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15 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, Ever since I've join this amazing website which wasn't long ago, there is many question about relationships failures like cheating, no spark and all that so I've decided to come up with 8 Golden Rules on relationship! So here are my inte...
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How can I get him to notice me without creeping him out or being to pushy?
Q. Okay... So there is this guy i like... Im a freshmen and hes a sophomore and i like him a lot. A ton of my friends are cool with him but he doesnt even know i exist. He doesnt even look at me. So my question is: how do i get him to notice me with ...
A. 26 May 2011: Hiyaaaa, I'm terribly sorry but I'm from England so I have no idea what a freshman or a sophomore is!!!!!!!! So you might have to explain that to me! But other than that... I think you should say hi to him if you see him or whenever... just ... (read in full...)
So why haven't I met someone who seems like a good match?
Q. So I'm 27, almost 28, and I've never had a real serious relationship. It frightens me, because I feel like there's something wrong with me! I date guys, but they never seem to stick around long (I'm not clingy, I'm actually pretty cool and funn...
A. 26 May 2011: Hiyaaaaa, You know that saying true love will wait? Well I think that is a load of bollocks! Sometimes you can't be that lucky and sit around waiting for love because you will never find it! Honestly I recommend you start the flirty flirt! ... (read in full...)
How do I make her realize that I love her beyond our religious differences?
Q. Hello. Since 7 months I've known a girl who was just a friend in the beginning but as I got to know her more and more I was deeply, very deeply attracted to her. It's just that only I see her that way and since she doesn't want to get into ...
A. 14 May 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Ok, honestly... I think after her graduation then you should tell her how you feel about. I know some people would object but if you think about it, you've done your job in a way if you tell the girl how much you "deeply" love her and ... (read in full...)
Why is my nipple itchy?
Q. Hai reader/s. Ive got a problem here. Since the beggining of this month, my nipple has been itchy. I would hide myself where nobody can catch me, and squeeze my nipple--hoping it will be much beter but the itchiness doesnt stop. My question:WHAT ...
A. 5 May 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Well it could be due to dry skin that causes irriation or could be the material of your bra.
In particular it's worse if you have eczema or if you have any allergies or all that.
Best advice is I know it sounds stupid and funny ... (read in full...)
Why can't feel happiness for her? My long term friend is getting married and having a baby.
Q. I need some help dear Aunts. I feel like I am a terrible person right now. My best friend is getting married and having a baby. We have been inseparable since we were babies and I love her to bits. She loves me too and has been an outstand...
A. 1 May 2011: Hiyaaaa, Your worn out honey! You really are. Sometimes in life you gotta learn simply how to say "no". Honestly it may be really simple solution but it's hard. Remember your only human and you can't satisfy everyone, and at this rate if yo... (read in full...)
No boys have any interest in me!
Q. I'm 13 and never had a boyfriend. All my friends have had atleast one and everyone says I'm not ugly and I'm interesting to talk to but no boy has seem to have any interest in me!! Is there something wrong with me??!!?? Help!!...
A. 1 May 2011: Hiyaaaa, Firstly there is nothing wrong with being single! You may feel a little pressure because your friends had boyfriends and all that sometimes can't help feel a tiny bit jealous because of all the sweet text, dates and all that lovey d... (read in full...)
Ex girlfriend with roving eyes wants another chance!
Q. im in a relation with a very cute n beautiful girl since 1 year. only thing i ever told her is not to lie to me. after 3-4 months being together, one day we were going out and i saw her checking out a guy quite seriously. the guy was like a stud....
A. 1 May 2011: Hiyaaaa, Honestly just give her one more chance because second chances rarely happens and we never really get second chances so it's our will to create them! You don't know what is going to happen next so give her another chance because you n... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has made a fake account on facebook so he can speak to other girls
Q. Hi there, i have just found that my boyfriend has created a fake facebook account to speak to other girls. Hes denying it and saying he doesnt know how it happened... Weve lived together years, Im heartbroken scared to leave him and scared t...
A. 26 April 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Your an independent woman! Go out there get a job you know work and basically be stable you can't base your whole life around this relationship.
There is more to life than relationship and maybe you guys should take a break and certai... (read in full...)
I had melanoma on my penis and had to have it amputated. Ladies how would you deal with this if it happened to your partner?
Q. Last year I was diagnosed with melanoma on my penis. To save my life, I had to have my penis amputated. So far I've recovered well. I've seen tons of trolls on sites claiming to be 18 and having penile cancer (virtually unheard of in young men) but ...
A. 19 April 2011: Hiyaaa, I'm terribly sorry about what happened! I mean I'm speechless! But your as right as rain and that is a blessing! I think your girlfriend pity you and feels touched by your story and what you've been through... I mean I can't even i... (read in full...)
Do I have a shot with her?
Q. I started talking to this girl that's in my English class in college about three weeks ago. Since we both take the train to school, I suggested we meet at the train station in the morning and walk to school together. (This was about two weeks ago) ...
A. 17 April 2011: Hiyaaa,
Well then just be her friend just for now and find out more about this feeling towards this guy.
Girls particularly like friendship before relationship so if you keep that going you never know... :)
Lots of little lurve,
Ima FreAk... (read in full...)
Do I have a shot with her?
Q. I started talking to this girl that's in my English class in college about three weeks ago. Since we both take the train to school, I suggested we meet at the train station in the morning and walk to school together. (This was about two weeks ago) ...
A. 17 April 2011: Hiyaaaaaa,
Whoaaaa you must met this girl loooooool!
Honestly just be her friend don't try and ruin the relationship that she has and just be her friend. Comfort her when she needs it be her pillow when she falls because you gotta show that ... (read in full...)
Hard bump on my forearm. Any ideas?
Q. I have a hard bump on my forearm its been there for like 6 months and won't goo away, any idea what it might be?...
A. 17 April 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Have you hurt yourself before getting the bump? Because could be from an injury that it's swollen but I'm no doctor so I advise to go to the doctors and get it checked out.
Get it checked out and the doctor and give ya some cream or me... (read in full...)
I feel as if I can't take on one more thing, but if I don't I'll feel guilty. Please help.
Q. Im in a very tough spot in life.....What can i do, if I simply run out of energy taking care of others problems around me ? My life got out of hand a few years ago, living in personal hell. I can't list the things I' dealing with, because m...
A. 16 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, Despite the age difference I’m only 17 I feel exactly the same way as you do. I literally care sooo much about other people like my friends and family that I forget to leave time for me. I want to help them so much, their happiness is the... (read in full...)
I like him, but he ignores me. What should I do?
Q. There is this guy I really like but we barely see each other besides our soccer season. He is really sweet but sometimes in the hallway when I see him I won't say anything. This whole week he hasn't talked to me at all because he wanted to see if i ...
A. 16 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, He might not feel the same way as you because he "ignores you". Honestly just stay friends or MOST IMPORTANTLY when you guys do see each other get to know each other first and keep the conversation flowing ask random topics like m... (read in full...)
8 Golden rules!
Q. Hiyaaaa, Ever since I've join this amazing website which wasn't long ago, there is many question about relationships failures like cheating, no spark and all that so I've decided to come up with 8 Golden Rules on relationship! So here are my inte...
A. 16 April 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Thanks you guys for reading it and your lovely comments and tips! :)
You guys ROCK!!!!!
Lots of lurveee,
Ima FreAk!
x... (read in full...)
Should I remove this girl from my friend list on facebook? She broke my heart...
Q. Right now I am hesitating about kicking a girl whom I love on Facebook. This is not internet dating. She is a really good friend of mine and during the past two years both of us experienced a lot of things but now everything has turn bad. At t...
A. 15 April 2011: Hiyaaa,
Hell nooooooooooo coz she is your friend and good friends will always stick by each other no matter what hardships!
Honestly don't delete her on facebook for that, just because she fancied another guy doesn't mean that you shouldn't be... (read in full...)
Sister is having a party when my parents go away. She asked me if I wanted to drink too. Please advise.
Q. Hey guys this isn't about relationships but this is now the only place I can get advice. My parents are going away for the weekend and my older sister is having people over. They are all gunna bring alcohol and some will bring fags. My sister asked ...
A. 15 April 2011: Hiyaaa, Unless you wanna smoke your lungs till it's black or drink till your liver goes big then be my guest! Honestly STAY OUTTA IT! Trust me these parties are dangerous coz there gonna be fags and you could start smoking at the age of 13-1... (read in full...)
Advice on dieting and losing weight?
Q. Hey, Well im 14 and im quite fat. ive had some serious issues with wieght and my looks in the past i have been bullied because of them and alot of the time ive been made to feel like im the one who just doesnt fit in. ive develope...
A. 14 April 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Honey your only 14!!!!!!! Your bound to have fat its called puppy fat once you hit puberty you will start so shed off the pounds honestly.
Firstly I think all you have to do is cut down on the sugar I know most of the Oreos, Sainsbury's ... (read in full...)
Need to study but friend keeps on distracting!
Q. Hiyaaaa Right my old primary school friend recently got in touch with me and I'm extremely happy and we call each other and all that. Now I'm my Easter break revising my butt off for AS and she wants me to go out with her for an hour or some...
A. 14 April 2011: Thanks you guys!! You ROCK and AS is a drag! Good luck for everything! :)... (read in full...)
Do kids turn out good or bad based on genes?
Q. Do kids turn out good ,or bad ,based on their parents genes,or how they were raised? In my family , there is a strange situation, our kids got most things, what kids needs. Not perfect, but very stable, and loving environment. But the most hor...
A. 13 April 2011: Hiyaaaaaaaa,
YESS! One of my favourite topic! Psychology! Studying it in at school (only 17 loooool).
Honestly it's a bit of both actually because it could be how you are raised (nurture) like how your parents taught you but it's not even th... (read in full...)
Do men's sex drives decrease after 40?
Q. Do men's sex drives decrease after 40?...
A. 13 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa,
Kinda, like I read in an article saying that its between 18-30ish that your very sexually active and 30 its okay but after 40 its a decrease.
But that doesn't mean your not getting sex it just means that not sexually active as the yo... (read in full...)
At what age is a woman no longer attractive?
Q. When does a woman lose her "hotness"? What age is considered no longer attractive? I would love to hear all opinions from women, men, all ages. Thanks!...
A. 13 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa, It actually depends you know because some women tend to lost their hotness after 40 like for example Kate Moss is 37 and she has kinda loss her beauty in my opinion if she isn't airbrushed but that still doesn't mean that is she beau... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a midlife crisis at 25?
Q. Is it possible to have a midlife crisis at 25? I am good looking, and have a masters degree and a great job, but i just feel it isnt enough. Im not satisfied with anything, and honestly i could care less for all of it. Maybe i'm spoiled becasue ...
A. 12 April 2011: Hiyaaaaaa, Woooow masters degree holy crap you are gooooooood! And congrats by the way too! I think you see the "dull" side of life, honestly life is like a rollacoaster and you need to get yourself on one! Life is not dull and boring you just ... (read in full...)
I had a dream my crush gave me a bad kiss.What does it mean?
Q. I had a dream last night that I was kissing a man that I've had a crush on for the past two years. Suprisingly, it was a really bad kiss. What can this mean?...
A. 12 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa,
Dreams doesn't always come true and it could be that your imagining bad kisses because your nervous about kissing your crush and it went wrong in your dream.
Just because you had a bad kiss dream doesn't mean it's gonna happen in ... (read in full...)
I told fiance I was going to miss being with her while away and she started to cry. What did I do wrong?
Q. I am a 28 year old guy. My fiance is 24. We are separated for a few days as I had to go on a work related trip (in my hotel room now) and she could not come with me because of her own responsibilities. When we were in bed the other night, I told ...
A. 12 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa, Awwww I think she is crying because your sooo sweet to her and romantic kinda thing and chicks like us totally dig that! And also your giving attention to her and cherishing her which is what comes back to being sweet and the whole cr... (read in full...)
He'll never be anything more than a liar. We had 2 weeks planned. What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in long distance relationship for almost two years now. We see each other every weekend, and yesterday he arrived here and is going to stay with me for 3 weeks (we did this before, in August last year and it was grea...
A. 11 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa, Once a boy cheats on you he is likely to do it again, maybe because of the thrill. Honestly sounds like you have a "bad" boyfriend no offense because why lie! I mean honestly is one of the best policy and it's considered to be one of... (read in full...)
Any advice for menstrual irregularities?
Q. I am having bad menstrual irregularities, i used to be sexually active two years ago, i would take the morning after pill very regularly, however i totally went off sex, and last year my period was reasonably regular, this year however, i have had ...
A. 11 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa, Honestly go to the doctors because they can recommend something like medicine and all that. It's rare but it take times for people to start getting regular period so don't worry everyone is different and we will all eventually get t... (read in full...)
I haven't been with anyone because I am so hairy. Is this enough to put guys off?
Q. I'm a mixed Italian/South African (white) guy. The reason I said this is so you can more understand what I look like, not for a racial reason. I have more Italian features than the "boer" features. Thing is, I'm really really hairy everywhere, ...
A. 11 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, You shouldn't worry about being hairy because Italians are considered as sexy!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P So honestly don't worry. If someone truly loves you they would accept who you are and how hairy you are too! So go out and find one because n... (read in full...)
Should I believe the rumor about my new girlfriend?
Q. Hey guys. I recently started going out with this amazing girl and I think this could actually go somewhere. Problem is someone she knows made up a rumor about her and her friend having slept together, I didn't take it seriously buy the more I think ...
A. 11 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa, People make up a lot of crap these days so you shouldn't really listen to it. There are a lot of really nasty stupid people out there that enjoys twisting words, stories and just plain rubbish! It's like do you eat crap for breakfast, l... (read in full...)
Depressed husband and unsatisfied wife. Please help.
Q. Dear Cupid I have been married for almost 8 years now and it feels like a vicious cycle. my husband is on meds for adhd and clinical depression and still won't get help. my patience and epathy are almost wearing out. I have developed panic disorder ...
A. 11 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, Depressed people tend to think that they're alone must of the time and that no one understands them, they don't fit in society and considered as outsiders and often isolated. I think what you should do is maybe get your husband to tal... (read in full...)
The condom broke and now she doesn't want to see me. Why? What can I do?
Q. I have been dating a lady for 7 weeks. I am 45 and she is 46. On our 10th date I stayed at her house and we ended up having sex. The problem I have is that I used a condom but it broke. I felt it go pop but was just about to climax and couldnt stop ...
A. 11 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, Abortion for a woman is a VERY sensitive topic because we have a tendency to feel nurture particularly when it comes to kids, even if it's in the park we feel kinda protective about them. She is probably off with you because yo... (read in full...)
Boyfriend makes me jealous with talk of beautiful colleague. I don't know how to handle it.
Q. Hi My bf of an year often talks about his colleague, says she is sexy and beautiful and all that stuff. I am not comfortable him talking about her even when we are intimate and it also makes me really angry. I told him in a normal way that i dont ...
A. 11 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, Simple problem! You could either: Ignore him simply ignore him and carry on with your work or pretend like nothing's happened because your bf wants a reaction and your not giving him any attention or reaction and sooner or later he ... (read in full...)
Sex hurts. There is a lump afterward. Please advise.
Q. Hi guys, basically my problem is this; I'm 20, lost my virginity to my boyfriend 9 months ago, he's my only sexual partner, he has had other partners, we always have unprotected sex, but we went to get him tested for STD's and he got the all clear. ...
A. 11 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa, Go to the doctors honestly just go to the doctors! Any form of lump anywhere is a bad sign so get it check out sooner because it's better to be safe than sorry! Is it itchy or swollen or red by any chance? You could try s... (read in full...)
Do I get back with ex despite friends protests?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been on and off for several years, lived together, broken up, worked together, broken up, lived in separate cities, broken up... We do love each other very much but for some reason can never quite get it together and tension ...
A. 11 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, No problem in giving people second chances and if you feel it's right then go for it. Honestly your friends does have a point, he broke up with you which kinda indicates he could do it again. And friends can only advise the best... (read in full...)
I like the "Secret Admirer" but I also like someone else. Which one should I tell?
Q. Hi everyone. Just did a "Secret Admirer" event in my hall at uni, which is like Secret Santa. My person got me a poster as a joke, then a letter which was very sweet but creepy before I knew who it was, and then a DVD that I wanted, chocolat...
A. 10 April 2011: Hiyaaaaaaaaa, Secret admirer! Damnnnnnnnn your lucky looooool Honestly most secret admirer end up with a broken hard what I think you should do is carry on liking the person that you like because you don't know this "admirer" and it's pretty u... (read in full...)
First kiss and then... nothing at the next date? What should I do?
Q. First kiss and then... nothing at the next date? Hi everyone... Well the answer might be obvious, but I might need your opinion.. I date a girl and we get along. We spend everytime around 6-7 hours together when we see each other and we h...
A. 10 April 2011: Hiyaaaaaa, Yhh dude your going waaaaaaaaaaaaaaayo fast. Girls kinda like things slow and don't rush in because you got plenty of time! One thing that I recommend would be that you leave her hanging. Like kiss her on the cheek (purposely),... (read in full...)
We're 14, are we old enough to have sex?
Q. hello, this is a pretty long question but it would be great if i could have your honest opinions, i'm 14 and i've been with my boyfriend who is also 14 for about ten months. we're very close and he's like my best friend as well as my boyfrien...
A. 10 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa, The consent for sex is 16 so your technically not old enough. Having sex is a major thing and I'm proud that you know the risk but your just not old enough and in school teachers and those sex educators people come in and say... (read in full...)
Should I Tell Him That I'm Pregnant With His Baby?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm sorry to bother you all but I've got myself into a difficult situation. I'm 17 (18 in 2 months) and I just found out that I'm 29 weeks pregnant. I was really experiencing any symptoms which is why I never found out earlier. The ...
A. 8 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, Yes you should tell him because sooner or later he will find out from other people and it's gonna blow up. Honestly I think you should tell him and his current girlfriend too. I know it seems weird but at least you can be honest becau... (read in full...)
Nothing I do is ever good enough for my parents....
Q. Nothing I do is ever good enough for my parents. Nothing I have ever done has gotten any sort of approval. Everything I do could always be improved, according to them. I get A's and all they have to say is, 'You didn't get an A*, it's not good ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa, Totally agree with Sincerely Yours mannn! Family is the worse when it comes to problem it's like always on the top of the list because its blood relation and you can't choose your family and there is always this unfairness and favor... (read in full...)
Although I am not ready to have a GF, I still feel as if I am missing out on something important in life
Q. I dont like flirting around with girls, not because it is bad but because am not ready for it. i don't have a gf and don't need one now, but when i meet or see a girl especially with her bf, i feel i am missing a lot of things in life. my question ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, Obviously seeing couples around you get really degraded and sad because your like lonely but that is not true! If your not ready don't force yourself because there will be plenty of other opportunities with women in during the future ... (read in full...)
Girlfriends are spreading rumors that I am a lesbian. How do I deal with this?
Q. Okay so hi everybody I'm back with yet another problem .. All my life I've been very weary of boys because of a bad past which I would not like to go into. This has obviously taken it's toll on my social life. I have a close group of 4 friends who...
A. 5 April 2011: Hiyaaaa,
People are stupid for spreading rumours anyway but it's the way of life.
I think that you should use sacarsm! Like veryyyyy severely because it will mock them for example if someone goes to you is it true that you had a sex with a les... (read in full...)
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