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writes:For the last couple of months I had the biggest crushed on (bob) he was the best guy and my ideal guy. He has a gf and I don't wanna mest that up. So two days I went camping and I was talking to a guy I thought was cute since last year but didn't feel nothing till he left me thinking after he told me a lot of nice thing. It kind of made me open my eyes and made me feel special. He wasn't sweet talking to me though but I don't want to like him and its just a rebound since I'm trying to move on. I don't know what to do?
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (31 May 2011):
 Hiyaaaa,
There is a quote saying something like
"if you love something set it free... if it comes back it's yours... if it doesn't it wasn't meant to be"
Very cliche but its soooo true though.
There is a difference between wanting to move on from your old crush and just doing it for the sake of it. In order to forget your old crush you have to WANT to move on instead of people saying yh you derserve better blah blah kinda thing you have to want to move on.
Honestly it's ok that you don't wanna like the new guy if your not ready don't force yourself sweetie because your gonna end up hurting him but just be friends and stay close and you never know... slowly you might forget about your old/last crush!
Just wanna leave you with a bright light... you can decide for fate instead of letting fate find you. If you let fate find you... we would be forever.
Hope my advice helps!
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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P.S: Go with whatever your heart 3 says! :D
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