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writes:Im 15 and i have older friends that is like 17, 18, and 19 and they are all pregnant and that makes me kinda want to have a baby because it seems like there life is good with the baby and the father. is that good for me to feel this way? should i have one? im so confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 No sweety its not a good idea. I would say you better adopt a little cute puppy ( dog ) and treat it like your baby,make a dress for your puppy and just watch your 3 friends who is now pregnant. Just watch them till they have their babies. you will see how happy they are at the very first year of the baby but in the 2nd year of the baby you will see also how much they are dying because of jealousy to you. You have a lot's of freedom to do what you want, you have a lots of freedom wherever you wanna go. NO" dont waste your good future only because your friends are pregnant. you dont wanna do that. you gonna be nice to your self. and if you have a boyfriend. pls. be protected. trust people here who give you advice. They dont know you, we dont know you but we do care about you. Please be smart in this case. i wish you luck
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reader, Neboraic  +, writes (27 February 2010):
You shouldnt sacrifice the best years of your life for something you can do later on. Teenagers should be carefree as long as possible because the big bad world robs adults of that.If you had one now, youll be 33 by the time he/she is 18 if you only have 1. If you have more kids, you will get your freedom back in your 40s, everyone else will be raising kids and working too hard by that time, it will be lonley. plus, bringing up a kid with little money is hard. Get some kind of work that would make a child proud, build up savings and find the right guy (no girl has a man who would make a good father at 15).PS ask them how hard it is once the kid is a could of months old
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (27 February 2010):
 I agree with skyexxx and strongfp. Definitely not a good idea to get pregnant at your age! If you're having sex, PLEASE, PLEASE make sure you use reliable birth control - don't let yourself have unprotected sex with anyone!
You might want to offer to babysit sometimes for your friends, instead........they'd appreciate it and you could enjoy looking after the baby, while gaining valuable experience at the same time.......
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