I want to move from the Uk to America, i'm just curious what I would need to do so? I would be living with a friend there please help!...
A. 17 June 2011: Hiyaaaaa, I've never been to America but that sounds cool! Urmm tips probably do a little research on the area that your gonna live in. Honestly Americans are just like British people but without the sarcasm that us Brits have ha ha! ... (read in full...)
Can open relationships ever work?
Q. right, so I am a bloke with a massive attraction to this girl. she gorgeous and smart and funny and lovely and SINGLE and SHE LIKES ME...well, you know that with those combination then she's gotta have a problem if shes still single, right? right. ...
A. 17 June 2011: Hiyaaaaaa, This is definitely lust... sorry mate it sounds like your a bit lusty of this women. In my opinion your heading down a destructive path! Take a look at this way you know that saying that people say for example your going out with ... (read in full...)
I realize I am a lesbian. Do I follow my heart, or honor my family?
Q. I have realized I'm a lesbian for at least a year but Im just barely starting to come out to a few ppl. I have always thought I was straight. I was taught as a little girl that being gay is sin and wrong. My father is also a minister. I started ...
A. 11 June 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Wooooow. Your daddy a minster wooooow that your a lesbian that is really harsh. I can't imagine what your going through!
Are you sure for definite that you might be a lesbian?
If you are then I think that the best thing for you t... (read in full...)
Girlfriend slept with a ganster/drug dealer, how do I deal with this?
Q. Hello everyone I've got a real problem with my relationship my gf and I have been together for about a year and ten months but when I found out she slept with another man while we were split up I was crushed The main problem is that fact if her s...
A. 10 June 2011: Hiyaaa,
Firstly you shouldn't be upset because she went out with someone while you guys weren't going out anymore.
Secondly... the druggie guy is the rebounder because you guys got back together.
When she talks about him and you don't like i... (read in full...)
I'm not good at dealing with stress and feel aggressive towards my family
Q. I have come to conclusion that I need help other then doing stuff by myself. Since I was about six i've had high levels of stress due to my sister being quite abusive and my mother pushing education onto me to make sure I get a good job and lif...
A. 9 June 2011: Hiyaaaaa, Well you made my job very easy!!!!!!! You told me the root of your problem like your sister being abusive when you were six and how you feel. Firsly can I say that well done for coming out as gay because that is a very hard thin... (read in full...)
I don't want to like this guy because I am still trying to move on from my last crush! What should I do?
Q. For the last couple of months I had the biggest crushed on (bob) he was the best guy and my ideal guy. He has a gf and I don't wanna mest that up. So two days I went camping and I was talking to a guy I thought was cute since last year but didn't ...
A. 31 May 2011: Hiyaaaa,
There is a quote saying something like
"if you love something set it free... if it comes back it's yours... if it doesn't it wasn't meant to be"
Very cliche but its soooo true though.
There is a difference between wanting t... (read in full...)
I want to marry one of my friends, but her response to that isn't good...
Q. Hi friends plz plz plz help me, i am in big big trouble, i've a friend and now i want her as my girl friend because i want to marry with her, she is not giving me positive reply, i want her to tell her parents about me so that i may proceed but she ...
A. 31 May 2011: Hiyaaaaa,
I think that you should tell your friend exactly how you feel about her.
Just yesterday I saw a movie called "If Only" starring Jennifer Love Hewitt and I cried!!!!!!!!!!!!
Basically the movie is about how this guy doesn't apprecia... (read in full...)
How can I get him to notice me without creeping him out or being to pushy?
Q. Okay... So there is this guy i like... Im a freshmen and hes a sophomore and i like him a lot. A ton of my friends are cool with him but he doesnt even know i exist. He doesnt even look at me. So my question is: how do i get him to notice me with ...
A. 26 May 2011: Hiyaaaa, I'm terribly sorry but I'm from England so I have no idea what a freshman or a sophomore is!!!!!!!! So you might have to explain that to me! But other than that... I think you should say hi to him if you see him or whenever... just ... (read in full...)
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