How do I get started as an agony-aunt?
Q. hi there the quiestion i want to ask is how do i get my quiestions to people how needs my help with there quiestions as an agony aunt on line im 29 years old i have always been there for people who need me for advice and i want to give it on line as ...
A. 17 March 2007: First register with the site, as you already have. I think when you said you wanted to help people with their problems, Id think you mean more relationship problems dont you? If that is true, then go to www.dearcupid.org, which is basically a sister ... (read in full...)
Could I get ART to a C?
Q. I am doing my GCSE's now and am doing quite well except I am terribly failing in GCSE Art. I am looking to get A/A*'s in my other subjects. My courseworks in art is an E, my question is if I do really well in the art exam will I be able to get it up ...
A. 17 March 2007: I dont understand what you're asking. Are you asking us if you should fail your Art? If thats what youre asking, then you're gonna be surprised if most answers came in as NO!! I mean it depends on how much effort you put into it, isnt it? Ok, lets ... (read in full...)
Should I stay the course?
Q. Im doin a course in college..im enjoying it, and have many friends..but im finding hard to keep 2 deadlines and corsework..and reli cant cope..bt im wonderin wetha to finish my corse and train to be a life coach..its a very strong dream of mine..and ...
A. 17 March 2007: I always advice people to continue what they're doing and finish it. Yeah, you said your dream is to do something else, and its great that you know what you want to do in life as many dont at 25 years old, let alone at your age! But look at it this ... (read in full...)
Do you think he will ever get over this and will he ever trust me again?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for about six months now, but on xmas eve last year I kissed another lad who I work with. I like this other lad a lot but love my boyfriend and would never cheat on him again and since xmas eve our relationship has ...
A. 17 March 2007: Now you learn that prevention is always better than cure! I say take this as a lesson, put this behind you, and have a serious talk with your boyfriend. You have to explain to him it was a one off and whether or not he sees it, well, thats really ... (read in full...)
I really like him and I know he likes me but I don't know what to do about it.
Q. Sorry to be long, but some background info may help. it was about 6 months ago, I met this guy at work. I was only working there for two weeks and we got on straight away. On the penultimate day, he asked me to accompany him on some business, I...
A. 17 March 2007: Oh, he knows how you feel if thats what you're asking! He clearly likes you back, reading from what you post. There might be a million and one reasons why he hasn't told you how he feels, but my gut feeling tells me he's thinking exactly the way you ... (read in full...)
Just met him via online dating. He doesn't email often due to his work. Should I wait around or move on?
Q. hello, I met a nice man on a dating site he first sent me a request to chat through the site since i was not a member i gave him my personal e-mail to write to me he sent me an e-mail asking if i would agree to know him I sent him an e-mail...
A. 17 March 2007: No I definitely wouldnt recommend you to sit around and wait for this guy. Neither am I suggesting for you to completely move on. What Im saying is to take things as it comes.
Be aware that when you meet someone off a dating site, chances ... (read in full...)
Will she ever truly love me or should I forget her and move on?
Q. Please be patient this is long and is also asking more than one question... My girlfriend and I broke up from a long distance relationship about 2.5 months ago because of a misunderstanding. She didn't believe I loved her. And for about 2 and 1/4 ...
A. 17 March 2007: Okay, here goes, Im not gonna hold back on what I think! First off, you seem like a complete doormat to this girl. I know its a harsh statement but you have to realise you are giving this girl every opportunity to kick you in the butt, pick you up, ... (read in full...)
Is there an easy way to lose weight??
Q. Hi i'm 16 years of age...i'm 5'5 and i weigh 160...is this normal? and could you tell me a easy way to lose weight without pills and diets and stuff like that?...
A. 16 March 2007: Sorry, if an easy way is what you're looking for to shed weight, you wont find it anywhere. Diet and exercising goes hand in hand, and theres no two ways about it! If you've come to terms with this, then perhaps you should read on.
Diet:
Whatev... (read in full...)
Help me please, I am confused about my sexuality!
Q. Help Me! I can’t tell whether I’m gay or straight. I’m basically sitting on the fence. This is the most confusing decision I have ever had to make; I don’t know what to do! I have had a sexual attraction to guys for quite a few years now, but onl...
A. 16 March 2007: I dont think you realise the amount of pressure you're putting yourself here!! I can see where you are coming from, and most of what you say shows that you already know deep down you are gay, and that you are not actually finding yourself that much, ... (read in full...)
He's a nice, polite guy so why no contact with me for 3 weeks! What's up with him?
Q. Hello, I am slighly baffled here. I did the silly thing of getting drunk and sleeping with a guy, woke up in the morning and thought to myself 'oh no what have I done'! However he did ask to see me again and we exchanged numbers. So we kept i...
A. 15 March 2007: A lot of this has to do with the way you guys met! Im in no way judging your actions, but intimate relationships formed by sexual encounters on the first date dont usually last. Truth is, its very rare that relationships like these do carry on to ... (read in full...)
What do I ask him??
Q. He wanted to play a 10 question game, and asked me to ask anything i wanted within a 10 minute frame lol, of course i was clueless and being a visual person, i must write thing out to accomplish my thoughts at all times. What do i ask him? Top 20 ...
A. 14 March 2007: I think you spoilt the fun when you started thinking way too much into it. And I cant believe you asked him to give you a few days?!! lol. You said it caught you off guard when he asked you in the spontaneity, but I think you too caught him off ... (read in full...)
If people dont like me I totally reject them but I am a pet to people I do like!
Q. I sort of reject people when i realize that they don't like me. To the extent that i don't accept their existence on this planet. I don't want to keep doing this, but it happens unconsciously. And when some likes me, i become sort of a pet to them. ...
A. 14 March 2007: Everyone likes to be liked and be accepted by society. Everyone feels resentment when they feel rejected by society. Its just how we're programmed to feel and think. However, in your situation, you've probably let yourself slip a little too far in ... (read in full...)
Help me please, I am confused about my sexuality!
Q. Help Me! I can’t tell whether I’m gay or straight. I’m basically sitting on the fence. This is the most confusing decision I have ever had to make; I don’t know what to do! I have had a sexual attraction to guys for quite a few years now, but onl...
A. 13 March 2007: Right, I currently live with a gay guy (hes much older than you are), and hes had similar dilemmas when he was younger. However, in his situation, he thought he was bisexual rather than gay. He had a girlfriend once and although he wasnt sexually ... (read in full...)
I would like to know does anyone know how to trim down the stomach from flabby to firm??
Q. dear people I would like to know does anyone know how to trim down the stomach from flabby to firm?? also can some-one give me any links to site that tell you how to do sit-ups or crunches properly, and i also how long will it take for my stom...
A. 7 March 2007: Its impossible to spot reduce, and what you're thinking of achieving is exactly that. Your body loses weight overall, it doesnt choose certain parts to shed weight, just cause you did an extra 100 crunches today. I would suggest still doing crunches ... (read in full...)
Should I go ahead and get married despite the fact I might be in love with his friend!?
Q. iam a christian and have been going out with my boyfriend for a long time and we are now talking about marriage, but my problem is that i met this other guy whom i also like and we are just good friends but given time am sure it can develop into ...
A. 2 March 2007: The way I see it, you shouldnt get into a marriage if you have even a smidgen of doubt about it. Being a Christian you should realise that marriages shouldnt be taken lightly. But let me just point out to you that physical attraction towards other ... (read in full...)
I am Christian and am having feelings for this other man. I keep calling myself a bitch and a whore for feeling this way. How can I stop these feelings?
Q. I've been married to my husband for about 10 months and together with him for about 5 years. I'm a housewife, he is a great guy. He is a faithful, loving and caring person. He works hard for me. We are both Christians. As a Christian, I know that it ...
A. 2 March 2007: First of all, calm down! Theres no need to panic and call yourself names!! I dont know if this will help but its a very very natural thing to feel this way, ESPECIALLY when you're married. As they say, the grass always seem greener on the other ... (read in full...)
I read her myspace emails and now I feel she betrayed!
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years, im 18 shes 16. Well we have been having some issues that i thought we were working out (jealousy and not trusting each other and such) But one day shes on my computer and leaves her myspace open, ...
A. 2 March 2007: Yes, its very natural you feel betrayed, like you've been second best! I personally would not feel very good about myself if the only reason my girlfriends still with me is because she cant get with my friend!! Also, be aware of the fact that the ... (read in full...)
Everything was perfect... until she made out with the stripper and ditched me.
Q. Dear cupid im in a very bad situation that is honestly consuming 100% of my mind and driving me insane. im 18 and in college and so is this girl. we started out as inseperable best friends. now the relationship has lasted 1.5 years. we hung out ...
A. 17 January 2007: Woah woah woah, hang on a minute, you're telling me you still want to be with a girl that made out with a stripper, and dumped you because she wants to get laid??!! I understand its your first love and all that jazz, but come on now, do you just ... (read in full...)
Can't stand to be without my ex... what can I do?
Q. My girlfriend finished with me 2 days ago, the reason she said was we grow apart witch I think is rubish. We been together for 4 cracking year! I know she still love and she keep texting me ervery hour. I cant stand it without her and i want to be ...
A. 17 January 2007: There are some things I would recommend people to do but smouldering her to get back with you is something I definitely would not!! She knows you still love her deeply, and believe you me, she still does love you too!! HOWEVER, whatever the reasons ... (read in full...)
Been with my bf for 5 years but he has no photos of me up in his house. Should I be worried by this?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years,in his home he doesn't have anything to suggest he's in a relationship, not even a photo of me or me and him together. I believe it's to say he is single and available,am i right in thinking this?...
A. 17 January 2007: Most women are more, how do you say this....sensitive towards feelings and emotions, whilst men are more,....laid back creatures when it comes to things like this. I'm quite sure the fact that hes not got any pictures of you up his wall of fame is ... (read in full...)
I love my ex, but she doesn't know who she wants. Should I leave or stay?
Q. look me and my ex lashenia have been apart for 1 year and 6 months and i want her back we talk like every day but she tell me she want me back also after dumping me because she have feeling for someone else but she came back to me and we started to ...
A. 12 January 2007: First of all, well done on finishing your whole post in just one sentence! I mean who needs punctuations nowadays anyway! Thing of the past that is!
Right, sarcasm over, now to your question. What you need to realise is the fact that when som... (read in full...)
My new guy keeps going on about how great I am but it's making me uncomfortable!
Q. Hey, I like this guy, we get on well, he's hot we're dating... but....he really likes me. This may seem like an odd "problem" but it kinda freaks me out that he's just so open about it. He's always overdramatically going on to people about how great ...
A. 12 January 2007: No i totally see where you're coming from. Its good to be sweet and nice to your partner, but when you'r overdoing it, it gets old really quickly. Now Im not condoning men who mistreat theyre partners, all Im saying is that too nice and too many ... (read in full...)
Is it healthy for two people who have broken up to remain in the same house?
Q. Is it healthy if two people broke up to still stay in the same place/house?...
A. 10 January 2007: Answer is definitely no!! Regardless whether you have moved on or not, it still is a very bad idea for so many obvious reasons!! Take this from me! I know it first hand. ... (read in full...)
Are most romantic relationships lop-sided? They are with me!
Q. Are most romantic relationships lop-sided? Meaning, one person is more in love, more attracted to the other. This seems to be the case to me. When I was married, my husband was way more attracted to me than I was to him. He was always wanti...
A. 10 January 2007: This is a superb question. And you're right, more often than not, it will be lop-sided!! This relates to the fact that for ever party that pursues, there will always be an opposite party that retracts. When you go all out and pursue someone and make ... (read in full...)
Any ideas on what to get my sister for the opening of her new medical practice?
Q. Hello, I just need some opinions, it's simple really. My sister will be opening her medical practice next month, and I'd like to get her a "welcoming gift" of some sort, for her office, what would be nice, and all ideas would be greatly appre...
A. 8 January 2007: I suggest getting her something useful she would need for when the practice opens. A moderately expensive pen (depending on your budget) would be a great gift in my opinion! ... (read in full...)
Just tell me if she misses me like I miss her!
Q. My fiance broke up with me in the end of july, we had been toghether for 5 years and engaged for a year and half would be two yrs on dec 24. At one point she broke up with me before 2 yrs ago for two months and then begged for me to come back. Now ...
A. 19 December 2006: We can sit here all day and tell you how much she still misses you and make you happy, but is that going to change anything? The fact that shes not with you and with someone else will not change just by believing she still loves you. Its good to be ... (read in full...)
I caught my wife of 28 years, kissing and cuddling with a man she worked with!
Q. 4 months ago I caught my wife of 28 years, kissing and cuddling with a man she worked with.She admitted that the 'affair' had been going on for 18 months but that while he tried many times to grope her she always stopped him and that no sexual ...
A. 6 December 2006: I dont think that whether any sexual activity took place even matters here. I mean honestly, does it matter when shes already been having 'emotional affairs' and 'half' physical affairs with this guy? Its not like it happened once and she decided to ... (read in full...)
There's no way hes walking all over me anymore!
Q. Ok, where do i start?! Baically i(18) was seeing this guy(25) for about 9 weeks. At first it was soo great! We wernt together but kinda where if u know what i mean...like we didnt say we were bf and gf but we never went off with other people. After ...
A. 5 December 2006: I personally think hes not sure on what he wants. It seems to me that because he always gets what he wants from you (always there when he calls, sexually, etc), hes getting bored and taking advantage of you. You made life a little bit too ... (read in full...)
Am I really shallow?
Q. My boyfiend of two years broke up with me, and I was devastated. I thought I wanted him back desperately, but have realised that what I miss most is the feeling that I kne where my life was going and was a success. He was on paper my perfect man - ...
A. 5 December 2006: No, its good that you analyse what you like and dislike about him after the break up. Firstly, it helps heal the wounds much quicker, and secondly, you're being brutally honest with yourself, which is the only way to better yourself.
Back on trac... (read in full...)
He dunps me! Then he says he go out with me again if ..I have sex with him! What do I say to him?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me after going out 6 months. He texted me and said if I have sex with him he will go back out with me. What do you I suggest I say to that? We are both under 16....
A. 30 November 2006: Tell him that you would, but a face and body like his wont be enough to turn you on that way!! ... (read in full...)
He's off on a lad's holiday! I don't trust him and I'm upset he's going..what can I do?
Q. Hi please help, my boyfriend of nearly two years has said he's off on a lads holiday with all his mates next summer. what bothers me is the fact they're all single! i tried to explain how i thought this was wrong to do while in a relationship, as ...
A. 30 November 2006: What is so wrong about going on a lads holiday when youre in a relationship??! There is nothing wrong with that and for you to strongly think otherwise is just insane. And mind you, lads holidays are not all about gettin laid and boozing 24/7!! Some ... (read in full...)
I want us to get back together but he's so non-committal! What should I do?
Q. It's been over a year since my boyfriend and I broke up. I broke up with him, and broke his heart. I have missed him for months and just recently told him how I feel. I still love him and want to get back together. He told me he does not want to get ...
A. 28 November 2006: This guy sounds very mature, im liking him already! In fact, its good that both of you are mature about things and are able to talk things over (belive you me, as simple as it sounds, msot people have a difficuty with that). I think its a brilliant ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you guy is lying to you?
Q. How can you tell if you guy is lying to you ? ...
A. 28 November 2006: Gosh, tough one! It depends on the type of truth hes intending to cover up but your best bet, yeap, you guessed it, the lie detector test! ... (read in full...)
We have 2 small kids and she's ended the relationship 3 times this year. Any advice?
Q. my partner has ended our relationship of 12 years for the third time in a year. she says she doesn't know what she wants. we have two small children....
A. 28 November 2006: Im afraid theres not much you can do at your end. You might think staying with her might be the best thing to do as you both have 2 children together, but you know wot, its even more traumatising for the children if you kept leaving and getting bad ... (read in full...)
The lover I cheated with..owes me money and won't pay me back! Should I let this go or insist on it?
Q. Hi there, I have recently broke off an affair, and the guy that I have been involved with has intially agreed to return the cash he owes me. Now that the time has come to pay me, he has changed his mind. I find this very annoying and mad...
A. 28 November 2006: Not being cynical but are you afraid of your husband finding out the affair or are you more interested in getting back the money?! Its sad that your relationship with your husband had to come to this (although you showed no remorse about this in ... (read in full...)
Before me, my wife had a real 'wild' past..trying to deal with it. Any advice?
Q. We hear all this about men having chequered pasts as in 100 women , But I have the reverrse I am married to a woman who came clean and admitted to having sex with 16 different men most of the time these liasons were adulterous, some were one night ...
A. 28 November 2006: Gandalph, Gandalph, looks like no magic spell could help put your poor mind at ease huh? But you know wot, you took the first step to recovery by venting it out so good on ya. Well, trying to stop your mind in thinking about the things she did ... (read in full...)
My gf seems to be eyeing up my brother...am I stupid or she trying to flirt with him?
Q. My Girlfriend Look's At My Brother does it mean anything? what does it mean when a girl look's at a lad? i noticed in the past few day's my girl will be watching tv and than turn her eyes to look at my younger brother (he's hotter than me) and tha...
A. 23 November 2006: Yeap, I got a feeling she still has a crush on him, no doubt bout that. If a girl is interested in someone, you'll know, the body language of a woman speaks volume! If I was you, I would have walked a long time ago as Im one who cannot share my gf, ... (read in full...)
My bf sent me this odd message...does anyone know what the heck it meant?
Q. My boyriend sent me a text message one night at 2am instead of his mate. It read "Where r u?? I'm way beyond clear chicks" Any idea what this could mean?? He said he was drunk and didnt remember sending it....
A. 23 November 2006: Where are you...yes. Way beyond clear chicks....not really. But Im pretty sure it meant that he was drunk! ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a 12 year old boy---am I a pervert?
Q. hey i really need some advice im 16 and i have a huge crush on a 12 year old and im worried that if i did end up with him i would be a pervert... also im worried that im giving him mixed messages because i know he likes me but i also know that he ...
A. 23 November 2006: Ok, first off this is rare. Older women usually fancy younger guys at an older age, not at yours. Guess you started early! In fact, girls your age find older guys more attractive because of the mature factor (as girls mature faster than guys). But ... (read in full...)
Should I meet with my ex again even though she is now married?
Q. I've just recently met up with an ex of mine a short time ago. It's been awhile since we were together and i still have feelings for her. The problem is that she is married with 2 children. She wants to meet up again in the near future. I had a ...
A. 23 November 2006: If your intentions are purely platonic then it wasnt wrong for you to accept the offer, but if otherwise, I would really advice you to think about the mess you'll get yourself into if you got in the way of they're relationship. Im pretty sure she ... (read in full...)
I'm 18..he's 43--How do I tell him "You're too old for me I'm not attracted to you, sorry!" He's really persistant!
Q. I wrote a question a while ago this is a sort of follow up but different... I met his guy at the club (2 months ago), he wasn't my type I'm not attracted to him but I gave him my number to be polite. Big mistake. I let him come round my house. We ...
A. 21 November 2006: I dont think you should try to be tactful and nice in the best possible way, as that got you into this problem in the first place! I really think you should tell him straight forwardly how you feel, like youre telling us now. The moment you feel ... (read in full...)
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