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15 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, Ever since I've join this amazing website which wasn't long ago, there is many question about relationships failures like cheating, no spark and all that so I've decided to come up with 8 Golden Rules on relationship! So here are my inte...
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Girlfriends are spreading rumors that I am a lesbian. How do I deal with this?
Q. Okay so hi everybody I'm back with yet another problem .. All my life I've been very weary of boys because of a bad past which I would not like to go into. This has obviously taken it's toll on my social life. I have a close group of 4 friends who...
A. 5 April 2011: Hiyaaaa,
People are stupid for spreading rumours anyway but it's the way of life.
I think that you should use sacarsm! Like veryyyyy severely because it will mock them for example if someone goes to you is it true that you had a sex with a les... (read in full...)
My husband is a heroin addict and I just found out I'm pregnant
Q. Hi, I've just found out I'm pregnant with my first baby The baby wasn't planned but my husband and I have been married for two years and I have openly wanted kids....anyway...there's one small problem...my husband is a heroin addict...it all ...
A. 4 April 2011: Hiyaaaaa, On the way to save ya honey! Does your hubby know your pregnant? If he does then you should tell him to clean up the act because you don't want the baby growing up to be an heroin addict because what is painful is seeing your ch... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want to kiss him
Q. Well I have this boy that I really like and he asked my if i would be his girlfriend. I said yes because i relly like him. But now he wants to kiss me and I am not sure if i want to. What can I say to him and what can I do?...
A. 4 April 2011: Hiyaaaa,I Relationships doesn't have to be sexual as in lip-smacking and all that what not but it can be about friendly touching you know... throw in a bit of the flirty eye! :P If you don't wanna kiss him tell him that your not ready and that... (read in full...)
Is it possible a co-worker has a crush?
Q. Does a co worker have a crush or just being nice if she Laughs at your crap jokes Asks how you are and notices if you're down and wants to help Tells you all about herself Brings up things that you have said before that made her laugh P...
A. 4 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, It could be flirting or could think of you as a friend because she might have ups and down with her boyfriend. Girls are weird we can like more than one people at a time loooooool but we need different types of attention. Then aga... (read in full...)
How do I know if my hymen was broken?
Q. dear cupid, soo, last night, things got a little hott and heavy between me and my boyfriend, and he wound up fingering me. it wasn't the first time he had done that, nor the first time that i had been fingered, but...this time felt kind of dif...
A. 4 April 2011: Hiyaaaa, Yhh pretty sure that it might be broken honey or partly broken but it doesn't matter because when you have sex you will know if it's fully broken or not. If you do have sex and you don't know if your hymen is broken just go slow but... (read in full...)
Help with losing inches
Q. hi friends..... i just needed help from u people..... can any one suggest me ways to reduce my waist.. who has already done it and it worked... i really need it.... as my waist is increasing and it doesn't look good at all....and another sugge...
A. 4 April 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Despite this person on the website is a guy he gives great advice no joke!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lx9ahNFVulA&feature=channel_video_title
Hope that this is useful because simple exercise and help you lose the inches of your ... (read in full...)
It's complicated. Is my ex still in love with me?
Q. Hi there. Okay so I went out with this boy when I was 16 for 2 and a half years. We were each others first loves. Anyway things finished on a bad note and we lost contact for a while. However, we got back in contact later on. We became friends a...
A. 2 April 2011: Hiyaaa, I'm guessing so! I think the can't get over and wants your company. The best thing to do is that you shouldn't get your hopes up and just support him and be his friend because you got a boyfriend and he as a girlfriend and you don't wa... (read in full...)
I really like this girl. Any advice?
Q. I'm 14 and there is this girl.... most of you will have figured out the rest she is different i really really like her any advice?...
A. 2 April 2011: Hiyaaa, If you like this girl tell her! Be straight forward and say I like you more than a friend and hopefully she might feel the same way too. It takes guts for a guy to tell a girl that they like her because it's what girls generally like. ... (read in full...)
We have crushes on each other, but she has a boyfriend! What should I do?
Q. So I'm in class with this girl. I've always thought her to be cute and a crush started to grow. She has a boyfriend so I never thought much into it. We exchanged numbers and started casually txting but as time passed the messages became flirtatious ...
A. 29 March 2011: Hiyaaaaa,
Firstly she has a boyfriends so I don't think you should break them up or let her cheat on him either because it can make you feel like crap!
You stop texting her and she hasn't send you anything that means that your gonna have to do... (read in full...)
Does anyone know if hypnosis, or any other sort of alternative therapy works for self acceptance?
Q. How can I accept myself? It seems so difficult. I like my personality, my brains... I just don't like my looks. And sadly, appearance is the most obvious part of a person. I feel like I'm never thin, despite being at a normal weight, I still get ...
A. 28 March 2011: Hiyaaaa, The media is a load of bollocks they only portray like 1% of women, I mean does everyone look like Keira Knightly that thin! I mean if we all did than there wouldn't be KFC! and I like KFC! Honestly guys actually prefer women with ... (read in full...)
I admitted I was jealous and things haven't been the same since.
Q. Dear Cupid, My girl and I have had the best of times together, we used to be close and tighter than anyone could imagine. We used to tell each other about everything and speak about everything that comes to mind before hesitation. One day i de...
A. 28 March 2011: Hiyaaaaa, Do you honestly like his girl more than a friend? If you do there is no harm in that and if you don't then that is also ok! I think that you should make more friends because it's obviously making you jealous and I think you sho... (read in full...)
Is his paranoia a sign HE is cheating on me?
Q. My boyfriend is paranoid i'm cheating on him. is this a sign he's cheating on me? we both have cheated in previous relationships and cannot fully trust each other......
A. 28 March 2011: Hiyaaaa, If you cheat on someone it means that helll yeahhh you guys do have trust issues and it's because you might not feel satisfied but it can be resolved! I think that if you really love someone you should be able to trust them and know t... (read in full...)
Kissed another guy and I have a BF help!
Q. I did something I feel really awful about but I don't know if this makes me a bad person or what I should think. I got pretty drunk with my friends and this guy was hitting on me and started kissing on me. I was really uncomfortable and I felt ...
A. 28 March 2011: Hiyaaaa, Wooow I think you should tell your boyfriend because honestly is the best policy and it will keep your conscience clean. Even if it cost you your relationship remember that you can ask for second chances... and he wouldn't dump ... (read in full...)
My ex is cheating on her current boyfriend with me......
Q. My ex-girlfriend is cheating on her current boyfriend with me. It had been a year since we broke up and I get a text from her Recently. You can guess what happened from there and is still happening. I say she needs to leave her current boyfriend ...
A. 28 March 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Well I think that if she cheated on you then she musn't love you or you don't give her what she wants.
Female mind is very complex yes I agree but I've had a friend who kinda did the same thing as your ex.
Honestly I think ... (read in full...)
I think he's still in love with her and it hurts. He was upset that she got engaged.
Q. i am in a relationship with my best friend for 3 months now,but we know each other since 5th grade.he had a crush on a grl for 5 years,but recently that girl dumped him, but she was keeping him on the hook for a long time. recently he chanced upon ...
A. 27 March 2011: Hiyaaaa,
I think you should give your boyfriend a bit of space because it's too much for him and need time to sink in.
Like they say "you can never forget your first love" and I think that is exactly what is happening to him but I think time... (read in full...)
I'm shy, but people think I'm rude. How can I improve my social skills?
Q. Well first off i'll tell you a bit about myself. I am very shy and chances are i wont talk to you when i first meet you unless forced and even then i only give one word answers. I'm very straight forward about things i do not sugar coat anyth...
A. 27 March 2011: Hiyaaaa, I think you need to be a bit open more and s-m-i-l-e!!!! :D If people approach you say hi or even put a smile on and say how are you etc... make a small conversation. Try and avoid one word sentences and really get to know the perso... (read in full...)
I like a boy that seems depressed. Should I keep after him, or is that not a good idea?
Q. Okay so I have been texting this boy and we have never spoken in person but a little wave in the halls of my high school. He wants to hang out with me but it never ends up happening. He's very flirty with me on text but he's very very shy. We were ...
A. 27 March 2011: Hiyaaaa, I think you should leave it for a couple of days and then maybe go after him to see if he is alright. If it gets out of hand you must tell the teacher or someone that you trust that is waaaaaaay older than you because he could litera... (read in full...)
I love him so much, but he's straight and I'm bi!
Q. i have been in love with my best friend for 2 years now. we both knew each other from our community dance academy. we both were in the same dance crew and performed together many times. Hes a B-Boy and Im a hip hop dancer. He is totally straight...
A. 26 March 2011: Hiyaaaa, Sounds like you guys are very good mates! Firstly there is nothing wrong with being bi! A bi person can be with a straight person :) I think you should ask him about his relationship with his girlfriend and how much he loves her an... (read in full...)
After last night I have all these confusing feelings about this girl
Q. Last night i was at this party at a friends place, and me and my friend got a little closer. She would always be sitting in my lap, biting my neck and sucking on my finger tips. We even kissed a few times... Ive been interested in this girl before ...
A. 26 March 2011: Hiyaaaa!
Well... do you like her? As in like her not for the sake of sex but in a relationship wise?
And importantly does she want to be in a relationship? It could one of the those flings that gets buried.
If you like her more than a fri... (read in full...)
What are top tried and tested ways to tell our families that I'm pregnant?
Q. Hi. I have been dating my amazing boyfriend for 3 years. He lived 2+ hrs away but he moved in with him aunt and her husband when were positive we wanted to be together. We have know each other since I was born since I'm 17 and he's 20. I'm grad...
A. 25 March 2011: Hiyaaaa! And helllllllllllllo to the baby! Congrats by the way! If your parent's truly love you than they would accept that your pregnant. It might take some time to sink in but they will realise that it's your decision and how mature you are ... (read in full...)
My father died of AIDS and now I'm terrified of being in a relationship
Q. Dear response, since losing my father back in 2006, to AIDS, I fear engaging myself into any relationship, and this has killed all my feelings deep within my soul, and I end up thinking that may be I may catch the disease which I so much dread, ...
A. 25 March 2011: Hiyaaaa, Just letting you know that I'm 17 so I might not be able to help you as much but I will do everything that I can! But if it's helps I take Biology AS ha ha! Firstly you can't be sure that you will get AIDS. Your father had it so it w... (read in full...)
Should I remain friends with a guy I have feelings for but who is dating another girl?
Q. ok i have known this guy for about two months now and i like him alot like more then friends....he told me he liked me and wanted to be with me and all this...but i went to a friend's house to buy a car and this friend is a guy and the guy i like, ...
A. 25 March 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Remain friends!!! Don't make things awkard between you guys even if it does hurt you guys are friends and show him that you care about him.
Always be there for him and whenever he falls be his cushion, if he needs a shoulder to cry ... (read in full...)
Why would he do that to me? why her? It feels like our love just fell apart
Q. Why would he do that to me? why her? i loved my ex boyfriend so much.. Everything was great.. he was so sweet. i thought he was the one, we talked all the time, everyone thought we were the cutest couple so in love. he started being weird and bro...
A. 25 March 2011: Hiyaaa,
Right firstly wooooow you are probably gorgeous and every guy is different. Some want sex, others just want a good companionship.
Honestly, you should move on because you've done nothing wrong, it's his lost not yours and there are pl... (read in full...)
I just admire her.. How should or can I tell my RE teacher how amazing she is?
Q. Six months ago i moved schools and ever since i came to my school i can't stop think about my RE teacher. She exemplifies kind and ever since i moved to the school she has been so amazingly helpful and sympathetic to my disability (very poor eye...
A. 25 March 2011: Hiyaaaa,
Sweeeeeeeeet you take RE I took that for my GCSE looool!
Awwww that is sooo sweet that you like your RE teacher. Honestly I think maybe you should try and make new friends that are around your age because teachers need their space some... (read in full...)
My ex boy friend hasn't talked to me in five years.
Q. My ex boy friend hasn't talked to me in five years. Why not? he's the one who left me. i miss him so much. well he said hi a few times a few years ago, but i think he was made to. but he still looks at me (we attend the same church) i dont get w...
A. 25 March 2011: Hiyaaaa,
I agree with what blonde30 says totally agree! (thumbs up!)
Clearly he is over you but you aren't and honestly sweetie you deserve much more.
He left you and that shows he doesn't love you as much as you think he did. A true man... (read in full...)
I found my wife's sex tape with two guys. Should I moved out for a while to clear my head? I don't know if I can recover from this
Q. I really don't know if this is the best place to be asking for advice, but I can't afford a counselor and I'm too embarrassed to tell any of my family or friends. I'm hoping someone on this site can help me. My wife has always been the keep sa...
A. 25 March 2011: Hiyaaaa,
I don't know if I'm the best person to ask this because I'm only 17 but I do know how women thinks! Hooray!
In life we all make mistakes whether it could cost you your life, friends or even the person you love. Everybody makes ... (read in full...)
I want to love him for who he is but I can help feeling uncofortable about his looks
Q. Hi, ive been dating this guy for 8 months now but thing is, he's not my ideal man when it comes to his looks. am not trying to be shallow but i cant help noticing that am 2 inches taller than him. ave always wanted my guy to be taller than me cos ...
A. 24 March 2011: Hiyaaa, It's alright if you don't like something about someone I'm pretty sure we have things that we like and don't like but remember that everyone has flaws even yourself. We all have things we like and things we hate like I love my ha... (read in full...)
Is this a lost cause?
Q. My gf and i have dated for 4 years starting in college. We got along great, even after the initial infatuation had worn off. We were together all the time and truly enjoyed each others company. We were each others first real loves. We recently ...
A. 23 March 2011: Hiya!!!!!
Firstly I'm from England so I'm my personality might come on strong! WARNING! And no I'm not eating fish n chips! (it's not Friday yet hehe :P)
You deserve better that's all I can say because you still have feelings for her and it m... (read in full...)
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